The Dildorks Giving Good Hole
Jun 4, 2024
This week, the insightful Tina Horn, an author and former professional dominatrix known for her work on kink culture, joins the conversation. Tina discusses her groundbreaking book and why the chapter on fisting became a standout. She navigates the complexities of bottoming, seclusion, and the power dynamics in sexual language. The impact of online discourse on misunderstandings around consent is critiqued, alongside a fascinating footnote about a glasses fetish shoot. The discussion also touches on the representation of sexual narratives in 'Sex and the City' and the joys of gender pleasure.
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Embodied Writing Emerges From Fisting
- Fisting forced Tina Horn to write concretely about bodies, technique, and embodied pleasure instead of abstract theory.
- That chapter grounded the book and showed how skill and technique shape kinky practice.
Bottoming As Active Seclusion
- Seclusion reframes bottoming as an active, conceptually engaged role rather than passive submission.
- Recognizing holes as active participants challenges patriarchal assumptions about sexual agency.
Cite Lineage When Teaching Kink
- Cite sources and locate ideas historically when teaching or writing about kink.
- Preserve lineage to avoid erasing queer and kink elders' contributions.