Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Sarah Jeavons. Sarah is a Dating Coach for Men. She is dedicated to helping men build confidence & land their dream relationships. The two of us talk about her history with Real Social Dynamics and why she decided to pursue a career as a dating coach. We discuss the general state of the industry and how Sarah’s approach to dating coaching is unique, as it involves mock dates and opportunities to practice your flirting skills in real time. She also shares her thoughts on handling rejection and how to navigate sexual tension.   Key Points: -      Sarah introduces herself -      Why Sarah left Real Social Dynamics -      Pick up artists vs dating coaches -      Mock dates and flirting -      How to handle rejection -      Navigating sexual tension Relevant links: Sarah’s Instagram: @datingwithsarahofficial

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Celeste Moore. Celeste is an Image Consultant and a Dating Coach who helps midlife men who have been married to their careers or recently divorced and forgot how to date by providing discreet dating and image consulting to improve their appearance, relationships, and confidence. She helps them learn to navigate this crazy modern dating world we live in. She's also the host of The Down and Dirty Podcast, the show gets down and dirty every week as she talks about dating, love, sex, and pop culture.    Key Points: Celeste introduces herself Confidence through appearance Colour psychology and trustworthiness attire Importance of grooming, dressing, and personal style Evolving dating trends Mock dates and first date manners First date recommendations, meeting places, online dating insights Relevant Links: Celeste’s Instagram: @celestemooreimage Celeste’s website: https://celestemoore.com/

Guest Ruwan Meepagala, psychology for men host, shares insights on fatherhood, relationship dynamics, monogamy vs novelty, and evolution of masculinity. Differing viewpoints lead to a thought-provoking conversation on culture and pleasure.

This Quicky is a throwback to episode 44 with sextech entrepreneur Jeff Bennett. You can listen to the full episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0VqkWJeGJXEjxOVPF7wfZl?si=5RDp4yYaTrGuwqVkWSfYfA

On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Caroline Heldman. Dr. Heldman is a professor of Critical Theory & Social Justice at Occidental College in Los Angeles. She is also Executive Director of The Representation Project and a political commentator for Spectrum and CNN International. Dr. Heldman has published six books on gender justice and politics, and her work has been featured in numerous documentaries, including Miss Representation and The Mask You Live In. She co-founded the New Orleans Women’s Shelter, the Lower Ninth Ward Living Museum, End Rape on Campus (EROC), Faculty Against Rape (FAR), and led the End Rape Statute of Limitations (ERSOL) that successfully abolished the time limit on prosecuting rape in California. She is the Board President of the TEP Center, the first Civil Rights museum in New Orleans, and the Chair of the Board of Alturas Institute, a non-profit fighting for stronger democracy. Key points: - Dr. Heldman introduces herself - Levels of social justice advocacy - The impact of pornography on sex - Why we need to educate about porn - Sexual objectification - Selling body dissatisfaction to men - Body image issues and fatphobia Relevant links Caroline’s Instagram: @carolineheldman Caroline’s website: https://drcarolineheldman.com/

This quicky is a throwback to episode 43 with Kristopher Lovestone. Listen to that episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3UIOto5GmrCxlhYJA6thbD?si=otEL3dgZQHy698pTFFX0RQ&nd=1

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Luna Matatas. Luna is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 15 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. She teaches 30+ sexy skills topics; including threesomes, BDSM and sexual confidence. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. Key points: - Luna introduces herself - “Peg the Patriarchy” - Men’s desire to dominate - What do we mean by dominance? - How to explore power play - Tips for concerned men - Tips for interested couples Relevant links: Luna’s website: https://lunamatatas.com/ Luna’s Instagram: @lunamatatas

This is a throwback to episode 42 with Jeff Abraham from Promescent. Listen to the full episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0RQobYuSFabSEtMsgwA3b5?si=UD2jRjWISP2aV4hltf6J3g

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy. Lauren is a licensed psychologist and AASECT certified sex therapist. She has been a sex and relationship specialist for 10 years. Her work focuses on helping individuals, couples, and partners improve their relationships, both emotionally and sexually. Lauren’s mission is to support people in creating relationships that are more secure, joyful, and fulfilling. The two of us discuss the topic of her new book, Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships, which, as the name suggests, is all about how couples can work through the challenges presented by discrepancies in their respective libidos.   Key points: - Lauren introduces herself and her book about desire and libido in relationships - The importance of inclusivity when discussing libido differences - Why couples seek help for varying levels of desire - Libido discrepancies over time - Emotional challenges and feelings of disconnection - Misalignment and societal expectations   Relevant links: Lauren’s Instagram: @drlaurenfogelmersy Lauren’s website: https://drlaurenfogel.com/

Quicky #39 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 11: #41 The Mother Archetype: Holding Space for Men (with Karis Topkin) Today on the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Karis Topkin. Karis is a mother, a lover, and a healer, helping people to reclaim their pleasure and heal their traumas, allowing them to follow their own heart-led path and create a life that feels deliciously good, connected, and rooted in pleasure and wholeness. Karis and I talk about her work with men in South Africa and the hands-off sexual healing modalities that she uses in her conservative community. We also discuss strategies for holding space for men, allowing them to open up and release emotions by embodying the Mother Archetype. We close with a brief discussion about sexual energy and pleasure across the lifespan.