The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses three powerful books that help you grow emotionally, deepen connection, and ultimately become a better lover—because great sex starts with self-awareness. 00:07 The Importance of Emotional Self-Awareness Dr. Brandon explains how understanding your own emotions helps you connect more deeply with your partner. 01:18 Book 1: On Self-Hatred by The School of Life A short, powerful read that explores self-criticism, people-pleasing, and how it impacts intimacy. 03:00 Book 2: Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life by James Hollis A thoughtful guide full of wisdom and journaling prompts to help navigate personal growth at any age. 04:06 Book 3: A Billion Wicked Thoughts A fascinating look at sexual desires and fantasies, showing just how diverse and normal they really are. 06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Dr. Brandon encourages listeners to read, reflect, and share these books as tools for better relationships and self-understanding. Resources On Self-Hatred – The School of Life Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life – James Hollis A Billion Wicked Thoughts – Ogi Ogas & Sai Gaddam With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfUnderstanding #PersonalGrowth

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler break down the myth that testosterone therapy causes blood clots and explain why the science says it doesn't. 00:05 Media Interaction on Testosterone Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about reviewing a media graphic on testosterone benefits and risks. 00:47 Understanding Erythrocytosis and Clots They explain how high red blood cell counts don't always mean higher risk for clots. 02:10 Testosterone Therapy and Red Blood Cell Count Testosterone can raise red blood cells—but that doesn't mean it causes harm. 03:26 Debating the Risks of Testosterone They share how major studies show testosterone does not raise clot or heart risks. 16:51 Conclusion and Takeaways The big takeaway: testosterone therapy does not cause blood clots. Resources: Mayo Clinic Proceedings Article: Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., ... Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 TRAVERSE Study (NEJM): Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., ... Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #BloodClotMyths #HealthMisunderstandings

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how self-reflection, emotional honesty, and open conversations about sex and respect can help partners improve their relationships and deepen intimacy. 00:10 Self-Reflection in Relationships Dr. Brandon talks about the importance of asking yourself what kind of partner you really are. 04:08 Challenges and Solutions in Partner Dynamics They explain how trying too hard to please your partner can lead to loss of respect and problems in the relationship. 18:33 Addressing Relationship Dynamics The discussion shows how small issues grow when partners don't speak up about feeling ignored or undervalued. 20:02 Sexual Intimacy in Relationships They break down how to bring up sexual wants in a respectful way that opens the door for better connection. 24:10 Effective Communication in Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler stress that real progress comes from ongoing, honest, and kind conversations. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAdvice #SexualHealth #EmotionalIntimacy

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about open relationships—what they really look like, why some couples explore them, and how strong communication and clear rules can make or break the experience. 00:16 Understanding Open Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what open relationships really are—and how they mean different things to different couples. 00:39 Common Misconceptions and Realities They clear up the idea that open relationships are just about sleeping around, and share what they actually look like for most people. 02:21 Challenges and Dynamics in Open Relationships The doctors talk about how things like gender, expectations, and life experience can shape how people feel about opening up their relationship. 05:37 Exploring Rules and Boundaries They explain how couples often start with small steps, and why it's important for both people—especially the more hesitant one—to feel safe and set clear rules. 19:46 Final Thoughts and Takeaways The episode ends with the reminder that open relationships aren't for everyone, but honest conversations—even playful ones—can bring couples closer. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #OpenRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #GenderDynamics

This episode breaks down why monogamy can be tough for some folks and reminds us how important it is to keep talking with your partner along the way. 00:40 Genetic Factors in Monogamy Some research suggests our comfort with monogamy might be partly wired into our genes, like it is with certain animals. 01:33 Personality Traits and Monogamy Traits like being extroverted, super agreeable, or thrill-seeking can make sticking to one partner more challenging for some people. 02:42 Environmental Influences on Monogamy Being surrounded by attractive people—like in certain jobs—can make staying monogamous take more effort. 03:29 Living Life to the Fullest: A Challenge to Monogamy Some people struggle with monogamy simply because they want to explore life and all its experiences while they can. 04:15 Communication and Problem Solving in Monogamy Having honest, regular conversations with your partner is key to keeping monogamy strong and avoiding future problems. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MonogamyChallenges #RelationshipCommunication #GeneticsAndPersonalityTraits

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler get real about what makes someone a great lover—and it's not about perfection, it's about being present, giving, and actually feeling connected in your body and with your partner. 00:19 The Concept of a Great Lover Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick things off by asking, "Would you want to make love to yourself?"—and unpack what it really means to be a great lover. 04:13 Challenges and Misunderstandings in Sexual Relationships They dive into common issues couples face in bed, from mixed signals to unmet needs, and how much of it comes down to miscommunication. 12:36 Understanding the Male Perspective Dr. Morgentaler opens up about how many men want to be great lovers but feel lost when nothing they try seems to work. 15:49 The Importance of Embodiment The doctors talk about how being "in your body" (not just your head) is key to great sex—and how tech and stress are pulling people away from that. 21:21 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy They share real, doable ways for both men and women to reconnect with their bodies and each other—including touch, movement, and slowing down. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualCommunication #EmbodiedIntimacy #RelationshipAdvice

