The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the complexity of human desire, the conflict between what we think we should want versus what our bodies actually crave, and how sex tech is reshaping intimacy and relationships. 00:01 The Struggle Between Desire and Expectations – People often feel torn between what they think they should want and what actually excites them. 00:47 The Reality of Human Sexuality – Attraction doesn't always follow the rules we expect, which can create real challenges in relationships. 01:06 The Dessert Analogy: Understanding Bodily Desires – Just like craving chocolate cake over fruit, we can't control what turns us on, even if we choose differently. 02:35 Sex Tech: Personalization and Its Implications – Sex tech can be customized in ways human partners can't, which makes it powerful but also complicated. 04:06 The Future of Sex and Technology – As tech keeps evolving, we need to think about how it fits into our lives and relationships. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #HumanSexuality #SexTechImpact #IntimacyAndTechnology

In this episode, Dr. Brandon explores whether people can fall in love with sex tech, discussing how technology can fulfill emotional and physical needs in ways that challenge traditional human relationships. 00:00 Can We Love Our Sex Tech? – Dr. Brandon questions whether people can truly fall in love with chatbots, avatars, and sex robots. 00:33 Changing Perspectives on Love and Technology – Initially skeptical, Dr. Brandon now believes love for tech is possible based on evolving human connections. 00:44 Understanding Love: Neurochemicals and Emotions – Love is driven by brain chemistry, and if tech can trigger those same feelings, attachment is inevitable. 01:10 Tech as a Companion: Meeting Unmet Needs – Sex tech isn't just about pleasure; it can provide emotional support and companionship where human relationships fall short. 02:47 Human Partners vs. Tech: The Misconceptions – While most may still prefer human relationships, tech offers convenience, consistency, and a different kind of fulfillment. 05:04 Mindfulness and the Future of Love with Tech – As tech advances, we must be intentional about how we engage with it and prioritize real human connections. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexTech #EmotionalAttachments #HumanVsTechRelationships

In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses how to make sex in long-term relationships "worth wanting" by focusing on body awareness, emotional connection, variety, and vulnerability to keep passion alive. 00:00 Is Your Sex Worth Wanting? – Dr. Brandon challenges the idea of low libido, asking whether the sex itself is fulfilling and worth desiring. 00:28 Building a Connection with Your Body – Feeling present in your body through mindfulness, yoga, or meditation is key to enjoying a satisfying sex life. 01:29 Maintaining a Loving Relationship – Treating your partner with kindness, respect, and gratitude daily strengthens intimacy and passion over time. 02:14 Bringing New Energy to the Bedroom – Changing up sexual energy—whether loving, intense, or sensual—keeps things fresh and exciting. 03:45 Embracing Vulnerability – Being open and emotionally exposed in intimate moments helps deepen connection and enhance passion. 05:41 Tips for Men and Women – Women can practice vulnerability through body openness, while men can increase passion by expressing desire through eye contact. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualHealth #LongTermRelationships #SexualSatisfaction

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about sex differences and whether they are shaped by biology or socialization, exploring a fascinating study that even questions if roosters and hens are "socialized" differently. 00:06 Favorite Study: Nature vs. Nurture – Dr. Brandon shares her excitement about a study exploring whether sex differences come from biology or socialization. 00:58 Study Methodology and Examples – The study surveyed participants on whether traits in men, women, boys, girls, and even animals were shaped by nature or nurture. 02:35 Chickens and Roosters: A Hilarious Insight – Some participants hilariously applied socialization theories to roosters and hens, despite clear biological differences. 07:04 Sex Differences in Humans – Dr. Morgentaler explains how testosterone and biology influence male and female behavior, especially in relationships and sex. 17:32 Parenting and Cultivating Traits – Parents often try to balance gender traits, but overcorrecting can lead to challenges in romantic relationships later in life. Resources: Geher, G., & Gambacorta, D. (2010). Evolution is not relevant to sex differences in humans because I want it that way! Evidence for the politicization of human evolutionary psychology. EvoS Journal. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexDifferences #NatureVsNurture #GenderRoles

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about desire discrepancy in relationships, offering practical strategies like finding non-intercourse intimacy, scheduling sex, and taking turns initiating to help couples stay connected and balanced. 00:00 Intro to Scheduling Sex – Dr. Brandon introduces the idea of scheduling sex as a way to improve intimacy and connection. 00:01 Common Objections to Scheduling – Many couples resist scheduling sex, believing it should be spontaneous, but Dr. Brandon encourages them to try it. 00:11 The Benefits of Scheduling – Planning sex helps lower-desire partners prepare mentally and physically, leading to a better experience for both. 00:18 Understanding Different Desire Levels – Higher-desire partners gain energy from sex, while lower-desire partners see it as requiring effort. 00:31 The Importance of Energy Management – Scheduling allows lower-desire partners to plan their energy and mindset for a more enjoyable experience. 00:40 Practical Tips for Scheduling Sex – Dr. Brandon suggests taking turns initiating, setting the mood, and creating a routine that works for both partners. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #FemaleHealth #Education #NoShame

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon break down the science behind female squirting vs. ejaculation, discussing myths, research, and the role of Skene's glands—ultimately concluding that all orgasms are valid. 00:13 Understanding Female Squirting – Dr. Brandon explains what squirting is and how it differs from female ejaculation. 00:51 Scientific Research on Female Ejaculation – Studies show that some fluid contains PSA, linking it to male prostate secretions. 03:39 Debunking Myths and Misconceptions – Common misunderstandings, including the influence of porn, are discussed. 06:40 The Study: Methods and Findings – A Japanese study confirms that squirting is mostly urine mixed with glandular secretions. 18:45 Conclusions and Final Thoughts – The doctors emphasize that all orgasms are valid, and there's no need for shame or stigma. Resources: Inoue, M., Sekiguchi, Y., Ninomiya, N., Kobayashi, T., & Araki, M. (2022). Enhanced visualization of female squirting. International Journal of Urology, 29(11), 1125–1131. https://doi.org/10.1111/iju.15004 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #FemaleHealth #Education #NoShame

In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses integrating sex tech into relationships, balancing tech use with emotional connection, and using different tools like vibrators, porn, and VR to enhance intimacy. 01:51 Traditional Sex Toys Dr. Brandon discusses using sex toys to increase stimulation, but highlights the importance of staying connected with your partner. 03:20 Porn in Relationships She talks about how to introduce porn carefully into a relationship without causing issues. 04:52 VR Porn Dr. Brandon explains how VR porn can make things more exciting, but it's important to stay focused on your partner. 06:22 Chatbots and Live Shows She shares how chatbots and live sex shows can add fun, but should be used thoughtfully to keep balance. 08:33 Balancing Tech and Lovemaking Dr. Brandon emphasizes the need to mix tech with traditional lovemaking to maintain a strong emotional connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexTechIntegration #MindfulTechUse #BalancedRelationships

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss the connection between ADD, ADHD and sexual dysfunction, including common issues like orgasm problems, the impact of medications, and potential treatments. 00:18 Research Insights on Sexual Dysfunction and ADHD Dr. Morgenthaler and Dr. Brandon discuss new research linking sexual dysfunction with ADHD symptoms, highlighting the impact on both men and women. 01:28 Challenges and Medication Effects The speakers explore how medications for ADHD, like Adderall, can negatively affect sexual function, including issues with arousal and erections. 05:21 Practical Solutions for Men They suggest practical solutions for men dealing with sexual issues related to ADHD, such as using vibrators or medications like Viagra and Cialis to enhance sexual performance. 11:38 Practical Solutions for Women For women, the doctors recommend mindfulness techniques, such as meditation, and the use of sex toys to help maintain focus during intimacy and improve sexual experiences. Resources: Goldberg, S. Y., Thulin, M. C., Kim, H. S., & Dawson, S. J. (2024). Distressing problems with sexual function and symptoms of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 53(10), 3739-3745. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-024-02977-4. Epub 2024 Aug 19. PMID: 39158790. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ADDandSexualDysfunction #ADDTreatmentOptions #MindfulnessAndSexualHealth

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss the rise in testosterone prescriptions, the challenges of mainstream medicine in recognizing testosterone deficiency, and the importance of proper diagnosis and monitoring for effective treatment. 00:06 Testosterone Therapy in the Media: Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the growing media buzz around testosterone therapy and its promotion by clinics. 00:51 Challenges in Mainstream Medicine: They discuss the reluctance of many doctors to prescribe testosterone therapy, even for men who clearly need it. 03:25 Addressing Common Concerns: The doctors address concerns like prostate cancer and heart risks, reassuring that recent studies show these aren't real dangers. 07:11 Understanding Low Testosterone: Dr. Morgentaler explains the symptoms of low testosterone, like tiredness and low mood, and why it's important to get properly tested. 18:22 Final Thoughts and Advice: They encourage seeking treatment from trusted providers and making sure testosterone therapy is carefully monitored for safety. Resources: Dodge, D. (2025, January 25). Everything you need to know about testosterone therapy. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/01/25/well/live/everything-you-need-to-know-about-testosterone-therapy.html With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #MensHealth #SafeTreatment

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about why some people cheat without guilt, based on a survey of Ashley Madison users, and identify the motivations behind their actions. 00:14 Ashley Madison and Cheating Motivations: Dr. Morgenthaler and Dr. Brandon discuss a 2023 study from The Archives of Sexual Behavior, examining why users of the Ashley Madison website cheat without guilt. 01:27 Survey Findings and Participant Demographics: The study revealed that most participants were middle-aged, with a significant number being repeat offenders who had prior infidelity experiences and permission from their partners. 02:05 Generalizability and Specificity of the Study: Dr. Morgenthaler and Dr. Brandon discuss the study's limited applicability to the general population, given the specific, risk-taking group surveyed, who were already open about their past affairs. 05:39 Sexual Dissatisfaction and Autonomy: The main motivations behind infidelity were sexual dissatisfaction and a desire for personal autonomy, with many users feeling that their sexual needs weren't being met in their primary relationships. 08:53 Addressing Sexual Issues in Long-Term Relationships: They emphasize the importance of open communication and proactive solutions to address sexual dissatisfaction, recognizing the challenges of maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships. Resources: Selterman, D., Joel, S., & Dale, V. (2023). Correction to: No remorse: Sexual infidelity is not clearly linked with relationship satisfaction or well-being in Ashley Madison users. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 52(9), 2575. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-023-02608-4 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #InfidelityResearch #SexualDissatisfaction #CommunicationInRelationships