

The Dildorks
Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
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Jul 30, 2024 • 54min
Pretty Little Head
Dive into the edgy realm of intelligence play, focusing on bimbofication and its intersection with kink. Reflect on the balance between intellect and vulnerability in BDSM, along with how carefree femininity can empower self-expression. Discover the significance of mental breaks and playful hypnosis for creativity. The speakers also share insights into emotional influence in BDSM experiences and discuss challenges in sexual expression within the community, all sprinkled with humor and personal stories.

Jul 23, 2024 • 1h 7min
Tongue-in-Cheek
Dive into the world of kissing with a humorous exploration of tongue use and common awkward moments. Discover the art of compatible kissing styles and the importance of clear communication in intimacy. The challenges of long-distance relationships are tackled, with innovative strategies to maintain connection. Plus, learn about a fun 'Date Kate' survey to enhance dating experiences, and get insights into polyamory within video games, adding a quirky twist to relationship dynamics!

Jul 16, 2024 • 59min
Lip-Lock Talk
Kissing can reveal a lot about attraction and intimacy. The hosts explore the importance of communication in creating a safe environment for expressing desires. They delve into the nuances of making out, especially during the pandemic and long-distance relationships. Personal anecdotes illustrate the power of anticipation and emotional connection in kissing. Humorous reflections on awkward moments, like yawning mid-kiss, add a fun twist to their insightful discussions on preferences and the influence of media on intimacy.

Jul 9, 2024 • 57min
Shock, Horror!
The discussion dives deep into emotional sadomasochism, exploring how intimacy and vulnerability play crucial roles. The hosts dissect the risks for tops in accessing dark personas and the fine line between emotional self-harm and consensual play. They emphasize the importance of negotiating boundaries and discussing triggers for safe experiences. Hypnosis is presented as a fascinating tool to evoke genuine emotions, while practical techniques are shared for grounding and support during intense scenes. It's a captivating journey into the complexities of emotional dynamics.

Jul 2, 2024 • 59min
When Hard Feelings Make You Hard
Explore the intriguing world of emotional S&M as the hosts dive into the nuances of pain that goes beyond the physical. Discover how humiliation and emotional immersion contrast with psychological play. They analyze 'Hot Ones' as a blend of masochism, and discuss how enduring scenes can offer healing and accomplishment. The conversation touches on ethical topping, negotiation, and the importance of aftercare. Ultimately, they highlight kink as vital adult play, providing intimacy and a deeper understanding of emotional responses.

Jun 25, 2024 • 1h 3min
At First Blush
Dive into the exciting realm of first times in sexual encounters! The hosts delve into the thrill of both real and roleplayed experiences, including the complexities of virginity and power dynamics. They share personal anecdotes about role-playing scenarios, emphasizing connection and communication. Explore the mesmerizing interplay of fantasy and reality in adult content, and navigate societal pressures surrounding first experiences. With a dash of humor, this conversation celebrates intimacy and encourages a positive outlook on sexual adventures!

Jun 18, 2024 • 1h 8min
You Asked, We Rambled
Listeners dive into a lively discussion on rimming, comparing it to cunnilingus with humor and personal stories. The hosts explore fetishes, intimacy, and the emotional dynamics of caregiving, shedding light on unique connections. Textured condoms are examined through personal anecdotes, highlighting comfort and size issues. They tackle communication challenges in relationships and the importance of open dialogue about desires. The conversation lightens with updates and reflections on their online presence and the struggles of maintaining hygiene for sex toys.

Jun 11, 2024 • 54min
Sure, Why Not?
Join Billy and his partner, Dee Darkholme, as they dive into the fascinating world of unusual kinks that spice up their relationship. They share personal experiences with foot play, urination fetishes, and the evolution of their desires over time. The discussion is filled with humor and insights on intimacy, communication, and the importance of exploring new interests together. Dee's dynamic perspective adds depth as they highlight how embracing these kinks has strengthened their bond. Expect laughter and candid revelations!

Jun 4, 2024 • 1h 4min
Giving Good Hole
This week, the insightful Tina Horn, an author and former professional dominatrix known for her work on kink culture, joins the conversation. Tina discusses her groundbreaking book and why the chapter on fisting became a standout. She navigates the complexities of bottoming, seclusion, and the power dynamics in sexual language. The impact of online discourse on misunderstandings around consent is critiqued, alongside a fascinating footnote about a glasses fetish shoot. The discussion also touches on the representation of sexual narratives in 'Sex and the City' and the joys of gender pleasure.

May 30, 2024 • 26min
What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic?
Dr. Carol Queen, Good Vibrations staff sexologist & Antique Vibrator Museum curator, discusses the iconic Magic Wand vibrator's impact on pleasure, social media, and closing the orgasm gap with other guests. They explore the history, criticism, societal perceptions, and empowerment associated with using the Magic Wand, advocating for female sexual autonomy and normalization of vibrators for enhanced satisfaction.


