
The Embodied Relationship Experience
Dive into the destiny-changing practices and principles of spiritual intimacy with renowned men’s work and Sacred Intimacy teacher, John Wineland, as he unpacks what makes relationships safe, sacred and truly devotional. Suspend what you have been taught about love and embark on a journey of nervous system expansion and sexual magnetism that will make you a source of healing and spiritual depth in your love life. Join us every other Wednesday as we delve into the practical depth of artistic loving.
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Apr 23, 2025 • 1h 20min
23. On Becoming a Man ft. Jeddy Azuma
"Part of becoming a man is learning to father yourself with discipline, encouragement, and truth." – Jeddy AzumaToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Why becoming a man is an ongoing process, not a single defining momentThe importance of initiation and ritual in shedding outdated identitiesHow fathering yourself creates confidence and inner stabilityThe tension between external validation and inner truthHow mature masculinity expresses love, purpose, and presenceConnect with Jetty:Jetty Azuma’s platform: Rising Man MovementFollow Jetty on Instagram: @risingmanmovement | @jeddyazumaConnect with John:Instagram: @john_winelandWebsite: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TEACHER TRAINING: TT 2025: $2500 DepositPrivate coaching: CoachingJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of Depth - A Masculine Embodiment Practice CircleGet the book - johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

Apr 9, 2025 • 52min
22. The Power of Containment
“There is no containment without nervous system regulation. You can’t hold your partner if you can’t hold yourself first.” - John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:The difference between containment and controlHow containment supports emotional and nervous system regulationContainment as a foundational masculine skill (and how women benefit too)Real-world examples of emotional containment in relationshipsWhy containment without nervous system regulation won’t workContainment as a sacred responsibility in conscious partnershipConnect with John:Instagram: @john_winelandWebsite: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TEACHER TRAINING: 1000 Hour Teacher TrainingPrivate coaching: CoachingJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of Depth - A Masculine Embodiment Practice CircleGet the book - johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

Feb 26, 2025 • 1h 8min
21. Choose Them Everyday or Leave Them w/ Bryan Reeves
"Only when we can learn to see what is actually going on in the moment, we can truly begin to address and repair what keeps us from connecting deeply with our partners." Bryan ReevesToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:The active choice you must make daily in a relationship to fully engage or to leave themTaking 100% responsibility for your actions, feelings, and part in the relationshipVulnerability and repair after conflicts as keys for relationship successExploring the expectations and realizations in relationshipsBeing truly present and embodied in a relationship as a way to enhance connectionConnect with Bryan:Website: bryanreeves.com Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight Order: Choose Her Every Day (or Leave Her)Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.comPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.comGet the book - johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

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Feb 12, 2025 • 1h 27min
20. Practicing the Three Stages of Intimacy and Self-Expression in Every Moment w/ Nina Lombardo
In this installment, Nina Lombardo, creator of Way of Devotion and an expert in feminine embodiment and sexual polarity, explores the deeper meanings of devotion in relationships. She emphasizes how the hardest moments can lead to profound healing. The conversation dives into David Deida's Three Stages of Intimacy, revealing how self-awareness fosters connection. Nina discusses the journey of feminine empowerment, the significance of emotional leadership, and the importance of communication in nurturing intimacy. A rich dialogue on authenticity and vulnerability awaits!

Jan 29, 2025 • 1h 7min
19. Attachment Wounding and the Art of Self Regulation with Sheleana Aiyana
Sheleana Aiyana, an expert in somatic practices and deep self-healing, dives into the profound impact of attachment styles on relationships. She discusses the significance of recognizing emotional wounds and the role of somatic techniques in fostering healing and self-regulation. Aiyana emphasizes the transformative power of self-awareness and nurturing healthy connections while navigating the complexities of intimacy. With practical exercises and personal insights, she encourages a commitment to long-term emotional growth.

Jan 15, 2025 • 1h 39min
18. Making Art of Your Wounds with Jess Magic & Jamie Elizabeth Thompson
“Collective healing is not just about one person feeling relieved while the other suffers; it involves mutual healing where both parties find resolution and peace.” Jamie Elizabeth ThompsonToday on Embodied Relationship Experience: Wounded masculine and feminine vs. dark masculine and feminineThe line between sharing wounds and damaging othersEmbracing masculine energy in women and inner femininity in menNervous system capacity and its role in relationshipsRecognizing human essence beyond masculine and feminine labelsThe practice of consent and boundaries as a path to mutual healingConnect with Jess, Minister, Musical Storyteller & Soul Guide:Website: jessmagic.comInstagram: @yesjessmagicJoin: The Mwali MembershipConnect with Jamie, Women’s Embodiment & Relationship Coach & Founder of Awakened Woman:Instagram: @_awakened_womanWomen’s Programs: awakenedwoman.lifePrivate Coaching: jamieelizabeththompson.com Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of LoveJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of DepthStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

Dec 18, 2024 • 1h 5min
17. The Path and Pitfalls of Masculine Practice with Michael Holt
In this dialogue, Michael Holt, a men's coach specializing in masculine spiritual development, discusses the journey of conscious manhood. He emphasizes the need for foundational practices like meditation and self-awareness, while addressing misconceptions surrounding masculinity. Holt highlights the importance of self-acceptance and critiques the ego's role in masculine identity. The conversation also dives into the transformative power of brotherhood and shared experiences, advocating for genuine vulnerability and deeper connections amid the challenges of personal growth.

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Dec 4, 2024 • 1h 3min
16. Sacred Devotion to Your Partner’s Nervous System with Preston Smiles
Preston Smiles, a spiritual intimacy expert and author of "Spiritual Millionaire," shares his insights on cultivating emotional safety in relationships. He discusses the importance of understanding and responding to a partner's nervous system. The duo emphasizes non-verbal communication over heated arguments and offers practical techniques for effective apologies. They also explore the significance of self-nourishment and recognizing emotional triggers, ultimately guiding listeners towards deeper connections and healthier emotional landscapes.

Nov 22, 2024 • 1h 9min
15. Sacred Dominance and Submission with Kimi Inch
“In dominant-sub roles, one person holds power and the other gives it up. Unlike simple dominance, erotic leadership is about guiding, influencing, and inspiring”.- Kimi Inch Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:Discussing erotic power dynamics.The healing and connecting power of erotic spaces.Unpacking the concept of "Conscious Kink".The dance of erotic leadership.Taboo territory as way to rediscover your sexuality. The therapeutic potential of erotic play.Connect with Kimi :Instagram: @kimiinchWebsite: andmorepresents.comCourse: The Irresistible Art Of Verbal SeductionDownload: The Kink ChecklistConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of Love - John WinelandStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformApply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John WinelandThe Art of Sacred Intimacy - Austin, Tx - February 14-16, 2025 - Enrollment opens November 4th. Join us in-person, or form the comfort of your own home. Private coaching - Home - John Wineland Coaching

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Oct 9, 2024 • 50min
14. The Beauty and Wisdom of Breakups
Delve into the emotional impact of breakups and how they often reveal childhood wounds. Discover why value exchange is crucial in relationships and learn to end them intentionally. Explore the importance of trust, grounding, and emotional safety that shape attraction. Gain tools for self-reflection and evaluation to prepare for healthier future connections. This discussion emphasizes personal growth and the beauty of moving forward after heartbreak.
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