

Girls Gone Deep
Elle and Vee
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
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Nov 23, 2023 • 52min
046: BDSM: Safety, Communication, and Intention, Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG), and “Demystifying Rope” aka Shibari
In this episode, join Elle and Vee with return guest Physics to get an inside view of what goes on in a top’s brain and the intricate communication required for different BDSM relationships and experiences. Who Is Physics? (0:53)The magic of intention in BDSM experiences. (2:05)What is DD/lg? (6:59) DD/lg VS age play? (11:41)How to have a healthy appropriate Ds relationship? (15:35)Communicating desires and boundaries: What questions to ask before a scene. (21:21)What is Shibari, and what are some necessary safety fundamentals to keep in mind? (28:53)Experiencing the variety of BDSM on websites like kink.com (43:51)Find Physics on FetLife.com HEREWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 16, 2023 • 59min
045: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Manifesting Through Sex Magic, and the Importance of Prostate Play
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Physics (@physics_shibari) about the ins and outs of founding a sex group, what a yoni massage involves, and what sex magic is, including: Shibari porn: Physics’s kinky awakening. (3:16)What is The Temple? Returning sacred sexuality to spirituality. (5:22)Sex workshops: What kinds of workshops can be found at The Temple? (10:06)Yoni Massage: -From being “the guy who can make any girl squirt” to being a yoni massage practitioner. (11:34)-Differentiating squirting from yoni massage. (17:14)-What does YONI mean? (20:28)-How-to: Breaking down a yoni massage step by step, and what to expect. (21:53)-Set and Setting: preparing for a yoni massage similarly to preparing for a psychedelic trip. (29:45)-Aftercare and processing. (30:46)-Do you orgasm and squirt every time during yoni massage? (32:11)-Advice for women who have reservations around squirting. The emotional intensity, releasing blockages and uncovering trauma. (37:00)Sex Magic: manifesting through sexual energy. (42:10)Female vs. male orgasm: can men orgasm the same way women can? (45:11)Lingam massage and the importance of prostate play for men. (48:57)The Temple: http://flowartcenter.org/Physics Instagram: @physics_shibariFind Physics and Temple on Fetlife.Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 9, 2023 • 1h 3min
044: Halloween Sexcapades: Sex Swing Sex, BDSM with Strangers, & Sensory Deprivation
Elle and Vee catch up on their weekend sexcapades. Vee attended a private sex party event with 40+ people and the City of Gods Halloween party in NYC while Elle spent a sexy weekend with M at home.Butt stuff updates, the second sphincter and using poppers. (1:10)Storing sex toys, the Liberator, and traveling with toys. (6:44)City of Gods Halloween Party in NYC: impact play, electro play and understanding establishing consent and boundaries with new BDSM partners. (11:12)Sex Swing and why Elle loves it so much. (20:22)Halloween Sex party experience with 40+ people: takeaways. How to stay sex-oriented at a play party, how to reject someone without any weirdness, (23:18)Open door etiquette: If the door is cracked or open during an orgy, can others invite themselves in? (35:21)Spanking experience with sensory deprivation. (39:49)Do women with a strap on fuck differently than men? (44:48) Ask Dr. Elle: how can you boost your immune system and prevent sickness in preparation for a debaucherous weekend? (55:02)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 2, 2023 • 1h 3min
043: Hoes in Hoboken Sex Party: The Role of Substances in Enthusiastic Consent, Exercising Your "No", and Getting Out of Your Head to Squirt
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up about Vee’s latest sex party that she hosted with J, including squirting, enthusiastic consent, substance use, six-handed massages, listening to your body, and so much more….Our top five episodes according to the numbers! (1:44)The benefits of having new people at a small sex party. (12:16)Squirting: how to overcome the threshold and let go. Waterproof blankets, sensory deprivation, hydration, trust and muscle memory. (15:16)Setting expectations for a sex party: what to include in a pre-party email or text; “Fears, Desires, Boundaries”(personal and as a group). (22:45)Enthusiastic consent and substance use. How substances can inhibit connection. (29:15)New toys: what’s a thruster? (37:35)Deciding which events to go to, FOMO and exercising your “no”. (39:01)Listening to your body, going to sleep when you need to, and Vee’s six-handed massage. (48:28)Ask Doctor Elle: What should I do when I get a yeast infection because of antibiotics? (50:20)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 26, 2023 • 1h 1min
042: Sexual Somatic Healing, Erotic Embodiment, and Embracing Spirituality through Sexuality
Elle and Vee bring Leia back for a part 2 to discuss Sexual Somatic Healing and so much more! What is somatic healing? How does it differ from typical talk therapy? (0:43) Three cornerstone beliefs of the Somatic Healing method. Transformation through pleasure. (4:50) What does a session look like? Is there physical contact? An animal play session recounted. (6:28)The impact of current events and shared tips on how to get out of your head and into your body. (11:49)Leia leads us through a 3 part breathing exercise for Erotic Emobodied Healing. (20:47)Elle and Vee share their feedback after that exercise. (26:29)Leia shares her experience being the demo student with her instructor. (29:39)Putting your hands on your crotch to help you sleep and for comfort? (31:00)Who is an ideal client for sexual somatic healing? What challenges are people looking to overcome? Deshamifying sex, and differentiating shame vs. guilt. (33:29)Do you have to relive the trauma in order to heal it? (40:59)Our thoughts on healing trauma through psychedelics: psyllicibin, ketamine, MDMA. (44:04)Sex and godlike experiences? The connection of this lifestyle and how it impacts spirituality. (48:06)What to look forward to on how to learn to live your most vibrant life with Leia. (54:02)Work with Leia! Find her on Instagram at @vibrantbyleiaWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 19, 2023 • 48min
041: Transformational Experiences of ENM: Sexual Healing, Self Love, and the Benefits of Dating Couples
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with their friend Leia (@vibrantbyleia), who gets deep about being a single bisexual female in the lifestyle, dating couples (versus prioritizing finding her own primary), and sexual healing."Catalyst couples", awkward first dates and enthusiastic consent: how Leia was introduced to the lifestyle. (1:31)Where should the couple sit at a 3-way date? How women hold a lot of power in ENM. (12:24)"AHA" moments from being in the open lifestyle. (16:57)Single and open. (20:51)What have you learned about yourself through polyamory? (24:03)How have these experiences changed your sexuality? Using the label “bisexual”, strapping, doing anything 3 times, pegging, shibari and BDSM. (29:30)BDSM as a form of therapy and healing, and the similarities between impact play and yoga. (34:32)Sexual somatic training. (39:34)How breast augmentation changes your relationship with your body. Accepting compliments. (40:25)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 12, 2023 • 1h 8min
040: Sex with Pregnant Women, The Pussy Pump + Other Sex Toy Reviews, and Period Sex
Elle and Vee catch up and chat about sex with pregnant women and talk about new sex toys, offering their reviews and opinions. Being pregnant in the ENM lifestyle. (3:47)Elle’s hormonal and body changes during pregnancy. Horniness, sexual desires, nipple changes, deep throating updates. (5:58)How pregnancy changes relationships, and the feeling of being left behind. (15:02)Sex with pregnant women and fulfilling fantasies: Cream pies, lubricated vaginas, and conception fantasies. (22:41)Sex Toy Review: Mini Wand (33:40)How the menstrual cycle affects libido. (36:14)Elle and Vee share how and when they like to use vibrators. (39:33)Sex Toy Review: Strap-on-me dildo (a vibrating strapless “strap-on”; competitor to the Feeldoe). (41:11)Sex Toy Review: pussy pump. (45:58)Sex Toy Review: Cock Ring/Ball Stretcher. (49:48)Sex Toy Review: vagina spreader 5-pronged speculum. (51:37)Period Sex. (58:16)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 5, 2023 • 55min
039: Stretching Fetish: Fisting, DVP and Vagina Spreaders; Shaved vs Hairy Pussies; and Introducing a Partner to ENM
This week, Elle and Vee chat with T Money about what he's learned in his twenty years in the lifestyle, including:Introducing someone to ethical non-monogamy, being on traditional dating apps, and dating people who are monogamous. (8:16)Stretching Fetish: DVP, vegetables, and the elasticity of vaginas. (17:24)Fisting: how to fist, the “goose” technique, and slow exits. (27:27)DVP: double vaginal penetration tips, and the benefits of being the "top" or "bottom" giver. (32:33)Speculums and Vagina Spreaders. (37:21)Daddy Doms: What is a Daddy Dom? Dominant personas, and how to make chores sexy. (40:21)Shaved vs hairy genitals. (43:46)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Sep 21, 2023 • 42min
038: How to Keep it Sexy in a Long Term Relationship: Esther Perel’s 4 Things to Foster Erotic Desire
Elle and Vee dive into the work of Esther Perel, a relationship expert, on relationship dynamics, how to keep things sexy and how to foster erotic desire:When your partner is in their element and confident.Surprise.Seeing your partner though the eyes of another.Longing and absence.Who is Esther Perel and what is she about? (0:38)When you ‘have’ something it takes away the wanting, and how the lifestyle helps with this. (2:47)When do you feel most drawn to your partner? (6:46)Desire requires focusing on your own pleasure. (9:15)The balance of neediness in a relationship. (10:24)In relationships, certain behaviors bring out contrasting behaviors in the other. (11:51)Two types of people in a relationship: one with the fear of losing the other and one with the fear of losing themselves. (13:50) Relationship dynamics develop around security and freedom and also self reliance and interdependence. (16:19)How the lifestyle supports admiration and surprise. (20:30)When you see your partner through the eyes of someone else. (23:54)How absence and longing helps with desire yet sometimes has a paradoxical effect in the lifestyle group of friends. (25:15)Sameness kills desire: Elle and Vee share how they keep it spicy. (29:05)Forget 1-on-1 First Dates: Try this alternative first date scenario and learn why! (33:32)PSA: We’re taking a break next week! See you in October! Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Sep 14, 2023 • 1h 7min
037: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and Spanking
Elle and Vee have two special guests in today's episode, Ace and Jess who share their lifestyle practices with edging and other kinky experiences2:32 Why edge an orgasm? What does edging do for Ace? 3:44 Aces edging discovery and how he uses it his advantage in the lifestyle5:57 Elle Vee and Jess explain the differences of their personal orgasms 8:05 Multiple orgasm for female, but what about men? 10:50 Who is charge of finally cumming, edging to cum together and a women perspective when her partner doesn’t finish often15:49 Quantity, taste, consistency from the edging load 17:12 Edging for spiritual reasons and transferring that sexual energy into day to day life20:00 The evolution of stopping an orgasm, self awareness and being a better lover in bed28:27 Cum fetish, shooters vs dribblers 36:41 The countdown to an orgasm vs the pressure of being told to have an orgasm39:32 Being in tune with your body and knowing what you like through sexual curiosity 42:37 The violet wand discussed, eletro play and how to use it46:00 A male perspective on spanking49:13 Spanking lesson by Jess and impact play discussion, 57:39 A first fisting experience59:59 the recipe for successful new sexual experiences and the surprise pleasure from a double sided dildoWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.