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dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Pete Stanley   Pete & his wife Kaycee are the founders of The Reel Hope Project. He believes family is one of the most powerful forces on the planet. Kids need family, and Pete considers it an honor to play even a small role in helping to make that happen. Plus, he’s married to Kaycee (Reel Hope's executive director), so ignoring The Reel Hope Project would be like trying to avoid candy if you lived with Willy Wonka. Pete speaks on behalf of The Reel Hope Project each week at events and faith communities, sharing about Minnesota’s waiting kids CREATING VIDEOS OF MINNESOTA KIDS WHO ARE WAITING TO BE ADOPTED... In Minnesota, there are 1,000 kids awaiting adoption into a forever family. They work with counties and adoption agencies to mobilize the faith community to bring foster kids into forever families.   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes:   1:02 - May 14th - Early Registration deadline for F4F Minneapolis ($25 discount). Sign up at F4F.bike 1:33 -  Reel Hope Project  4:24 -  "It seems like the moments that I really get excited about in terms of being a dad come after I've had to give a hard word to my son." 6:00 - "Family is one of the most powerful forces on the planet." 06:15 -  "And so I would I would distill that further and say that you learned it around the dinner table and you can't have a dinner table without family, without community. And I think that's how you learn how to have disagreements, how you learn how to have arguments, how to learn how to take turns, to talk about your day and interact with other people. And and so I think that that is like that is sort of the the the the foundation for for all of these things that we're trying to build, like all these beautiful things that we're trying to build in the world, take root in healthy whole families.  7:29 - The importance of having a team of people around you when entering the adoptive world. 9:18 - How to handle the friction that comes into marriage when adding kids, or adoptive kids to the family. 11:23 - Speaking highly of his wife 13:17 - Why men/dads still need to grow up 13:57 -  "The father wounds that you're going to inflict on your children are already healed. Like God is, God has worked that out. And so that sort of gives me, that gave me, that gives us permission to dive in, head first to the relationship that we have with our kids." 19:13 - Recommendation: setting up therapy for your kids, benefits of therapy as a dad. 22:54 - What is the Real Hope Project? Making super high quality videos of kids in MN who are waiting to be adopted. A thousand kids have no family and need to be adopted. 25:29 - Praying about adoption while starting an adoption ministry. 28:00 - Misconceptions about adoption. (1) It can be expensive. (it actually can be virtually free.) 28:33 - "The kids don't get put into foster care because they're bad. They're in foster care because someone important in their life didn't do something that they needed to do for them." 31:00 - thereelhopeproject.org  31:52 - Finally Home - Fort Collins, Colorado 33:30 - Book recommendation: The Connected Child by Karen Pervis    Episode Links:   thereelhopeproject.org Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team   Conversation Transcript:   https://dadawesome.org/173notes/ ‎

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Adam Griffin   Adam Griffin is the Lead Pastor of Eastside Community Church in Dallas, Texas. Adam is the cohost of the Culture Matters Podcast and the coauthor of the book Family Discipleship. In 2018, Adam completed his Doctor of Educational Ministry Degree at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary where he designed a strategy for churches to address racial reconciliation in Dallas. Adam lives in Lake Highlands with his wife Chelsea and their three sons Oscar, Gus, and Theodore.   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes:    2:21 - Join the momAWESOME Challenge - Send a text with the word "MOM" to 651-370-8618 3:03 - May 14th - Early Registration deadline for F4F Minneapolis. Sign up at F4F.bike  Article: "Raising Kids the World Will Hate."  Adam Griffin:  "I'm seeing some of the fruit of the labor we've put into our kids to the point now where for us family discipleship, which is really what we're talking about, has become so normal that if I remove myself from a situation, my kids can lead themselves through it." 6:58 - Family discipleship at bedtime 7:29 - "I feel especially passionate and saying I don't want my oldest son to be the only one who's got leadership experience in this family." 7:53 -I'm trying to, like you said, build in not only them to be receivers, but then to be leaders and already I'm thinking about them as fathers. I'm thinking about them as husbands. I'm not just thinking about them as my kids with some obligation I have to mention Jesus as we put them to bed. But I'm trying to grow men." 9:22 - Choosing scriptures for his kids. "Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like a man and be strong and let everything you do be done in love.".... "Be strong, show yourself a man, keep the charge of the Lord, your God, walk in his ways and statutes." ...."He's told you, O man, what's good and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, love, kindness and walk humbly with your God." 11:50 -  "I believe is that there's a countercultural nature to the way Christians are called to parent, to lead, to live, and that's that we are not of the world, even though we're in the world, it's that we will be hated because Jesus is hated." 12:20 - I want them to stand by what they believe, regardless of what the world would say about it or how small the minority of people is who believe that." 13:05 - "Do Griffins follow the crowd? And my sons will say that to me only if the crowd is following Jesus." 14:12 - Book: Family Discipleship and the idea of being "dads who take the lead."  16:22 - "If when you think about leading your wife or you think about leading your kids, you're thinking about how can I lay down the gifts God has given me of strength or wisdom or insight or of time in order to meet the needs of those people that the Lord has me living with right now? And so leadership, to me, it has to be servant-hearted and it has to be service-oriented because that's the way we see Jesus lead and that's what he's called us to do." 17:22 - Family discipleship - Critically important, but mostly ordinary. 18:38 -  "So what they need from you, dads, is a demonstration of what it looks like to be an imperfect person who follows a perfect God. They don't need you to be their savior. They have that in Jesus Christ. But what they what you can serve is an example of like, well, here's how dad makes mistakes and repents. Here's how dad tries and fails. Here's how dad tries and succeeds." 20:45 - Modeling, Time, Moments, Milestones - the framework for discipleship 22:32 - "And it's in those significant times where it's going to be memorable that we have the opportunity to point to God's faithfulness, no matter what the circumstances, and to create something bigger." 23:55 - I really believe in the concept of family discipleship that we help you walk through. What is modeling look like in your house? When are you going to do family discipleship time? What language can you use in your household around moments? And then what's your plan for milestones? What do you want to build towards or when you want to be doing? 27:51 - Quote from Charles Spurgeon, "we sow, we reap... Let us expect our children to know the Lord. Let us from the beginning, mingle the name of Jesus with their ABCs."  - making family discipleship as important as education. 30:43 - Quote from Charles Spurgeon - "Aspire, dear brethren, to shine widely as a candle set upon a candle stick gives light to all that are in the house. First see to it that you are truly saved yourselves. Then cry out, cry to the Lord for your own kith and kin and labor for them until they are brought to the redeemers feet and then let your light shine throughout the neighborhoods where you dwell. It is. It is a poor lamp which cannot be seen outside its own glass." 34:59 - Deut 6 - Be diligent in impressing these things to our children. Deut 4 - Be diligent in the care of our souls.   Episode Links:   Adam Griffin - https://www.eastsidedallas.org/adam Book - Family Discipleship: Leading Your Home through Time, Moments, and Milestones Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team   Conversation Transcript:

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Nick Hall   Nick Hall is the visionary of Together, author of the book Reset, and the Founder and Chief Communicator for Pulse. As an evangelistic voice to this generation, Nick Hall has shared the Gospel at hundreds of events to more than five million people and is regularly featured as a speaker for pastors gatherings, student conferences, training events, and festivals around the world. Nick is also the President and CEO of The Table Coalition and sits on the board of the National Association of Evangelicals. He has been featured on major media outlets including the Huffington Post, USA Today, Fox News, US News & World Report, Washington Post, Christianity Today, Moody Radio, Christian Broadcasting Network, Trinity Broadcast Network, and The Christian Post. Nick is married to his best friend, Tiffany, and they are proud parents of Truett, Ruby, and Jude. They live in Minneapolis, MN. Nick has a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration from NDSU and a Master’s in Leadership and Christian Thought from Bethel Seminary in St. Paul, MN.   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes:   2:21 - Join the momAWESOME Challenge - Daily texts for 9 days leading up to Mother's day - Text "mom" to 651-370-8618. 3:13 - Pulse https://pulse.org/ - Exists to make Jesus known 6:47 -  On looking for young evangelists to mentor. "I've lost a lot of mentors and heroes. And then in that, at some point you kind of open your eyes. You're like, wait, I'm not just the one that's supposed to receive anymore. Like, man who who is coming after me." 10:25 -  "You know, like I have told people all around the world about how God loves you and that it's this free gift. But I have consistently tried to earn it" 10:39 - "I think it's true for a lot of us as dads, or just people trying to make it, is like...the starting blocks in track. And I think a lot of people's starting blocks are guilt and shame. And you're pushing off to prove others wrong or you're pushing off to show people that you are enough. But I think it's like learning to rest in the fact that I'm enough, because my Father says I am. I'm enough because of what Jesus did for me, I am the beloved son of God." 12:39 - Description of prayer from the book The Life of the Beloved - "Prayer is being quiet enough to hear the good things that God says about you." 16:55 - What does it look like to live on mission? Why is it important for dads to live with deep conviction? 18:23 - "The mission that I'm on is are we living our life to point people to Jesus or does our life look like everybody else's?" 19:55 -  "But I do just think that there's this exciting opportunity that we have to change our neighborhoods to change the sports teams our kids are on, you know, to claim the ground beneath our feet and to welcome our family into that mission as well."  20:22 - Pulse Resources https://pulse.org/ 22:48 - Learning from his dad 27:25 - "And I just think, like, there's always somebody who's doing what you want to be doing or somebody who you would like to look more like. Right? And so for me, I just think, one of the secrets of life is... getting around people who are a step ahead... Who are further down the road... who can help you see your blind spots." 32:00 - "I think the biggest thing that we all need individually is just like am I personally being connected to the word of God, the spirit of God, the people of God. Because if I don't have an inflow, if I don't have an inflow from truth from God, if I don't have an inflow of truth from my community, and if I don't have an inflow of somebody kind of helping me see through this, personally, I feel really lost. Right? And so those are just be three things that that I think are super crucial lifelines." 32:36 - "I think the the greatest challenge of being a parent is realizing and letting God parent you. And, you know, the best way to love your kids is to realize that you're the beloved son of God."   Episode Links:   https://pulse.org/ Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team   Conversation Transcript: https://dadawesome.org/171notes/ ‎

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Dr. Joe Sevlie   Dr. Joseph H. Sevlie, D.C., FASA, is a 1983 graduate of Northwestern College of Chiropractic and founder and director of the Center for Natural HealthCare, PLLC, in Red Wing, MN. He is a full-time practicing licensed chiropractic physician, a certified acupuncturist, and functional medicine practitioner and nutritionist. His primary goal is to see his patients dramatically improve their health, energy, vitality, and joy for living, using chiropractic services paired with functional, revitalizing natural medicine. Dr. Sevlie is married to his wife, Tami, and has seven children and fifteen grandchildren.   Tyler Sevlie   Tyler and his wife Vanessa live in Minneapolis with their 5 (soon to be 6) kids. Tyler works on a Financial Planning team by day and is a superhero dad by night. He's also famous in the coffee review, craftsmanship and tips field.  Tyler was instrumental in the launch and growth of the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike ride and he joined dadAWESOME back in November of 2018 on Episode 44 (Spiritual Slavery to Sonship).   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes:   5:41 - Facilitating a heart connect with our kids 8:18 - Sharing Biblical values in the context of making up a story 16:50 -  "Don't live in your own understanding it, if you live in your own understanding, you're going to miss it. If you live it in God's understanding, through the power of the Holy Spirit, in his presence, he will make everything clear and he'll provide and he'll do his gig" 17:50 -  Spiritual Slavery to Spiritual Sonship by Jack Frost   18:40 - "It was we tell the people about Jesus because that doing that so telling others about Jesus is statistically one of the greatest predictors of your own kids loving Jesus."  27:13 - Primal Path curriculum.  30:00 - Letters from Dad ministry  33:20 - John Eldridge Wild at Heart 33:20 - John Eldridge Fathered By God 33:20 -  Stasi Eldridge - Captivating 33:39 - "what's so crucial for a daughter is his dad needs to tell them how beautiful they are. If they understand they're beautiful in dad's eyes, they have their self-image and who they are. They can then received love from their heavenly father. They can really receive love from their dad. They need to hear that from dad daily." 35:56 - "staying connected heart wise and and making sure they know when you screw up, you know that and and you make it right between you and them, I don't think he can ever go wrong. So cheering him on, letting your daughter know she's beautiful. If you screw up saying, look, I'm really sorry, it's good, I'm going to do better, I want to do better, and with Jesus help, I'll do better. And and always bringing Jesus back into the equation with your kids because they know that he is the source from whom dad gets everything from." 36:53 - "Jesus Christ is the kindest person I've ever met. Yeah. That's so true. I've seen that in your life. just like you enjoy how kind he is. And you regularly like a reconnect, like you go back to him and spend time with him and you get refreshed with that kindness."   Episode Links:   Dr Joe Sevlie's Website Tyler's Coffee Instagram Account Spiritual Slavery to Spiritual Sonship by Jack Frost     Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Conversation Transcript: https://dadawesome.org/170notes/

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Michael Jr.   Known as a comedic thought leader, Michael Jr. brings laughter and encouragement to audiences all over the world. Using comedy and dynamic storytelling, he inspires audiences to discover and activate their purpose. This unique skill set has landed him on stages like The Tonight Show on NBC, Tedx Talks, and Jimmy Kimmel Live. His mission to make laughter commonplace in uncommon places means that he also seeks opportunities to share his gifts with those in homeless shelters and prisons. You can find him in Sony Pictures' feature film War Room, as well as starring roles in Selfie Dad, Laughing On Purpose and More Than Funny.   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes:   4:45 -  "I have five kids and I have...five extra kids. And what I mean by that is there's a there's being a dad and there's also being a dad like one, because around us there's always some kids who don't have a father figure in their life at all." 5:55 - "The greatest name I've ever been called is DAD...I just I think there's a lot of guys who are missing out on some great opportunities in life... the cool part is, is even where our dads lack, God completely picks up plus some..." 7:39 - Funny How Life Works book 9:36 - "There's going to be times where things seem rough. You don't know what to do as a dad. You're struggling. But just the fact that you're there, just the fact that you're present is awesome. But in those times when things are getting hard, the key thing to do is to be still and listen to the Father's voice because he is talking to you. And what he wants you to know is that he's right here. He loves you. All you have to do is open your eyes." 11:17 - "Correct but don't reject." 12:43 - "Telling his kids after discipline:  "I just do not like disciplining you. But it is a requirement. It's what I'm called to do. Otherwise you won't be prepared for when life tries to discipline you." 16:14- Addressing the "hecklers" in our lives - often our own negative self-talk.  "You have to address the heckler and use scripture to chase the heckler away." 17:05 - On stepping out of being amatuer as a dad. The oldest dad in the world gave you this assignment, which means you must be ready for it....He is the greatest dad ever. And he looked at you and said, you know what? You're ready. 17:43 - The impact of his dad apologizing to him. "I remember him apologizing to me and I and I don't know if he was human before that. Like that's when he was most human when he apologized... " 18:11 - Tips for having important, hard conversations with your kids. 20:12 - Quote from Funny How Life Works: "Looking back, I now realize that many of the things I resented or found annoying about my earthly father are the very things that allowed me to open the gifts my Heavenly Father had deposited in me.  23:46 - "So you're going to make some sort of mistakes. But fellas, I want you to know for sure you are absolutely dadAWESOME, because I got an awesome dad and I know I'm going to be an awesome dad because I'm a give it my all. Even if we're going the wrong way, I'm going the wrong way all the way, because I'm doing it because I love my kids and they're going to know that." 24:55 - The way comedy works is there's a set up and there's a punchline. Right? The setup is when a comedian makes you think in one direction. What a punch line is when you change that direction in a way you're not expecting. The results are revelation, fulfillment and joy expressed through laughter. In life, it's the same way. 33:49 - So by all means, look for those opportunities to speak into somebody's life. That base that you got. You got that base for a reason. Some kids need to hear that coming from five feet above them, or a foot above them. Or eye to eye contact or maybe even looking up to them. Just speak into their life.   Episode Links:   https://michaeljr.com/michaeljr Funny How Life Works Book Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team   Conversation Transcript https://dadawesome.org/169notes/

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Dr. Peter Larson   Peter J. Larson, Ph.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist, published author, and leader in assessment development. He is the former President of Life Innovations and the co-developer of several internationally used assessment tools, including PREPARE/ENRICH, MCODE, and TruMotivate. He is also an experienced couples therapist and the former Director of Research and Clinical Services for the Smalley Relationship Center. Peter has been married to Heather Larson for 25 years and has three children ages 17, 18 and 20. Peter and Heather regularly teach, write, and coach premarital couples together.   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes:   4:42 - Tips for dads taking their 11 to 13 yr old son or daughter on an intentional trip: 5:57 - "A big topic of the conversation is how do you show up, and not be conformed to just what everyone else is thinking and doing?" 6:11 - How do you prepare your younger child to WANT to go on a trip when they are 13? 10:48 - "You can't just start strong or launch them. Well, you gotta finish strong too. And because that does impact you. And that's like probably one of the few pain points, when I think about my dad - like, man, he was such a rockstar. I wish he would have finished a little stronger in terms of his, just his modeling of lifestyle." 14:33 - Peter's take on cheering on his athletic son - "There's being proud of your kid, and then there's being like letting your own identity creep into it.....So, you know, keeping your priorities in check, and making sure that's not the only focus of life.  You know, life's a whole lot more, especially than something like that." 16:12 - Prepare Enrich [https://www.prepare-enrich.com/] - marriage and premarital assessments for couples. 17:00 - Gloo [https://www.gloo.us/] - assessments and developing tools to serve churches 19:34 - On encouraging strengths in our kids: "...Starting to pay attention to what is it that they naturally do and that they love, and realizing there's some motivation there that is going to serve them throughout their life. And how do we unleash that - fan those flames. And what's fun is it's going to be different than you, you know, they're their own unique person." 19:52 - True Motivate tool [https://trumotivate.com/] 23:02 - "You can't make them do anything they don't want to do. And now on the flip side.... actually you do have influence though. And influence is wonderful because it's like a continuum. And so your question, your challenge as a dad, as a parent, is to think about how can I maximize my influence while knowing I don't have control." 24:22 - How do you influence your kids? 5 ways... 25:21 - (1) Light up when your kid walks in the room. 27:30 - "[My kids are] copying the things I do, even when they don't make sense, you know, when they're irrational." 29:57 - Why to make date nights a priority and what that models for our kids. 31:21 - (2) Setting up routines as a family 32:18 - (3) Making church a priority 33:55 - (4) The importance of outsourcing influence to other positive influences and letting go of control. 36:47 - (5) Don't get on the roller coaster of emotion with our kids 39:54 - "Great parents are often very willing to share a little bit of gold. And so don't hesitate to look for those moments where you can glean a little of that and mine some gold, because those things have informed our last 20 years of parenting and has been awesome."   Episode Links:   www.gloo.us www.prepare-enrich.com Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Full Transcript: https://dadawesome.org/168notes/ ‎

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   David Horsager   David Horsager is the CEO of Trust Edge Leadership Institute, national bestselling author of The Trust Edge and The Daily Edge, inventor of the Enterprise Trust Index™, and director of one of the nation's foremost trust studies: The Trust Outlook™. His work has been featured in prominent publications such as Fast Company, Forbes, The Huffington Post and The Wall Street Journal. David has delivered life-changing presentations on six continents, with audiences ranging everywhere from FedEx, Toyota and global governments to the New York Yankees and the Department of Homeland Security. Get free resources and more at www.DavidHorsager.com, www.TrustEdge.com, and www.TrustEdgeCoaching.com   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes: 1:53 - LINK TO DAVID's 1st time on dadAWESOME - https://dadawesome.org/138/  3:55 - Praxis Labs Resources https://www.praxislabs.org/ 4:45 - New insights as a dad 5:17 - "See the good, say the good, share the good." 9:24 - David's 2020 reflection video - "15 Things I Learned In 2020 That I Can Use Forever" - 10:01 - "Reflection allows space for God to speak to us." 12:01 - Rhythms of rest and pause 13:41 - Pacem in Terris - Hermitage retreat center 17:33 - SEEDS - Sleep, Exercise, Eat right, Drink water, Source of strength 20:24 - "People that are leading well, actually have a source of strength beyond themselves. And they're better at work. If people are getting all their life from work, they're worse at work." 21:16 - "Inputs, always lead to outputs" 22:13 - Phil 4:8 - Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, whatever is excellent or praiseworthy, think about such things.' 24:28 - The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson  26:06 - Discussing inputs as a dad that lead to great outputs 26:07 - "Quantity time builds quality time." 28:08 - Pathway to Purity  31:04 - David's new book: The Trusted Leader 33:22 - Trust Edge - David's bestselling book. 34:32 - Faith-based module about what God's saying about trust. - Email the team for this resource. Anne (at) trustedge (dot) com 34:58 - Trustedleaderbook.com/dadAWESOME 35:41 - How dads can be difference makers. 36:09 - Making a list of 5 DMA's (difference-making actions) for each day. Ask: What are the difference-making actions today to drive our mission, to do what we're supposed to be called to do today? What are the most important things? 37:52 - One thing that consistently comes to mind is consistency, which is the final pillar of the Trust Edge Framework. And...as a dad or a leader, little things done consistently make the biggest difference, not the big things you thought... Little things done consistently make the biggest difference.   Episode Links:   David's new book: The Trusted Leader www.DavidHorsager.com Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team   Full Transcript:   https://dadawesome.org/167notes/

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Rob Champion   Rob Champion is the campus pastor at People's Church in Oklahoma City, OK. He's been married for 25 years to his wife Nickie and they have a 20-yr old daughter and 18 yr-old son.   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes:   3:20 - Describing the transition from younger years to high school "coaching mode" and friendship beyond. 5:32 - Coaching out of relationship 7:42 - What he saw from his dad - what areas he admired, and what he chose to do differently in his family. 12:42 - Thoughts on brotherhood - Quote from Ecclesiastes - "One can be defeated, but two can stand back to back and conquer, and the triple braided cord is not easily broken." 15:26 - Killing Kryptonite by John Bevere 18:22 - Weakness as a dad - struggling with anger. 20:53 - How he recognized the need for a change. Recommended book: Leadership Pain 22:48 - "I've learned that in our journey, don't be afraid of the pain, the pain that you experience is God's trying to show you and grow you through your pain. So embrace it and be willing to go on the journey. God will lead you." 23:49 - "Anything you're not liking in how you're behaving is tied to a root in your life that God is trying to uproot." 24:42 - "Guard your heart for out of it flows the wellspring of life, everything comes out of it." 27:28 - Rob's Brotherhood Groups https://www.facebook.com/groups/menszoomgroup/ 30:45 - Practical mentoring tips: "Seek first to understand your kid, seek first to understand your wife, seek first to understand anyone..." 34:01 - "And just because you may not have the skills that another brother may have or, the abilities that someone else may have, understand that you, your value is not based off of what you do. It's based off of whose you are, you belong to the Father and your value is rooted in that. Stand confident in that understand you have something to offer your kids. You have something to offer your spouse. You have something to offer your church. You have something to offer this world and walk in your gifts and let other people do the things that you're not so gifted in and celebrate them in it as well."   Episode Links:   Pastor Rob's Brotherhood Zoom Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/menszoomgroup/ People's Church https://peoples.church/ Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team   Full Transcript:   https://dadawesome.org/166notes/

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Dean Stinchfield   Dean and his wife Lisa have 2 daughters and a son-in-law and they live in the west metro of the Twin Cities. He leads the ministry Men of The Kingdom and his personal mission is to glorify God by participating in the advancement of his Kingdom by equipping and encouraging the next generation of moral leaders in the church. (Matthew 6:33, 1 Corinthians 10:31, 2 Timothy 2:2, 1 Peter 5:2-4, Matthew 28:19-20, Hebrews 10:24-25)   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes:   PART 1 of this Dean Stinchfield conversation: https://dadawesome.org/164/   1:42 - Men of the Kingdom https://www.menofthekingdom.com/ 2:08 - Chuck Colson Centurion program https://www.breakpoint.org/join-the-centurions/ 2:37 - Being told by Chuck Colson, "If you don't think you're doing something for the Lord right now, you're missing it. As a Christian there's no such thing as retirement. There's just repurposement." 3:54 - "The biblical model of the church is everybody has been given a gift by the Holy spirit and that gift isn't to edify them, it's to serve the church and equip and encourage other people." 4:33 - Describing Men of the Kingdom - how he determined "the great work" he is meant to do in life. 6:29 - GUIDE FOR HELPING DADS FIND PERSONAL MISSION STATEMENT https://www.menofthekingdom.com/resources-curriculum/ 7:03 - A personal mission statement answers the questions -  What are the unique gifts that you've been given? What are the burdens on your heart? Where do we feel completely alive? 7:28 - Three eternal questions: Who's your audience? What timeframe are you living your life? What treasures are you going after? 8:52 - Reading the Beatitudes with a Dad filter (Matt 5:3-12) 16:05 - Being asked to play a dad role for his friend who passed away tragically 18:46 - Living from the personal mission statement 21:28 - Final thoughts from Dean: Have courage. Pray dangerous prayers. What kind of mission do I have for my life? Take risks. Fail often and early. Don't be a critic. Be an encourager. 23:28 - Man in the Arena - "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat." Theodore Roosevelt     Conversation Links:   https://www.menofthekingdom.com/ Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team

dadAWESOME   We’re on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We’re passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God’s awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Dean Stinchfield Dean and his wife Lisa have 2 daughters and a son-in-law and they live in the west metro of the Twin Cities. He leads the ministry Men of The Kingdom and his personal mission is to glorify God by participating in the advancement of his Kingdom by equipping and encouraging the next generation of moral leaders in the church. (Matthew 6:33, 1 Corinthians 10:31, 2 Timothy 2:2, 1 Peter 5:2-4, Matthew 28:19-20, Hebrews 10:24-25) "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat." Theodore Roosevelt   FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS   Registration is NOW OPEN for the FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS 100-mile bike rides. —MINNEAPOLIS, MN — August 28th, 2021 — DENVER, CO — September 18th, 2021 — PHILADELPHIA, PA — October 2nd, 2021 — NEW YORK, NY — October 9th, 2021 — PHOENIX, AZ — November 20th, 2021 Register Here: https://f4f.bike/   Show Notes: 3:20 - Quote from Edmund Burke, "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." 4:47 - In response to this quote from Edmund Burke - pressing into the ownership of the space God has put in front of us. "This is my space and God's given us a space to....we got to have ownership of that and step forward. And we have kingdom power, so we should be stepping forward and utilizing that kingdom power." 5:04 - "The man in the arena" -  speech by Teddy Roosevelt - every dad is a man in the arena. 5:42 - Beliefs passed down from his parents - that the future is good and we have a good Heavenly Father. Drawing out the best in him and projecting that into the future. 6:33 - "That which we focus on tends to multiply....find the best parts of your spouse or the best parts of your kid and focus on those because they'll tend to expand. Either in your vision but also in your life." 8:18 -  Sharing with his girls: "I will always love you. I will always be your dad. Jesus will always love you. We will always be friends." 10:08 - The emotional bank account - word bank account inside our kids. Affirmations are deposits and criticism is a withdrawal. 11:46 - Why repetition is important when it comes to speaking life. 12:26 - Setting up a foundation to be able to recognize when a relationship is right, this is what it feels like. 14:02 - Sharing a not-so-awesome dad moment. 15:12 - The best thing I can do for my girls is to love my wife and respect my wife and honor her, no matter what our relationship is doing, I'm called to sacrifice and love my wife, period. 15:08- Speck management vs Log work - focusing on the small flaws or failures of other people, focus on yourself. 22:10 - "CS Lewis talked about the God-like patchwork. He said, the revealed word is like, we're walking in this dense wooded forest. And every once in a while, the sunlight breaks through the canopy. And I think God's word is like that." 24:34 - On why the local church is so important. "AW Tozer talks about in The Pursuit of God , that we should have an authentic relationship based on an experience, not hearsay, with God the Father, God the son and God the Holy spirit. And the local church gives us a chance to do that." 25:33 - Why he volunteered in the kids ministry.   Conversation Links:   https://www.menofthekingdom.com/ Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team   Full Transcript:   https://dadawesome.org/164notes/