#192 The Impact of Asian Culture on Masculinity and Sexuality (with Maxi Xie)
Dec 17, 2023
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Relationship counsellor and sex therapist Maxi Xie discusses the impact of Asian culture on masculinity and sexuality. Topics include restrictive gender norms, anatomy, aggression, and cultural competency in multicultural LGBTQIA+ relationships.
Maxi addresses Asian cultural considerations and stereotypes for men and masculinity.
Translation challenges in Mandarin sexuality education and lack of inclusive language are discussed.
Maxi advocates for pleasure-based sexuality education and challenges gender-based stereotypes.
Deep dives
Maxi Shea's Multicultural Expertise in Sex Education and Therapy
Maxi Shea, a relationship counselor and sex therapist, shares insights on exploring masculinity and sexuality coming from China to Australia. Their multicultural LGBTQIA+ advocacy and passion for guiding multicultural relationships shine through. Maxi navigates cultural considerations, addressing stereotypes and gender norms for Asian Australian men. Their focus on creating judgment-free spaces for exploration is key.
Passion for Sexuality Education and Therapy
Maxi's journey into sex therapy and education stemmed from an interest in sexuality and therapeutic counseling, leading to specialization in sex therapy. Their passion for sexual education and therapy is evident, aiming to provide a comprehensive perspective on sexuality education. Maxi's multilingual abilities and multicultural background offer a unique approach to addressing diverse needs and experiences.
Challenges in Multicultural and Gender-Based Sexuality Education
Addressing the translation challenges in Mandarin sexuality education, Maxi discusses the complexity of translating terms like Essene Nomenogmus and the lack of inclusive language in Chinese sexual education. Maxi sheds light on the importance of gender-inclusive sexuality education and the limitations in traditional gender-based sex education prevalent in Chinese and Western contexts.
Exploring Stereotypes and Expectations in Sex Therapy
Maxi delves into the harmful stereotype of penis size in Asian men, reflecting on societal pressures and expectations around masculinity. They highlight the impact of identity crisis linked to erection and size, emphasizing the emotional aspects tied to self-worth and masculinity. Maxi challenges gender-based stereotypes and societal norms affecting sexual experiences and self-identity.
Promoting Pleasure-Based Sexuality Education
Maxi's emphasis on pleasure-based sexuality education and normalization of pleasure is a pivotal discussion point. They recount a learning experience where their focus on pleasure was disregarded for gender-based anatomical discussions. Maxi's advocacy for sex positivity and the importance of pleasure in sexuality education stands out, showcasing a holistic approach towards understanding diverse perspectives.
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Maxi Xie. Maxi is a relationship counsellor and sex therapist. They’re here to infuse you and your partner’s journey with deeper love, heightened passion, and profound understanding. Maxi is bilingual and fluent in both Mandarin and English. They’re proudly kink and fetish-friendly, as well as poly-friendly, and aim to create a judgment-free space for you and/or your partner to explore desires, pleasure and much more. Maxi is also a strong advocate for the multicultural LGBTQIA+ community. Maxi’s genuine passion lies in guiding and uplifting those in multicultural relationships, helping them navigate the beautiful tapestry of love.
