

Psychology Has It Backwards
Christine Heath and Judy Sedgeman
We're offering mental health professionals a fresh look at the fundamental cause of stress and distress, and the fundamental source of cure. It's simpler than it has seemed, and the result is sustained mental well-being. Psychology has had it backwards.
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Sep 6, 2025 • 37min
Episode 200: What Do We Mean by "Going Deeper"
The hosts celebrate a milestone by redefining how we view mental health, highlighting that everyone is inherently healthy. They explore the idea of going deeper into understanding ourselves, emphasizing the peace that comes from embracing silence between thoughts. Personal stories showcase how insights can transform our connections and well-being. The importance of embracing uncertainty is discussed, revealing how stepping into the unknown can lead to authentic living and deeper relationships. A fresh perspective is encouraged for personal growth and understanding.

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Aug 30, 2025 • 32min
Episode 199: What Explains Psychological Shifts?
Discover the transformative power of shifts in consciousness that foster deep insights and personal growth. The conversation emphasizes viewing mental well-being through an optimistic lens, suggesting that happiness is an innate state rather than a goal. Explore the significance of introspective practices in understanding emotions and enhancing relationships. The hosts discuss the simplicity of clarity in navigating life's complexities and the importance of being present to embrace change, all while advocating for community support in the journey of self-discovery.

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Aug 23, 2025 • 34min
Episode 198: Believing in Our Own BS
Discover how our self-perceptions shape our realities, as the speakers unpack the stories we tell ourselves. They explore how ingrained beliefs distort behavior and hinder self-expression, illustrated by relatable personal anecdotes. The pressure to excel versus the joy of learning is another key topic, revealing the transformative power of embracing spontaneous experiences. Finally, they tackle the impact of negative self-talk and the importance of recognizing intrinsic worth to foster growth and authenticity.

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Aug 2, 2025 • 35min
Episode 197: You're Not Special. Unique, Maybe, but Not Special
This discussion dives into our perceptions of self-worth, revealing how insecurities can lead to a false sense of being 'special.' Humorous anecdotes illustrate the shared humanity we often overlook. The chat also highlights the profound impact of compassion, as seen in iconic music events that united artists for a greater cause. Emphasizing selflessness, the hosts advocate for focusing on kindness to enrich our connections. Finally, embracing ordinariness is presented as a path to happiness, reminding us that we all share the power to create our unique experiences.

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Jul 19, 2025 • 35min
Episode 196: Common Misunderstandings, Part 2
Overthinking can make everything feel difficult and urgent, but pausing can bring clarity. The power of quieting down is emphasized as a way to find fresh ideas and calming insights. In a world filled with constant fear from news cycles, the hosts encourage practical action rather than obsession with uncontrollable events. They discuss the overwhelming nature of endless choices, advocating for slowing down to enjoy life. Using metaphors like speedboats and sailboats, they highlight the benefits of introspection and embracing a more relaxed perspective for personal growth.

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Jul 5, 2025 • 36min
Episode 195: Common Misunderstandings, Part 1
Unpack the challenges of communication, particularly how misunderstandings derail connections. Discover the perils of daydreaming and overthinking, and the power of mindfulness in enhancing life. Learn about the shift toward deep, receptive listening in psychology, and how it can deepen relationships. Explore the transformative impact of emotional engagement in learning, moving from mere absorption to genuine understanding. Personal anecdotes reveal the significance of active listening and the importance of not taking things personally for stronger connections.

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Jun 21, 2025 • 35min
Episode 194: Going Too Fast and Missing the Point of Living
Life can feel like a high-speed train, whizzing past if we're not careful. Embracing a slower pace can enhance well-being and relationships. The hosts reflect on the shared experiences of aging, drawing parallels between nursing homes and college days. They stress the dangers of time pressure, arguing for mindful communication and deeper connections. Personal stories involving pets illustrate how moments of presence can enrich our lives, reminding us to value the journey over the rush.

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May 31, 2025 • 37min
Episode 193: Denial
Life is a contact sport with wins and losses, and denying our part in this journey can hold us back. Embracing our human flaws fosters personal growth and trust in relationships. The podcast dives into how denial acts as a barrier to self-awareness and healing, especially in addiction. It emphasizes the importance of confronting uncomfortable realities and accepting responsibility for our actions. Through personal anecdotes, listeners are encouraged to live in the moment and learn from life's lessons for true peace of mind.

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May 19, 2025 • 33min
Episode 192: Tricks of the Mind
The hosts invite listeners to rethink their perceptions of mental health, suggesting people are inherently healthy rather than flawed. They dive into how life's events are neutral until we assign meaning to them, reshaping our reactions. The interplay of thoughts and emotions is examined, emphasizing how negative thinking can create illusions. Personal anecdotes highlight innate wisdom, showcasing the power of self-awareness. Finally, the discussion challenges mental barriers, empowering listeners to redefine happiness from within.

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May 3, 2025 • 39min
Episode 191: Optimism vs. Hopelessness
Explore the compelling contrast between optimism and hopelessness as the hosts share personal stories that highlight how our thoughts shape our realities. Discover the resilience of human spirit through a man's enduring hope amid tragedy. Learn how reframing negative thoughts can spark new possibilities and inspire a brighter outlook. A captivating tale of a couple’s unwavering positivity during Christmas illustrates the profound impact of optimism. The discussion encourages listeners to embrace growth and self-love, transforming personal adversity into empowerment.