
Soft Skills Engineering
It takes more than great code to be a great engineer. Soft Skills Engineering is a weekly advice podcast for software developers about the non-technical stuff that goes into being a great software developer.
Latest episodes

Sep 2, 2024 • 30min
Episode 424: Bragging without ego and how to predict layoffs
Explore the art of discussing personal achievements without sounding egotistical. The hosts share strategies like 'accusation audits' to balance confidence and humility, especially during interviews. They also delve into workplace fears surrounding layoffs, discussing how to assess job security before joining a team. Listeners learn about the disconnect between hiring and layoffs in large companies, shedding light on the need for better internal communication. Plus, tips on effective networking for interviews are provided to help navigate the job market.

Aug 26, 2024 • 42min
Episode 423: freedom from deadlines and Actual firefighting to software firefighting
The hosts dive into the balance of deadlines and creativity, discussing how structured timelines can enhance productivity yet also stifle innovation. They shed light on maintaining satisfaction while managing full-time obligations and personal projects. The conversation shifts to building trust in leadership and the importance of gathering feedback. Metaphors from firefighting are humorously employed to explore stress management in software engineering, illustrating the industry's unique challenges and dynamics.

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Aug 19, 2024 • 32min
Episode 422: Moving in to big tech and building support
Maria, a self-taught software engineer and tech lead, shares her journey of aiming for a big tech transition. She discusses the importance of both technical and soft skills in this shift, debunking misconceptions about roles in larger companies. The conversation highlights strategies for acing challenging technical interviews and the necessity of networking. Maria’s insights on preparing for the demands of big tech environments emphasize the significance of understanding system architecture and collaboration, while also touching on the importance of supporting team dynamics in remote settings.

Aug 12, 2024 • 32min
Episode 421: Hitting the level cap and getting credit for behind-the-scenes work
The hosts dive into the intriguing dynamics between managers and top engineers, revealing secrets behind their career conversations. They explore how highly skilled contributors communicate their value and navigate workplace challenges. The significance of peer reviews focused on strengths comes to light, along with discussions on enhancing recognition for teams' efforts. With humor, they address the ongoing relevance of command-line tools in engineering productivity, ensuring that the technical aspects remain engaging.

Aug 5, 2024 • 27min
Episode 420: New grad getting boring work and busy manager
A new graduate shares their struggles with feeling unfulfilled in a technical role, prompting discussions on realistic career expectations. The hosts emphasize that early jobs can still provide valuable experience. They also explore the complexities of managing large teams and the emotional investment in career growth. Insights on mentorship and building relationships for feedback highlight the importance of support in software engineering. Humor and practical advice abound, making the journey through tech careers relatable and engaging.

Jul 29, 2024 • 27min
Episode 419: Yoda or Han Solo and I swear I'm senior
Navigating career dilemmas can feel like choosing between Yoda and Han Solo. A listener grapples with conflicting job offers from old coworkers, sparking discussions on balancing friendships with career ambitions. The hosts share strategies for declining offers while maintaining relationships. They also dive into what it takes to be recognized as a senior software engineer, discussing the importance of communication and showcasing achievements in the competitive tech world. Finally, they highlight the need for aligning project goals with tangible business impacts.

Jul 22, 2024 • 30min
Episode 418: Should I "rest and vest" and how do I avoid 3-hour agile meetings?
The podcast discusses the dilemma of staying in a company for financial stability despite low morale, the concept of 'rest and vest' in software engineering careers, and tips for setting boundaries as a new lead engineer. It also explores the challenges of dealing with exhaustive agile meetings during lunch breaks and strategies for optimizing remote work meetings.

Jul 15, 2024 • 31min
Episode 417: Should I tell my boss I'm checked out and how do I deal with a PM who has no idea what he's doing?
Topics discussed include how to handle demotivation at work, dealing with an inexperienced Product Manager, challenges in Product Management, and the consequences of murder in the workplace. The hosts also mention the importance of communication, teamwork, and audience participation.

Jul 8, 2024 • 24min
Episode 416: My boss wants me to build dark patterns and getting promoted without writing code
Podcast discusses the ethical dilemma of implementing dark patterns in products to prevent cancellations. Also covers a listener's challenge of getting promoted without writing code, exploring the distinctions between principal engineers and technical managers in corporate settings.

Jul 1, 2024 • 29min
Episode 415: I got a low raise and merging teams
Topics discussed include navigating low raises and corporate salary policies, challenges of changing the pay band system in a company, managing raises in large companies, merging teams with different product owners, and optimizing team merging for engineering velocity.