Why Great Sex Gets Boring, And How to Fix It (Advice From a Sex Therapist)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how keeping sex exciting isn't just about trying new things—it's about learning the emotional skill of lovemaking and the raw intensity of fucking, and why mastering both can truly transform your relationship. 00:54 – Dual Skills: Love Making and Fucking Dr. Brandon introduces the idea that keeping sex exciting means developing both emotional and physical intimacy as distinct but essential skills. 01:21 – Mastering Love Making She explains how true lovemaking comes from the heart—using emotion, eye contact, and vulnerability to deepen connection. 03:01 – Mastering Fucking She dives into the raw, body-driven side of sex, where showing desire openly becomes its own powerful form of intimacy. 04:18 – Balancing Both for Excitement Dr. Brandon emphasizes that long-term sexual fulfillment comes from practicing and switching between both styles. 07:41 – Practical Tips and Conclusion She offers practical ways to get started, encouraging couples to build comfort slowly, stay emotionally present, and keep things playful. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #CouplesIntimacy #SexualSatisfaction #BalancingLoveAndDesire