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I just couldn’t wrap up the Self Care series without talking about neurodiversity, masking, and mental health, and the perfect person for conversation is fellow therapist, coach, podcaster, speaker and advocate, Pasha Marlowe. In this vulnerable episode, you'll hear about the challenges and advantages of masking, understand the emotions of being neurodivergent in a world that is built by and for neurotypicals, and discover ways to foster radical self-acceptance, wherever you are. We're unpacking a variety of insections - from growing up with unidentified ADHD and autism,  attempting to hide emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity, a later-in-life recognition of queer identity, and the power of language in creating an inclusive society. Mic Drop Moment:  "It takes a physical and emotional toll to mask, to hide, to conceal anything or suppress any of our tendencies or identities or truths. It also feels, I think quite misaligned and lonely, but both are painful. Like it's painful to be judged and rejected and unsafe, and it's terribly painful to not be respected or seen and known."  Pasha Marlowe Mentioned during our convo:Brene Brown quote (in purple, scroll down) Anais Nin quoteJamie Shields Eric Maisel’s book “When Smart People Hurt”Connect with Pasha Marlowe:WebsiteLinked InTikTok Have you loved the Self-Care Series?  Want to hear more content like this on the podcast?  I need to hear from you! Leave a review DM me on Linked In Did you build your business with your neurodivergent traits and tendencies in mind? If not, you aren’t alone.  Most of us have no idea how because our educational and workplace environments teach us conformity and masking, not radical self-acceptance and doing what actually works for us.  This might be the perfect time to partner with a business coach who is also a licensed therapist and entrepreneur with ADHD (me) to reinvent your business with YOU in mind. I choose to work with a limited number of 1:1 clients at a time, so I can customize our coaching engagement to be exactly what you need, no more, no less.   It starts with a no-obligation free consultation to help you figure out why your business is not yet where you want it to be, and create a plan that takes mental wellness and energetic capacity into account.  Want to know more?  Schedule a free consultation here by clicking here. ckLjyPgRhemYR8BTS1GI

In this episode of the Self Care Series, I’m excited to share my conversation with meditation teacher, Jude Star.  We are both entrepreneurs,  psychotherapists, and adults with ADHD who practice meditation and mindfulness.  Many people with ADHD are confused or intimidated by meditation,  have struggled to figure it out, or flat-out refuse to try, even though it can be incredibly helpful in managing our busy brains.  My hope is that this conversation will bust up some of the myths and misunderstandings,  offer practical solutions, and show you how to make meditation and mindfulness fun.  Jude and I share and compare our personal journeys and the role that mindfulness and meditation play in each of our businesses and lives. We discuss the critical role of experimentation in finding the meditation style that truly resonates with you and the power of adopting a playful “and that’s OK”  approach which Jude reminds us fosters more consistent long-term motivation.  We debunk some common myths surrounding meditation, like the idea that you must adopt a particular posture, and practice dogmatically, and stress the importance of weaving mindfulness into routine activities, such as taking mindful walks.We also tackle the misconceptions associated with meditation and ADHD, emphasizing the need for a joyful, light-hearted approach, and the remarkable brain chemistry changes that consistent meditation offers.  I loved hearing Jude talk about introducing meditation to a client using what he calls the “Do Nothing” practice.  Connect with Jude Star:Jude's YouTube channelBeing Integrated.net Follow Jude on IGMeditation for ADHD CourseMentioned by Jude during our convo:Shinzen YoungAlan WattsKrishnamurtiRam DasAre you loving this Self-Care Series?  Want to hear more content like this on the podcast?  I need to hear from you! Leave a review DM me on Linked In Email meDid you take your ADHD strengths and struggles into account when you started your solopreneur business?  If not, you're far from alone. Most of us started our business duplicating what we knew from working for others and chances are, it’s not working that well, especially if you work from home. This might be the perfect time to partner with a business coach who is also a licensed therapist and ADHD entrepreneur (me) to reinvent your business with YOU in mind.  We will right-size your business, create the systems and structure you need, and adjust any mindset issues holding you back. It starts with a no-obligation free consultation to help you figure out why your business is not yet where you want it to be, and create a plan that takes mental wellness and energetic capacity into account.  Schedule a free consultation here by clicking here. 

If you are looking for a sustainable way to a healthier life with less emphasis on food, that is also good for your brain,  this episode is for you. I invited primal health and intermitted fasting coach, Marisa Moon to join me for this episode of the Self-Care Series and this interview is about so much more than wellness. Marisa was one of my first guests on the podcast (check out episode # 36 - Intermittent Fasting for Energy & Mental Clarity).  She recently became the best-selling author of “Not So Fast” based on her ten years of experience teaching people how to adopt the intermittent fasting lifestyle using her framework, The RESET Method and I knew she had to be part of our Self-Care Series. The RESET method is more than just a fasting protocol—it's a roadmap to a healthy, sustainable lifestyle, which is particularly well suited to those of us juggling the demands of entrepreneurship and ADHD. What you’re going to hear:Intermittent fasting strategies with the ADHD 🧠 in mind. Strategies for deep work and productivity without boredom or burnout.Marisa’s R.E.S.E.T approach to intermittent fasting you won’t want to quit 🤬How Marisa engineered her life to get her book written & published in 8 monthsWriting a book that is ADHD-friendly (strategies for content creators that are 🔥)Connect with Marisa Moon:Intermittent Fasting Freedom Free Guide“Not So Fast” bookWebsiteMentioned by Marisa during our convo:Episode #202 -  “The Impact of Sleep on Women’s Wellness with Morgan Adams, MSW”Cal Newport’s book “Slow Productivity”Self Publishing School Human Design: Generator with Sacral Authority Are you loving this Self-Care Series?  Want to hear more content like this on the podcast?  I need to hear from you! Leave a review  DM me on LinkedIn Email meAre you struggling as a solopreneur or small business owner who is having trouble finding time and energy for deep work? Do you have a big project that you just can’t seem to finish (or even start) because you don’t have the structure, systems, and support in place?  This might be the perfect time to partner with a business coach + licensed therapist + ADHD entrepreneur (me). I am opening up opportunities to work with me 1:1 for different lengths of time, based on your needs, goals, and what’s got you feeling stuck. We customize the engagement to be exactly what you need, no more, no less. It starts with a no-obligation free consultation. I help you figure out why your business is not yet where you want it to be, and create a plan that takes mental wellness and energetic capacity into account.  I call it “right-sizing” and it might be exactly what you need right now if you know you’re doing too much, but don’t know what to let go of. Want to know more?  Schedule a free consultation here by clicking here. 

If you are finding it hard to fit exercise into your busy life, maybe you are overcomplicating things and engaging in all-or-none thinking.  In this episode of the Self-Care Series, we are talking about the benefits of movement, specifically walking. Our guest is Carolyn Cohen, host of the Wellness While Walking podcast and functional medicine health coach.  For Carolyn, walking is not just a way of moving from one point to another; it is an intimate part of the human experience, a bridge that connects us to our past and opens up paths to our futures. The slogan “Sitting is the New Smoking” exists because most of us are considered sedentary, and the benefits of walking to our bodies, minds, and brains are almost too numerous to count.  Mentioned in this episode:Blue Zones: https://www.bluezones.com/The woman who lost 120 pounds just by walking around her 1-bedroom apartment: https://bit.ly/4a4lDa5Connect with Carolyn:Podcast: Wellness While WalkingIG: https://www.instagram.com/wellnesswhilewalking/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolyncohen/Are you loving this Self-Care Series?  Want to hear more content like this on the podcast?  I need to hear from you! Leave a reviewEmail DM me on IGDM me on LinkedInDon’t even think you can fit walking into your busy life because your business is sucking up all of your time and energy?  Have you considered working with a business coach who is also a licensed psychotherapist and has ADHD, just like you?  I am opening up opportunities to work with me for different lengths of time, based on your needs, goals, and what’s got you feeling stuck. It starts with a no-obligation free consultation. I help you figure out why your business is not yet where you want it to be, and create a plan that takes mental wellness and energetic capacity into account.  I call it “right-sizing” and it might be exactly what you need right now if you know you’re doing too much, but don’t know what to let go of. Want to know more?  Schedule a free consultation here by clicking here. 

