The Sex Doctors

Dr. Marianne Brandon and Dr. Abe Morgentaler
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May 12, 2025 • 10min

Why Great Sex Gets Boring, And How to Fix It (Advice From a Sex Therapist)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how keeping sex exciting isn't just about trying new things—it's about learning the emotional skill of lovemaking and the raw intensity of fucking, and why mastering both can truly transform your relationship. 00:54 – Dual Skills: Love Making and Fucking Dr. Brandon introduces the idea that keeping sex exciting means developing both emotional and physical intimacy as distinct but essential skills. 01:21 – Mastering Love Making She explains how true lovemaking comes from the heart—using emotion, eye contact, and vulnerability to deepen connection. 03:01 – Mastering Fucking She dives into the raw, body-driven side of sex, where showing desire openly becomes its own powerful form of intimacy. 04:18 – Balancing Both for Excitement Dr. Brandon emphasizes that long-term sexual fulfillment comes from practicing and switching between both styles. 07:41 – Practical Tips and Conclusion She offers practical ways to get started, encouraging couples to build comfort slowly, stay emotionally present, and keep things playful. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #CouplesIntimacy #SexualSatisfaction #BalancingLoveAndDesire
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May 8, 2025 • 14min

How Porn Affects Your Kids, And How Parents Can Help (Sex Therapist Explains)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down why it's time for parents to have honest, compassionate conversations with their kids about porn—because chances are, they've already seen it. 00:31 – Shocking Statistics on Kids and Porn She shares eye-opening stats on just how young—and how often—kids are being exposed to porn, often in places parents least expect. 02:29 – The Impact of Porn on Adolescent Brains Dr. Brandon explains how adolescent brains are rewired by what they see—and why porn can have a deeper impact than you think. 04:45 – Intentional vs. Accidental Exposure She breaks down how much of this exposure is accidental—and why that matters even more than you might assume. 06:38 – Aggressive Content and Its Effects Half the content kids see includes violence or pain, shaping harmful beliefs about what sex "should" look like. 09:03 – Parental Guidance and Taking Action Dr. Brandon urges parents to stop avoiding the topic and gives a first step for starting the porn talk with compassion, not shame. Resources: Robb, M. B., & Mann, S. (2022). Teens and pornography. Common Sense Media. https://www.commonsensemedia.org/research/teens-and-pornography​ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ParentingAdvice #PornEducation #HealthySexuality
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May 5, 2025 • 18min

The FDA Was WRONG About Testosterone?! Major Label Update Explained

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the FDA finally reversing its stance on testosterone risks, what that means for heart health, and why it's a big win for science—and for patients. 00:07 – FDA's New Stance on Testosterone In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon unpack the FDA's surprising move to ease its warning on testosterone—and why it's such a big deal. 00:46 – Understanding the Black Box Warning They explain what a black box warning really means and how it ended up on testosterone products in the first place. 03:22 – Testosterone and Cardiovascular Health The doctors dive into new research showing testosterone may not just be safe—it could actually help protect the heart. 09:15 – FDA's Role and Influence They explore how the FDA shapes medical decisions, where it gets things right, and where it might be holding us back. 15:53 – Testosterone Treatments for Women Finally, they touch on the frustrating lack of approved testosterone options for women—and why it's time that changed. Resources: Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., Li, X., Yi, T., Huang, B., Pencina, K. M., Travison, T. G., & Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025​ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #FDAUpdates #HeartHealth
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May 1, 2025 • 18min

Do Age Gaps Relationships In Relationships Work? (Doctors Explain)

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how age differences in heterosexual relationships—especially when the man is older—can support emotional balance, sexual compatibility, and long-term connection. 00:10 Discussing Age Differences in Relationships Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon dive into why age gaps—especially older man, younger woman—are a hot and often misunderstood topic. 00:48 Personal Experiences with Age Differences Dr. Morgentaler shares how his own happy marriage with a younger partner adds personal insight to the conversation. 02:08 Evolutionary Psychology and Sexual Relevance They explain how biology and societal norms make men stay "sexually relevant" longer, shaping relationship dynamics. 08:53 Leadership Dynamics in Age-Different Relationships Age gaps often create natural leadership roles that help reduce tension and bring clarity to long-term partnerships. 16:55 Conclusion and Subscription Call The doctors wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to subscribe for more real, relatable talk on relationships and sex. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AgeGapRelationships #RelationshipDynamics #LongTermCompatibility
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Apr 28, 2025 • 13min

The Truth About Sex Drive in Long-Term Relationships (From a Sex Therapist)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses why men tend to have a higher sex drive than women in long-term relationships—and how biology, emotional patterns, and relationship dynamics all play a role. 00:41 Research and Misconceptions Dr. Brandon breaks down how common beliefs about equal sex drives aren't backed by actual research. 01:56 Impact of Relationship Duration She explains how women's sex drive often drops in long-term relationships, even if it was high early on. 04:36 Dual Control Model of Sexual Desire The model shows how desire depends on a balance between what turns someone on and what shuts them down. 05:49 Inhibitory and Excitatory Factors Women tend to have more things that reduce desire and fewer that boost it—especially over time. 11:37 Understanding and Improving Intimacy Dr. Brandon emphasizes that couples aren't stuck—understanding these dynamics can help rebuild connection. Resources: Bancroft, J., & Janssen, E. (2000). The dual control model of male sexual response: A theoretical approach to centrally mediated erectile dysfunction. Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 24(5), 571–579. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0149-7634(00)00024-5 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexDriveDifferences #LongTermRelationships #SexualDesireUnderstanding
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Apr 24, 2025 • 7min

