

Eat Your Crust
Crystal Jiao, Jeesoo Kim
Two Asian-American girls navigating our way through life-in-our-twenties in the Bay Area, with a little help from our friends. Tune in during your lousy commute to laugh and chat with your hosts Crystal and Jeesoo as we ramble about tech, culture, family, and more through an Asian-American lens. If you can relate, feel free to visit us at eatyourcrust.com or reach out to us @eatyourcrustpod on insta or email us at eatyourcrustpod@gmail.com!
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Sep 24, 2025 • 39min
Conflict With Your SO
This discussion delves into the nature of conflict in relationships and how past influences shape our approaches. The hosts explore the difference between true conflicts and everyday disagreements, sharing tips on starting tough conversations. They highlight the surprising benefits of conflict, like building trust and deepening understanding. The episode also debates whether parents should argue in front of kids and the risks of airing relationship drama on social media. Finally, they define what true resolution looks like in a conflict.

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Sep 10, 2025 • 53min
Setting the Vibes and Bringing Your A-Game
Harpreet, a friend of the hosts and a master of social dynamics, shares his expertise on bringing your social A-game to gatherings. He discusses how to set the right vibes at events, emphasizing the importance of good company, music, and personal anecdotes. The conversation dives into the art of hosting, managing social interaction anxieties, and the comfort of familiar faces. Harpreet also offers strategies for navigating awkward moments and encourages listeners to enhance their experiences through compliments and games.

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Aug 27, 2025 • 44min
How We Decatastrophize
Explore the art of decatastrophizing as hosts share their personal battles with anxiety and overwhelm. They discuss practical coping mechanisms to navigate negative thought loops and the weight of procrastination. The paradox of seeking pleasant distractions versus their long-term impacts is examined, alongside the psychological barriers to self-care. Discover how personal growth transforms anxiety into humor and resilience, all while highlighting the importance of balance and supportive relationships in managing life's challenges.

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Aug 13, 2025 • 49min
The Portrayal of Asian Women in Media (ft. Kaila Yu, Fetishized)
Kaila Yu, author of the memoir "Fetishized" and former lead singer of Nylon Pink, dives deep into the hypersexualization of Asian women in media. She critiques works like "Memoirs of a Geisha" for perpetuating harmful stereotypes. The conversation highlights the objectification faced by Asian women and discusses the need for nuanced representation. Kaila also shares insights on the journey to self-love and the differences in cultural perceptions of identity. Tune in for a compelling look at empowerment and self-acceptance amidst societal pressures.

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Jul 30, 2025 • 54min
Sticky Friendship Situations
The hosts dive into the messy waters of friendship dilemmas. What should you do if a friend reveals they're cheating? They explore the intricacies of a sibling dating a close friend and how it can complicate dynamics. Jealousy and territoriality in youth friendships come up, along with the evolution of those relationships over time. They also tackle the challenge of rekindling ties with friends after past conflicts and navigate the playful complexities of couple friendships, sharing relatable anecdotes and insights.

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Jul 16, 2025 • 52min
Eating at Home
Join a delightful conversation that dives into the nostalgia of childhood meals and the cooking traditions that shaped them. Explore how family dynamics influenced snack choices and dining habits, with entertaining stories about sibling rivalries and treat strategies. The speakers reflect on dining out experiences and their impact on current health decisions, while also navigating cultural culinary heritage. Tune in for a fun journey through flavors and the deeper connections food creates within families.

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Jul 2, 2025 • 46min
Meeting Culture at Work
The discussion dives into the quirks of workplace meetings, from the chaotic blend of humor to serious updates. Personal anecdotes reveal the emotional toll of endless meetings and the struggle to balance casual chit-chat with structured agendas. Virtual meeting dynamics are explored, highlighting the challenges of engagement and the all-too-frequent camera-off syndrome. Reflecting on roles within meetings, they touch on how each person's style impacts team interactions and overall morale. A lighthearted yet insightful look at the meeting culture we all navigate.

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Jun 18, 2025 • 44min
Periods & Hormonal Health
Dive into fascinating discussions about hormonal health and menstrual cycles. Hear personal journeys of returning to menstruation after years and the emotional shifts that come with it. Discover tips for navigating hormonal fluctuations and the impact of an IUD removal on well-being. The conversation also touches on menstrual myths, home remedies, and the humorous side of periods. With reflections on societal perceptions, this engaging talk encourages listeners to connect with their own experiences and reclaim their menstrual stories.

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Jun 4, 2025 • 39min
Balancing Independence in Relationships
This discussion dives into the fine art of balancing personal independence with romantic relationships. The hosts share personal stories about finding the right amount of solo time versus quality time with partners. They humorously navigate the challenges of maintaining individuality, especially in the context of the pandemic. Listeners will appreciate the insights on communication, boundaries, and the importance of nurturing both personal growth and relationship health. Strategies for sustaining identity while fostering connection are highlighted, making it a relatable and thought-provoking conversation.

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May 21, 2025 • 38min
Our Dreams and Ambitions
The hosts explore how dreams and ambitions evolve through different life stages. They discuss the societal pressures surrounding success and the struggle for personal fulfillment. Balancing family and career aspirations, especially for women, takes center stage. The importance of setting achievable goals to combat burnout and emotional challenges is highlighted. They reflect on processing career trauma and nurturing smaller dreams, emphasizing that personal growth stems from understanding oneself amid life's transitions.