Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

The podcast dives into the troubling trend of children engaging in harsh self-talk, questioning their self-worth with statements like 'I'm bad' or 'I hate myself.' It explores the roots of these feelings, whether stemming from perfectionism or low self-esteem. Practical strategies are offered to help parents foster a positive self-image in their kids, including the importance of creating a supportive environment for emotional expression. The discussion emphasizes empathetic responses and the necessity of giving children the emotional space to discover their self-acceptance.

Parents share their concerns about anxious and sensitive children, questioning whether their temperament is normal. The discussion reveals the strengths of these traits, emphasizing trust and acceptance. One parent describes her son’s retreating nature during social situations, highlighting the need for support and space. The conversation delves into allowing children to explore their interests at their own pace while navigating emotional challenges and setting appropriate boundaries. Practical strategies and encouragement serve as a guide for nurturing sensitive kids.

Discipline can be baffling, especially when our best efforts clash with our children's behaviors. This discussion highlights why traditional methods often backfire, emphasizing emotional factors that play a significant role. It explores how to navigate children's emotions while establishing healthy boundaries. Listeners will discover practical adjustments to simplify discipline and foster deeper connections. The conversation is a thoughtful blend of empathy, strategy, and the complexities of modern parenting.

A single mother grapples with her strong-willed toddler's tantrums and seeks effective strategies for calmer mornings. The conversation highlights the emotional toll of meltdowns and the importance of self-acceptance for parents. With insights into navigating public outbursts, the discussion emphasizes the need for understanding and connection between parent and child. The speakers share personal experiences and advice on fostering emotional security while encouraging independence, ultimately advocating for a relaxed parenting style.

Sibling rivalry gets a fresh perspective as a parent grapples with her son's obsessive jealousy towards his younger sister. The discussion dives into emotional acceptance and the importance of acknowledging feelings to improve sibling dynamics. Strategies empower parents to foster open communication, allowing children to express their emotions safely. By navigating these complex feelings, families can cultivate healthier relationships and reduce conflict, making way for love amidst the chaos.

Loryn Brantz is an Emmy-winning author, illustrator, and mom of two, who once built puppets for Sesame Street. Loryn joined Janet on a previous episode of "Unruffled" to talk about parenting a child with disabilities, sharing the joys and challenges of her journey with honesty and her signature warmth and wit. Her new book "Poems of Parenting" is a funny, touching, and totally relatable collection about her ups and downs raising kids, the awkward and sometimes difficult moments she's come to cherish, and ultimately how she's come to embrace her role as a parent. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse.com.Please support our sponsors.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join Dr. William Stixrud, a clinical neuropsychologist and co-author of 'The Self-Driven Child', as he shares insights from his extensive experience in child development. He emphasizes the importance of giving children autonomy to foster self-confidence and intrinsic motivation. The conversation highlights how parents can be a 'non-anxious presence' to help kids navigate their emotions and build resilience. Stixrud discusses balancing support and independence, letting children pursue their passions, and the transformative power of trusting their decisions.

Discover effective strategies for respectful discipline that transforms parenting challenges into successes. Personal anecdotes highlight triumphs over disobedience, tantrums, and bedtime struggles. Learn how setting boundaries nurtures self-care and fosters family respect. Emphasizing emotional acknowledgement during outbursts can lead to stronger connections. Parents share their journeys of reframing discipline as guidance, enhancing their relationships and emotional resilience. Experience the uplifting shift from frustration to confidence in parenting!

The podcast dives into the common challenge of childhood screaming, especially when it becomes a default reaction. A parent shares her struggle with her daughter’s excessive screaming, which is tied to her own upbringing. Emotional responses from both child and parent are explored, providing insights on staying calm. Practical strategies are offered to help manage these behaviors effectively, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying triggers. It's a relatable journey into navigating the ups and downs of parenting.

Dr. Tina Payne Bryson, an expert in child development and co-author of bestsellers like The Whole Brain Child, delves into the transformative power of play in parenting. She emphasizes how engaging in child-led play fosters emotional regulation, self-confidence, and social skills. During their discussion, they share practical strategies for guiding children's play without taking control and address how play can help manage aggressive behaviors in young kids. Listeners gain insights on integrating meaningful play into daily routines to strengthen bonds and emotional understanding.