
The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Latest episodes

Oct 20, 2021 • 18min
Can Our Marriage Survive Affairs?
In this episode, John gives his insight on a question he's commonly asked: can our marriage survive affairs? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Oct 18, 2021 • 48min
It's Not Me, It's You: Finding Beauty In The Contrast
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about the double edged sword that is their contrasting personalities. The things they love about each other are also the same things that can activate the shit out of them. How do they continue to remind themselves that their differences can actually be what helps them stretch and the relationship go deeper?
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Oct 15, 2021 • 34min
Answering Your Questions With Vanessa Bennett
In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about sending their daughter off to school, and answer live questions from people over Zoom.
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Oct 13, 2021 • 14min
A Mindfulness Tip
In this episode, John talks about practicing mindfulness while washing his car and gives you a piece of advice he learned about when he was a teenager.
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Oct 11, 2021 • 56min
It's Not Me, It's You: How Our Stars Line Up
In this episode, John and Vanessa take a look at their star charts and how they both align as well as conflict. They talk through how our inner emotional worlds are almost the exact opposite and how differences like this can make or break them depending on how much they understand, empathize, and adjust their expectations accordingly.
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Oct 8, 2021 • 17min
Chicken Sh*t
In this episode, John talks about overcoming his fears including his fear of small animals. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Oct 6, 2021 • 15min
Three Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble
In this episode, John talks about three possible signs your relationship might be in trouble and why. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Oct 4, 2021 • 38min
It's Not Me, It's You Series: How Our Codependency Shows Up
In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You" series, John and Vanessa take a different approach with a deep dive into codependency and how it affects their relationship. In working through her own codependency, as well as with clients who almost all struggle in some way or another, Vanessa has made it a personal mission to speak openly with whoever will listen about the different ways it can show up.
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Sep 27, 2021 • 18min
Abundant v.s. Scarcity Mindset
In this episode, John explains the difference between those who have an abundant mindset vs a scarcity mindset.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Sep 24, 2021 • 16min
We're Not Having Sex Anymore
John Kim, a marriage family therapist and best-selling author, shares insights from his transformative journey in love and therapy. He discusses the challenges of helping clients like 'John,' who face resistance in therapy. The conversation dives deep into understanding emotional scars from past relationships and codependency. John also reveals how he navigated chaotic romantic experiences to establish a healthier view of love, emphasizing personal growth and recognizing toxic patterns.