Psychology Has It Backwards cover image

Psychology Has It Backwards

Latest episodes

undefined
Mar 8, 2025 • 33min

Episode 186: Panic: Is It Helpful?

"Panic" crops up a lot in conversation. "I realized I forgot to finish that report and I panicked."  "Tests always induce panic in me."  "She panicked when her brother uncovered her secret."  The actual experience of panic -- racing heart, shaking,  sweaty palms -- is unpleasant.  We tend to think events and things induce that feeling in us.  But panic is just the feelings arising from the build-up of distressing thinking.  It's an alarm waking us up to a flood of non-constructive thoughts.  As soon as we're onto ourselves and quiet our minds, the feeling of panic dissolves.Support the show
undefined
9 snips
Mar 1, 2025 • 33min

Episode 185: Does Productivity Enhance Well-Being?

Delve into the surprising truth that productivity doesn’t always equate to well-being. Explore how being at peace with oneself can naturally foster creativity and efficiency. Discover the importance of self-care and the benefits of slowing down, showcasing how leisure time can spark innovative breakthroughs. The discussion challenges the societal norms linking busyness with self-worth, advocating for a mindset that prioritizes mental clarity and meaningful connections over a relentless pursuit of output.
undefined
8 snips
Feb 22, 2025 • 32min

Episode 184: The Illusion of Thought, Part 3

Explore the illusion of thought and how it shapes our understanding of life. Learn how focusing on negative thinking can trap us in a self-fulfilling cycle. Discover the healing power of positive memories and how they can transform perceptions in therapy. Delve into a single mother's struggle and find joy amid challenges, emphasizing the permanence of thoughts. Finally, uncover the path to innate happiness by letting go of unhelpful thoughts, allowing for genuine contentment to resurface.
undefined
8 snips
Feb 15, 2025 • 34min

Episode 183: The Illusion of Thought, Part 2

Discover how your thoughts craft your personal reality, shaping experiences differently for everyone. Learn the importance of understanding varying perceptions to enrich relationships and recognize the creative power of thinking. Delve into the psychological traps of negative thoughts and how they mirror a magician's illusions. Explore the transformative power of community, sharing experiences to combat mental health challenges, and realize the role of open-mindedness in redefining connections and interpretations.
undefined
9 snips
Jan 11, 2025 • 33min

Episode 182: The Illusion of Thought, Part 1

The conversation dives into the concept of ego, revealing how our self-perception can be shaped by fleeting thoughts and societal pressures. It challenges the stigma of mental distress, promoting the idea that recognizing thoughts as illusions can free us from negative self-images. The discussion touches on the nuances of masculinity and the transformative power of awareness in overcoming past conditioning. Ultimately, it emphasizes that we can change our experiences by shifting our internal dialogues.
undefined
12 snips
Jan 4, 2025 • 32min

Episode 181: The Gift of Acceptance

Discover the transformative power of acceptance and its role in personal growth. Learn how embracing regrets without self-judgment can lead to peace and insight. The discussion highlights the importance of recognizing feelings as guiding tools, helping us discern constructive thoughts from harmful ones. Personal stories illustrate how acceptance and gratitude can reshape our experiences, even through adversity. Finally, navigate themes of loss and new beginnings, emphasizing that every moment is an opportunity for a fresh start.
undefined
23 snips
Dec 7, 2024 • 38min

Episode 180: Accountability and Change vs. Intellectual Understanding

Dive into the intriguing intersection of thoughts and actions. Hear how feeling states serve as a navigational tool for decision-making, illustrated by a relatable story of a young girl facing peer pressure. Discover the significance of accountability in relationships through the Hawaiian practice of ho'oponopono. Reflect on the power of self-awareness for personal growth, emphasizing the importance of humility and insight for genuine change. It's a thought-provoking journey that reshapes our understanding of emotional experiences.
undefined
13 snips
Nov 23, 2024 • 32min

Episode 179: How Do We Know When We're Accessing Wisdom?

Many people struggle with decision-making, often overanalyzing options instead of tapping into their innate wisdom. Embracing change, particularly during life transitions like retirement, can lead to new opportunities. Trusting feelings over exhaustive analysis is crucial, especially when navigating emotional challenges. Insights often emerge from adversity, highlighting the need to be open to deeper intelligence. Ultimately, finding clarity involves quieting the mind and allowing answers to come naturally, fostering a more confident approach to life.
undefined
7 snips
Nov 8, 2024 • 34min

Episode 178: Sadness Without Suffering

Understanding emotional ups and downs is essential; happiness isn't guaranteed by knowledge. The hosts share personal experiences of navigating sadness while accepting pain as a part of life. They discuss the difference between pain and suffering, emphasizing perspective and community support. Stories reveal the beauty in acceptance during tough changes and the healing power of companionship, illustrating how living in the moment can ease worries and foster resilience.
undefined
12 snips
Oct 19, 2024 • 34min

Episode 177: What Does Innate Health Mean for Us?

Explore the concept of Innate Health and how it reshapes our understanding of mental distress. Discover the transformative power of thought and its ability to improve personal relationships. Learn to navigate conflicts with empathy and compassion, shedding negative perceptions. Hear personal stories that illustrate how recognizing the neutrality of our thoughts can lead to healing and understanding. Embrace the idea that our ability to think anew can foster growth and peace, opening doors to fresh insights and perspectives.

Get the Snipd
podcast app

Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
App store bannerPlay store banner

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode

Save any
moment

Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways

Share
& Export

Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode