Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Being a parent can be a rollercoaster ride, wondering if you're doing it right. It's common to ask yourself if you're being too strict or if you're being too lenient. Are you a confused parent? Because, in reality, most of us parents are confused. We try to make sure we're setting the right foundation for our child's future. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co But let's be real - there's no guarantee. And I know that doesn't make me feel good or confident. No wonder we are confused. So join the party! That's why many parents share the same concerns. However, the good news is that there are practical steps you can take to feel more confident in your ability to raise your kids. Trust yourself more. The K.I.S.S. ~ T.R.U.S.T. yourself more! As a parent, you know your child better than anyone else. Trust yourself more and have confidence that you are making the best possible decisions for your child. Remember, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting. What works for one child may not work for another. Trust that you have a deep understanding of your child's needs and adapt your parenting style to suit their individuality. 1. TALK Openly communicate with your child, engage in meaningful conversations, and foster a trusting relationship through effective communication. Engage in open and honest communication with your child. This involves creating a safe space to share thoughts, concerns, and emotions. When you build a healthy dialogue, you build trust and strengthen the parent-child relationship. 2. REASSESS Reassess your parenting approaches and constantly seek opportunities for growth and improvement. Regularly reassess your parenting approaches and strategies. This involves reflecting on your actions, acknowledging what is working well, and identifying areas for improvement. By being open to self-reflection and making necessary tweaks, you can feel more assured in your decision-making. 3. UNDERSTAND Understand that each child is unique and embrace their individuality to build a strong connection. Spend the time to understand each child's individuality, needs, and perspectives. This involves empathy, active listening, and taking the time to truly comprehend your child's thoughts and feelings. By cultivating a deep understanding, you can respond sensitively and effectively to your child's unique requirements. 4. SEEK Seek support and knowledge from fellow parents, support groups, or professionals who can provide guidance and reassurance. Recognize the importance of seeking out help from others. This includes reaching out to other parents, joining support groups, or seeking guidance from professionals. By connecting with a community of support, you can find reassurance, gain valuable insights, and learn from shared experiences. You aren't doing it alone, even though, at times, it does feel pretty lonely. 5. TIME Take the time to reflect on your parenting journey and take time to spend time with your child. Allow yourself time to rest, recharge, give yourself a break when you need it, and practice self-care. Parenting is demanding, and taking care of one's own physical, mental, and emotional well-being is vital. But on the flip side, you need to spend time with your child. Do your best to have "real time" together. And that's when you hang out with no expectations from you, but simply to be present. You need to see and hear your child. "Parenting is not about being perfect; it's about building a relationship. Choose unconditional love, and the rest will follow." ~ Kristianne Wargo Remember, parenting is a journey that evolves over time. Embrace the fact that you will make mistakes along the way, but also understand that those mistakes are opportunities for growth and learning. Through the journey, you will find your unique path to successful parenting. So, take a deep breath, T.R.U.S.T. yourself more, and know that you are doing just fine. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

In a world filled with exponential comparisons, it's easy to find ourselves settling for half-hearted efforts. But deep down, you know you are capable of so much more. So why shy away? Give your best! The truth is that our worth is not determined by our achievements or what others think of us. We are worthy simply because we exist. We are deserving of love, respect, and success, regardless of our thoughts or external judgments. It's time to break free from the chains of comparison and embrace our true worth. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Oftentimes, we get caught up in the need to prove ourselves to others. We think that unless we are constantly pushing ourselves to the limit, we won't measure up. But in reality, the only person you need to prove anything to is yourself. Your worth and value come from God, not from external validation. Imagine a world where you let go of the need to compare yourself to others. Instead, you focus your energy on giving your best to God who created you. "Take away the comparison and see what God sees; He created you to be fearfully and wonderfully made in His image." ~ Kristianne Wargo The K.I.S.S. ~ Give your best! When you shift your perspective and start giving your best to your Heavenly Father, everything falls into place. You begin to operate from a place of peace and gratitude with one true purpose in mind. And when you live authentically God's way, you are able to make a greater impact on the world you touch. Giving your best doesn't mean constantly striving for perfection. It means showing up authentically and fully present in every moment. It means being intentional in your actions and pursuing excellence in everything you do, whether it's in your personal relationships, your career, or your own personal growth. So let go of the need to settle for mediocrity or so-so. You are worthy of greatness. Embrace the truth that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Give your best to God, who sees and knows your true worth, and watch as your life transforms in ways you never thought possible. Remember, you are worthy no matter your thoughts or what others say. With a mindset rooted in God's truth, you can give your best and live a life of purpose and impact. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Most of the time, we are enthralled with getting everything done in the fastest way possible. But usually, that means something falls through the cracks, and we don't realize it until it's too late. Get some traction with the art of habit stacking. Too often, we find ourselves racing against the clock, trying to accomplish as much as possible in the shortest amount of time. While this may be the quickest way to empty the trunk of your car, it often leads to things falling through the cracks, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and disorganized. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co However, if you were to take a few extra steps, you could actually create a system that works for you, not against you. It's called your habits. What a blessing it is to have the ability to have habits that work for you, or at least, that is how it should be. But isn't that why you're here? You want to create healthier habits that lead to transformation in the best way possible. Habits are the daily routines and rituals that shape our lives. They can either be our greatest allies or our biggest obstacles. The key is to harness the power of habits and stack them strategically to create a foundation for success. The K.I.S.S. ~ Stack your habits! By doing so, you can optimize your time, increase productivity, and ultimately transform your life in the best way possible. So, what exactly does it mean to stack your habits? It refers to the practice of linking multiple habits together, creating a sequence that, eventually, becomes effortless over time. By leveraging the power of habit stacking, you can efficiently tackle multiple tasks and goals without feeling overwhelmed. Here are three practical ways to implement habit stacking into your daily life: 1. Anchor Your New Habit to an Old Habit (that is working for you) Morning Routine: Start your day with intention by creating a morning routine that sets the tone for the rest of the day. Begin with a simple habit that works now and anchor a new one. After you go to the bathroom, you wash your hands, brush your teeth, and now you add in a stretch. Once you establish that new habit, then stack it with another new habit. By linking habits together, you'll establish a momentum that carries you through the day with focus and purpose. 2. Do It Every Day Consistency is key when it comes to sustainable change. You need to consistently do the routine you establish. And when you do this, your daily life becomes more manageable and less overwhelming. 3. Celebrate the Progress Remember, small wins are big accomplishments. Those are your daily trophies. Wouldn't it be nice to get a trophy for stretching every morning? Imagine your bookcases! Progress comes with consistency. "Habits are not just routines, they're building blocks for the life you desire." ~ Kristianne Wargo By intentionally stacking your habits, that's one way to create your now! Build that solid foundation when it comes to your health and well-being. Take the time to evaluate your current habits and start weaving them together in a way that propels you forward. It's all about that one step. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo Embrace the art of habit stacking and experience your life as it transforms. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

In the pursuit of our dreams, belief plays an undeniably influential role. It's the foundation upon which we build our goals, shape our mindset, and drive our actions. Believe! As you know, belief is the power to fuel your determination, especially when you're weary and uncertain. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co It empowers you to keep moving forward, reminding you that you're capable of achieving greatness. Belief is a powerful force that propels us beyond our comfort zone and into the realm of possibility. When we choose to believe, we are essentially declaring our unwavering faith in ourselves and our abilities. It is this unwavering belief that enables us to take each day as an opportunity to make wise choices that align with our goals and desires. "Belief is the spark that ignites the fire within, propelling you towards your dreams." - Kristianne Wargo The K.I.S.S. ~ Believe! It is crucial to understand that our feelings are transitory and should not dictate our beliefs. Feeling tired or unsure does not diminish the power of belief. In fact, it's during these moments of doubt when our belief takes on even greater importance. We must consciously choose to anchor ourselves in the awareness that our feelings do not define us. Instead, we should focus on the unwavering conviction in who we are becoming and the abilities we possess. Belief is not a passive state; it thrives on action. Each step forward, no matter how small, is a testament to our belief in ourselves and our dreams. It is essential to recognize that greatness is not achieved overnight but through consistent, intentional effort. We must hold onto the belief that our continuous pursuit and dedication will ultimately lead us to the pinnacle of success. As we navigate the journey towards our aspirations, we must remind ourselves that our belief in our own worth and potential is unshakable. In moments of weariness, self-doubt, or even failure, belief becomes our guiding light, illuminating the path once again. It is through belief that we cultivate resilience and maintain the unwavering determination to forge ahead, no matter the obstacles we encounter. Embrace the power of belief as your most valuable asset as you chase your dreams. Allow it to infuse each day with renewed purpose, reminding you that you are more than enough. Trust that your belief in yourself will carry you through the highs and lows of the journey, proving that perseverance and resilience are the building blocks of greatness. Belief acts as a catalyst for progress, empowering us to move forward toward our goals even when we feel tired or uncertain. It anchors us in the unwavering faith in our own worth, potential, and abilities. Embrace belief as the unyielding force that propels you towards a journey of greatness. In steadfastly nurturing your belief, you will overcome obstacles, embrace resilience, and ultimately triumph over adversity. Trust in your belief, take action, and witness the incredible transformation that unfolds as you tap into its power. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Life has a funny way of throwing us curveballs when we least expect it. We find ourselves at a crossroads, standing at the intersection of uncertainty and hope. But it won't be like this for long. Or will it? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co In those moments, it's natural for our inner optimist to remind us that the grass is greener on the other side. We cling to the belief that things can only get better, and that a brighter future awaits us. But what if, despite our best efforts, the situation doesn't improve? What if we find ourselves stuck in a seemingly endless rut? It is in those testing times that we must dig deep and find the strength to refocus our efforts and energy. The K.I.S.S. ~ RE-focus! But you and I both know that's easier said than done. You think you have your new year all set, and already, you've been derailed 3 times. You know, maybe this morning was your third time. However, you can't live in the rearview mirror. At some point, you have to rise up and make a change by challenging yourself to do something that you haven't tried. And I know that's a scary and frightening place to hangout. Yet, it's also full of adventure and wondrous opportunities. So why not just dive in? 1. JUMP!! It is essential to change our mindset and embrace the power of shifting or pivoting. Often, we become so fixated on what we thought our journey would be that we fail to see the opportunities and possibilities that lie before us. It's time to let go of the rigid expectations you've had and instead embrace the idea of flexibility. JUMP!!! "Life is not a straight line; it is a winding road full of twists and turns. Embrace the detours, for they may lead you to the most incredible destinations." ~ Kristianne Wargo By shifting our thinking and being open to new possibilities, we can transform challenges into opportunities. What you see as impossible now becomes possible. Why? Because you are ready to create your now! Jump!! 2. RE-FOCUS!! When faced with adversity, it becomes crucial to refocus our efforts and energy. It's easy to get caught up in dwelling on what went wrong or fussing over it. And because it didn't meet your expectations, you're ready to call it quits. But instead, direct your energy towards what you have control over – your actions, your attitude, and your goals. Take inventory of your strengths, talents, and passions. Where can you make a shift and RE-focus your time and energy differently, whether it's acquiring new skills, pursuing a passion project, or exploring different avenues? RE-focusing allows you to take off your expectation glasses and lean in a little more with some gut-reaction glasses. Think of them as 3D glasses. You go see a movie in 3D, but if you don't have the right glasses, you don't see what everyone else gets to see. "RE-focus and take A.I.M.! Action ignites motivation, which leads to the details later. Sometimes you get stuck on the details that you don't take A.I.M.!" ~ Kristianne Wargo 3. BECOME!! As you navigate the path of wisdom and personal development, hold onto who you are becoming while moving forward. It's easy to lose sight of our core values and beliefs when confronted with challenges. We let loose in all the wrong ways during those challenging times. "Stay true to who you are becoming, and trust yourself." ~ Kristianne Wargo When facing the reality that "it won't be like this for long," dig deep and find the strength to jump, refocus, and become your best selfie. "In every moment of uncertainty lies the opportunity for growth, change, and your best selfie." ~ Kristianne Wrgo Embrace the journey, for it is in these transformative moments that you'll find the doors you've been searching for. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? 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(https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

How much are you running around trying to catch yourself from falling, attempting to escape mistakes, relationships, and even success? And in all that, who do you see in the mirror? Get a grip on grace. We are only a few days into the new year and already I hear people complaining about what they can't do, where they can't go, and who they can't find. