Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Who would think God would hide from us? We all have moments when we sense a distance from God. We can still find comfort in God's hidden presence. Despite our best efforts, it can feel like God is hiding Himself, which leaves us longing for His presence. However, God never leaves you nor forsakes you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Isaiah 45:15 - "Truly, you are a God who has been hiding himself, the God and Savior of Israel." But even if God is hiding from you, He is still your God and Savior. You know, God challenges our faith. Yet we still have to understand that He is still doing work on your behalf. You may feel a little distant, but that doesn't mean He's not moving mountains for you in the background. It might seem surprising to acknowledge that God hides Himself, but it is a reminder that His ways and methods are beyond our comprehension. In times of feeling distant from God, we may question His presence and wonder why He allows such periods of perceived absence. However, as we read here in Isaiah, it challenges us to have faith and trust in His sovereignty, even when we cannot fully grasp His ways. Just like the hidden God in Isaiah 45:15, we must learn to trust in God's unseen work during seasons of distance. Although we may not always perceive His presence, God is continuously at work in our lives, orchestrating events and molding us according to His plan. The K.I.S.S. ~ Find comfort in God's hidden presence! And that's another reason why we need to be in His Word. Because the Bible acts as a compass, guiding us closer to God, even when we feel distant. By diving into God's Word, you get to discover comfort, direction, and the assurance of His unfailing love. It's in those pages, that His Words speak comfort to us when we feel like we are playing hide and seek. I mean think about this, there are stories in the Bible of individuals who experienced God's hidden presence but were ultimately drawn nearer to Him. So during these times of perceived distance, prayer becomes a lifeline to connect with God. Pouring out your heart to Him, sharing your struggles, doubts, and desires, bringing Him into your present circumstances. Although God's response may not always be immediate or evident, our prayers serve as an avenue for that intimacy with Him. Now most people don't want to hear that God having His ringer turned off is normal for us here on earth. And it's not because of what God lacks, but what we lack. And that, my friend, is the greatest reminder why our faith must be stronger than any feelings. Because feelings are fleeting. But God's love for you is forever. So cling to His promises, seek Him diligently in His Word, pray, worship, and be grateful for the blessings you choose to see. As you navigate through these seasons where God appears to be hiding, may your faith be strengthened, and may you find hope, comfort, and unwavering trust in our risen Lord and Savior. God's got you! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

How do you nurture hope in marriage? You only succeed to the proportion you work at it. Despite whose fault is what, you can impact and preserve the flickering flames of hope. Navigating a marriage where one spouse seems less invested can be disheartening. It's a challenge! But it's important to know that you, as an individual, can still make an impact. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Now I must say that when you're in the thick of it, everything seems impossible. But as you know, nothing is impossible with God. And if you are willing and ready to take A.I.M., God will work on your spouse while you work on yourself. You see, that's the problem. Most people blame their spouses for the troubles in their marriage. Yet just as it takes two to tango, it takes two to get you where you are; good, bad, or ugly. So you genuinely want to nurture hope in your marriage, you have to be willing to look in the mirror. Because if not, you might as well turn off this episode and stop listening to me. You need to do your part in order to nurture hope in your marriage. So what can you do since you're in it to win it? The K.I.S.S. ~ Be in it to win it! You have gotta be in it to win it. You have got to be drivin' the boat, not just floating in the water. Because eventually, you'll sink otherwise. 1. Lead by Example When there are situations where one spouse appears less committed, it's crucial to lead by example and demonstrate the qualities you desire in your marriage. By doing so, it allows you to make a positive impact while still respecting your partner's journey. a. Communicate with compassion: Enhance your communication skills by expressing your hopes, concerns, and desires with love and empathy. Show your commitment by listening actively. Respond thoughtfully to your spouse's needs. b. Foster personal growth: Focus on your own personal growth and development. By becoming the best version of yourself, you not only increase your confidence but also inspire your partner to embark on their own journey of self-improvement. c. Show love and kindness: Even in the face of challenges, continue to demonstrate love, kindness, and gratitude. Small gestures, acts of service, and affectionate moments can reignite a spark and remind your partner of the beauty and potential of your relationship. 