The Dildorks Shock, Horror!
Jul 9, 2024
The discussion dives deep into emotional sadomasochism, exploring how intimacy and vulnerability play crucial roles. The hosts dissect the risks for tops in accessing dark personas and the fine line between emotional self-harm and consensual play. They emphasize the importance of negotiating boundaries and discussing triggers for safe experiences. Hypnosis is presented as a fascinating tool to evoke genuine emotions, while practical techniques are shared for grounding and support during intense scenes. It's a captivating journey into the complexities of emotional dynamics.
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Emotional Play Equals Deep Intimacy
- Emotional S&M can be as intimate as physical penetration because it accesses hidden feelings.
- Sharing control over hard emotions reveals deep trust and the 'blueprints' of a partner's inner world.
Suffering Can Be Erotic And Manageable
- Erotic enjoyment of suffering links to the same brain circuits that fuel unhealthy self-harm impulses.
- You can channel those drives into safer, consensual kink that satisfies without long-term harm.
Prep Your Nervous System And Use Simple Safewords
- Learn your trauma/trigger patterns and how your nervous system reacts before doing intense emotional play.
- Tell your partner what calms you and use simple safe words like 'yellow' or 'red' to pause or stop scenes.