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co They seem to be struggling with the roller coaster of life. Yet, they're not looking to make any changes, at least that's what their actions show, and they keep getting on the same amusement ride looking searching for the magic key. Unfortunately, many who continue to live this life find themselves exhausted, frustrated, depressed, and anxious all because of what they don't have. However, today, I want to invite you to the table. I want you to sit with me for a moment and not let distractions get in the way. This is your divine appointment to hear exactly what God wants you to hear. But you have to slow down to speed up. When you look in the mirror, who do you see? And I want you to be honest, brutely honest! Do you see a person who is trying to live a life for everyone else with little to give back to herself? Do you see a person who has tired eyes and a heavy heart that pants for rest, but can't find any time? Do you see a person who wants more than where they're at, but has absolutely no idea where to stop in order to start again? God did not create you in His image to destroy the hope He gave you through His Son, Jesus Christ. God did not create you to run ragged, only to put yourself in a corner that you can't escape. God did not create you to look in the mirror and see yourself. God created you so you could see His reflection! The K.I.S.S. ~ Get a grip on grace! My friend, God wants you to see Him in you. But the crazy thing is that... you're too busy, you're too in debt, you're too distracted, you're too consumed by the world. You're too. God desires for you to know Him and to glorify Him. That is your divine purpose. But unfortunately, we see our lives through the lens of the world; and that's where the missteps happen. You judge yourself critically, not giving yourself the grace that God extends to you every day. You run yourself ragged, hoping to get noticed when God sees you. You fight battles alone, because you haven't invited God into your army. Get a grip on grace. I was singing the song "Amazing Grace" in the shower this morning thinking about my dear friend who is walking his last steps of greatness here on earth. Thankfully, the water soothed my tears as they fell from my eyes. Some things just have no words. All you can do is hold them close in your heart, and deeper in your soul. But one thing my dear friend, Dan Miller, taught me, is to "Be still, and know that I am God." ~ Psalm 46:10. And it wasn't with his words or his teachings, it was simply him living. Living a life that showed him how to get a grip on grace. Where are you, my friend? As you sit at the table, what are you struggling with? Give it to God. Don't try to hold it close and think you can do everything by yourself. Go deeper with God and get a grip on grace, the only grace that can give you freedom. And that doesn't mean you will have all the answers in a snap or by tomorrow morning. It means that when you look at yourself in the mirror, you see a little more of God and a little less of you. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

In every marriage, there are times we feel like we've done everything to improve the relationship. Yet, we yearn for a deeper connection, a more harmonious love for one another. Build stronger bridges. But as you know, this doesn't come easy. It's a combination of intentional actions that eventually builds the bridge of greater love. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co But where do you start? Is it even possible? There are many people who believe that once you hit a certain point, there's no other option. Keep what you have (which doesn't seem like much), or drop the gauntlet and get a divorce. And in truth, that's the reality of a lot of people. Maybe it's yours right now. Maybe you have been hanging on by a thread, hoping for something more, but getting nothing. How can you truly transform your marriage and build stronger bridges? It takes one step at a time to build the bridge. The K.I.S.S. ~ One step at a time! Many times, we want to hurry the process out of desperation. We want to make what isn't good go away, and keep only the good and multiply it. However, those actions have fallen flat, because remember, you've tried everything. So let's go a little deeper in order to build that bridge one step at a time. 1. See What Your Spouse Sees Not only do we need to open our hearts, but we need to open our eyes. You've gotta see what your spouse sees; otherwise, what you do is simply through your own eyes– which can be misleading. It's not that you don't see what is happening, but it is one-sided. Marriage is a two-way street. So be willing to go two-way, not just driving on the one-way that seems to be easier for you. One of the main ways you can do that is through communication. Communication is the foundation of any successful marriage. Yet, it is often the first thing to deteriorate when couples face challenges. So to build stronger bridges, it's crucial to embrace effective communication. And that being seeing what your spouse sees. What is your spouse's body language when you greet them after they return home from work? A conference? A night out with their friends? What do your spouse's eyes say when you bring up various topics for discussion? Do you get eye rolls? Do you get a person who leans in more? What is it? When you talk, do you all speak only through texts, or maybe you're on your digital device to keep you occupied? Create a safe space for open dialogue, free from judgment or criticism, which means you have to be open to what your spouse sees. Remember that effective communication is a two-way street. 2. Spend Time Together In the hustle and bustle of life-- you've got the busyness. But do you have the heart? Let that sink in. Sometimes we are so focused on the honey to-do list that we forget what really matters. Yes, you have to pay attention to all the responsibilities like kids, bills, supper, and laundry, but you can't forget the partner you said you wanted to do it all with. So don't let time slip through the cracks. Schedule those regular date nights or carve out dedicated moments each day for undivided attention. Go to bed to spend time together, whatever you want to do. But these are precious moments and time you'll never get back. Put away the distractions and focus solely on your spouse. Engage in activities to reconnect and nurture your shared interests. Quality time allows you to experience joy, laughter, and intimacy, reigniting the flame of love and strengthening your bond. 3. Show Gratitude and