2. Seek Professional Support When faced with a seemingly imbalanced level of commitment, seeking professional help can be a transformative step. A marriage counselor or therapist can provide guidance, tools, and strategies to navigate the challenges you may be facing. If you're in the water, you need to know how to get back in the boat. a. Encourage the idea of counseling: Approach the subject of counseling with sensitivity and grace. Express your willingness to make a positive change and emphasize the potential benefits that professional guidance can bring to both individuals and the relationship. b. Attend counseling sessions individually: If your spouse remains hesitant to attend joint sessions, consider going for individual counseling to address your struggles, gain clarity, and develop strategies for coping with the situation. Individual growth can often spur positive change within the marriage. c. Explore books and resources: Supplement professional counseling by reading books, listening to podcasts, or participating in online programs that focus on personal and relationship development. Share what you learn with your partner, creating opportunities for open and meaningful discussions. 3. Prioritize Self-Care When faced with a challenging marriage dynamic, it's important to prioritize self-care as a means of maintaining your own emotional and mental well-being. Taking care of yourself helps you approach the relationship with a calmer mindset and a renewed sense of hope. a. Practice self-reflection and self-awareness: Regularly take time to reflect on your own feelings and emotions. Understand your own needs, triggers, and boundaries, as well as what you are willing to work through to preserve your marriage. b. Engage in stress-relieving activities: Engage in activities that bring you joy, cultivate peace, and reduce stress levels. Whether it's exercise, meditation, journaling, or spending time with friends, these activities will nurture your emotional well-being and provide you with the necessary strength to navigate challenges. c. Set healthy boundaries: Establish and communicate healthy boundaries within the relationship. This will help protect your emotional well-being while fostering an environment for open communication and mutual respect. Inspiration and Hope While it may be challenging, remember that all hope is not lost. Many couples have experienced seasons where one partner was less invested initially, only to witness remarkable transformations in the future. So understand this... - Change is possible: People can grow and evolve in unpredictable ways. By fostering an environment of love, acceptance, and support, your spouse may eventually undergo a positive transformation. - Focus on your own growth: By prioritizing your personal development, you create a ripple effect that can inspire change in your spouse. Lead by example and allow your growth to ignite the spark of transformation within your marriage. - Keep the lines of communication open: Continuously communicate your feelings, concerns, and hopes with your spouse. Honest and vulnerable conversations can be the catalyst for positive change. Remember, each marriage is unique, and no situation is entirely hopeless. Hope is not lost in a day! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

When summer arrives, and you are in the middle of all the chaos, parenting seems to go out the window. Survival mode kicks into overdrive. Yet, you can find joy in imperfect summers; why bad looks good. Let's be real! We, as parents, often find ourselves wrestling with mixed feelings. On one hand, there's the excitement of a break from school and the prospect of fun family adventures. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co But on the other hand, there's the challenge of managing unpredictable schedules, keeping the kids entertained, and maintaining a sense of order. It's easy to label these moments as "bad," but what if we shift our perspective. Come on! Let's look at these things a little differently. Then we have the opportunity to discover, that even in the chaos and unpredictability, there is an abundance of goodness. Right now, I want you to imagine that your summer is full of possibilities and potential. So let's embrace the imperfect moments of summer and uncover the hidden gems that make this season truly beautiful. The K.I.S.S. ~ Uncover the hidden gems! 1. Embrace Spontaneity Summer often disrupts our usual routines and schedules, and this can initially feel unsettling. However, instead of trying to control every moment, embrace the beauty of spontaneity. Allow yourself and your children to experience the joy of unexpected adventures, spontaneous playdates, and impromptu outings. These moments create lasting memories that cannot be replicated in a structured environment. Remember, it is in the moments of unplanned happiness that the best memories are made. Also, if you like teachable moments. Technically, you're teaching flexibility. Plus, you're getting to flex those muscles yourself. We all could use a little muscle memory, too. 2. Find Beauty in Simplicity Without the demands of school, summer offers a unique opportunity to slow down and savor the simple pleasures of life. Take time to enjoy lazy afternoons at the park, family picnics, or beach outings. Embrace the simplicity of children's laughter, melting ice cream, and warm summer breezes. Often, the most treasured moments are found in the simplest of experiences. 3. Cultivate a Grateful Heart Gratitude is a powerful tool for shifting our perspective from negative to positive. Instead of focusing on what feels overwhelming or challenging, choose to focus on the blessings that come with the summer season. Practice gratitude for the extra time you get to spend with your children, the opportunity to explore new places, and the chance to create beautiful memories together. Gratitude has the power to transform our mindset and help us see the goodness even in the midst of what may seem "bad." As parents, we often strive for perfection in our efforts to create an ideal summer experience for our children. Yet, it is important to remember that perfection is an illusion. Embrace the imperfections, the messiness, and the uncertainty, knowing that it is in these moments that true growth and joy reside. As American writer Henry David Thoreau beautifully said, "It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see." Look beyond the chaos and find the beauty in the imperfect moments that make your summer season truly extraordinary. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Our past is woven with both triumphs and failures, most of which we display the negative tapestry in our minds. Instead of getting caught up in what was bad, look to the good; remember the lessons. It's easy to get lost in the regrets, disappointments, and mistakes that have dotted our journey. But what if erasing those mistakes meant erasing the invaluable wisdom and growth we've acquired along the way? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co It's a profound thought, one that reminds us to remember the lessons rather than dwell on the disappointments. For it is in this remembrance that we unlock the power to shape a future filled with impact and growth. Within each mistake, there is a hidden treasure waiting to be discovered. Instead of allowing our past missteps to define us, we have the opportunity to reflect upon them and extract the lessons they hold. Through this process of self-reflection, we can identify patterns, recognize our strengths, and acknowledge areas where we can still grow. It is through the wisdom gained from these reflections that we pave the way for better decision-making in the present and future. Disappointments can weigh heavy on your hearts, causing you to lose sight of your potential. However, upon closer examination, you realize that disappointment is merely the surface layer. Beneath it lies a profound universe of lessons waiting to be discovered. By shifting your focus from disappointment to learning, you transform setbacks into comebacks; opportunities for growth. Each lesson becomes a stepping stone towards success, guiding you towards better choices and paving the way for a brighter future. Why not build bridges toward your success? The K.I.S.S. ~ Remember the lessons! You have what it takes to unlock your potential from your ability to build resilience and perseverance through learning from your mistakes. And when you face challenges, it is through the lessons you learn that you develop the strength necessary to overcome future obstacles. So embrace the wisdom garnered from our past experiences, which will equip you with the fortitude needed to pursue your goals and make a positive impact on the world you touch. Your past does not define you; it merely provides a canvas upon which you can paint your future. By focusing on the lessons learned, you gain the power to reimagine yourself and envision a future abundant with personal and professional growth. What impact do you aspire to create? What steps can you take today to move closer to that vision? Don't wait another minute. Use the wisdom you've gained from your past and intentionally and actively shape a future that aligns with your values and aspirations. Your dreams are yours to realize. Unfortunately, mistakes are a part of life's experiences. You can't escape it. They shape your character, guide your growth, and illuminate the path to a flourishing future. So, remember the lessons, for they hold the keys to unlocking your true potential. As you embrace the wisdom of your past, you can empower yourself to make a positive impact in your own life and the lives of others. Your future awaits. Create your now. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

In our fast-paced lives, health goals seem to take a backseat. Don't let old habits die hard. Adopt what can serve your greater health; out of sight, out of mind. We often find ourselves giving in to temptations and falling back into unhealthy habits. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co However, by understanding the psychology behind the concept of "out of sight, out of mind," you can gain a new perspective on your well-being and pave the way for lasting positive change. Nothing is impossible! And yes!! You matter!!! But you have to understand that good or bad can be front and center. So you want to make sure you are building habits that create your now with an emphasis on well-being! The K.I.S.S. ~ Create your now! Life is too short to wait. You can do everything in one day. But you can take one step. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness! ~ Kristianne Wargo 1. Create a Supportive Environment a. Remove Temptations: When unhealthy snacks are within arm's reach, it's hard to resist them. Replace these items with nutritious alternatives like fruits and nuts. b. Organize Your Space: A clean and well-organized living space can promote a calm and focused mindset, making it easier to prioritize your health goals. c. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences: Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals who share similar goals can provide inspiration, encouragement, and accountability. 2. Mindful Meal Planning a. Stock a Healthy Pantry: Fill your kitchen with nutritious ingredients to make meal prepping a breeze. Keep fresh produce visible and easily accessible, encouraging you to choose them over less healthy options. Color draws us closer. b. Portion Control: Use smaller plates and bowls to manage portion sizes. When we see less food on our plate, we naturally consume fewer calories but still feel satisfied. c. Meal Prepping: Prepare your meals in advance, portioning them into individual containers to minimize decision fatigue and avoid relying on last-minute fast food choices. 3. Utilize Technology Effectively a. Fitness Apps: Download fitness apps to track your activity levels, set goals, and receive reminders. These apps keep your health in focus, even on busy days. b. Healthy Recipe Apps: Explore apps that offer a vast collection of nutritious recipes to experiment with, making healthy cooking exciting and fun. c. Social Media for Inspiration: Follow health and wellness influencers or join online communities to stay motivated and gain insights from others on the path to better health. 4. Mental Well-being First a. Digital Detox: Limit screen time before bed, as exposure to blue light can disrupt sleep patterns. Establish a tech-free zone in your home to foster relaxation and disconnect from distractions. b. Mindfulness Practices: Incorporate mindfulness techniques like meditation or yoga into your daily routine to help manage stress levels and focus on your overall well-being. c. Celebrate Your Progress: Acknowledge and reward yourself when you reach milestones on your health journey. This positive reinforcement will help you stay motivated and enthusiastic about making further improvements. By embracing the "out of sight, out of mind" concept and applying it to our health goals, we can create an environment that supports healthy living and fosters positive habits. Keep the temptations away but with the good in front! Be mindful and persevere. You can change the course of your well-being and pave the way for a happier, healthier life. Remember, a small step today can lead to significant transformations tomorrow. Let's harness the power of psychology and take charge of our health one day at a time! "Train for life. Love your journey!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

When you stay focused and remain consistent with extreme conviction, obtaining your goals and dreams soon become a reality. As the U.S. celebrates her freedom, it's time to declare your independence. "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness." Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co As we gather today, on the 4th of July, to celebrate the freedom we enjoy in the United States, it is essential to remember the incredible journey our forefathers embarked upon to make their dreams a reality. With unwavering focus and a burning desire to create a new nation, they put pen to paper to craft the Declaration of Independence, forever changing the course of history. When the founding fathers penned the Declaration of Independence, they made a bold declaration, asserting their determination to break free from the chains of oppression. Their conviction and courage remind us of the importance of clarifying our own goals and aspirations. Just like them, declare your independence from self-limiting beliefs, distractions, and doubts. By declaring your intentions, you set yourself on a path to success. The K.I.S.S. ~ Declare your independence! In the pursuit of your dreams, it is easy to get sidetracked by comparison or the desire to emulate others. However, those who signed the Declaration of Independence understood the significance of staying focused on their own vision. Just as they did not look side to side but remained united in their goals, you must learn to stay in your own lane and cultivate your unique talents and strengths, your God-given gifts. This unwavering focus enables you to make the most significant impact in your life and the lives of others. The journey to independence is seldom easy. The Founding Fathers experienced numerous challenges and setbacks in their quest for freedom. Yet, they never wavered or lost hope. Instead, they held on tightly to their belief in their vision. Similarly, you must remain steadfast in your commitment to your dreams, embracing the inevitable ups and downs that come with it. The process of realizing your goals often leads you down unexpected paths, fostering personal growth and creating a journey of a lifetime. "And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred Honor." The 4th of July serves as a reminder of the incredible power that comes from staying focused and encouraged in the pursuit of our dreams. Just as our forefathers found inspiration in the Declaration of Independence, you can draw strength from their conviction to declare your own independence and create your now, a called life with passion. Stay in your lane, resist comparison, and embrace the journey ahead, knowing that with focus and encouragement, one step at a time leads to miles of greatness (Kristianne Wargo)! Have a blessed Independence Day! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Freedom begins in the mind, and it is within your power to choose a mindset that sets you free. Declare your independence today and unlock your true potential! When we're in search of personal growth and success, the power of the mind and what happens within it, meaning your mindset, cannot be overlooked. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Just like the Declaration of Independence marked the birth of a nation founded on freedom and self-determination, we too can harness that spirit to declare independence from our own limiting beliefs. You can certainly draw inspiration from both Biblical principles and the ideals captured in the Declaration of Independence to the point where you can unlock your potential and lead a life filled with purpose and fulfillment. The K.I.S.S. ~ Freedom begins in the mind! 1. The Freedom of Choice Just as the Declaration of Independence proclaims the unalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, we find a similar concept echoed in biblical teachings. Both emphasize the importance of having the freedom to choose our thoughts, beliefs, and actions. By realizing that we have control over our own minds, we can break free from the constraints of self-doubt and negativity. 2. Pursuit of Truth and Self-Discovery The Declaration of Independence suggests the need for critical thinking and the pursuit of truth. Similarly, the Bible encourages us to seek wisdom, knowledge, and a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us. By adopting a growth mindset, we can continuously learn, evolve, and challenge our existing beliefs. This pursuit of truth and self-discovery allows us to break through limitations and expand our horizons. 3. Relying on Faith and Conviction The Declaration of Independence was a bold act fueled by the faith and conviction that a better future was within reach. Similarly, biblical teachings encourage us to have faith in ourselves and our abilities. By anchoring our mindset in unwavering belief and determination, we become empowered to overcome obstacles, persevere, and accomplish great things. 4. Embracing Resilience and Perseverance The journey to independence, whether personal or national, is often paved with challenges and setbacks. The Declaration of Independence underscores the resilience and perseverance required to achieve freedom. Similarly, biblical stories show us that trials and tribulations can be stepping stones to personal growth. Developing a mindset of resilience allows us to overcome adversity and bounce back stronger. Just as the Declaration of Independence symbolizes the birth of a nation founded on the principles of freedom and self-determination, it can serve as inspiration for our own personal journeys of growth and transformation. By adopting a mindset that embraces choice, truth-seeking, faith, and resilience, we can break free from self-imposed limitations and create a life filled with meaning, purpose, and freedom. Let us declare independence from our own limiting beliefs. Stack your ground. Get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal fulfillment. Remember, freedom begins in the mind, and it is within your power to choose a mindset that sets you free. Declare your independence today and unlock your true potential! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Mindset #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

One way to define faith is by your actions or lack thereof. God guides you to positions, places, and possibilities. But it's up to you to take the first step. Are you waiting for God to go first? In our journey of faith, we often find ourselves waiting for God to make the first move. We look to Him for guidance, direction, and miraculous interventions. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co But you must be willing to step out in faith, even when you cannot see the outcome. So take a deep breath. I want you to explore the concept of walking by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7), and how taking the first step can lead to extraordinary possibilities. Paul is writing to the Corinthians, specifically addressing the believers in the city of Corinth. This verse is part of a larger letter that Paul wrote to the Corinthian church to address various issues and encourage them in their faith. Preaching the truth of Christ to the world has brought Paul and his co-workers great suffering, yet they persist and persevere in contending for the faith. They refuse to give up, living with unwavering courage because they firmly believe in the resurrection of Christ. They eagerly anticipate receiving glorified, eternal bodies that will free them from all earthly burdens and striving. As Paul eloquently expresses in 2 Corinthians 5:7, they walk, or rather live or make a habit, by faith and not by what they see. In other words, their unshakable belief in the gospel, including their own resurrection and eternal fulfillment, that they too will be raised up, allows them to see beyond the present struggles. They may experience death, pain, suffering, adversity, opposition, and challenges, but they consider the unseen, yet promised, blessings awaiting them with Christ as more real than any temporary hardship in the present moment. The K.I.S.S. ~ Are you waiting for God to go first? Because you are called by God to walk by faith. Throughout the Bible, we are reminded of the importance of walking by faith. This verse encourages you to trust in God's plan, even when it doesn't appear logical or feasible. Just like Peter walked on water when Jesus called him to step out of the boat (Matthew 14:28-31), you too are called to trust and obey, even in the face of uncertainty. And remember, God guides, you decide. While God goes before you, leading you to positions, places, and possibilities, He also desires for you to participate actively in your faith journey. He wants you to step out in faith, even before you see the outcome. Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths." By acknowledging God and following His guidance, you open yourself up to incredible opportunities and blessings. Of course, you've got to step out in faith. Just as Peter experienced the freedom of walking on water once he took that first step, you too can experience the freedom and abundance that comes from walking by faith. When you decide to trust God and act in obedience, you tap into His strength (supernatural power and provision). It may not always be easy, and you will face challenges along the way, but by taking that leap of faith, you open yourself up to an extraordinary life of purpose and fulfillment. Don't wait for God to make the first move. Instead, choose to step out in faith and trust in His guidance. Remember that faith is not merely a belief system, but rather a transformative experience that requires action. Just like Peter, walking on water requires stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing the unknown. Allow God to go before you, but be willing to cut in line and take that first step. As you walk by faith, not by sight, you'll discover the incredible possibilities that lie ahead. PRAYER: God doesn't want you to be a shadow. He wants you to step out in faith. God wants you to lead as He guides you so you can impact the world that you touch. May God continue to open the doors as you stay ready and willing to walk by faith, not by sight. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. 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**Summary:** "Marriage isn't always smooth sailing. We've all experienced those moments when our buttons get pushed. But do these triggers reveal more about us than we'd like to think? This episode delves into the challenging aspects of relationships, suggesting tactful and loving ways we can respond to these trying circumstances. Learn how living out virtues like empathy, gratitude, and effective communication can not only ease tension, but also forge stronger bonds between spouses. It might not be easy, but your marriage is worth the work. Dive in if you're ready for some real talk on marriage." **Key Points:** 1. **Practicing Empathy:** Understand your spouse's perspective even if their actions or words hurt or frustrate you. Reacting defensively is not the way to go. Instead, aim to understand the sentiment behind their words or actions. 2. **Cultivating Gratitude:** Focusing on your spouse's flaws can hinder unconditional love. Shift your focus towards the things you appreciate about them. 3. **Effective Communication:** When faced with uncomfortable situations, respond thoughtfully instead of impulsively. Practice active listening to foster better understanding. **Links Mentioned:** - Bible verses quoted: - [Ephesians 4:32](https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%204%3A32&version=NIV) - [Philippians 4:8](https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Philippians%204%3A8&version=NIV) - [Proverbs 15:1](https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+15%3A1&version=NIV) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube. 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Parents play a crucial role in shaping our children's future. Our expectations have the potential to either become a sturdy brick wall limiting their growth, or a stairway to greatness. How will the power of your expectations set your kids up for success? Think about it. Where you place the floor or the ceiling for your child will most definitely have an impact on what they do in their lives. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Most parents want what's best for their kiddos. Oftentimes, parents set high expectations, basically raising the bar so they will turn out better than themselves. Who doesn't want to empower their child to soar to new heights? However, setting those expectations can come with a cost. Now, sometimes it's worth the cost, but how do you know? Are you doing what's right for your child, or is what you are doing actually stunting your child? I was reading a prayer from Timothy Keller who is an American pastor and theologian who's written many books, and it really took me back. Honestly, I was getting ready for my son to come home and visit from his internship for the holiday weekend, and so obviously, I made a parent-child connection. "If you love anything at all in this world more than God, you will crush that object under the weight of your expectations, and it will eventually break your heart. ~ Timothy Keller, prayer" As I began to break it down, I couldn't help but think how my expectations could actually be hurting my child. And not that I meant to. But what is really best for your child? Because when they fail, we hurt. The way you raise up your child has an incredible impact, good or bad. And who wants to crush their child? No one!!! We want our children to succeed and experience more success than we had growing up. Yet, what we think might be good for our children, maybe it's more for us than them. How do you know the magnitude of the power of your expectations for your child will set them up for success? You've gotta build stairways, not walls. The K.I.S.S. ~ Build stairways, not walls! Expectations play a significant role in shaping the lives of our children. However, it is essential to approach this power with wisdom and balance. The Bible often speaks about the significance of guiding and training up our children. Proverbs 22:6 ~ "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old, they will not turn from it." Establishing a strong foundation rooted in faith and virtuous values enables our children to navigate life's challenges with integrity, intentionality, and direction. Lead with Unconditional Love: Central to our role as parents is the unconditional love we have for our children. The Bible repeatedly emphasizes the power of love in nurturing growth and development. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, we are reminded of the characteristics of love: patience, kindness, protection, trust, and perseverance. By embracing these qualities, it allows us to create an atmosphere of acceptance and support, where our children can explore their passions, make mistakes, and learn valuable life lessons without fear. Again, you are building the stairway, not the wall. Guide with Grace: Our expectations should be grounded in grace, understanding, and empathy, rather than imposing unattainable standards. Perfection does not work! The Bible encourages us to be patient and compassionate in guiding our children. Ephesians 6:4 ~ "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." Avoid harshness and instead parent with discipline that fosters growth, discipline infused with love and understanding. Recognize Individuality: Just as each of us is unique, so are our children. So celebrate individuality and honor the diverse talents and gifts bestowed upon your children. Romans 12:6 ~ "We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us." By nurturing their individual passions, interests, and strengths, you will equip your children to discover their true potential and pursue their unique calling. Building Character and Resilience: This is where balance comes in. Your expectations should not only focus on achievements but also on character development and resilience. Trials and challenges are essential for building strength and character. James 1:2-4 ~ "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance." By instilling a growth and abundance mindset within your children, you teach them to embrace challenges, learn from setbacks, and develop the resilience needed to navigate life's obstacles; what's getting in the way. Mom, Dad– we hold the privilege and responsibility of shaping our children's lives. You have got to be willing to set your expectations to the side and tap into what God has in store for your child. You can't build a stairway of greatness on your own strength. You need God to do the impossible. So by harnessing the power of expectations rooted in biblical principles, you can become agents of growth and empowerment, fueling your child's journey towards greatness. Get on your knees. By embracing love, wisdom, and grace, you create an environment where our children can thrive and fulfill their God-given potential. Don't think you've got it all under control. Approach parenting with humility. Keep your family rooted in God's Word. And as you train them up with good ethics and morals, and biblical teachings, and become the catalysts for their stairway to greatness. "Be present. Be incredible. 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