
Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled
In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics.Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love.Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse and JanetLansbury. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or wherever you buy your books. Featured in The New Yorker, recommended 'Best Parenting Podcast' by The Washington Post, The New York Times, USA Today, The Cut, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more.Please note: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views and advice presented on this podcast by Janet Lansbury and her guests are based on their training and experience. Opinions are offered in good faith but do not constitute professional, psychiatric, or medical advice, neither are they intended to be. You do not have to use this information, and it should not be substituted for qualified medical expertise.Copyright JLML Press (2025) All Rights Reserved
Latest episodes

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Jan 14, 2025 • 27min
Resolving Our Kids' Annoying Behaviors
Parents share their struggles with kids' annoying behaviors, from constant yelling to the physical antics of toddlers. Insights on gaining perspective reveal how empathy and emotional well-being can shift dynamics. The challenges of sibling relationships and boundary-setting are examined, especially when a new child enters the family. Humor is encouraged to alleviate disruptive behaviors and foster connection. Janet offers a fresh approach, empowering parents to regain confidence and effectively address these common issues.

Jan 7, 2025 • 24min
Crying, Screaming, Resisting, Sadness - Your Best Responses to Kids' Emotions
Explore the journey of recognizing small victories in parenting that build confidence and growth. Hear heartfelt stories on tackling children's emotional outbursts with compassion and understanding. Discover the importance of co-regulation and reframing parental roles to support emotional development. Learn how acknowledging feelings fosters deeper connections and safe spaces for open expression. Reflecting on emotional complexities can lead to rewarding moments that strengthen bonds between parents and children.

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Dec 31, 2024 • 20min
Be Careful What You Teach - It Might Interfere With What They Are Learning
Explore effective strategies for teaching the alphabet while respecting children's emotional readiness. Discover how play enhances self-directed exploration and nurtures innate interests. Learn the value of self-discovery and problem-solving in fostering independence. Understand the importance of creating a trust-filled environment for meaningful learning experiences. Embrace authenticity in parenting to build trust and promote relaxed interactions, empowering both parents and children.

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Dec 24, 2024 • 20min
Dear Parents: You Are Not Failing
A mother grapples with her twins' intense emotions, leading her to feel overwhelmed and in tears. The discussion delves into the complexities of navigating emotional outbursts while maintaining family harmony. It highlights the significance of imaginative play in child development, fostering problem-solving skills. Insights on managing stress during challenging transitions, especially with learning differences, empower parents to approach their children's behaviors with understanding and resilience. Embracing these challenges can lead to healthier family dynamics.

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Dec 17, 2024 • 35min
Embrace the Privilege of Parenthood (With Neha Ruch)
Neha Ruch, a passionate writer and speaker on parenting, women, work, and identity, is the founder of Mother Untitled, a community for parents exploring career breaks. In this discussion, she redefines parenthood as a meaningful pause, encouraging parents to embrace personal growth. Neha shares the significance of maintaining identity while navigating parenting challenges and highlights the importance of support networks. Her insights emphasize that nurturing oneself can enhance family dynamics, ultimately leading to a more fulfilled parenting experience.

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Dec 10, 2024 • 30min
5 Daily Discipline Reminders
Parenting can be tough, especially when kids are tired or emotional. Setting positive boundaries is key, as confidence and self-trust help create a nurturing environment. Embracing children’s feelings fosters resilience and emotional strength. Balancing empathy with authority is essential during challenging moments like meltdowns. Also, quality time is crucial for kids to express their frustrations, reminding parents to practice self-compassion while navigating discipline with love. Tune in for valuable insights and reminders that help cultivate respectful parenting.

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Dec 3, 2024 • 41min
How to Calm Ourselves (With Mr. Chazz)
Join Mr. Chazz, a passionate educator and expert in conscious discipline, as he shares invaluable insights on self-calming techniques crucial for parents. He emphasizes the importance of mastering emotional regulation to improve family dynamics. Discover how accepting emotions, rather than resisting them, can pave the way for healthier interactions with children. Mr. Chazz also discusses empathy's role in understanding children's behaviors, fostering an environment that promotes healing and emotional safety. Perfect for navigating the holiday season!

Nov 26, 2024 • 21min
When Our Kids Seem Troubled by Our Emotions and Moods
A parent expresses concern that their toddler feels responsible for family emotions, asking repeatedly if mom is happy. The discussion explores how children can be sensitive to parental moods while finding the right balance between teaching empathy and preventing emotional burdens. Tips focus on open communication and guiding kids through complex feelings. Lastly, the importance of recognizing children's emotional needs during tough times is emphasized, highlighting a resource aimed at fostering healthy family relationships.

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Nov 19, 2024 • 27min
Erratic, Unreasonable Behavior
A mother grapples with her spirited three-year-old's recent erratic behavior, including anger and impulsivity. Compassionate parenting is emphasized as a key approach to address these challenges. The discussion highlights the emotional struggles children face, particularly during activities like music class. Tips for creating a nurturing environment and understanding the roots of impulsive behavior are shared, fostering empathy and emotional growth in kids.

Nov 12, 2024 • 39min
Less Stress, More Joy This Holiday Season (With Ashlee Eiland)
Join Ashlee Eiland, an inspiring pastor, community leader, and author, as she shares her wisdom on navigating the often overwhelming holiday season. Discover practical tips for prioritizing joy over stress and the importance of open communication within families. Ashlee discusses mindful gift-giving and creating meaningful traditions while setting healthy boundaries amidst familial pressures. She emphasizes valuing authentic communication and the necessity of scheduled downtime, ensuring the holidays are not just busy, but truly enjoyable.