Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

What happens when the spouse who usually initiates sex suddenly stops—and weeks turn into months of silence? This painful “sexual standoff” can leave both partners feeling stuck, rejected, and disconnected. In this episode, I’ll explain exactly why this pattern happens, share a real couple’s story, and give you four practical steps to break out of the cycle. You’ll learn how to shift focus off of blame, calm the reactivity that kills intimacy, and start rebuilding connection layer by layer. If you’ve been caught in this cycle—or fear you might end up there—this episode will show you how to untangle the knot and spark intimacy again in your marriage. 👉 Want to go further? Download the Intimately Us app to reset your intimacy in Sextember, and join our upcoming events and coaching programs to take your intimacy to the next level: Men’s & Women’s Intimacy Coaching Cohorts – starting Sept 2 Virtual Intimacy Getaway – Sept 26–27 Free Masterclass Get Your Marriage On Program

In this episode, I’ll walk you through a complete how-to guide for female ejaculation: What it is and how it works Why it can be such an incredible and bonding experience A step-by-step process to help you and your spouse experience it together Common challenges and how to troubleshoot them We'll also dive into the relationship side—why novelty can be so powerful in marriage, how to avoid performance pressure, and how deeper intimacy is always the foundation of great sexual experiences. Along the way, you’ll hear real stories from couples who discovered squirting later in marriage and how it transformed their intimacy. Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or eager to try, you’ll leave this episode with practical tools, encouragement, and a fresh vision for playfulness in your marriage. 👉 Want to go deeper? Check out the Intimately Us app for illustrated, step-by-step guides and join our upcoming events and coaching programs to take your intimacy to the next level: Men’s & Women’s Intimacy Coaching Cohorts – starting Sept 2 Virtual Intimacy Getaway – Sept 26–27 Free Masterclass Get Your Marriage On Program

Discover ten innovative ways to enhance intimacy in your marriage! Learn about the 9 to 1 anticipation pattern, the magic of eye contact, and specific positions that can elevate your experience. Dive into the common mistakes couples make and why aiming for 'good enough' might actually lead to long-term satisfaction. This conversation brings fresh inspiration for couples looking to deepen their connection and enjoy a more fulfilling intimate life.

Join sex coach Danielle Savory, who empowers women to embrace their pleasure, in a candid conversation about oral sex. She shares how giving can be profoundly pleasurable and meaningful, reshaping intimacy in marriage. The discussion tackles societal pressures, self-acceptance, and communication in sexual experiences. Danielle also offers practical tips on enhancing oral techniques while emphasizing the importance of both partners' desires. This enlightening talk encourages a deeper emotional connection and challenges conventional views on intimacy.

What’s the difference between having sex and truly making love? In this episode, we’re talking about how to bring your whole self—your body, mind, heart, and soul—into your intimate moments with your spouse. You’ll hear powerful stories of real couples who felt disconnected in their sex lives, even with consistent physical intimacy. Together, we’ll explore what it means to move from mechanical, eyes-closed sex to something deeper and richer: emotional presence, vulnerability, and connection. If you’ve ever felt alone after sex… if your body is there but your heart feels miles away… this episode is for you. You’ll learn what “eyes open sex” looks like in real life, why we sometimes hide from true intimacy, and how small, intentional shifts can lead to transformational closeness in your marriage. Whether you're looking to reignite connection or take your intimacy to the next level, this episode is packed with practical tools, encouragement, and hope. Resources & Events: Men’s & Women’s Intimacy Coaching Cohorts – starting Sept 2 Virtual Intimacy Getaway – Sept 26–27 Free Masterclass Join the Private Facebook Group

If you’re a woman who’s never had an orgasm, struggles to orgasm consistently, or wonders if what you’ve experienced really counts—this episode is for you. I want you to know this: you are not broken, and there is absolutely hope. In this episode, I share seven key truths about female orgasm, why it matters, and how you can move forward—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We’ll talk about: Why orgasm is a skill you can learn (you’re not defective!) The importance of creating the right environment How psychological, relational, or spiritual blocks might be getting in the way Why self-exploration and vibrators are powerful, shame-free tools What supportive husbands can do to truly help (and what not to do) I’ve worked with many women who felt hopeless and stuck, and I’ve seen time and time again that healing, pleasure, and confidence are possible. You don’t have to figure this out on your own. You have permission to want this. You have permission to grow. And you are so worth the effort.   🎉 Exciting news! 👉 Our next round of Women's and Men's Only Small Coaching Groups kicks off September 2. 👉 Our brand-new Virtual Intimacy Getaway is happening September 26–27. 👉 You can also watch my free masterclass to learn how hundreds of couples are overcoming their barriers and finding joy in their sexual relationship. Head to GetYourMarriageOn.com for all these and more.   Other Related Resources 252: Cunnlingus Mastery: 12 Tips Every Husband Should Know Before Going Down on His Wife 239: Sharing the Mental Load for Great Sex, with Dr. Morgan Cutlip 121: How I Learned to Orgasm: A Sextimony with Ashley      

What does white rice have to do with pornography? I know that sounds like a strange question, but stick with me here because this analogy completely changed how I understand what pornography does to our relationships. I'll also share a more compassionate, Christ-centered approach to overcoming pornography habits that doesn't rely on shame or willpower alone. Here's what we'll cover together: • The surprising history of rice and what happens when you strip away the "bran" - and how this perfectly illustrates what pornography does to sexuality • Why shame, hiding, and secrecy actually prevent us from growing and healing • How to embrace your full sexual nature alongside your spouse instead of in isolation • A more nuanced view on sexual imagery, arousal, and discernment that might surprise you If you've been struggling with pornography or if it's affected your marriage, this episode will offer you hope and a more loving way forward. Because here's what I've learned: building a marriage that's deeply nourishing - body, heart, and soul - requires us to understand the difference between empty calories and real intimacy. Let's dive in.   👉 Let us know what you think of this episode in our Free Facebook Group. And don't forget to download the Intimately Us app for more tips, and check out the Get Your Marriage On program for personalized help.

Did you know that two-thirds of heterosexual couples in the United States use lubricant during sex? That number might not surprise you when you consider all the benefits of using quality lube for enhanced pleasure and intimacy. While there are many different kinds to choose from, in this episode I'm excited to introduce you to a new and innovative lubricant that I've been personally using and loving - and I want to share it with you! I'm bringing on Justin and Natalie, the inventors of Evree, for what I'm calling a "quickie episode." This is just for fun because I genuinely believe in their product and want you to learn about it too. Check it out at https://evreesensation.com/ and use code INTIMATELY for 10% off! You might discover a thing or two about quality lubricant and intimate massage cream that can take your marriage to new heights of pleasure and connection! Whether you're new to using lube or looking to upgrade your current routine, this conversation will give you practical insights into choosing products that truly enhance intimacy in your marriage. If you're looking for other ways to enhance intimacy in your marriage, check out the Intimately Us app for fun bedroom games or our FREE CLASS if you're trying to figure out how to overcome differences in desire.    

Discover the art of cunnilingus and its powerful impact on intimacy. Explore twelve essential tips that help husbands improve their technique while fostering deeper emotional connections. Learn about common mistakes to sidestep and the importance of genuine enjoyment in the process. Delve into the anatomical aspects of pleasure and understand how a respectful approach can enhance the experience. Whether you're a novice or looking to refine your skills, this conversation is packed with valuable insights for every husband.

We’re diving into a topic that’s often overlooked—but full of potential for deeper connection and pleasure: the frenulum orgasm. In this episode, we'll cover the following: The anatomy and sensitivity of the frenulum How this kind of orgasm compares to the female clitoral orgasm Positions and techniques to try together Why it helps build patience, mindfulness, and emotional closeness And how to make this a fun, low-pressure experience that builds trust Whether this is totally new to you or you're just curious, this episode offers a gentle, practical guide to trying something new with your spouse that just might unlock a whole new level of intimacy. ✨ Plus: If you're struggling with mismatched sex drives or want help growing your sexual connection, check out our free class!