Women of Impact

Cheryl Burke, a professional dancer and sobriety advocate, shares her transformative journey from battling addiction to embracing self-acceptance. She opens up about her experiences as a 'functioning alcoholic' and the deep-rooted childhood trauma that impacted her life. Topics like body dysmorphia, self-awareness, and rewriting personal narratives are discussed. Cheryl emphasizes the importance of healing, reminding listeners it's never too late to choose oneself and break free from destructive patterns.

Explore the lessons learned from over 20 years of marriage, including the crucial importance of choosing the right partner and aligning life goals. Discover tips for managing conflicts, such as writing down feelings to gain clarity and communicating triggers with your partner. Delve into the roles of humor and self-reflection in resolving disagreements, and the impact of health and wellness on relationships. Finally, uncover the significance of intimacy and open dialogue regarding sexual wellness as relationships evolve.

In this episode, Lisa brings us a special Instagram Live Q&A packed with empowering advice on building authentic confidence, setting boundaries, and owning your personal growth—without falling into the trap of cockiness. Lisa opens up about her own journey from self-doubt to self-assurance, sharing practical strategies and relatable stories to help you pursue your biggest, boldest dreams. She tackles questions on exuding confidence without being perceived as arrogant, setting healthy boundaries when people comment on your body, learning self-respect in the face of setbacks, and how to build validation from within. Whether you’re struggling with self-love or stepping into a new chapter later in life, this episode is loaded with tools, real talk, and Lisa’s signature encouragement to help you step into your total badassery. Grab your headphones—it’s time to level up your confidence and become the hero of your own life! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Empowering Women Through Confidence 05:09 Confident Communication: Celebrate and Empower 08:51 Setting Boundaries Script 11:16 Proactive Boundaries and Resolution 13:31 "Fake It to Build Confidence" 18:34 Internal Validation Over External Approval 20:55 "Be So Good, They Notice" 22:50 Embracing Rejection for Growth 28:39 Reflecting on Relationship Decisions 29:46 Navigating Post-Breakup Emotions 34:37 Building Habits: Overcoming Overwhelm 36:30 "Building Confidence, Reducing Self-Loathing" ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Terra Newell, survivor of the infamous Dirty John case, to share her powerful journey of intuition, survival, and self-empowerment. Terra opens up about her harrowing experience with her mother’s boyfriend—a manipulative psychopath who infiltrated their lives, ultimately forcing Terra into a deadly confrontation. With refreshing honesty, she unpacks the red flags she noticed, the family dynamics and generational conditioning that left them vulnerable, and how she learned to trust her gut even when everyone around her doubted her concerns. Lisa and Terra dive deep into the psychological traps that confident, loving women fall into, from dismissing their instincts to excusing dangerous behavior. Terra shares tactical advice for spotting manipulative partners, the challenges of being heard when expressing concern, and why women are so often taught to appease and forgive rather than protect themselves. Whether you’re here for the true crime story or practical wisdom for self-defense and intuition, the first half of this episode delivers both with courage and clarity. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Caught in a Toxic Relationship 06:12 Dog Saves Owner In Knife Attack 09:47 Curious Chats With Mom 10:39 Dodging Questions and Telling Stories 14:35 Catfishing Chaos: A Twisted Game 19:10 Set Boundaries, Focus on You 22:29 Trust vs. Boundaries Juggle 25:18 Dreams and Gut Feelings Silenced 28:58 From Victim Mode to Empowerment 30:50 "Routine Builds Stability After Trauma" 35:28 "Trusting Your Gut Instincts" 37:16 "Picking the Right Person" 42:56 "Trust Your Gut: Kickass Story" 43:36 Follow and Subscribe to Lisa! FOLLOW TERRA NEWELL Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terraanewell/Twitter: https://twitter.com/terranewellWebsite: https://www.terranewell.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  BIOptimizers: Head to⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this insightful conversation, Emily Morse, a doctor in human sexuality and host of the acclaimed Sex with Emily podcast, dives into the complexities of women's sexual health. She debunks myths surrounding female pleasure and highlights the stigma around masturbation, emphasizing its role in personal empowerment. Emily also shares tips on enhancing intimacy and keeping long-term relationships exciting, urging open communication about desires and fantasies. With humor and candor, she encourages women to embrace their sexuality and prioritize sexual wellness.

