Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Recorded: 10/25/2020 / Published: 4/12/2021- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a hilariously interesting article from BuzzFeed talking titled “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” so we thought we would lighten up a bit and talk about toy safety.Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Right Hole, Wrong Toy: Kinky Adult Toy Safety-S03E17”Let’s hear from these medical professionals first and then talk about some safety tips that we all need to follow.- BuzzFeed Article: “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” https://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/things-up-penises-vaginas-and-butts?utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbbuzzfeed&ref=bffbbuzzfeed&fbclid=IwAR1Kuw3MLGsfhojVSNV1Zz972FIi5wSrNbBzRaRys9a1AOMFWy9AUfVVEls“We asked nurses and doctors in the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the worst thing they've witnessed in the ER. Here are the genital horror stories.Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/317 1. A Barbie doll's arm2. A knife3. A potato4. A flashlight5. A crochet needle6. A Lego butt plug7. A lightbulb8. A giant dildo9. A live rat10. A carrot11. A shower head12. A ballerina figurine13. A toy lizard14. A bloody cucumber15. A long piece of floss16. A set of tongs17. And Campbell's beef soup- Healthy Toy Tips: These should be obvious but obviously they are not.1: If it wasn’t made to be a sex toy, don’t use it as one/Don’t use household items.2: Clean, clean, and then clean some more! 3: Know what material your toys are made of.No Phthalates!!! They have been linked to male fertility issues, obesity, type 2 diabetes, asthma, neurodevelopmental issues, and more. (pronounced “thawh-late)4: Know what lubes can be used with what toys.Don’t use silicone lube with silicone toys!5: Don’t be afraid to use condoms on your toys.6: Buy from a credible company.7: Share with care.8: Don’t switch holes without using a condom or disinfecting.9: Inspect your toys regularly for battery leaks, wire shorts, and overall condition.10: Keep them locked away from children!11: If it’s broken, trash it! Do NOT try to fix it!Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/317 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Thank you: Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month): -Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, and Crystal Force-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, and Jace-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, XxLilyXxX, Morgana13, and Rope AficionadoBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

The post-show for Kink as a Middle-Aged Woman with Gabbing Girl Time Podcast-S03E16.We were also joined by Krypt friend, supporter, and guest LylacWine to discuss the nuances of being a woman of a certain age. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com

Recorded: 10/18/2020 / Published: 3/27/2021On this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are joined by the hosts of The Gabbing Girt Time Podcast, Bruised Tonsils and Gale Grantham, to talk about kink, sex, D/s relationships, and many more topics that only "women of a certain age" know about.Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.comRules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Kink and BDSM as Middle-Aged Woman with Gabbing Girl Time-S03E16”- Introducing Gabbing Girl Time Podcast and the hosts BruisedTonsils and Gail Granthem- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gabbinggirltime/- Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1A7Zfr135CfwchrogkIYPT - How would you define middle-aged?- How would you define the modern middle-aged woman?- What are some advantages to being in your age bracket?- What do you think is the biggest difference between being a middle-aged woman and a middle-aged man?- What are some of the biggest disadvantages to being at this stage of life?- How does all of this apply to kink, BDSM, and the evolution of relationships?- What is the biggest piece of advice you have to offer women in their 20’s and 30’s?Important Links:- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/316 - National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255- https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication - https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey - https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month): -Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, and Crystal Force-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, and Jace-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, XxLilyXxXMorgana13, and Rope AficionadoBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/315Recorded: 10/04/2020- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have an interesting article from Time Magazine talking about lessons the monogamous can learn from the polyamorous.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “What Monogamous Couples Can Learn From Polyamorous Relationships, According to Experts” by Samantha Cooney / Aug 27, 2018, 3:23 PM EDThttps://time.com/5330833/polyamory-monogamous-relationships/?fbclid=IwAR0vwTiKjX4UcpgBKB7R2zwJe3LVoDWUSNLQh8mLiDgbni8Zn_w21Gf9h0wPolyamory, having more than one consensual sexual or emotional relationship at once, has in recent years emerged on television, mainstream dating sites like OkCupid and even in research. And experts who have studied these kinds of consensual non-monogomous relationships, say they have unique strengths that anyone can learn from.Consensual non-monogamy can include polyamory, swinging and other forms of open relationships, according to Terri Conley, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Michigan who has studied consensual non-monogamy. While there aren’t comprehensive statistics about how many people in America have polyamorous relationships, a 2016 study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy found that one in five people in the U.S. engage in some form of consensual non-monogamy throughout their lives.- CommunicationSuccessful monogamous relationships require communication about desires, needs and problems, says Joanne Davila, a professor of clinical psychology at Stony Brook University who studies monogamous relationships. And this is one area where polyamorous couples excel.- Defining the relationship“Everyone jokes that love is not a finite resource, but time is,” Kincaid says. “You can have multiple partners you want to see a lot — you have to negotiate time and space to do that.”- Practicing safe sex- Managing jealousy- Maintaining a sense of independence“If we’re a married monogamous couple, we have to figure out what to do about our problems. We’re either going to avoid them, resolve them or break up,” Karney says. “But if I’m in a non-monogamous relationship and I have the same problem, I might not have to resolve it if I’m not getting all my needs met from you.”Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/315 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month): -Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, and CozyCow-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, and Rope AficionadoBecome a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners*Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 10/04/2020 / Published: 3/21/2021On this episode of The Krypt LylacWine is joining us to talk about the concept of free space and a piece she has written on a sub in free space.Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Free Space (with reference to D/s and submission specifically)Definition: (my definition)The place or a state of being occupied by a submissive at the end of his/her dynamic and the beginning of a new one. A sub in free space still holds sacred their submissive heart and values therein. He/she is unowned and can be uncollared or self collard in free space. The place of deep contemplation, reflection, healing, and self-growth after the ending of dynamic. The re-acclamation of self whilst still striving to preserve his/her submissive values. Similar to the vanilla version of being “single” after the end of a relationship. The Kite and the String (Full writing and shownotes at https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/3141. We have the definition but why call it “free space” and not just single?2. Talk about the piece “The Kite String”I. what was the motivation for writing this piece?2. What does it mean to you to “hold your own string” as you state in the piece? Why do you write? What do you get out of it and why? (not sure this question is a good one but brainstorming again). 3. Things that you can do as a submissive to assist in healing and growing in free space (? self collaring, writing, support groups, mentors, etc) You are self collard so explain that and the reasons why and what you gain from it. Are there any downsides that you have discovered?4. how to stay safe as a submissive in free space. (Mentors, protectors, common sense, etc)5. Dating again (eek) the pitfalls and learning from the past. (this might need to be a follow-up show given that we will talk our donkeys off for the first lot of subjects lol)Recognizing and owning your own issues, pitfalls, and your own place at the end of your last dynamic. (i think this is an important part of learning to hold your own string so might need to put this up further ?). 6. Question everything (particularly yourself)Quote: You are being given a choice to evolve or repeat what happens next is entirely up to you. - author unknownImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/314 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:-Benefactor ($2,000/month): -Pro Producer ($100/month): -Master Producer ($50/month): -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, and CozyCow-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 9/27/2020Published: 3/06/2021In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are tackling the differences between Hot Wife, Cuckold, and Voyeur kinks and fetishes.Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Cuck vs hotwife (and now we can add vs voyeur) a Discord post by Atsila"To the best of my knowledge.... these are the basic answers...Cuck tends to be ...Voyeur...I am a Voyeur... Basically.... we like to watch... some prefer in ...It’s hard for me sometimes even ...- Hot Wife Vs Cuckold Vs Voyeur-S03E13- Hot Wife (https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/hotwife/)Definition: A hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relationships outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband, who himself doesn’t have affairs.The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot wife.” The non-monogamous arrangement is ...Typically, the couple gains sexual arousal from the arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy fetish.Hotwifing isn’t exactly swinging because ...In some cases, there really isn’t any extramarital sex taking place in hotwifing. For some, it’s mainly a foreplay exercise to talk through a hypothetical fantasy of infidelity.- CuckoldDefinition: A man who enjoys the humiliation, degradation, and/or voyeuristic experience of watching or knowing their partner has sex with someone else.Depending on the couple’s arrangement, the cuck could be made to ...- VoyeurDefinition: A person who enjoys watching others, usually in a sexual context, without engaging with them.There is no degradation or humiliation associated with ...So what’s the difference between them?Intent. While on the outside these three kinks ...To put it into roles: the cuck is generally submissive, the partner of the hotwife is generally dominant, and the voyeur could be of any role. - Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/313 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic - Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and BrendanSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHoodProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria,knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, CivlDisobience Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PWB, MBRpoodle, and BaddogbadJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.- Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 - Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 9/20/2020 / Published: 2/24/2021Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking the often forgotten about Dom’s right to deny consent. Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Sex With My Girlfriend Has Taken an Alarming Turn in Quarantine: Not all of us are cut out to be murderous KGB agents. by STOYA AUG 11, 2020https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/girlfriend-submissive-top-consent-advice.htmlDear How to Do It,Since the pandemic, my girlfriend has been living with me, so we are spending much more time together and having much more sex. While sharing everyday activities is bringing us closer together in some respects, changes in our sexual relationship are driving us apart. We had what I thought was a fun and varied sex life. We role-play, act out fantasies, play with toys, and suggest new things to each other. Lately, she has been wanting more and more bondage, something that I always enjoyed—and initiated—as fantasy, but am becoming uncomfortable within reality. Previously, the most I would ever do was ... What can I do? Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312—PutinDear Putin,You are absolutely correct that consent needs to come from all involved ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312Have the two of you ever done a yes/no/maybe ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312Remember, you get to have noes too, and ...Important Links:Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and BrendanSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHoodProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria,knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, CivlDisobience Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PWB, MBRpoodle, and BaddogbadJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 9/13/2020 / Published: 2/13/2021Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about BDSM dynamic and what it really means.