Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

Do you know what arouses you? Knowing that could completely change the way you show up in the bedroom. In this episode, we dive into the difference between desire and arousal, and why understanding your own arousal triggers is the missing link to greater confidence, deeper intimacy, and more passionate sex in marriage. We cover the history of our scientific understanding of arousal and the sexual experience, including our most recent insights on how context, trust, and emotional closeness play a huge role in arousal—especially for women. We’ll also explore how positive sexual experiences build on each other, creating momentum for more intimacy and joy in your relationship. By the end, you’ll not only understand the science of arousal better, but you’ll also walk away with ideas you can use to strengthen your connection, boost your sexual confidence, and build a marriage that feels more alive and passionate than ever! Don't miss . . .  Our Virtual Getaway – The Anatomy of Arousal (Sept 26–27): a spicy, nourishing, live, at-home retreat for couples, plus so many bonuses! Our Private Facebook Group: Christian Couples Improving Sex & Intimacy

What if the biggest blocker to a thriving sex life isn’t desire, kids, or schedules—but your mindset? In this episode, master coach Jody Moore joins me to show how small shifts in thinking can create big changes in intimacy. We cover: Why “keeping your spouse happy” quietly destroys connection The surprising reason lower-desire partners stay stuck Common mindsets that sabotage sexual arousal  Clean pain vs. dirty pain in marriage And don't miss Jody’s black-belt sex tip! Sextember is on! Make September your 30-day intimacy reset inside the Intimately Us app. Plus: Virtual Getaway – The Anatomy of Arousal (Sept 26–27): a spicy, nourishing, live, at-home retreat for couples Coming next week: Sex Seminar with 25 experts—join our email list for details Ready to think differently and feel closer? Hit play—and let’s get your marriage on.

Masturbation often stirs controversy in marriage, especially in conservative circles. This discussion offers fresh insights into its cultural history and the damaging effects of shame. It emphasizes the integration of sexuality and spirituality to foster deeper connections. Real-life stories from couples reveal how honest conversations can replace guilt with intimacy. Whether you support or oppose the act, the focus is on creating a safe space for open dialogue and enhancing marital bonds.

What if you and your spouse chose one area of your relationship to focus on—and committed to it for 30 days straight? That’s the heart behind our tradition at Get Your Marriage On called Sextember—a month dedicated to intimacy, playfulness, and connection in marriage. In this episode, I share the surprising backstory that inspired Sextember, including a 30-day experiment that transformed not only one woman’s marriage but also her happiness and even her appearance. You’ll hear how this idea grew into a challenge for couples everywhere, why September is the perfect time to reset patterns, and how you and your spouse can join in this year. Plus, I’ll tell you about our upcoming Virtual Getaway: The Anatomy of Arousal—a spicy, nourishing, two-day experience you can enjoy together from home or a hotel. If you’re ready to have fun, grow closer, and see the before-and-after difference in your marriage, this episode will show you how to make Sextember your best month yet!

What happens when one spouse suddenly stops initiating intimacy? This can lead to feelings of rejection and disconnection for both partners. Discover four practical steps to navigate this tricky situation and rebuild your emotional bond. Tune in to hear a real couple's journey and learn how to foster understanding instead of blame. The advice shared aims to help you untangle intimacy issues and reignite that spark in your marriage.

Discover the intriguing world of female ejaculation and how it can enrich intimacy between partners. Learn why novelty in marriage is vital and explore ways to connect without performance pressure. The discussion includes real-life stories from couples who embraced squirting later in their relationship, leading to deeper bonds. Whether you're curious or eager to enhance your intimacy, get practical tips and a playful perspective on nurturing your connection.

Discover ten innovative ways to enhance intimacy in your marriage! Learn about the 9 to 1 anticipation pattern, the magic of eye contact, and specific positions that can elevate your experience. Dive into the common mistakes couples make and why aiming for 'good enough' might actually lead to long-term satisfaction. This conversation brings fresh inspiration for couples looking to deepen their connection and enjoy a more fulfilling intimate life.

Join sex coach Danielle Savory, who empowers women to embrace their pleasure, in a candid conversation about oral sex. She shares how giving can be profoundly pleasurable and meaningful, reshaping intimacy in marriage. The discussion tackles societal pressures, self-acceptance, and communication in sexual experiences. Danielle also offers practical tips on enhancing oral techniques while emphasizing the importance of both partners' desires. This enlightening talk encourages a deeper emotional connection and challenges conventional views on intimacy.

What’s the difference between having sex and truly making love? In this episode, we’re talking about how to bring your whole self—your body, mind, heart, and soul—into your intimate moments with your spouse. You’ll hear powerful stories of real couples who felt disconnected in their sex lives, even with consistent physical intimacy. Together, we’ll explore what it means to move from mechanical, eyes-closed sex to something deeper and richer: emotional presence, vulnerability, and connection. If you’ve ever felt alone after sex… if your body is there but your heart feels miles away… this episode is for you. You’ll learn what “eyes open sex” looks like in real life, why we sometimes hide from true intimacy, and how small, intentional shifts can lead to transformational closeness in your marriage. Whether you're looking to reignite connection or take your intimacy to the next level, this episode is packed with practical tools, encouragement, and hope. Resources & Events: Men’s & Women’s Intimacy Coaching Cohorts – starting Sept 2 Virtual Intimacy Getaway – Sept 26–27 Free Masterclass Join the Private Facebook Group

If you’re a woman who’s never had an orgasm, struggles to orgasm consistently, or wonders if what you’ve experienced really counts—this episode is for you. I want you to know this: you are not broken, and there is absolutely hope. In this episode, I share seven key truths about female orgasm, why it matters, and how you can move forward—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We’ll talk about: Why orgasm is a skill you can learn (you’re not defective!) The importance of creating the right environment How psychological, relational, or spiritual blocks might be getting in the way Why self-exploration and vibrators are powerful, shame-free tools What supportive husbands can do to truly help (and what not to do) I’ve worked with many women who felt hopeless and stuck, and I’ve seen time and time again that healing, pleasure, and confidence are possible. You don’t have to figure this out on your own. You have permission to want this. You have permission to grow. And you are so worth the effort.   🎉 Exciting news! 👉 Our next round of Women's and Men's Only Small Coaching Groups kicks off September 2. 👉 Our brand-new Virtual Intimacy Getaway is happening September 26–27. 👉 You can also watch my free masterclass to learn how hundreds of couples are overcoming their barriers and finding joy in their sexual relationship. Head to GetYourMarriageOn.com for all these and more.   Other Related Resources 252: Cunnlingus Mastery: 12 Tips Every Husband Should Know Before Going Down on His Wife 239: Sharing the Mental Load for Great Sex, with Dr. Morgan Cutlip 121: How I Learned to Orgasm: A Sextimony with Ashley