
Girls Gone Deep
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
Latest episodes

Dec 7, 2023 • 37min
048: Freaksgiving Revisit: Sex Party Hosting Checklist, Sub/Dom and Impact Play, and Prioritizing Your Partner
Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend. After the 2022 edition, the girls debriefed their weekend, including:How to throw a great sex party! Valuing comfort: what’s on the checklist when setting up as a host? (2:42 )The girls share their intentions, and what they learned from implementing them, including communicating your desires in the moment, and acting on your sexual feelings. (8:33 )Elle shares a fun, sexy moment and the girls talk about the benefits of private versus public play. (10:20 )Vee shares a story about a foursome, and how that experience helped her exercise her intention of acting on it when you feel sexual, and how “breaking the seal” of sexuality gets you in the mood for more sex. (14:45 )BDSM and Spanking: Elle gives the play by play of a BDSM impact play scene, Vee talks about what she gets out of being the sub in an impact scene (spanking), and how BDSM can help you go deeper. (19:10 )Observing the difference in your energy when you’re at a party solo versus with your partner. (27:45 )Prioritizing time with your partner at parties. (29:19 )How to break the ice and force yourself to socialize with everyone at a party! (32:55 )Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 30, 2023 • 1h 10min
047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able to explore all types of fantasies, from orgies to sub/dom power dynamics to pet play, and the joy and empowerment they can bring.Fantasies: exploring and fulfilling fantasies through ENM (ethical non monogamy). (2:18)How can you make it work when you’re both submissive? (9:25)Being dommed with your partner. (14:19)Hiring a pro dominatrix. (17:45)Female dommes vs male doms: trust, comfort, and safety. (24:48)DC Fetish Ball: what is it like? (28:55)What do you get out of exploring fetish and kink? (36:00)Sex therapy: working to be more assertive, going for what you want in the moment, and growing your self-confidence to overcome the fear of rejection. (38:53)Pickup lines: the best ways to approach a couple at a week-long event, and one night only. (49:16)Friends working to make friends' fantasies come true. (54:59)Vee, Elle and Brandi's fantasies to check off the list in the future. Gang bangs and being worshipped. (59:54)What are some fantasies that have been fulfilled that you'd like to repeat? MFM, MMF, pet play and more. (1:03:00)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 23, 2023 • 52min
046: BDSM: Safety, Communication, and Intention, Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG), and “Demystifying Rope” aka Shibari
In this episode, join Elle and Vee with return guest Physics to get an inside view of what goes on in a top’s brain and the intricate communication required for different BDSM relationships and experiences. Who Is Physics? (0:53)The magic of intention in BDSM experiences. (2:05)What is DD/lg? (6:59) DD/lg VS age play? (11:41)How to have a healthy appropriate Ds relationship? (15:35)Communicating desires and boundaries: What questions to ask before a scene. (21:21)What is Shibari, and what are some necessary safety fundamentals to keep in mind? (28:53)Experiencing the variety of BDSM on websites like kink.com (43:51)Find Physics on FetLife.com HEREWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 16, 2023 • 59min
045: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Manifesting Through Sex Magic, and the Importance of Prostate Play
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Physics (@physics_shibari) about the ins and outs of founding a sex group, what a yoni massage involves, and what sex magic is, including: Shibari porn: Physics’s kinky awakening. (3:16)What is The Temple? Returning sacred sexuality to spirituality. (5:22)Sex workshops: What kinds of workshops can be found at The Temple? (10:06)Yoni Massage: -From being “the guy who can make any girl squirt” to being a yoni massage practitioner. (11:34)-Differentiating squirting from yoni massage. (17:14)-What does YONI mean? (20:28)-How-to: Breaking down a yoni massage step by step, and what to expect. (21:53)-Set and Setting: preparing for a yoni massage similarly to preparing for a psychedelic trip. (29:45)-Aftercare and processing. (30:46)-Do you orgasm and squirt every time during yoni massage? (32:11)-Advice for women who have reservations around squirting. The emotional intensity, releasing blockages and uncovering trauma. (37:00)Sex Magic: manifesting through sexual energy. (42:10)Female vs. male orgasm: can men orgasm the same way women can? (45:11)Lingam massage and the importance of prostate play for men. (48:57)The Temple: http://flowartcenter.org/Physics Instagram: @physics_shibariFind Physics and Temple on Fetlife.Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 9, 2023 • 1h 3min
044: Halloween Sexcapades: Sex Swing Sex, BDSM with Strangers, & Sensory Deprivation
Elle and Vee catch up on their weekend sexcapades. Vee attended a private sex party event with 40+ people and the City of Gods Halloween party in NYC while Elle spent a sexy weekend with M at home.Butt stuff updates, the second sphincter and using poppers. (1:10)Storing sex toys, the Liberator, and traveling with toys. (6:44)City of Gods Halloween Party in NYC: impact play, electro play and understanding establishing consent and boundaries with new BDSM partners. (11:12)Sex Swing and why Elle loves it so much. (20:22)Halloween Sex party experience with 40+ people: takeaways. How to stay sex-oriented at a play party, how to reject someone without any weirdness, (23:18)Open door etiquette: If the door is cracked or open during an orgy, can others invite themselves in? (35:21)Spanking experience with sensory deprivation. (39:49)Do women with a strap on fuck differently than men? (44:48) Ask Dr. Elle: how can you boost your immune system and prevent sickness in preparation for a debaucherous weekend? (55:02)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 2, 2023 • 1h 3min
043: Hoes in Hoboken Sex Party: The Role of Substances in Enthusiastic Consent, Exercising Your "No", and Getting Out of Your Head to Squirt
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up about Vee’s latest sex party that she hosted with J, including squirting, enthusiastic consent, substance use, six-handed massages, listening to your body, and so much more….Our top five episodes according to the numbers! (1:44)The benefits of having new people at a small sex party. (12:16)Squirting: how to overcome the threshold and let go. Waterproof blankets, sensory deprivation, hydration, trust and muscle memory. (15:16)Setting expectations for a sex party: what to include in a pre-party email or text; “Fears, Desires, Boundaries”(personal and as a group). (22:45)Enthusiastic consent and substance use. How substances can inhibit connection. (29:15)New toys: what’s a thruster? (37:35)Deciding which events to go to, FOMO and exercising your “no”. (39:01)Listening to your body, going to sleep when you need to, and Vee’s six-handed massage. (48:28)Ask Doctor Elle: What should I do when I get a yeast infection because of antibiotics? (50:20)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 26, 2023 • 1h 1min
042: Sexual Somatic Healing, Erotic Embodiment, and Embracing Spirituality through Sexuality
Elle and Vee bring Leia back for a part 2 to discuss Sexual Somatic Healing and so much more! What is somatic healing? How does it differ from typical talk therapy? (0:43) Three cornerstone beliefs of the Somatic Healing method. Transformation through pleasure. (4:50) What does a session look like? Is there physical contact? An animal play session recounted. (6:28)The impact of current events and shared tips on how to get out of your head and into your body. (11:49)Leia leads us through a 3 part breathing exercise for Erotic Emobodied Healing. (20:47)Elle and Vee share their feedback after that exercise. (26:29)Leia shares her experience being the demo student with her instructor. (29:39)Putting your hands on your crotch to help you sleep and for comfort? (31:00)Who is an ideal client for sexual somatic healing? What challenges are people looking to overcome? Deshamifying sex, and differentiating shame vs. guilt. (33:29)Do you have to relive the trauma in order to heal it? (40:59)Our thoughts on healing trauma through psychedelics: psyllicibin, ketamine, MDMA. (44:04)Sex and godlike experiences? The connection of this lifestyle and how it impacts spirituality. (48:06)What to look forward to on how to learn to live your most vibrant life with Leia. (54:02)Work with Leia! Find her on Instagram at @vibrantbyleiaWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 19, 2023 • 48min
041: Transformational Experiences of ENM: Sexual Healing, Self Love, and the Benefits of Dating Couples
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with their friend Leia (@vibrantbyleia), who gets deep about being a single bisexual female in the lifestyle, dating couples (versus prioritizing finding her own primary), and sexual healing."Catalyst couples", awkward first dates and enthusiastic consent: how Leia was introduced to the lifestyle. (1:31)Where should the couple sit at a 3-way date? How women hold a lot of power in ENM. (12:24)"AHA" moments from being in the open lifestyle. (16:57)Single and open. (20:51)What have you learned about yourself through polyamory? (24:03)How have these experiences changed your sexuality? Using the label “bisexual”, strapping, doing anything 3 times, pegging, shibari and BDSM. (29:30)BDSM as a form of therapy and healing, and the similarities between impact play and yoga. (34:32)Sexual somatic training. (39:34)How breast augmentation changes your relationship with your body. Accepting compliments. (40:25)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 12, 2023 • 1h 8min
040: Sex with Pregnant Women, The Pussy Pump + Other Sex Toy Reviews, and Period Sex
Elle and Vee catch up and chat about sex with pregnant women and talk about new sex toys, offering their reviews and opinions. Being pregnant in the ENM lifestyle. (3:47)Elle’s hormonal and body changes during pregnancy. Horniness, sexual desires, nipple changes, deep throating updates. (5:58)How pregnancy changes relationships, and the feeling of being left behind. (15:02)Sex with pregnant women and fulfilling fantasies: Cream pies, lubricated vaginas, and conception fantasies. (22:41)Sex Toy Review: Mini Wand (33:40)How the menstrual cycle affects libido. (36:14)Elle and Vee share how and when they like to use vibrators. (39:33)Sex Toy Review: Strap-on-me dildo (a vibrating strapless “strap-on”; competitor to the Feeldoe). (41:11)Sex Toy Review: pussy pump. (45:58)Sex Toy Review: Cock Ring/Ball Stretcher. (49:48)Sex Toy Review: vagina spreader 5-pronged speculum. (51:37)Period Sex. (58:16)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 5, 2023 • 55min
039: Stretching Fetish: Fisting, DVP and Vagina Spreaders; Shaved vs Hairy Pussies; and Introducing a Partner to ENM
This week, Elle and Vee chat with T Money about what he's learned in his twenty years in the lifestyle, including:Introducing someone to ethical non-monogamy, being on traditional dating apps, and dating people who are monogamous. (8:16)Stretching Fetish: DVP, vegetables, and the elasticity of vaginas. (17:24)Fisting: how to fist, the “goose” technique, and slow exits. (27:27)DVP: double vaginal penetration tips, and the benefits of being the "top" or "bottom" giver. (32:33)Speculums and Vagina Spreaders. (37:21)Daddy Doms: What is a Daddy Dom? Dominant personas, and how to make chores sexy. (40:21)Shaved vs hairy genitals. (43:46)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.