In this engaging chat, Roxy Saffaie, a black belt entrepreneur and ‘beautiful badass,’ dives deep into the transformative journey of self-love and resilience. She shares how embracing discomfort and overcoming challenges can lead to personal growth. Roxy emphasizes the importance of self-respect and awareness, urging listeners to push past self-doubt and commit to self-discovery. The conversation includes practical steps for building mental resilience and understanding the powerful connection between physical health and emotional well-being.

Natalie MacNeil, an Emmy Award-winning entrepreneur and author, shares her inspiring journey of authenticity in the male-dominated business world. She discusses overcoming familial expectations and limiting beliefs, illustrating how embracing vulnerability can lead to true success. Natalie offers actionable strategies for breaking down goals and trusting intuition, emphasizing self-reflection rituals like writing letters to one's future self. She invites listeners to embrace their unique callings, confront fears, and redefine their relationship with time for personal growth.

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on December 7, 2022. What up, guys? It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're diving deep into the sea of empowerment and coming out stronger on the other side. Today, I'm beyond excited to bring you an incredible episode with none other than my dear friend Nicole LePera, the holistic psychologist extraordinaire!We are tackling something that's affected us all—those moments when we're triggered and explode in ways we immediately regret. Nicole is here to help us break it down and build ourselves back up. She's got the tools and wisdom we need to understand our triggers, navigate through them, and hold ourselves accountable without shame. And because we're such close friends, I found myself being more vulnerable than I expected, which was both surprising and cathartic. So, grab a seat and buckle up. This episode is a wild yet rewarding ride!SHOWNOTES 00:00 Nicole LePera returns to discuss emotional triggers 01:14 Vulnerability and heartache in deep conversations 01:35 Creative, compassionate self-expression and heart-centered healing 01:56 The power of our hearts in trauma healing 02:22 Embracing identity and self-awareness 03:02 Breakdown of different types of triggers 03:09 Exploring our authentic selves through understanding triggers 04:08 The roots of explosive stress responses 04:44 Strategies to align with our true selves 05:24 Diving deeper into the body-memory connection 06:30 The journey of healing past experiences 07:37 Understanding avoidance in self-safety 10:15 The balance between emotional reactivity and regulation 14:55 Examining relationship dynamics and care patterns 18:26 Knowing and evolving past limiting identities 20:18 Objective observations of ourselves and our habits 22:09 Real-time awareness and setting intentions 26:30 The importance of heart consciousnessFOLLOW NICOLE LEPERA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ Website: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSAudible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi  #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISAQuince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaNPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts.**********************************************************************FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en**********************************************************************LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact**********************************************************************FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the compelling second half of Lisa Bilyeu’s conversation with Jason Wilson, the focus shifts to solution-oriented frameworks and the revolutionary concept of “the comprehensive man.” Jason breaks down the key differences between the traditional masculine man—trapped by stoicism, performance, and aggression—and the comprehensive man, who brings emotional range, compassion, and true partnership into every area of his life.Lisa and Jason walk through the “green flags” of a healthy, emotionally mature partner, drawing a practical roadmap for women and men seeking deep, lasting connections. Jason explores the roles of fighter, provider, leader, lover, nurturer, friend, husband, father, and son, explaining how each archetype transforms when a man is free from cultural conditioning. Together, they address building boundaries, overcoming generational trauma, healing, and how both men and women must re-learn what it means to love and be loved. If you’re ready to drop outdated scripts and