Girls Gone Deep

Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered.Vee shares her fears, desires and boundaries for this episode. (2:26)A challenge of having a third partner: balance. (3:57)Codependency, projection, and the stories we tell ourselves. (6:41)Elle discusses another potential challenge of having a third: feeling left out. (13:32)Elle's example of "the stories we tell ourselves" and the lessons learned. (18:16)Avoidance as a coping strategy. (26:36)Confirmation bias to support our stories. (28:47)Elle's plan/tools to deal with triggers in the future. (30:15)What Vee would do differently the next time she brings a third. (31:49)The Four Agreements. (45:08)How instagram impacts our mental health. (48:56)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends.  “A glimpse into a lifestyle party,” and one of the challenges of bringing a third to a party. (1:46)What’s the point of having themes? (5:35)Sobriety: the challenges and benefits of staying sober for an entire lifestyle weekend. (9:10)Sobriety and sexuality. (18:02)Highlight: FFF threesome and goal-oriented fucking. (21:57)Face-sitting: the benefits of being distracted/focused when you’re getting action both up top and down bottom. (26:46)Highlight: Fivesome and creampie. (29:41)Fuckit List item: DVP, and Elle’s tips for success. (32:06)Breakthrough: Getting out of your head, and cumming in front of a group. (38:28)Sybian vs Fuck Machine. (41:37)Highlight: Using a speculum to see inside the vagina. (43:55)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with M, the squirt master. He shares his tips and tricks on how to make a girl squirt and the girls share their perspectives and experiences.Vee shares her fears with squirting. (2:12)What makes squirting different from orgasm? (7:17)M shares how he discovered his squirting skills. (8:36) Why squirting is hot: a male perspective.(15:00)How to make a girl squirt: finger placement, feeling, movement and more. (16:36)The challenges for the squirter and working through the ‘I have to pee’ sensation. (24:29)The scientific difference between a clit orgasm and the G-spot orgasm. (26:41)Do women have a prostate? What is squirt juice made of? (27:49)Squirting as a party trick, the importance of hydration, and something every squirter needs. (30:21)A different position to try if you have a hard time squirting. (35:32)Squirting expectations and stigmas. (37:04)Orgasming and squirting at the same time.(41:30)   FYI: Our Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppodcast  is currently unsearchable and suspended temporarily; please follow our backup @girlsgonedeeppod in the meantime. Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

What is an Intimacy Inventory, and why is it important for our relationships? (1:52) Get Access  here… What strengths do you bring to your relationships? What is a dilemma that you carry with you? (5:32)Stubbornness and fighting with your partner; how to put a sexy, fun spin on it. (9:44)When do you feel most free in your relationship? (14:28)When you’re out at a bar with friends, do you have a hall pass?  What agreement do you have with your partner about what is allowed?  (17:04) Independence as a turn on. Separateness and  mystery and their impact on relationships. (21:36) What do you like to experience in sex? (27:40)Being taken, thoughts on CNC (consensual non consent aka rape fantasies), extreme desire, safe words, and using BDSM as a healing experience. (29:59)Seeking a release, freedom from responsibility and timelessness during sex. (35:35)How setting time boundaries impacts sex and mental state. (37:05)How the dominant messages around gender norms shape your sexual beliefs. (42:10)To ask, to take, to give, to receive and to refuse: which are you most comfortable with? Which would you like to stretch? (48:44)Rapid Fire final questions of the intimacy inventory questionnaire. (54:21)What is a difficult conversation for you to have around sexuality? Uncomfortableness with not feeling attracted to someone who is interested in you and turning them down. (56:38)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Elle and Vee chat with their friend Kit, who grew up in a strict religious home. The girls chat about their formative sexual experiences and messages they received about sex early on in their lives, and how finding the ENM lifestyle helped to heal them.  Early messages around sex when you grow up in a strict religious community (for example, Mennonite or Pentecostal). (1:50)How did you work through/unlearn all the shameful messages around sex and adultery that you had grown up with? (11:55)Common shameful messages we receive, and ACCEPTANCE as the antidote to shame. (20:12)How do you work through the stories you tell yourself? (30:11)How has working on shame translated outside of the lifestyle? (36:20)Early shame messages we recive in high school and the effects of repression. (44:25)Finding your tribe, showing up for our monogamous friends, and using fears, desires, boundaries in all aspects of life.  (48:19)Processing and healing trauma through EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) therapy, and BDSM. (50:29)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, the girls sit down with Slutlana, who is Elle and her husband M's best friend and girlfriend.  They cover a range of topics, including:What’s it like being a third for a married couple? What fears come up as a third? The importance of communication in a throuple. (1:20)The benefits of being a third and not having a primary partner. (8:44) Opening a marriage with the help of a sex therapist. (10:49)Transitioning from swingers to open, and falling in love with someone outside of your marriage. (18:07)Personal growth through dating, retreats, psychedelics, and meditation. Shamanism. ( 28:51)Double penetration (DP) with a strap-on. (37:16)Butt plugs, and taking anal virginity. (38:45)Theme nights. (41:15)Slutlana’s major “aha” moments, and the birth of fears, desires and boundaries. (42:03)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

