
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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May 8, 2024 • 49min
332. How to be Intentional and Not Passive with Your Life and Your Happiness
Learn how to be intentional and not passive in creating your own happiness. Explore the impact of high-intensity interval training on burnout and health. Embrace intentional living for increased fulfillment and personal growth. Discover the importance of intentional rest and setting social media limits for a more fulfilling life. Reflect on birthday traditions and practicing gratitude.

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May 5, 2024 • 39min
331. ENCORE: Discipline, Freedom, And Living Your Best Life
Discover how viewing discipline as a path to freedom can transform your life. The host discusses the surprising link between structure and personal growth, sharing their journey toward stability. Practical tips like morning routines and exercise highlight how discipline enhances self-love and mental health. Prepare to rethink what discipline means and unlock a more enjoyable life!

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May 1, 2024 • 34min
330. HEAD NOISE: The Ick List, Blind or Blindsided and Should I Stay or Should I Go?
The podcast discusses hilarious 'Ick List' preferences in relationships and addresses heartbreak in long term relationships. Topics include handling trust issues in a long-distance relationship, unexpected breakups, and navigating relationship boundaries and expectations.

Apr 28, 2024 • 46min
329. What to do when Your Ex Moves on First
So you’ve been dumped, or maybe you dumped someone. You’re scrolling through social media, or maybe a well meaning friend mentions, that your ex has moved on. Cue the SPIRAL. “How Could They?!”Already?!!!” “Did our time together mean NOTHING?” I’m giving you ten steps to keep yourself in check when your ex moves on before you including how to not let it derail you, keep your perspective, and quit the feeling that they “owe” you something. First up however, we’re diving into a SCIENCE FACT:GHB – the pharmacology of the date rape drug explained. LINKS Listen to my Brain Fact about Heroin Mechanism of Action in EP 141 ‘Do this for 30 days and see what happens for you’ https://pod.fo/e/1f82e7 . Join the DYFM Facebook Group https://bit.ly/dyfm-group . Follow @dyfmpodcast on IG Follow @alexispredez on IG Follow @listnrentertainment on IG CREDITS Host: Alexis Fernandez Executive Producer & Editor: Elise CooperDigital Producer: Zoe Panaretos DYFM Social Producer: Shania MaguaManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Apr 24, 2024 • 30min
328. HEAD NOISE: Exes Lies Part 2, Forever Single and Thriving But Upset with Men, and Daddy Issues,
The podcast delves into outrageous lies told by ex-partners, explores feelings of being forever single and longing for genuine connections, and tackles issues with a difficult father-daughter relationship. Listeners share their wild stories, seek dating empowerment advice, and learn strategies for navigating challenging relationships with self-respect and authenticity.

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Apr 21, 2024 • 1h 14min
327. Matthew Hussey on How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person and Live Happily (No Matter What)
International life and dating coach Matthew Hussey shares advice on dating, self-discovery, and healthy relationships. He emphasizes the importance of setting high standards, prioritizing authenticity over superficial charm, and having courageous conversations. Hussey also discusses his book 'Love Life' and how to find happiness by overcoming past mistakes and embracing new beginnings.

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Apr 17, 2024 • 43min
326. HEAD NOISE: The MANY Lies Exes Tell, Growing Apart, I Cheated on my Husband
Topics include shocking lies from exes, growing apart in a marriage, cheating and feeling guilty, personal growth vs. relationship needs, and reflections on moving past an affair.

Apr 14, 2024 • 54min
325. Trauma Bonding: What it is, How to Notice it, and Knowing When and How to Leave
The podcast discusses trauma bonding in relationships, detailing the stages and dynamics of toxic relationships. It covers the defense mechanisms victims use to stay in abusive situations and offers strategies for breaking free from trauma bonds. The episode also explores supporting friends in abusive relationships and the power of moving towards healthier connections beyond trauma.

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Apr 10, 2024 • 39min
324. HEAD NOISE: Sexually Inexperienced, Letting them Down Easy, Relationship Insecurities and Messed Up Parents
This podcast discusses topics like dealing with a sexually inexperienced partner, handling unrequited feelings, fears of being a second choice in a relationship, and struggling with relationship insecurities stemming from parental infidelity and a toxic family model.

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Apr 7, 2024 • 42min
323. You Don't have to Beg, Force, or Chase to get what you Deserve
This podcast delves into recognizing when to let go of things that don't align with your true self, emphasizing the importance of embracing alignment, self-worth, and internal fulfillment. It also explores the difference between fighting for a relationship and begging to stay, advocating for adapting to change and letting go of control for personal growth and fulfillment.