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon talks about how technology is moving fast—but reminds us that real love, connection, and kindness are things only humans can truly offer, and it's time we focus on doing more of that every day. 00:45 The Role of Technology in Relationships Dr. Brandon explores how technology now mimics love and intimacy, competing with real emotional and sexual connection. 01:33 Human Connection vs. Technological Interaction She warns that if we're not mindful, we may let machines replace the depth and beauty of human relationships. 01:59 Embracing Authentic Human Love Dr. Brandon reminds us that unlike tech, we have the power to love deeply and meaningfully—emotionally and physically. 02:56 Acts of Love in Everyday Life Simple gestures—like listening, smiling, or being present—can be powerful acts of love that strengthen real human bonds. 03:34 Preparing the Next Generation She stresses the importance of talking to kids about sex, porn, and tech so they grow up informed and grounded. 05:18 Conclusion: Cultivating Human Acts of Love Dr. Brandon closes by urging us all to take responsibility for keeping love human—through kindness, presence, and daily connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TechnologyImpact #HumanConnection #RealLove

In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down the real reasons behind porn-related erectile dysfunction, explaining why the problem often starts with anxiety—not porn. 00:00 – Does Porn Cause Erectile Dysfunction? Dr. Brandon opens with a common question from clients—does porn actually cause ED?—and sets out to clear the air. 00:27 – Understanding Erectile Dysfunction and Research Quality She explains why not all studies are created equal, and how bad research online can lead to big misunderstandings. 01:33 – The Chicken and Egg Dilemma Often, ED came first—guys already dealing with anxiety or shame may just blame porn because it's easier to point the finger. 02:20 – Emotional and Psychological Factors From body image to relationship stress, Dr. Brandon breaks down how emotional baggage can quietly mess with arousal. 04:16 – Impact of Masturbation Habits Getting used to porn and solo routines can throw you off when it comes to real-life intimacy with a partner. 05:51 – Conclusion and Advice If something feels off, don't jump to conclusions—understanding the real cause is the first step toward fixing it. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ErectileDysfunction #PornAndSexualHealth #UnderstandingArousalIssues

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about why fewer people are getting into relationships, touching on politics, independence, and the rise of AI as a substitute for real connection. 01:34 – The Impact of Political Differences on Relationships Dating today feels harder because politics are turning potential partners into enemies before we even get to know them. 09:52 – AI and the Future of Relationships With AI chatbots offering comfort on demand, more people are turning to screens instead of real human connection—and it's changing everything. 13:17 – The Importance of Human Connection Even though relationships take work, nothing replaces the emotional, physical, and soul-level support that comes from being truly seen by another person. 14:51 – Combating Loneliness and Depression The more we isolate, the more we spiral—loneliness feeds depression, and the only real way out is reaching out to someone who cares. 20:48 – Balancing Masculinity and Femininity in Relationships For relationships to feel alive and exciting, we need to embrace our differences—strength, softness, backbone, and tenderness all have a place. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAvoidance #DigitalLoneliness #RealIntimacy

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon unpack the myth that eunuchs never get prostate cancer and reveal how powerful stories—not science—shaped decades of medical belief about testosterone. 00:07 – The Story of Testosterone and Prostate Cancer In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how the belief that testosterone causes prostate cancer became so widely accepted—even without real evidence. 01:52 – Understanding Eunuchs and Historical Context They explain who eunuchs were and how their story got tied to prostate cancer in a way that stuck for decades. 05:43 – The Castrati and Misconceptions Dr. Morgentaler shares how the story of the castrati singers was used to support a medical myth, even though there was no real data behind it. 06:56 – Modern Research and Findings They walk through what today's research actually shows, including cases where people with little or no testosterone still developed prostate cancer. 14:19 – Conclusions and Reflections They wrap up by reminding us how powerful stories can shape beliefs—even in medicine—and why it's so important to keep questioning what we think we know. Resources: Morgentaler, A., & Caliber, M. (2019). Safety of testosterone therapy in men with prostate cancer. Expert Opinion on Drug Safety, 18(11), 1065–1076. https://doi.org/10.1080/14740338.2019.1666103​ Gooren, L., & Lips, P. (2014). Conjectures concerning cross-sex hormone treatment of aging transsexual persons. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 11(8), 2012–2019. https://doi.org/10.1111/jsm.12563 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ProstateCancerMyths #TestosteroneAndCancer #MedicalMisconceptions