The number of women who are questioning whether they are experiencing burnout, perimenopause, undiagnosed ADHD, or even early-onset Alzheimers is at an all-time high.  A lot of us are struggling and don’t even know where to turn for answers because there is so much crossover between the symptoms of these conditions.  Each of them affects our body, mind, and brain, so sorting things out is far from simple.One of the most challenging aspects is the skill gap that seems to exist. Gynecologists don’t have enough training in perimenopause,  business coaches don’t understand mental health and psychotherapists aren’t trained in business.  What are mid-life female solopreneurs supposed to do? I invited my friend, midlife hormone specialist, Stephanie Shaw, host of the Hello Hot Flash Podcast to help us unpack the confusion, normalize the struggle, and create some genuine clarity about how to create better boundaries (the ultimate in self-care), advocate with our health care providers and set priorities that really move the needle for women in their 40s and 50s, especially those of us who are self-employed.  👉 Here are 3 key takeaways for every female entrepreneur: over 40Emotional Regulation: The transformative power of journaling to understand emotional patterns and taking proactive steps to process negative emotionsSelf Advocacy with Healthcare Professionals: How to differentiate burnout from perimenopause symptoms, the importance of asserting for appropriate medical tests, and the art of being strategic during healthcare conversations.Redefining Self-Care: Stephanie and I unpack the societal pressures women face and how embracing a comprehensive self-care approach—including establishing boundaries and renegotiating relationships—is vital not just for personal well-being but for sustainable success. Mic Drop Moment: "Part of the work that I do is teaching women to advocate for themselves because if your gynecologist will not provide you with information on how to handle your medical condition, then you need to find another gynecologist."— Stephanie Shaw  Want to connect with Stephanie and find out more?Listen to her Hello Hot Flash Podcast: https://bit.ly/43xI1X1Take her course: https://bit.ly/3Tl2Hgk Book a call: https://bit.ly/3TLnOtv Are you looking for Holistic Business Coaching that helps you balance self-care with passion, purpose, and profit?You don’t have to be perimenopausal or burning out to know you are working too hard and too much for the money you are making.  I am opening up opportunities to work with me for different lengths of time, based on your needs, goals, and what’s got you feeling stuck. It starts with a no-obligation free consultation. I help you figure out why your business is not yet where you want it to be, and help you create a plan that takes mental wellness and energetic capacity into account.  I call it “right-sizing” and it might be exactly what you need right now.Want to know more?  Schedule a free consultation here: https://bit.ly/calendly-free-consultation

It’s no secret that most small business owners struggle to get enough sleep,  as do those of us with ADHD, and the majority of women over 40 have trouble sleeping due to hormonal changes and the complexity of their lives.  But getting enough sleep is not just the key to fewer dark circles and less coffee consumption.  Adequate amounts of quality sleep are actually necessary for mental and physical health and wellbeing and even longevity. I invited Morgan Adams, MSW to join me to set the record straight on how much sleep we actually need according to the research,  the most effective strategies for improving sleep quality and straight talk about sleep medications like Ambien. Morgan has a masters degree in social work and two certifications in sleep science coaching.   She calls herself “Your sleep soulmate” and is a former insomniac, with an 8 year dependency on prescription sleep medication.  I really enjoyed this conversation and riffing on our shared wisdom about the connection between sleep, stress and success.  Here are some of the highlights: 🌙 Quality sleep is crucial for success and wellbeing. Consistency is more important than the number of hours, and exposure to morning sunlight (without sunglasses) can improve sleep quality and regulate circadian rhythms.🌟 The impact of mindset on sleep improvement cannot be overstated. Shifting negative self-talk and reframing our beliefs about sleep can lead to significant changes in our rest patterns.🔄 Establishing intentional morning and evening routines are worthwhile establishing. By drawing firm boundaries on work time and allowing for decompression before bedtime, we can set ourselves up for restful nights and productive days Mic Drop Moment: “They actually, did a study recently of thousands and thousands of people. There was a higher life expectancy when people had 6 hours of consistent sleep versus 8 hours of inconsistent and interrupted sleep."Want more sleep strategy from Morgan?LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/morganadamswellness/Morgan’s mini course: https://www.morganadamswellness.com/sleepresetsolutionMidLife Sleep School: https://www.morganadamswellness.com/midlife-sleep-school Mentioned in this episode:Professor Matt Walker, PhD: https://www.sleepdiplomat.com/National Sleep Foundation: https://www.thensf.org/If you are a solopreneur who can’t sleep because your business is not living up to it’s potential, this might be the perfect time to work with me.  As announced during the episode,  I am opening up opportunities to work with me 1:1 for different lengths of time.  Until now, the only option was my 12 week Boss Up Breakthrough, but not everyone needs or wants that level of intensity. It starts with a free consultation where we discuss your needs, goals, strengths and obstacles. Then we explore how much time you need and the type of guidance and support will get you to your goals.  I will help you figure out why your business is where you want it to be, and make sure you are including mental wellness in your business plan so that you’re not just successful on the outside, but aligned with your values, and priorities on the inside.  Want to know more?  Schedule a free consultation here: https://bit.ly/calendly-free-consultation Maybe a lack of sleep isn’t the problem, maybe it’s something else holding you back. Take my quiz and find out, and not only get the answer, but get a short series of emails loaded with resources to help you get back into momentum.  https://bit.ly/whyb-quiz

In today’s competitive market, many small business owners, especially those engaged in professional services, are experiencing burnout. The overwhelm and exhaustion can stem from a multitude of reasons, including working with clients who don't meet expectations, struggling to maintain a healthy balance between work and personal life, and feeling that their businesses aren't reaching their full potential. In this straight-shooting episode, I cover the high cost of energetic loops in professional services businesses, and provide strategic tips for managing 1 on 1 client work, so you can streamline and simplify your processes, reduce stress, and avoid leaving money on the table, all in one. The reality of a sole proprietor business,  while it can be simple to start and easy to run, can present challenges in managing open loops due to the nature of client service work. These open loops encompass various stages of the client service journey, from consultations to onboarding, and from drafting and reviewal to concluding the engagement. The inability to address these open loops can lead to mental and emotional strain and negatively impact the overall success of the business. Let’s break down what you will learn in this episode:Understanding the impact of burnout in client service businessesIdentifying open loops in professional servicesStrategies to close open loops and boost energy and productivityThe importance of fostering client satisfaction and feedbackPractical tips for entrepreneurs to prevent burnout and sustain business success Mic Drop Moment 🎙️“These energetic drains contribute to burnout in a serious way, but they also do some other damage. They make us worry about our competency. They cause us to create negative comparisons in our mind between us and our competitors, and they drive fear that we aren't doing enough." Mentioned in this episode:Episode #199: Entrepreneurial Evolution: a Client Success Story with Andrea Klunder https://bit.ly/episode-blog-199 It’s hard to identify exactly how to implement what’s truly necessary to close all the open loops in your client services processes on your own, so if you’ve been thinking about making changes for a while, let’s work together so you can actually move the needle.  I created a special offer for this very purpose because I know how much energy and confidence you gain when you close these loops.  Click here to book a free consult to see if we’re a fit.   Don’t forget to share this episode with a friend who needs to close some loops in their business.  Here’s a link to make it easy:  https://ReviewThisPodcast.com/reverse-energetic-drain-by-closing-open-loops-in-your-client

Can you believe it? We're celebrating the monumental 200th episode of *The Driven Woman Entrepreneur* podcast! I’m your host, Diann Wingert, and I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude to you as a listener for being on this incredible journey with us. Your support, reviews, and shares have helped us grow this listening community into something truly extraordinary.This is an episode you simply can't miss. We brought together a powerhouse panel of entrepreneurial experts who have walked the walk and are here to talk the talk. Here are just a few golden nuggets they shared:**The Importance of a Solid Foundation**: Michelle Mazur shared why nailing your offer and learning how to sell before you market can set you up for long-term success.**Embracing Authentic Work**: Nicole Kalil advised on channeling energy into creating real value through authentic work, learning from attempts, whether they hit the mark or not.**Starting Sooner, Growing Stronger**: Shulamit Ber Levtov reflected on the wish to have embarked on her self-employment journey earlier, but without dwelling in regret.**Celebrating Milestones**: We paused to appreciate reaching 200 episodes and encouraged everyone to help us grow.