What happens when you’ve had the same group of ENM friends for years? In this episode, Vee and Elle sit down with M to chat about the catch-22 of having sex with your friends: how sometimes you sacrifice the quantity of sex for quality when you develop stronger friendships with your ENM partners.Strategy to turn the vibe sexy in big groups: “orgy boards”, taking a group vote with eyes closed, changing locations/spaces. (4:22)Why is it so much more challenging when trying to transition into sexy time with a larger group? (9:34)“Open door policy”: communicating intentions to the group when going off with one person. (12:19)“Emotionally weak people”: not taking answers personally as the asker of the question, and taking responsibility for your own triggers. (19:00)Strategy to avoid the challenge of transitioning into sex altogether: day orgies, new energy, and what creates desire according to Esther Perel. (23:41)Building sexual things up in your mind when you know there will be more opportunities. (32:53)How to disentangle from someone in an orgy when you want to move on to a different person or position. (36:45)M’s responses to past episodes: grinding while eating out and face-sitting. (40:04)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee talk all things CUM, including Ejaculating vs Squirting: and is there pee in squirt juice? (2:54)Taste: modifying your own taste, and what affects it. (10:36)Male ejaculation: the focus on male orgasm. (21:06)Orgasming: the hottest place for a guy to finish, “shooters” vs “dribblers”, spitting vs swallowing, and creampie fantasies. (28:35)Female taste: tasting yourself, and what to do when you encounter a stinky pussy. (43:08)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee cover a range of topics, from dealing with the emotions of multiple partners in threesomes and foursomes, questioning how to be an ethical porn consumer, and recapping Vee's weekend at a lifestyle party, including:How to deal with it as the unicorn in a threesome when there is an issue with the couple. (1:27)Listening vs giving advice when someone is triggered, and where to have the conversation. (8:26)What to do when the vibe is off between a CNM couple in a group sex situation (reading energy and holding space). (12:40)Fears, Desires and Boundaries: a tool to clear the air, break the ice and set expectations before the orgy. (15:38)What to do when you're triggered during group sex, and giving the couple space to regroup and get sexy. (18:22)Paying for porn: how do you find what’s worth paying for?  (27:30)How do you know you’re watching porn that’s being ethically made? (30:30)Gemini Party Recap (34:32)- Connecting with and prioritizing your partner at the beginning of a lifestyle weekend. (35:37)- The difference between pool parties in the ENM lifestyle and vanilla pool parties.  Friendships with the opposite sex. (39:34)- Day orgies, why having repeat partners makes for better sex, and compersion. (45:00)- Sitting on faces.  (50:07)- The “comedown” from a big weekend: Strap ons, “pegging” vs “strapping”, how to have an awesome seven-person orgy, and how can you feel sexy in a big group? (53:33)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things pornography, from their use of it to their first exposure to it, including: How do you use porn? Authenticity in porn, “daddy” and age play, searching for specific vs playing porn roulette. (2:22)Masturbation and porn. (7:04)Using porn as a tool to connect with you partner. (9:30)Favorite porn sites. (11:01) How does porn affect teens’ ideas of sex? (11:49)How can porn contribute to and affect sexual confusion and sexual identity in teens? (16:46)Do we watch what we want in real life? Erotic blueprints, porn rabbit holes. (22:48)Negative effects of porn, and training yourself to like certain things. BDSM hack for associating pain with pleasure. (25:46)Is watching porn cheating?  (31:04)What would we sound like in the bedroom if we had never watched porn? Personal porn. (37:19)Virtual Reality porn and AI porn. (40:53)Links: Female-created porn: Bellesa.coErotic Blueprint: missjaiya.comReal Sex Porn: makelovenotporn.tvSoft Porn: stasyq.comCrowd-sourced porn: xconfessions.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.