Why Men Are Choosing Porn Over People (This is Destroying Men's Sexual Confidence)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the hidden sexism in how we view male sexual dysfunction—and why showing more compassion and understanding could be the key to healthier intimacy and human connection. 00:25 – Understanding Erectile Dysfunction Dr. Brandon explains why we shame men for something biological, while ignoring how crucial arousal is to their ability to even participate in sex. 02:31 – Premature Ejaculation: A Double Standard She calls out the unfairness—when women orgasm quickly, it's praised; when men do, they're blamed. 03:40 – Delayed Ejaculation: Misconceptions and Bias Dr. Brandon highlights how men struggling to orgasm are judged harshly, while women in the same situation are offered empathy and space. 04:56 – The Impact of Sexism on Men's Mental Health She shows how these double standards fuel shame, anxiety, and avoidance in men, often pushing them further into isolation. 05:44 – The Role of Sex Tech in Modern Relationships With tech offering pleasure without judgment, Dr. Brandon warns that if we don't change the conversation, human connection might lose the race. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MaleSexualDysfunction #SexismInSexuality #SexTech
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Apr 21, 2025 • 8min

The 7 Hidden Reasons Behind Sex Addiction (They're Not What You Think)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the controversy and complexity behind compulsive sexual behavior disorder—why it's hard to define, what fuels it, and why personalized treatment is key to real healing. 00:13 – Controversy and Definitions Dr. Brandon unpacks why even experts can't agree on what to call compulsive sexual behavior—and why that really matters for those seeking help. 00:56 – Defining Compulsive Behavior She tackles the tricky question: how much is too much when it comes to sex, porn, or masturbation? 01:46 – Pornography and Masturbation Statistics Dr. Brandon shares surprising stats that reveal just how common these behaviors are—and why that complicates the conversation. 02:55 – Underlying Causes of Compulsive Behavior She breaks down the real drivers behind compulsive sexual behavior—from depression and ADHD to personality traits and emotional avoidance. 05:46 – Treatment Approaches and Challenges Dr. Brandon explains why treatment isn't one-size-fits-all—healing often means digging deep, finding the root causes, and combining therapy with medication. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #CompulsiveSexualBehavior #SexualHealthAwareness #MentalHealthTreatment
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Apr 17, 2025 • 6min

Make Him CRAVE You Sexually (He Won't Resist)

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women can create sexual tension by showing up with openness and confidence—because great sex needs that balance of strength and vulnerability. 00:03 – The Strength in Vulnerability Dr. Brandon explains that true vulnerability isn't weakness—it's a powerful way to connect and feel more in tune with your body. 00:07 – Cultivating Openness: Practical Tips She encourages women to explore what openness feels like and find safe, simple ways to reconnect with that part of themselves. 00:13 – Exploring Hip Opener Poses Using yoga hip-opener poses is one tool she recommends to physically and emotionally practice being open and relaxed. 00:42 – Practicing Vulnerability Alone Dr. Brandon suggests practicing this kind of openness alone first, so it feels more natural and enjoyable with a partner. 00:52 – Conclusion: Manifesting Sensual Openness She closes by saying the goal is to bring that sensual, open energy into your daily life—not just in bed—to build real intimacy. #SexualTension #RelationshipAdvice #WomenEmpowerment
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Apr 14, 2025 • 6min

How to Feel Turned On Again (Even After YEARS Together)

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women in long-term relationships can reignite desire by getting in tune with their bodies and putting in small, daily effort—because waiting for it to magically come back usually doesn't work. 00:42 – Common Concerns and Initial Solutions Dr. Brandon explains that many women love their partner but feel a lack of desire, and suggests checking hormones or trying medication as a first step. 01:24 – Understanding Human Nature and Desire She shares that losing desire over time is normal—our biology isn't wired for lifelong passion with one partner. 02:37 – Practical Tips to Rekindle Desire To spark desire, she recommends exploring what turns you on and giving your body daily reminders of sex in a fun, low-pressure way. 03:46 – Effort and Mindfulness in Sexual Desire Dr. Brandon emphasizes that reigniting desire takes time and effort—mindfulness can help you stay connected during sex. 05:27 – Conclusion and Encouragement She encourages women to let go of guilt, embrace the process, and see desire as something worth investing in for themselves and their relationships. #SexualDesire #LongTermRelationships #RekindlingPassion
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Apr 7, 2025 • 7min

5 Ways to Make ANY Woman Want You (Most Guys Get This Wrong)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down how men can become more compelling to women—not through money or looks, but by mastering presence, eye contact, body posture, and speaking with grounded intention to build deep emotional and sexual connection. 00:31 – The Power of Presence and Attention: Dr. Brandon explains how just being fully present and focused can make a man way more attractive to women. 01:08 – Mastering Eye Contact and Body Language: Learn how to stand strong, stay grounded, and use eye contact that makes her feel truly seen. 02:40 – Deep Communication: Speaking from Within: Instead of talking from your head, Dr. Brandon shows how to speak with energy from deep in your body—she'll feel the difference. 03:22 – Practicing and Refining Your Skills: This stuff takes practice, but you can try it anywhere—even just standing in front of a mirror. 04:41 – The Importance of Human Connection: As AI grows, Dr. Brandon reminds us why real human connection and intimacy matter now more than ever. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAdvice #AttractingWomen #ImprovingIntimacy

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