
Dear Gabby
Dear Gabby is a weekly show where #1 New York Times bestselling author and international speaker, Gabby Bernstein, offers up real-time coaching, straight talk and BIG LOVE. Episodes include unscripted Q&A sessions where she coaches listeners through life-changing transformations, plus free-flowing conversations about personal growth and spirituality with unique and inspiring guests.
Latest episodes

Oct 7, 2024 • 46min
Unlock The Greatest Resource of Your Life with Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: Big Talk with Dr. Richard Schwartz
Gabby sits down with Dr. Richard Schwartz, founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, to explore how this groundbreaking approach can radically transform your life. IFS helps you uncover and heal your inner protective and exiled parts, allowing you to identify the emotions and behaviors that hold you back. By rewiring your mindset, IFS transforms how you see yourself, empowering you to feel more aligned, confident, and whole. Through this deep inner work, you’ll begin to heal past wounds, reconnect with your authentic self, and unlock a new level of personal power. Dr. Richard (Dick) Schwartz developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to his therapy clients’ descriptions of various parts within themselves. He noticed systemic patterns to the way these parts were organized across clients. He also found that when the clients’ parts felt safe and were allowed to relax, the clients would spontaneously experience the qualities of confidence, openness, and compassion that Dr. Schwartz came to call the Self. He found that when in that state of Self, clients would know how to heal their parts. For more information about Internal Family Systems go to https://ifs-institute.comDiscover my most powerful manifesting method and change your life forever at my FREE VIRTUAL EVENT: The Self Help Masterclass. November 16, 2024 I 10am-3pm ET. Get your free ticket now!Get my free magnetic energy meditation to supercharge your manifesting power. If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. Sponsors:Lume: I tell EVERYONE about Lume! Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code DEARGABBY at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodUnderstood.org: Give today to join a community dedicated to empowering people who learn and think differently at understood.org/giveLive Conscious: Want the best anti-aging collagen? Visit weliveconscious.com and use code GABBY at checkout for 15% off your first purchase!Hero Bread: Low carb bread that's actually fluffy and delicious? Yes please! Use code GABBY at hero.coAddyi: Visit www.addyi.com to learn if Addyi is right for you!Produced by Dear MediaThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 30, 2024 • 47min
The #1 Reason We Become Addicted
Join Gabby in this powerful episode as she celebrates 19 years of sobriety and her journey of transformation. She shares wisdom on how to overcome your deepest fears, heal from past trauma and discover true inner freedom. Tune in to uncover the real drivers behind addictive behavior and the crucial role of 'protector parts.' If you’re struggling with any kind of bad habit or addictive pattern, this episode is for you. Discover my most powerful manifesting method and change your life forever at my FREE VIRTUAL EVENT: The Self Help Masterclass. November 16, 2024 I 10am-3pm ET. Get your free ticket now!Get my free magnetic energy meditation to supercharge your manifesting power. If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. Sponsors:BetterHelp: Take off the mask with BetterHelp. Visit www.betterhelp.com/deargabby for 10% off your first month.Addyi: Visit www.addyi.com to learn if Addyi is right for you!Jenni Kayne: My absolute favorite sweaters! Find your forever pieces @jennikayne and get 15% off with promo code DEARGABBY15 atjennikayne.com/DEARGABBY15 #jennikaynepartnerLand's End: Head to landsend.com and use code GABBY to get 30% off your summer purchase.Qualia: Go to Qualialife.com/DEARGABBY for up to 50% off and use code DEARGABBY at check out for an additional 15% off.Produced by Dear MediaThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 23, 2024 • 40min
How to Stop Playing Small and Manifest Your Dreams
In this powerful episode, Gabby takes listeners behind the scenes of a life-changing talk she recently gave in Tampa,Florida. It was the first time she revealed the teachings from her new book, Self Help, and the energy in the room was electric. With compassion and urgency, Gabby speaks about breaking free from the patterns and beliefs that hold us back—whether it's a toxic relationship, addiction, or fear of stepping into our full potential. Her message? It's go time. If you’ve been playing small, this is your wake-up call. It’s time to crack open, let the light in, and become the lightworker you’re meant to be. Listen now and take the first step toward changing your life.Discover my most powerful manifesting method and change your life forever at my FREE VIRTUAL EVENT: The Self Help Masterclass. November 16, 2024 I 10am-3pm ET. Get your free ticket now!Get my free magnetic energy meditation to supercharge your manifesting power. If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. Produced by Dear MediaThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 16, 2024 • 34min
Embrace Your "Undoing Era" & Change Your Life!
Dive into the transformative 'undoing era' and discover the power of reconnecting with your inner child. Explore how old wounds shape our lives and embrace self-compassion to unlock healing. Learn about nervous habits as protective mechanisms and their origins. The conversation emphasizes awareness in overcoming anxiety and labels. Simple self-help practices are introduced for profound change, along with insights on navigating emotional growth and the importance of nurturing all parts of yourself for personal transformation.

Sep 9, 2024 • 36min
Healing Trauma with Inner Child Work & Courage: Insights from Hollywood Stuntwoman, Kimberly Shannon Murphy
In this episode, Gabby sits down with Kimberly Shannon Murphy, an award-winning Hollywood stunt woman, trauma survivor and author who shares her brave journey of healing from abuse. Join them for an eye-opening talk about healing trauma through IFS therapy and inner courage. It's an inspiring conversation you won’t want to miss!Discover my most powerful manifesting method and change your life forever at my FREE VIRTUAL EVENT: The Self Help Masterclass. November 16, 2024 I 10am-3pm ET. Get your free ticket now!Get my free magnetic energy meditation to supercharge your manifesting power. Kimberly Shannon Murphy is an award-winning Hollywood stunt woman, trauma survivor and author. She has served as a double for numerous A-list actresses, performing in 133 feature films and television shows. Her latest book, Glimmer, A Story of Survival, Hope and Healing is on sale now.*Content Warning: This episode touches on sensitive topics, including sexual abuse, which might be difficult for some listeners. Please listen with care and prioritize your well-being. If you need additional support, please consult this list of resources. Sponsors:Hero Bread: This bread RULES! Get 10% off your order at hero.co and use code GABBY at checkout!Addyi: Visit Addyi.com to see if Addyi is right for you!Thrive Causemetics: Get an exclusive 20% off your first order at thrivecausemetics.com/DEARGABBYLands' End: Head to landsend.com and use code GABBY to get 30% off your summer purchase.Better Help: Thank you to Better Help for sponsoring this episode! Get 10% off your first month now at betterhelp.com/deargabbyProduced by Dear MediaThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 2, 2024 • 35min
Spiritual Habit Stacking to Increase Your Attracting Power
This week, Gabby sits down in the studio with her producer, Josh, discussing the concept of “spiritual habit stacking.” As their conversation continues, they delve into the life-changing "check-in method" from Gabby's upcoming book Self Help. Gabby emphasizes the method's effectiveness in helping individuals connect with their younger selves and understand the core reasons behind their reactions and behaviors.Discover my most powerful manifesting method and change your life forever at my FREE VIRTUAL EVENT: The Self Help Masterclass. November 16, 2024 I 10am-3pm ET. Get your free ticket now!Get my free magnetic energy meditation to supercharge your manifesting power. If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.Produced by Dear MediaThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 26, 2024 • 43min
How to Talk to Spirit and Receive Spiritual Guidance from the Universe
In this episode, Gabby gives clear advice on distinguishing inner guidance from fear-based thoughts. She explains how to recognize the voice of spirit versus ego, understand how trauma can block intuition, and heal wounded parts with love. Gabby shares her approach to connecting with inner wisdom and spirit guides, highlighting the need to slow down, do inner work, and embrace the journey within to make room for miracles.In this episode, Gabby gives clear advice on distinguishing inner guidance from fear-based thoughts. She explains how to recognize the voice of spirit versus ego, understand how trauma can block intuition, and heal wounded parts with love. Gabby shares her approach to connecting with inner wisdom and spirit guides, highlighting the need to slow down, do inner work, and embrace the journey within to make room for miracles.SHOW NOTESDiscover my most powerful manifesting method and change your life at my FREE VIRTUAL EVENT: The Self Help Masterclass. November 16, 2024 I 10am-3pm ET. Get your ticket now!Get my free meditation to connect to your spirit guides.If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources.Produced by Dear MediaThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 19, 2024 • 58min
Spirituality and Parenting: Raising Good Humans with Dr. Aliza Pressman
Dr. Aliza Pressman, a parenting expert and author of The 5 Principles of Parenting, shares her insights on raising compassionate and resilient children. She discusses creating safe emotional spaces and the challenges of intentional parenting in today's complex world. Key topics include effective boundary-setting without fear, the importance of attunement and repair in relationships, and fostering strong attachments. Dr. Pressman emphasizes that understanding emotional well-being is crucial for nurturing children in a digital age.

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Aug 12, 2024 • 49min
What Every Woman Needs to Know About Menopause & Perimenopause: Big Talk with Dr. Mary Claire Haver
Dr. Mary Claire Haver, an expert on menopause, joins for a transformative chat. They passionately share personal experiences with perimenopause, from emotional challenges to overlooked symptoms. Discover the benefits of hormone replacement therapy and the importance of informed health choices. The conversation promotes empowerment through nutrition and wellness tips tailored for this life transition. Both women emphasize breaking the stigma and fostering supportive discussions, ensuring that no one feels alone in their journey.

Aug 5, 2024 • 40min
Find Your Purpose and Channel Your Creativity TODAY
In this solo episode, Gabby shares her 3-step process to enter a flow state, channel creativity and become a vessel for inspiration. Whether you’re an artist, a healer, an activist or a businessperson, discover how to allow the presence of spirit, the Universe, or God—whatever you choose to call it—to move through you. Tune in to unlock your creative potential and tap into your true purpose. Do you have a book in you but don’t know where to start? Unlock my best writing tips and start your book in 1 hour or less with my free video training.Develop a life-changing spiritual practice in just 3 minutes a day with my gabby coaching membership. Try 7 days free! If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources.Sponsors:BetterHelp: www.betterhelp.com/deargabby for 10% off!AquaTru: Go to AquaTru.com and enter code “DEARGABBY“at checkout for 20% off any AquaTru purifier!Thrive Causemetics: Great makeup for a great cause - best mascara ever!! www.thrivecausemetics.com code DEARGABBYZocdoc: www.zocdoc.com/deargabbyDisclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.Produced by Dear MediaThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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