Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast Consent: Dominants Have Rights Too!-S03E12
Feb 25, 2021
40:53
Recorded: 9/20/2020 / Published: 2/24/2021
Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking the often forgotten about Dom’s right to deny consent.
Rules to Love By
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
“Sex With My Girlfriend Has Taken an Alarming Turn in Quarantine: Not all of us are cut out to be murderous KGB agents. by STOYA AUG 11, 2020
https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/girlfriend-submissive-top-consent-advice.html
Dear How to Do It,
Since the pandemic, my girlfriend has been living with me, so we are spending much more time together and having much more sex. While sharing everyday activities is bringing us closer together in some respects, changes in our sexual relationship are driving us apart. We had what I thought was a fun and varied sex life. We role-play, act out fantasies, play with toys, and suggest new things to each other. Lately, she has been wanting more and more bondage, something that I always enjoyed—and initiated—as fantasy, but am becoming uncomfortable within reality. Previously, the most I would ever do was ... What can I do? Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
—Putin
Dear Putin,
You are absolutely correct that consent needs to come from all involved ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
Have the two of you ever done a yes/no/maybe ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
Remember, you get to have noes too, and ...
Important Links:
Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers:
Benefactor ($2,000/month):
Pro Producer ($100/month):
Master Producer ($50/month):
Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria,knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, CivlDisobience Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PWB, MBRpoodle, and Baddogbad
Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13
If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3
Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
Paypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrin
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking the often forgotten about Dom’s right to deny consent.
Rules to Love By
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
“Sex With My Girlfriend Has Taken an Alarming Turn in Quarantine: Not all of us are cut out to be murderous KGB agents. by STOYA AUG 11, 2020
https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/girlfriend-submissive-top-consent-advice.html
Dear How to Do It,
Since the pandemic, my girlfriend has been living with me, so we are spending much more time together and having much more sex. While sharing everyday activities is bringing us closer together in some respects, changes in our sexual relationship are driving us apart. We had what I thought was a fun and varied sex life. We role-play, act out fantasies, play with toys, and suggest new things to each other. Lately, she has been wanting more and more bondage, something that I always enjoyed—and initiated—as fantasy, but am becoming uncomfortable within reality. Previously, the most I would ever do was ... What can I do? Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
—Putin
Dear Putin,
You are absolutely correct that consent needs to come from all involved ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
Have the two of you ever done a yes/no/maybe ... Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
Remember, you get to have noes too, and ...
Important Links:
Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/312
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers:
Benefactor ($2,000/month):
Pro Producer ($100/month):
Master Producer ($50/month):
Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, Grog4life, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, and JohnathonHood
Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria,knot_the_daddy, KJ, LilyChaos, CivlDisobience Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PWB, MBRpoodle, and Baddogbad
Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13
If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3
Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
Paypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrin
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey