

The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle
Anna Runkle
I’m Anna Runkle, also known as the Crappy Childhood Fairy, and I teach people to recognize and heal the symptoms of Childhood PTSD. Welcome to my podcast!I’m not a doctor or therapist; I know about childhood trauma because I lived it, and I discovered a radical approach to healing that focuses first on calming neurological dysregulation, which is common in people who grew up with abuse and neglect. In my podcasts, I teach about dysregulation – how to know if you have it, what it can do to your body, your thinking and your relationships, and what to do to master re-regulation. When I learned this, everything in my life got suddenly easier. I’ll also be teaching you to heal the life problems that so often develop after years of living dysregulated – feeling tired, isolated and unfocused, finding yourself always drawn to unavailable and inappropriate partners, and falling WAY short of your professional potential, for example. The thing about me is, traditional therapies never seemed to help me. When I found techniques that did work, my whole life changed. Only in the past few years has the trauma research caught up to explain why – why the techniques I use worked, why therapy didn’t, and why my healing journey was so unnecessarily long. I’ve been teaching what I learned for more than 20 years now. It started with friends who had noticed the quick and dramatic change in me, and gradually grew by word of mouth. In 2016, I had so many people seeking instruction that I made my first online video, and then an online course, and this is how Crappy Childhood Fairy was born. My techniques and principles are practical yet powerful – an approach anyone can use, whether or not you have access to professional help. In this podcast, I’ll be talking about the master of self-regulation, and teach the tough-love life-lessons that you may not have learned at home – like how to date so that stable love finds you, how to get ahead at work, and how to calm the negative hamster-wheel thoughts that block your ability to connect with other people. Today, almost half a million people follow my work and participate in my training and coaching programs. My mission is to change the paradigm of what’s possible for people like us, and to help you free yourself from the oppression of trauma wounds, and to become your full, happy and real self. I’m glad you’re here! Watch new videos on my YouTube channel every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, and access my videos, courses and free tools at crappychildhoodfairy.com.
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Dec 23, 2024 • 19min
When Friends Push You Away, This Might Be Why
This is one of the WORST aspects of living with the effects of early trauma: You keep losing friends, but you don’t know why. If you were abused or neglected in childhood, I can almost guarantee you’ve had more than your share of ruined friendships. That’s what trauma in childhood so often does to us, long term it injures our ability to connect with other people -- for several reasons. You’ve probably been aware for a long time that connection is hard for you sometimes. And this is a terrible way to go through life, robbed of the most important things that make life happy -- love, belonging, people being there for you – a tribe.
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Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com
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Dec 20, 2024 • 22min
How to NOT Let Negative People Drag You Down
Explore how childhood abuse can lead to a lifelong sense of responsibility for others' emotions. Discover strategies for setting boundaries and preserving your peace during family gatherings. Learn about the signs of neurological dysregulation stemming from trauma, and the importance of self-awareness in healing. The conversation highlights resources like online therapy and support programs to aid in the journey towards emotional wellbeing.

Dec 18, 2024 • 34min
Why Long Distance, Unavailable People Feel Like Your True Love
Many individuals struggle with relationships shaped by childhood neglect and emotional unavailability. The discussion reveals a pattern of seeking love from partners who can’t truly connect. A heartfelt letter from a listener highlights the painful quest for real love while grappling with past traumas. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and understanding attachment styles for building healthier connections. Listeners are encouraged to seek help and explore resources for healing.

Dec 16, 2024 • 16min
What To Do When They Keep Ignoring What You Want
Setting boundaries is vital, but respecting them is another story. The discussion highlights the frustration of trying to mold others into what we want them to be. It emphasizes the importance of self-regulation and accountability when faced with emotional conflicts. Some people will naturally cooperate, while others may continuously ignore our needs. Learn effective strategies to navigate these tricky interactions and maintain your own peace amidst the chaos.

Dec 15, 2024 • 1h 56min
Why People Neglected in Childhood Don't Get Loved (4-video compilation)
Childhood neglect leaves deep emotional scars that can shape adult relationships. The discussion highlights how such trauma often leads to unhealthy attachment patterns and the allure of unavailable partners. Personal stories illustrate the pain of unreciprocated love and the importance of self-respect and boundary-setting. Listeners are encouraged to embrace healing practices like writing and meditation. The conversation stresses navigating love with self-awareness and the necessity of addressing personal issues before diving back into dating.

Dec 13, 2024 • 21min
Look For These Signs and Then Don’t Compromise
The sweetness of new love can quickly fade, revealing each partner's flaws. Recognizing red flags is crucial for a healthy relationship. A letter from a listener highlights struggles with a boyfriend and raises questions about self-worth and sacrifice. It's essential to stay mindful of signs that could signal trouble and determine if both people are truly ready for love.

Dec 11, 2024 • 16min
A Partner Needs to Know About Your Past -- But What If You're Just Dating?
Past trauma is almost always a factor among people who find themselves in the s*x industry; in recovery, many people leave this line of work and start their lives fresh. But what happens when it's time to date? In this video, I respond to a letter from a former stripper who would like to form a relationship with a good man, but worries that telling him too early -- or not at all -- could end up sabotaging their future.
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Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf
Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com
NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

5 snips
Dec 9, 2024 • 21min
Trauma Is a Portal Where Evil Gets In, Unless You Fight It
Dive into the intriguing connection between trauma and the emergence of evil. The discussion reveals how unresolved childhood issues can perpetuate harmful cycles through generations. Healing isn’t just beneficial; it’s essential to reclaim inherent goodness. The conversation emphasizes the power of personal reflection and growth in combating these dark influences. Listeners are encouraged to confront their past to break the chains that bind them and foster a healthier future.

Dec 8, 2024 • 1h 36min
Neglect in Childhood and Self-Sabotage (4-Video Compilation)
It’s common in our culture for people to sleep together almost as soon as they meet. And people act like that’s fun and easy, and only foolish people can’t handle it, or think it should be avoided, in favor of something better. So for people who grew up neglected and abused, there’s a contradiction – their attachment wound is crying for someone to love them and STAY and not leave, but the culture of casual sex tells them this is too much to expect. In this video, I share four of my most popular videos, where I respond to letters from people who were neglected in childhood. Learn the common signs that neglect is driving self-sabotaging relationship choices, and steps you can take to heal.
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Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW
Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf
Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com
NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

Dec 6, 2024 • 18min
Stop Rationalizing the Way You Get Mistreated in Relationships
Childhood experiences can warp our perception of love and mistreatment. Many adults, trapped in cognitive dissonance, struggle to acknowledge toxic relationships. A letter from a listener explores feelings stemming from a narcissistic mother and a partner's addiction. The conversation highlights the emotional conflicts faced when affection collides with disrespect. Breaking free from these cycles requires courage and support, emphasizing the importance of professional help for healing and reclaiming self-worth. It's time to confront and clarify these troubling dynamics.


