Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast The Kite and the string with Lylac Wine-S03E14
Mar 13, 2021
01:10:50
Recorded: 10/04/2020 / Published: 3/21/2021
On this episode of The Krypt LylacWine is joining us to talk about the concept of free space and a piece she has written on a sub in free space.
Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
Rules to Love By:
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- Free Space (with reference to D/s and submission specifically)
Definition: (my definition)
The place or a state of being occupied by a submissive at the end of his/her dynamic and the beginning of a new one. A sub in free space still holds sacred their submissive heart and values therein. He/she is unowned and can be uncollared or self collard in free space.
The place of deep contemplation, reflection, healing, and self-growth after the ending of dynamic. The re-acclamation of self whilst still striving to preserve his/her submissive values.
Similar to the vanilla version of being “single” after the end of a relationship.
The Kite and the String (Full writing and shownotes at https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/314
1. We have the definition but why call it “free space” and not just single?
2. Talk about the piece “The Kite String”
I. what was the motivation for writing this piece?
2. What does it mean to you to “hold your own string” as you state in the piece?
Why do you write? What do you get out of it and why? (not sure this question is a good one but brainstorming again).
3. Things that you can do as a submissive to assist in healing and growing in free space (? self collaring, writing, support groups, mentors, etc)
You are self collard so explain that and the reasons why and what you gain from it. Are there any downsides that you have discovered?
4. how to stay safe as a submissive in free space. (Mentors, protectors, common sense, etc)
5. Dating again (eek) the pitfalls and learning from the past. (this might need to be a follow-up show given that we will talk our donkeys off for the first lot of subjects lol)
Recognizing and owning your own issues, pitfalls, and your own place at the end of your last dynamic. (i think this is an important part of learning to hold your own string so might need to put this up further ?).
6. Question everything (particularly yourself)
Quote: You are being given a choice to evolve or repeat what happens next is entirely up to you. - author unknown
Important Links:
Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/314
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers:
-Benefactor ($2,000/month):
-Pro Producer ($100/month):
-Master Producer ($50/month):
-Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, and CozyCow
-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13
Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
-Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3
Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
Paypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrin
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
On this episode of The Krypt LylacWine is joining us to talk about the concept of free space and a piece she has written on a sub in free space.
Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
Rules to Love By:
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- Free Space (with reference to D/s and submission specifically)
Definition: (my definition)
The place or a state of being occupied by a submissive at the end of his/her dynamic and the beginning of a new one. A sub in free space still holds sacred their submissive heart and values therein. He/she is unowned and can be uncollared or self collard in free space.
The place of deep contemplation, reflection, healing, and self-growth after the ending of dynamic. The re-acclamation of self whilst still striving to preserve his/her submissive values.
Similar to the vanilla version of being “single” after the end of a relationship.
The Kite and the String (Full writing and shownotes at https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/314
1. We have the definition but why call it “free space” and not just single?
2. Talk about the piece “The Kite String”
I. what was the motivation for writing this piece?
2. What does it mean to you to “hold your own string” as you state in the piece?
Why do you write? What do you get out of it and why? (not sure this question is a good one but brainstorming again).
3. Things that you can do as a submissive to assist in healing and growing in free space (? self collaring, writing, support groups, mentors, etc)
You are self collard so explain that and the reasons why and what you gain from it. Are there any downsides that you have discovered?
4. how to stay safe as a submissive in free space. (Mentors, protectors, common sense, etc)
5. Dating again (eek) the pitfalls and learning from the past. (this might need to be a follow-up show given that we will talk our donkeys off for the first lot of subjects lol)
Recognizing and owning your own issues, pitfalls, and your own place at the end of your last dynamic. (i think this is an important part of learning to hold your own string so might need to put this up further ?).
6. Question everything (particularly yourself)
Quote: You are being given a choice to evolve or repeat what happens next is entirely up to you. - author unknown
Important Links:
Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/314
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers:
-Benefactor ($2,000/month):
-Pro Producer ($100/month):
-Master Producer ($50/month):
-Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
-Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
-Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, and CozyCow
-Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13
Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
-Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3
Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
Paypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrin
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey