The Angry Therapist Podcast

Join John Kim, a marriage family therapist and best-selling author, as he tackles the complexities of emotional affairs. He delves into the fears and suspicions that arise when one suspects a partner may be unfaithful. With a focus on the importance of open communication, John shares insights on navigating trust issues while fostering love. He also discusses the delicate balance of confession and accountability, emphasizing the need for clear boundaries in relationships. Tune in for a dose of candid advice!

In this one hour long episode, John hosts his first in-person podcast interview with fellow crossfitters to talk about fitness, and their stories. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?"Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let John and Vanessa explain. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

John and Vanessa dive into the top three relationship killers and how they affect partnerships. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries and highlight the emotional shifts that can arise from everyday interactions. Financial habits like frugality versus impulsiveness are humorously examined, revealing potential sources of tension. The conversation also emphasizes the need for self-acceptance and open communication to foster growth. Finally, they stress that embracing imperfections can enhance emotional safety and commitment in relationships.

In this episode, John talks about a fight he almost got into at the gym, what the experience reminded him of, how fast we can snap back to our "old selves," and the importance of responding instead of reacting.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John sings a Madonna song and talks about the four ways to help you stay attracted to your partner.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sexual Desire. It’s a topic that is always coming up for John, Vanessa, and their clients. How much sex is enough? How come I always want it and they don’t? What’s wrong with me / with them? John and Vanessa break down the two distinct types of desire and why understanding them both can be a massive shift in your relationship. This was a huge lightbulb moment for Vanessa. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, John records his first EFT session lead by TAT Lab instructor, Susheela Kundargi.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices