#190 What Is Your Relationship with Porn? (with Tyson Adams)
Nov 26, 2023
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Guest Tyson Adams, a former porn addict turned men's coach, discusses porn's link to shame, VR porn issues, semen retention, and self-pleasure. They explore spiritual sexuality, porn escalation, and conscious ejaculation, highlighting the importance of addressing porn addiction and promoting healthy sexual practices.
Early exposure to porn impacts relationships and mental health.
Understanding motives behind porn and self-pleasure is crucial.
VR porn poses risks like objectification and distorted views.
Deep dives
Impact of Early Pornography Exposure on Masculinity
Early exposure to pornography at a young age, as shared by Tyson Adams, had lasting effects on his perception of sexuality and relationships. This exposure led to addictive behaviors and negative impacts on his mental health and intimate relationships. Adams sheds light on his personal journey of addiction, self-realization, and recovery, highlighting the detrimental effects of prolonged and uninformed engagement with pornography.
Exploring the Link Between Pornography and Self-Pleasure
The discussion between the podcast participants delves into the relationship between pornography consumption and self-pleasure practices. Tyson Adams emphasizes the importance of understanding one's motivations behind engaging with pornography and self-pleasure. The conversation touches upon topics like semen retention, conscious ejaculation, and the significance of self-awareness in navigating healthy sexual experiences.
Evolution of Pornography and Virtual Reality
The conversation extends to the evolution of pornography, including the rise of virtual reality porn and its potential impact on users. Adams expresses concerns over the immersive and distorted nature of VR pornography, highlighting issues like objectification, dysmorphia, and its portrayal of violent and non-consensual content. He emphasizes the need for mindfulness and critical awareness in consuming pornographic content amidst technological advancements.
Understanding the Impact of Escalation Behavior on Men
Approximately 30% of men experience escalation behavior, leading to shame and addictive tendencies. Addressing risk factors associated with this behavior is crucial in promoting healthy habits and self-awareness.
Exploring Mindful Masturbation as a Holistic Practice
Shifting from escapism to mindful self-pleasure can enhance self-awareness and confidence. Embracing physical sensations and experimenting with breath, sound, and movement fosters a deeper connection with one's body and sexual energy, promoting personal growth and self-love.
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Tyson Adams. Tyson is a trauma-informed IFS men’s coach, somatic bodyworker, and psychedelic facilitator. After spending 20 years addicted to pornography, he outgrew it seven years ago and has found his passion and purpose in helping other men master their lifeforce energy. He also co-facilitates men’s work leadership intensives and works with couples experiencing intimacy challenges. When he’s not working, you’ll catch him on a rock wall or riding a slackline in sunny San Diego.
Key points:
- Tyson introduces himself
- The relationship between porn and shame
- Being introduced to spiritual sexual practices
- What Tyson sees as the problem of VR porn
- Masturbation behaviours and porn escalation
- Semen retention and conscious ejaculation
- The importance of self-pleasure
Relevant links:
Tyson’s Instagram: @tysonadams__
Tyson’s website: https://linktr.ee/tysonadams
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