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- What is a BDSM Dominant submissive Dynamic-S03E11 https://fetlife.com/users/5941729/posts/6570436 “A Dynamic should always evolve, be updated, be thought about, have the ability to flex, etc. The word Dynamic itself means precisely that.” - Master Gabriel (@RavynBlood), Head of House, @HouseRavynbloodDynamic:adjective(of a process or system) characterized by constant change, activity, or progress. In the vanilla world, we refer to relationships in static terms such as dating, hooking up, marriage, and so on. While these lend a hint of evolution somewhere in the background of our minds, they leave out the upfront fact that change is a must. Author John Maxwell wrote "Change is inevitable. Growth is optional". This quote tells the tale of a true dynamic relationship. One that ebbs and flows. One that seeks to ...All too often open and honest communication is talked about but not completed. This is why D/s and romantic relationships end badly instead of ...Can this be prevented? Absolutely! However, it typically and statistically will not be, and here is why:1: Maturity: People often lack the emotional maturity to ...2: Psychology: Besides the plethora of personality disorders such as Borderline, Avoidant, Oppositional Defiant, and Narcissistic, there is a need in most people to ...So how do we overcome these two very real issues? We ...All of this is why I am so careful with whom I enter into a relationship of any kind. I embrace the dynamic. Thus I embrace the inevitable change. Whether it lasts a short time, a long time, or a lifetime, I need to be certain that ...- Important Links:Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/311 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic - Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month):Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Lylac WineSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCoupleProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, KJ, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PBW, and MBRpoodleJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.- Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist ink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 - Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 9/6/2020 /  Published: 2/6/2021- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about Breaking (News) the Norm with BDSM: The good, the bad, and the ugly.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. -Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- DYING FOR IT: Six in ten pensioners want to have a threesome and try BDSM before they die by Sun Reporter, Aug. 27, 2020 https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/fabulous/5975873/pensioners-threesome-bdsm-six-ten-die/- ECSO: Woman and 14-year-old boy engaged in BDSM relationship by: Cody Long, Aug 25, 2020https://www.wkrg.com/local-news/ecso-woman-and-14-year-old-boy-engaged-in-bdsm-relationship/- Report: Jerry Falwell Watched While ‘Pool Boy’ Had Sex With His Wife by MICHAEL STONE Aug 24, 2020https://www.patheos.com/blogs/progressivesecularhumanist/2020/08/report-jerry-falwell-watched-while-pool-boy-had-sex-with-his-wife/ - Important Links:Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/310 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic - Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Lylac WineSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCoupleProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, KJ, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PBW, and MBRpoodleJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.- Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 - Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 8/30/2020- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about Depression within the BDSM Community.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Depression within the BDSM CommunityDepression is a mood disorder that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and lack of interest, to the extent that it interferes with your daily life. It is a common mental health problem that normally affects around 7% of the American population in a given year. However, that number has skyrocketed this year, 2020, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, and a cornucopia of other travesties this year has seemingly gift-wrapped for us all. There are lots of reasons why a person might be diagnosed with depression, from simple biological causes to psychological and social issues. Whatever causes depression, it’s important to remember that there is help out there for everyone.If you’ve found this because you’re feeling down or after listening to this you realize you might be struggling with depression, please reach out to someone – whether it’s a friend, family member, counselor, doctor, or online service.National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255- Quotes:“Depression is living in a body that fights to survive, with a mind that tries to die.” – Danny Baker, author of “Depression is a Liar”“The only thing more exhausting than being depressed is pretending that you’re not.” – Unknown“It’s so difficult to describe depression to someone who’s never been there because it’s not sadness. I know sadness. Sadness is to cry and to feel. But it’s that cold absence of feeling—that really hollowed-out feeling.” – J.K. Rowling, author of “Harry Potter”“Depression, suffering, and anger are all part of being human.” - Janet Fitch, author of “White Oleander”“I’ll never forget how the depression and loneliness felt good and bad at the same time. Still does.” – Henry Rollins, musician, actor, author, poet, activist“It’s a bit like walking down a long corridor, never knowing when the light will go on.” - Neil Lennon, Irish Football Coach“Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: It is easier to say ‘My tooth is aching’ than to say ‘My heart is broken.” – C.S. Lewis author of at least 24 books including “The Chronicles of Narnia”- What is depression?Depression is a mood disorder that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and lack of interest, to the extent that it interferes with your daily life.- Who gets depressed?- What causes depression?- Is depression curable, treatable, or none of the above?- How BDSM helps with Depression/Pro’s“Kink 101: Depression and BDSM” by David Shorb (Feb. 8, 2019)https://www.manystories.com/story/5c5d82ba5fe1e6300036fe09 - “Psychological Functioning and Violence Victimization and Perpetration in BDSM Practitioners from the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom” https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/0cd8/abb591fda8685091c1f208bc757d616f0903.pdf Prepared by: Tess M. Gemberling, M.A., Co-Principal Investigator, University of AlabamaRobert J. Cramer, Ph.D., Co-Principal Investigator, University of AlabamaSusan Wright, M.A., Co-Principal Investigator, National Coalition for Sexual FreedomMatt R. Nobles, Ph.D., Co-Principal Investigator, University of Central Florida- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255- Important Links:Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/309 https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic - Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Lylac WineSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCoupleProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, knot_the_daddy, KJ, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PBW, and MBRpoodleJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.- Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 - Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey