CIA SPY: Spot Lies, Deception & Read Body Language in 3 sec! Red Flags Lily Allen & MOST Women Miss!

Dec 3, 2025

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You ever watch a couple and feel your gut whisper, “Something’s not right here”… but you can’t quite explain why?

Homie, THIS is the episode that finally gives language to what your intuition already knows.

Former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante is back, and together we break down the viral Lily Allen & David Harbour house-tour video — frame by frame — to reveal the micro-expressions, distancing behaviors, passive-aggression, and emotional patterns that almost no one catches on the first watch.

This isn’t gossip. This is about giving YOU the tools to spot manipulation, insecurity, emotional withdrawal, and mismatch long before it ruins your confidence, drains your energy, or makes you dim your damn light.

Andrew exposes the real signals of discomfort, resentment, performative affection, sensory-driven conflict, and how small “jokes” can reveal massive cracks in a relationship. We go deep, from abandonment cues, to validation bids, to open-relationship dynamics, to the heartbreaking red carpet moments you absolutely must pay attention to.

If you’ve ever ignored your gut…

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re “overreacting”…

If you’ve ever felt unseen or minimized by a partner…

This episode is your permission slip to trust what you see.

SHOWNOTES

“Everything Looks Fine… But It Isn’t” — The First Red Flags in the House Tour

Abandonment Jokes, Closed-Off Posture & the Cracks Beneath the Performance

Patterns vs. “It’s Just a Joke”: When Behavior Stops Being Cute

No Touch, No Warmth: Andrew’s Early Prediction About the Marriage

The “Couple Activities” Comment & the Micro-Expression That Says Everything

The Lyrics Reveal the Truth: Why She Never Wanted the House

The Red-Carpet Moment That Exposed Competition, Not Partnership