Typology

Enneagram guru Seth Abram discusses Shadow Work, the unconscious aspects of ourselves that we hide or deny. We explore the importance of shadow work in personal growth using the Enneagram. We delve into the power of anger for self-growth. Embracing our shadow aspects leads to personal growth and conscious choice. We explore conflicts for nines and the importance of embracing conflict for personal expansion. The speaker reflects on their personal journey of embracing their true self through shadow work. We discuss the scarcity mindset and shadow work of type 5 individuals. Prioritizing personal growth positively impacts relationships and introduces Typology Institute Membership benefits. Learn about small groups for mental and emotional well-being.

Kristen LaValley, a writer and storyteller, joins the podcast to explore faith, spirituality, suffering, and the human experience. She discusses how Enneagram Fives compartmentalize emotions and struggle to express them, challenges with maintaining beliefs and faith during crisis, the importance of finding comfort in suffering, and the significance of acceptance and moving forward from traumatic experiences.

How does your Enneagram type influence the creative process? Whether we’re in business, cooking a meal, or writing a book, we’re all content creators on some level. Each of us has the capacity to tap into our gifts and bring something new into the world.  Today, we explore the fascinating interplay between the Enneagram and creativity with author and writing coach, Mary Adkins. This conversation shines a light on the unique hurdles and assets each personality type brings to the table in their artistic endeavors. In this episode, we examine:  How Mary discovered her Enneagram type and the role it plays in her coaching The importance of self-awareness in the creative process Why ‘making a mess’ and ‘trusting the process’ is instrumental for all types Mary's journey from Yale Law School and Duke to becoming a renowned writing coach and founder of The Book Incubator program serves as a testament to the power of understanding one's gifts and leveraging them to maximize their creative potential.  Until next time, keep exploring the mystery of your unique personality and remember, "May you have love, may you have joy, may you have peace, may you have healing, and may you have rest.”   ------------------------------ Mary Adkins Website: www.maryadkinswriter.com The Book Incubator 12-month Program Instagram

How does your past shape your present relationships? This week's episode is a treasure trove of insights that you won't want to miss! Join us as we sit down with the insightful Ike Miller, PhD, author, pastor, and Enneagram Three, who brings a fresh perspective on how the baggage we carry from our childhood isn't all bad. In fact, it might just be the key to unlocking healthier relationships and a more authentic self. Ike's new book, "Good Baggage," challenges the notion that all our past experiences weigh us down. Instead, he invites us to sift through our stories and find the hidden tools that can lead to personal growth and relational health. In this episode, you'll discover: Ike's journey with the Enneagram and how it helped him understand his motivations and fears. The core fear of the Enneagram Three and how it can manifest in daily life. Strategies for self-differentiation and setting healthy boundaries The importance of authenticity in leadership and personal relationships. And much more! Whether you're an Enneagram Three wrestling with image management or someone curious about how to leverage your past for a better future, this conversation is for you. As always, we're here to support you in your journey of self-discovery and growth. If you find this episode as enlightening as we did, share it with a friend who might also benefit from Ike's wisdom. Until next time, keep exploring the mystery of your unique personality and remember, "May you have love, may you have joy, may you have peace, may you have healing, and may you have rest.”     P.S. Stay tuned for our upcoming episodes and make sure to follow us on Instagram @TypologyPodcast for daily doses of Enneagram knowledge and encouragement! Don't forget to check out Ike's book, "Good Baggage," and if you're looking for more resources to help you on your journey, consider exploring "The Search for Significance" by Robert McGee, a book that has deeply influenced Ike's understanding of identity and value.     TIMESTAMPS (00:00:03) - Introduction to Typology Podcast (00:00:24) - Ike Miller's New Book: Good Baggage (00:01:21) - Reflecting on Past Events and Changes (00:02:43) - Ike Miller's Enneagram Discovery Journey (00:04:31) - Core Fear of Enneagram Three (00:05:12) - Utilizing Baggage from Childhood (00:06:06) - Threes Under Stress and Image Management (00:07:06) - Ike Miller on Identity and Achievement (00:08:03) - Preaching and Identity for Enneagram Threes (00:10:19) - Celebrating Personal Progress (00:12:10) - Moving Theological Understanding to Personal Experience (00:13:04) - Ike's Challenges During the Pandemic (00:14:02) - Ike and His Wife's Enneagram Dynamics (00:15:38) - Risk Aversion and Entrepreneurship in Enneagram Types (00:16:03) - Ike's Experience Leading a Church During COVID-19 (00:17:33) - The Importance of Authenticity in Ministry (00:18:14) - Ike's Book and The Search for Significance (00:19:02) - Therapy and Enneagram Threes (00:20:11) - Ike's Motivation for Therapy and Transparency (00:21:20) - The Challenge of Vulnerability for Enneagram Threes (00:22:49) - The Five Whys Technique for Personal Growth (00:24:34) - Self-Differentiation and Family Dynamics (00:25:41) - Ike's Three Keys to Navigating Dysfunctional Families (00:26:25) - Post-Traumatic Growth and Personal Development (00:27:23) - Tools for Healing and Growth in Ike's Book (00:28:04) - The Story of David and Goliath: A Metaphor for Self-Identity (00:29:20) - Closing Remarks and Ike's Contact Information  

Sissy Goff, an accomplished counselor, discusses the connection between parental anxiety and anger, the difference between worry and anxiety in parenting, and the increasing anxiety levels among parents and children influenced by societal pressure and social media. The speakers also explore the experiences of anxiety among different Enneagram types and discuss a tragic school shooting and community response.

With the Enneagram, what we do is not as important as why we do the things we do. This also applies to confidence.  Behavioral economics pioneer, internationally sought-after consultant, and professor of confidence-driven decision-making Peter Atwater explains,  “The ‘why’ to me is all related to our feelings of certainty and control because when I boil down what confidence is it’s knowing what’s coming and feeling like we are prepared for it.”   Today, we explore what confidence is and how to cultivate confidence….We dig into Peter’s new book and go over his confidence quadrant framework, which includes the stress center, comfort zone, passenger seat, and the launchpad. It’s a tool you can use to not only understand yourself better but to understand those around you better. This is a rich conversation and you’re going to want to grab this book, The Confidence Map: Charting a Path from Chaos to Clarity.  To learn more about Peter Atwater, visit his website, check out his TED Talks and pick up a copy of The Confidence Map.   

Today on Typology we welcome a dynamic couple to the show: accomplished actor and screenwriter John Schaech, known for his roles in "That Thing You Do" and the upcoming series "Blue Ridge," and his wife, Julie Solomon, a top branding coach, best-selling author, and podcast host. Together, they share their insights into how the Enneagram has shaped their personal and professional lives. In this episode, we explore: How John and Julie navigate their relationship dynamics as an Enneagram Four with a Five Wing and a Three with a Two Wing. The impact of past-oriented and future-oriented perspectives in their marriage. John's courageous story of addiction and recovery, and how it has transformed his life and career. Julie's experience with Al-Anon and her path to self-discovery and healing. This episode is a testament to the power of self-reflection, the courage to redefine personal beliefs, and the strength found in sobriety. It's a story of hope, growth, and the beauty of self-acceptance.   📚 Get Julie Solomon's book "Get What You Want: How to Go from Unseen to Unstoppable" wherever books are sold. 🎬 Stay tuned for John Sheck's new series "Blue Ridge" coming in 2024. 🎧 Listen to Julie's podcast "The Influencer Podcast" for more insights on personal branding and marketing. --------------------------------------------------------------------- We'd love to hear your feedback and experiences. Share your stories with us by following us on social media @TypologyPodcast.  If you're enjoying the podcast, please consider leaving us a review on your favorite podcast platform. Your support means the world to us.  

How do you discern what God is saying? The Enneagram teaches us that we’re not all the same person. It allows us to be unique and have unique experiences. So, what if the key to hearing Him is understanding the distinct way he speaks to you?  Today’s guest, pastor and author Havilah Cunnington reminds us we can’t assume that God speaks to us all in the same way. “I think that’s really important in life, to be different, to have a uniqueness, to understand that God doesn’t interact with all of His kids the same way.  Just like I have four boys. I don’t interact with [them] in the same way,” explains Havilah. “Understanding how He speaks to you gives us a starting point. It allows us to at least recognize where we might be so we can actually go deeper and build a better relationship and interaction with Him."  In this episode, we dive into her intriguing insights from her latest book, discussing the nuances of discerning divine guidance and how to harness one’s unique spiritual personality for a deeper, more meaningful relationship with God.  We also explore how Havilah’s Enneagram type energizes her approach to spiritual leadership and her passion for helping others recognize and listen to God’s voice in their lives.  If you’ve ever felt lost because you never felt that you could hear the voice of God in your life, this episode could help you discover His unique way of communicating with you.    ABOUT HAVILAH CUNNINGTON Havilah Cunnington has had a remarkable journey of over twenty years in full-time ministry and as the female pastor at Bethel Church, her experience spans from guiding spiritual growth in individuals to leading a nonprofit, and her podcast, Truth to Table.  She’s the author of the book, “Created to Hear God: 4 Unique and Proven Ways to Confidently Discern His Voice.” Website: https://havilahcunnington.com

Brian Tome, author of The Five Marks of a Man, discusses the definition of manhood and the importance of vulnerability in a passionate conversation. The podcast explores themes of Enneagram Type 8, intensive counseling programs, the value of having an older mentor, the difference between true vulnerability and faux-nerability, and the meaning of manhood.

Dr. Chip Dodd, a beacon of guidance and hope, discusses the power of feelings and relationships. He shares his Spiritual Root System, guiding people toward healing. The conversation explores the traits of Type 2 and Type 8, and the importance of connecting with the voice of the heart to live fully.