Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell 282: Pressure vs. Passion: How to Pursue Your Spouse That Invites Connection
Jan 9, 2026
Dan Purcell, a sex and intimacy coach and creator of the Intimately Us app, dives deep into the nuances of pursuing intimacy in marriage. He explains the critical difference between pressure and genuine desire, highlighting how emotional connection fosters attraction. Dan candidly discusses the importance of honest communication and the impact of masking feelings. He also shares practical tips to enhance intimacy, including understanding erotic types and the power of self-reflection, making it a must-listen for couples seeking deeper connections.
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Prioritize Emotional Connection First
- Connect emotionally before expecting sex to be connecting.
- Build emotional safety first so sexual desire follows naturally.
You Always Communicate Who You Are
- You are always communicating, even without words.
- Who you are (your presence) matters more than scripts or phrases.
Be Honest Instead Of Masking
- Stop masking feelings and practice honest, kind disclosure.
- Reveal your inner state so your spouse can truly know and trust you.