build real intimacy, this powerhouse conclusion will inspire you to rethink everything you know about relationships.SHOWNOTES29:19 The Need for Men to Do Deep Emotional Work31:24 Why Men Can’t Heal Until They Heal Themselves33:44 Generational Conditioning of Men & Women35:38 Balancing Strength and Vulnerability — Lion & Lamb38:36 The Comprehensive Man vs. The Masculine Man39:16 Fighting, Providing, and Leading: A New Framework41:30 The Benefits of Healthy Marriage for Men and Women43:08 The Comprehensive Leader: Fairness Over Force45:36 Can a Woman Lead the Family? Rethinking Roles47:33 The Lover: Sacrifice, Self-Love, & True Partnership48:53 The Nurturer: Men as Caregivers and Coaches51:09 The Gentlemen: Why Chivalry Matters—And How to Revive It53:10 Chivalry and Modern Dating: Encouraging Respect57:10 The Friend: Real Support and Reciprocal Love59:49 Men, Confrontation, and Grace vs. Aggression1:03:12 The Husband: Partnership and Respect1:07:12 The Father: Breaking the Cycle and Healing Generational Wounds1:11:43 The Son: Purpose, Maturity, and Family Responsibility1:16:43 Why Both Genders Must Unlearn Harmful Programming1:19:17 Healing Ourselves to Transform Relationships1:23:34 The Power of Starting Over: Building from a New Foundation1:25:43 Where to Find Jason & Final Words of EncouragementFOLLOW JASON WILSON:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjasonowilsonTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/MrJasonOWilsonWebsite: https://mrjasonwilson.comCHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSAudible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa**********************************************************************LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact**********************************************************************FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu sits down with transformational coach, speaker, and best-selling author Jason Wilson for an unfiltered, eye-opening conversation on men, masculinity, and emotional connection. Jason is the founder of the “Cave of Adullam,” a life training academy for boys and men, and he’s developed a reputation for helping men break free from emotional suppression and cultural programming. With the communication gap between men and women wider than ever, Jason joins Lisa as a much-needed “translator,” decoding what men think but often don’t say.Together, they dig deep into generational wounds, emotional barriers, and the misunderstandings that keep men and women disconnected from one another. Through a game of “Why Does a Man…?” Jason exposes surprising truths about commitment fears, intimacy, cheating, and why men fear vulnerability. Lisa shares her own honest reactions, highlighting the ways that society’s conflicting scripts hurt women, too. Whether you’re struggling to understand the men in your life or looking to heal and set boundaries, this episode is a must-listen.SHOWNOTES00:00 Introduction — The Communication Gap Between Men & Women00:33 Jason’s Mission: Translating The Emotional Language of Men01:15 Why Does a Man Fear Commitment?02:25 Boys Don’t Cry: The Damaging Message of Stoic Masculinity03:43 The True Struggle Behind Men’s Emotional Walls04:14 Jason’s Advice: Guard Your Heart & Set Standards05:09 Why Some Men Seek Sex But Hide Their Phones05:53 Why Does a Man Say He Loves You But Cheats?07:20 Redefining Love and Faithfulness for Men and Women08:03 Jason’s Story: Culture, Virginity, and the “Manhood” Script10:51 The Double Standard: Women Shamed, Men Pressured12:10 Jason’s Perspective on Sex, Standards, and Commitment13:17 Changing the Narrative Around Sex for Both Genders14:29 The Problem with “Happy Wife, Happy Life” & “Ball and Chain”16:30 Self-Maintenance vs. Self-Love for Men18:13 The Mantras That Are Damaging Men’s Health19:59 Words, Emotional Abuse, and the Impact on Both Genders20:12 Words Women Say That Hurt Men22:42 Learning to Communicate Deeper Vulnerabilities24:18 The “Honey-Do” List and Men’s Need for Peace25:36 Practical Ways Women Can Encourage Rest & Vulnerability26:33 Why Does a Man Ignore You When You Talk?28:08 The Emotional “Crayon Box” Divide & Why Men Shut DownFOLLOW JASON WILSON:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjasonowilsonTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/MrJasonOWilsonWebsite: https://mrjasonwilson.comCHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSAudible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa**********************************************************************LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact**********************************************************************FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices