The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
All humans have emotional baggage, and yet, so many of us are unaware of what we're carrying until we hit a low point, experience a health crisis, or recognise that we're in a painful pattern with our relationships or how we feel about and treat ourselves.
Natalie Lue expands her popular blog Baggage Reclaim into podcast form with a weekly show about how to live and love with more self-esteem by unpacking, decluttering and tidying up our excess emotional baggage. It's time to reclaim yourself and experience more love, care trust and respect.
Natalie Lue expands her popular blog Baggage Reclaim into podcast form with a weekly show about how to live and love with more self-esteem by unpacking, decluttering and tidying up our excess emotional baggage. It's time to reclaim yourself and experience more love, care trust and respect.
Episodes
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May 21, 2021 • 38min
Ep. 226: Yeah, But Am I Needy?
So many of us fear that we are 'needy' and so settle for less than what we need, desire and deserve. We also may have been called it by someone else, and it's left a mark. Natalie dives into the truth about 'neediness'. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Shop
May 14, 2021 • 36min
Ep. 225: Are We Giving or *Imposing*?
Natalie talks about why our attempt to be giving or to make amends can backfire if our actions cross boundaries. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Shop
9 snips
May 7, 2021 • 32min
Ep. 224: Our Experience of Someone May Differ Due to Context
Explore how context shapes our perceptions of others. Discover why our experiences vary, like a dog's behavior around different people. Learn about the red flags we often overlook and the role of boundaries in relationships. Natalie highlights how authority affects assertiveness in the workplace and the nuances of code switching in different environments. She emphasizes accepting that others may lack your context, reminding us that understanding takes time and patience in relationships.
Apr 30, 2021 • 39min
Ep. 223 The Gaslighting of Future Faking
When somebody fakes a future to get what they want in the present, the disappointment, confusion, self-doubt and sense of rejection can leave us reeling and distrusting. Natalie revisits Future Faking and why we must, ultimately, be careful of deceiving ourselves. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Shop
12 snips
Apr 23, 2021 • 35min
Ep. 222: They're Just Not That into You?
Natalie talks about why the infamous piece of advice, 'He's just not that into you' from the 2004 book of the same name, can easily be misinterpreted as 'You're not enough' or 'They behaved as they did because they didn't feel enough'. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Shop
Apr 16, 2021 • 37min
Ep. 221 Sometimes We've Got To Block, Delete or Unfriend
Natalie talks about why we resist blocking, unfriending or deleting even when continuing to engage harms our emotional, mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Shop
Apr 9, 2021 • 40min
Ep. 220: We're Allowed To Have Work Boundaries
Boundaries are widely misunderstood, so it's no surprise that so many of us struggle to have that at work. Natalie dives into what it means to have work boundaries and why they matter. Instagram | Reclaim Your Work Boundaries | Blog | Shop
Apr 2, 2021 • 38min
Ep. 219: You Are Allowed To Rest
Natalie delves into our messy relationship with rest, including acting as if we owe everyone our 'free time' to others and our fear of appearing 'lazy'. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Shop
9 snips
Mar 26, 2021 • 30min
Ep. 218: Three Vulnerability Habits to Live By
Discover the power of vulnerability through three essential habits. Learn why admitting what you don't know can improve trust at work and how pretending to have all the answers harms collaboration. Understand how acknowledging your mistakes can liberate you from guilt and lead to genuine repair in relationships. Dive into the importance of owning your wrongs to build trust and strengthen connections. Plus, engage in a practical exercise to help unpack your avoidance and promote deeper self-discovery.
10 snips
Mar 19, 2021 • 33min
Ep 217: Trust Is a Gamble, but We Can Learn To Make Good Bets
Natalie talks about shifting our relationship with trust to a healthy place, including recognising where some of the things we do to foster trust or 'make' someone prove that they are trustworthy are precisely the source of us feeling unsafe in the first place. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Shop
