Eat Your Crust Conflict With Your SO
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Sep 24, 2025 This discussion delves into the nature of conflict in relationships and how past influences shape our approaches. The hosts explore the difference between true conflicts and everyday disagreements, sharing tips on starting tough conversations. They highlight the surprising benefits of conflict, like building trust and deepening understanding. The episode also debates whether parents should argue in front of kids and the risks of airing relationship drama on social media. Finally, they define what true resolution looks like in a conflict.
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Conflict Peaks During Transitions
- Conflict often peaks during relationship transitions and early stages when partners learn each other's differences.
- Many disagreements are normal and can decrease once an equilibrium forms as partners adjust.
Define What Counts As Conflict
- Not every annoyance counts as conflict; true conflict usually requires discussion and resolution.
- Jesus distinguishes between light observations and issues that need a sit-down to fully resolve.
Bring Issues Up Early And Calmly
- Bring up issues early instead of stewing since holding them increases frustration.
- Use calm openers and avoid ominous phrases that set a negative tone for the talk.