Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled 3 Secrets to Raising Grateful Kids
Dec 9, 2025
Raising kind and grateful kids can be a challenge, especially when they seem perpetually dissatisfied. A mom expresses her frustration about her young sons' lack of appreciation for gifts and outings. The host explores how children's heightened sensitivities may mask gratitude. Suggestions include slowing down to help kids settle, observing their play instead of directing it, and allowing them to process their feelings after excitement. Authentic empathy is key to nurturing appreciation and helping kids focus on the positives.
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Kids Get Overstimulated, Not Ungrateful
- Young children are far more sensitive to stimulation than adults and can find exciting events stressful.
- Janet Lansbury explains this sensitivity causes overwhelm that looks like ingratitude but isn't moral failing.
Downshift Pace And Balance Activities
- Slow down and balance activities so kids can process exciting experiences without becoming overloaded.
- Do fewer stimulating outings on the same day and include calm, nature-paced time to help them settle.
Let Children Lead And Observe Their Play
- Let children lead play and gauge their own stimulation instead of always presenting the next thing.
- Avoid pushing novelty; observe and narrate their interests to validate small discoveries.