**Personal and Professional Growth**: Our guests unanimously agreed that their businesses have been vehicles for incredible growth in all aspects of their lives. And that's just the start. Here's what else we unwrapped in this celebration episode:**Mindset is Everything**: Discover how confidence can fundamentally shift your path to success.**The Value in a Do-Over**: Guests discussed what they would've done differently at the start, offering you a chance to learn without the trial and error.**Risky Business**: Elise Enriquez shares her strategies for taking risks and embracing a 'go for it' attitude towards success.**Perfectionism Unpacked**: Erin Ollila sheds light on overcoming the pursuit of perfection to improve efficiency and satisfaction.**The Persistence Pay-off**: Learn from Shulamit Ber Levtov about why steadfast persistence is a key driver of entrepreneurial success. We also covered resilience, self-awareness, behavior shifts, and the surprising yet profound impacts of a simple newsletter as shared by Bev Feldman. Not to mention, we dove into cross-cultural understandings in business with Claudia Schalkx's deep insights.You'll gain insights on everything from mastering sales to understanding the true impact of mindset shifts, all from the lips of experienced entrepreneurs who've faced the same challenges you deal with daily.Remember, these lessons are not just stories – they’re actionable insights. So, tune in, take notes, and prepare to implement what resonates with you. After all, success isn't a one-size-fits-all, it's about defining and achieving what it means personally to you.If you’re ready for a dose of inspiration, strategy, and perhaps a reshaping of how you view your own journey, this is the episode you've been waiting for. Listen now, and let the collective wisdom of these incredible women propel you forward.Here's to another 200 episodes and the success of every driven woman entrepreneur listening! If you enjoyed listening to this podcast as much as we enjoyed creating it and sharing it with you, would you help us make the most of this milestone celebration and leave us a rating & review?  I would appreciate it now, more that ever. Here’s the link to make it easy-peasy: https://kite.link/small-business-success-tips-with-our-special-guests And, can I ask you one more thing… will you share this with one biz bestie?  You know the one who will benefit the most.    If hearing this episode made you curious what ELSE these incredible women have to say, here are links to their original interviews on the podcast: Episode #86 - Non-Sleazy Selling with Annie P Ruggles https://bit.ly/episode-blog-86Episode #144 - Owning Who You're Not & Fully Embracing Yourself: Unpacking Nicole Kalil's Confidence Journey https://bit.ly/episode-blog-144Episode #146 - Unpacking Marketing Strategy with Claudia Schalkx: Standing Out With Your Secret Sauce https://bit.ly/episode-blog-146Episode #148 - Uncovering the Psychology Behind Writing Copy with Erin Ollila https://bit.ly/episode-blog-148Episode #160 - Marketing Your Expert Identity with Michelle Mazur https://bit.ly/episode-blog-160Episode #162 - Forget Generic Advice: Tailored Email Marketing Strategies with Bev Feldman https://bit.ly/episode-blog-162Episode #168 - Trusting Your Instincts & Building Something Authentic with Jessica Lackey https://bit.ly/episode-blog-168Episode #170 - Mental Health Challenges for Female Entrepreneurs with Shulamit Ber Levtov https://bit.ly/episode-blog-170Episode #176 - Curious & Empathic? You Can Sell with Aleasha Bahr https://bit.ly/episode-blog-176Episode #186 - Aligning Your Productivity and Purpose with Elise Enriquez https://bit.ly/episode-blog-186Episode #194 - Relationship Status with Social Media? "It's Complicated" with Andrea Jones https://bit.ly/episode-blog-194

This client success story episode features Andrea Klunder, an award-winning podcast agency owner and creative entrepreneur.  Andrea was a regular, but casual listener of this podcast until she realized she was on the brink of burnout, and knew she needed help to turn things around. Her agency was growing, she had a rockstar team, but she was exhausted, overwhelmed and increasingly resentful. This is a client success story, but one with a twist, a cliff hanger and genuine nail-biting moments that most business coaches wouldn’t share. It’s a story of facing fears and embracing the unknown, discovering the true meaning of “mindset work”, and the value of mentorship. Andrea recounts the pitfalls of overcommitment, the strain of unfulfilling tasks, and the bold steps she took to reshape her business– decisions that, while initially painful, carved a path to a more focused and profitable business. This transformation depended in part on uncovering Andrea’s “zone of genius” and recognizing where her true talents lie.  This awareness and it’s connection to her experience of burnout led to a turning point in her business journey.  If you are working way too hard in your creative services business and inching toward burnout yourself, this episode is a must-listen.   🎙️Here are 3 key takeaways: **Embrace Fear for Growth**: Taking new steps in business can be daunting, but it's through such actions that we open doors to new opportunities and growth. **Evolving Our Identity**: Recognizing our unique abilities—our "zone of genius" enables us to release our full creative and business potential. **Sustainable Transformation**: Andrea's experience illustrates the value of patience and strategy in transforming a business, and the importance of cultivating a balance between operations and creative genius. Want to know where to find Andrea and her work?Website: https://www.thecreativeimposter.com/Podcast: https://www.podcastenvy.comLinked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreaklunder/I work with established solopreneurs and small business owners (coaches, consultants, creatives and professional service providers - basically personal brands) who know they are working too hard, but don’t know where to start to do things differently. I’ll help you Boss Up your boundaries, your offers, your pricing, and your marketing strategy and remove anything that keeps you exhausted and feeling stuck. Maybe, like Andrea, you need help uncovering your Zone of Genius work.  As a former psychotherapist, I also make sure we build mental wellness in your business plan so that you’re not just successful on the outside, but aligned with your values, and priorities on the inside.  We don’t want you to burn out, now do we?Want to know more? Schedule a free consultation here: https://bit.ly/calendly-free-consultationI’d love to meet you and see how I can help. Not quite ready?  That’s cool.  You can keep listening to the podcast and sign up for my weekly newsletter on Linked In here: https://bit.ly/TDWE-Newsletter

Most podcasts for female solopreneurs focus on the more fun aspects of being your own boss, like flexibility, creativity, and building a business based on passion and purpose.  But, we really limit our success and sustainability if we neglect the “back end” of our business, the unsexy stuff like tax election, business finances and accounting.  So, my research lead me to a company that specializes in being the all in one financial solution for businesses of one, while addressing the loneliness problem of solopreneurship at the same time.Today I’m joined by the VP of People at Collective,  Claudia Nerio, for a lively conversation about not only the risks of ignoring or bootstrapping our business finances, but more importantly the rewards of delegating them to a team of experts, and becoming part of a vibrant solopreneur community, all at once.   We talk about everything from our own experience transitioning to working from home to client success stories to our mutual love of true crime podcasts and shows.   🎙️Highlights of this conversation: **Embracing Delegation**: Even as a solopreneur, recognize the power of focusing on your strengths. Delegating certain tasks frees up time for you to excel in your zone of genius. **Solopreneurship & Community**: Combat the loneliness of going solo by joining a community like The Collective, which offers essential back-office support and a network of like-minded individuals. **Navigating Finances & Tax Structure**: Understand that robust financial and legal knowledge is vital. Tapping into the collective wisdom and experience of experts at an affordable price means avoiding costly pitfalls and ensuring your solo venture thrives. Mic Drop Moment: "The desire to venture out on your own and to be your own boss has always been there, right? Now I think with the rise of working from home has created businesses like Collective that have found a high demand space in the market to be able to make it easier for people to go out and be a business of one just and pursue their dream."— Claudia Nerio  Who would be a perfect fit for The Collective?Coaches, Consultants, Creatives, Independent ProfessionalsSingle member LLCs and one person businesses making $60-80K+ profit Want financial & legal services in one stop shopLooking for a community of like minded solopreneurs Find out more:  https://www.collective.com/ If you are a solopreneur who is ready to get off the struggle bus and love your business again, this might be the perfect time to work with me. My Boss Up Breakthrough framework has just been updated to put more emphasis on implementation, so we make sure you get, and stay in momentum.  I’lll help you Boss Up your boundaries, your offers, your pricing, and your marketing strategy and remove anything that keeps you a best kept secret.  We will also make sure you are including mental wellness in your business plan so that you’re not just successful on the outside, but aligned with your values, and priorities on the inside.  Want to know more?  Schedule a free consultation here: https://bit.ly/calendly-free-consultation Not quite ready to work with me, but wonder what it would be like? Grab my private podcast,  “Show Up Like a Boss”.  It’s free, and you listen to it in the same podcast player where you hear this show.  It’s kind of like a backstage pass of 10 clips of me coaching and tips for how to apply the strategies to your own business and life.  Check it out:  https://bit.ly/show-up-like-a-boss