Appreciation There is nothing more powerful than stepping out of your ego and letting someone else know that you appreciate them, and that what they do matters! Gratitude is a powerful tool in building stronger bridges in your marriage. Expressing appreciation for your spouse and acknowledging their efforts can have a profound impact on your relationship. And maybe you do it periodically. But what if you did it every day from a genuine position of love? Make it a habit to show genuine gratitude for the little things they do, whether it's a thoughtful gesture or simply being there for you. Till the soil in your home by planting appreciation seeds. Remember, a simple "thank you" can go a long way in strengthening the bridge that connects you both. "Marriage is not just about finding the right person, but becoming the right person." ~ Kristianne Wargo Ask yourself this question: Is what I'm seeking in my marriage something that I'm giving to my spouse? Are you being kind and considerate, not just because it's easy, but because you really want to? Are you extending forgiveness first? Look at your reflection. That's a great indication of where your heart is right now. If you find yourself yearning for a better marriage, know that there is always room for growth and improvement. You can bridge the gap and build a stronger bridge, one that will last a lifetime. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Parents often find themselves caught up in the busyness of daily life, juggling work, dinner, laundry, plus the kitchen sink. But the most important thing is creating heartfelt connections with your child. "However you want to raise your kiddos, your art must connect to their heart!" ~ Kristianne Wargo Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co And that's the art of parenting– the words you say, the actions that reflect your thoughts, the tone of your voice that sets the stage, and the door that's always open. It's essential that we as parents understand and remember that in order for us to have a complete impact, we must forge an unbreakable foundation. So even when they do stray, they still know that you're always for them. Today, my heart breaks for Perry, Iowa, and what the families are facing there. Perry is a smaller town in Iowa, and I'm sure no one thought this could happen in their town. But even as the new year is upon us, old stuff still shows up. And as parents, we have to ready our families within our own four walls and teach them to the best of our abilities. No one ever thinks that something like this will happen. And it's not because we are arrogant or untouchable, we just go about our every day not thinking that way. But if you want to have an impact on your children, you have got to connect to their hearts. It truly is about creating heartfelt connections with your child. The K.I.S.S. ~ Create heartfelt connections! Now, I will say this. There is no blame here in regard to what happened in Perry, Iowa. In fact, we all should be praying for those who have been affected and make changes within our own families to better ourselves. It's not about perfection, but merely doing better with each decision and encounter we have with our children. As much as we are connected digitally, our hearts are disconnected emotionally. If you want to create heartfelt connections with your children, what does it look like? 1. Engage in Meaningful Conversations Talk to you kiddos!!! Meaningful conversations lay the foundation for building strong connections with your child. In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in superficial discussions or simply exchange pleasantries. Hey, how are you? And then you let it go. Do you really know your child? Take the time to engage in deep conversations, which helps to build that trust. Engage your child in open-ended conversations about their day, dreams, fears, or opinions. Encourage them to express themselves freely while actively listening without judgment. As parents, we are so quick to judge. And very rarely do we apologize for mistakes. Show genuine interest in your child, in what they're doing and what they're challenged with. It comes down to paying attention! 2. Share Experiences and Hobbies Get off your digital space, and share experiences with one another. Some of the most profound connections are forged through shared experiences and hobbies. Take the time to explore your child's interests and actively participate in activities they enjoy. Learn something new with them. It's a new year. Take up something like playing a board game, enjoying a hike together, or taking up a new hobby. Shared experiences create lasting memories and strengthen your bond. By engaging in activities your child loves, you demonstrate your support, encouragement, and willingness to be present in their world. Presence matters! Are you giving it to your child? 3. Practice Mindful Presence In our busyness, it's easy to let moments slip away without recognizing their true impact. When you are fully present, you send the message to your child that they matter and that they are a priority. Slow down and savor the simple joys of everyday life, like cooking together, reading a book before bedtime, or even having a family movie night. By being fully present and engaged in these moments, you emotionally connect with your child on a deeper level, reinforcing their sense of love, belonging, and significance. Your child longs to be seen and heard!! Remember, building heartfelt connections with your child requires intentional effort, but the rewards are immeasurable. "Your art must connect to their heart. Create a strong foundation that will last a lifetime." ~ Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. 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Life is a journey filled with twists and turns. At times, the path ahead can feel exhausting, making us doubt our own abilities and passions. It's time to shatter the roadblocks and unlock the untapped potential within. So instead of giving up, you dug a little deeper. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Think about this...What if you tapped into the resilience within you and rediscovered the burning fire that fuels your desires? It's time to shatter the roadblocks and unlock the untapped potential within. When you first embark on a journey, excitement and motivation often lead the way. You eagerly dive into new experiences, fueled by the initial wave of enthusiasm. However, as time goes on, you encounter obstacles that seem insurmountable, sapping you of all your energy and motivation. But let me tell you, it's during these moments of exhaustion that your true strength emerges. The K.I.S.S. ~ Shatter the roadblocks! "Passion is not always a feeling but a commitment to action." ~ Kristianne Wargo Are you ready to take A.I.M.? Action ignites motivation-- and that is the essence of what it takes to push past the roadblocks that hinder your progress. Passion is not about always feeling motivated or inspired; it's about finding the determination within yourself to keep going, even when you don't want to. It's about building that resilience and tapping into your fire space; that's the place where dreams live, and goals are achieved. So, think about what fuels your desires. What are the dreams and goals you deeply cherish? Take a moment to reflect on what drives you, envisioning the outcome and the impact it will have on your life and those around you. Visualization can help reignite a flickering ember and breathe life back into your pursuits. It's crucial to remember that roadblocks are not permanent. They are detours without motion. Meaning, they are temporary obstacles that test our commitment and resolve. "What does this make possible," my friend, Dan Miller, says. Instead of viewing them as setbacks, consider them as opportunities for growth, for expansion. Every roadblock presents a chance to learn, adapt, and become stronger. But it's all in how you choose to respond. In those moments when you find you're just done, "remember that discipline is the bridge between goals and achievements (Jim Rohn)." And when you embrace discipline, you can push through the resistance and stay on track, even when the going gets tough. Discipline is the act of showing up, day after day, regardless of how you feel. It's about putting in the work, even when the passion momentarily fades. So, embrace the discomfort, dig a little deeper, and confront these roadblocks head-on. As you push through on this adventurous journey of conquering roadblocks and embracing your passion, remember these words: "The person who goes farthest is often the one who is willing to do what others won't (Dale Carnegie)." Uphold your commitment to action for yourself, because therein lies the true power to overcome any obstacle and unlock the extraordinary potential within you. When you're on this journey of shattering the roadblocks, it's not about feeling like doing it; it's about finding the drive to just do it. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Why is it that we complicate things? The new year is in full swing, and so are your ideas of getting healthy. So why not start your year off differently? Write your comeback story. Achieving a healthy lifestyle can often feel like an uphill battle, filled with challenges, setbacks, and never-ending cycles of failure. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co When you constantly find yourself hitting a brick wall, it can be disheartening, and then motivation goes out the window. But fear not, because even in the face of adversity, you have the power to turn things around and write your very own comeback story. But this isn't just any story. It's the story where you honor your reflection and give yourself permission to keep going regardless of failure or success. You have a choice in life, and from here on out, you choose life! So it's time to write your comeback story! The K.I.S.S. ~ Write your comeback story! Today, let's explore ways that will help you come back to what truly matters for your health and well-being. Because as you know, according to studies, only about 8% of people successfully achieve their New Year's resolutions. So let's break the stats this year. And in order to do so, you will need to find a sustainable, long-term approach to healthy living rather than relying on short-lived resolutions. There is no one-size fits all. "True success comes to those who persist through failure." ~ Kristianne Wargo Setbacks and failures are not signs of defeat, but rather opportunities for growth. Step 1: Set Clear and Attainable Goals You have got to be specific, yet with flexibility in mind. Take some time to reflect on what truly matters to you when it comes to your health. Is it losing weight, improving fitness levels, or simply feeling more energized? Define your goals in specific and measurable terms. For example, replace "lose weight" with "lose 10 pounds in the next three months." Setting realistic targets will not only increase your chances of success but also provide you with a clear roadmap to navigate your journey. Step 2: Make Small, Sustainable Changes Don't bite off more than you can chew. Now that you have your goals in place, it's time to implement small, sustainable changes in your everyday. Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither will your healthy lifestyle. Start by making simple adjustments, such as incorporating more fruits and vegetables into your diet, taking the stairs instead of the elevator, or setting aside dedicated time for physical activity. These small changes, when practiced consistently, can have a significant impact on your overall well-being. Step 3: Cultivate a Supportive Network In this, don't share with people who will criticize or judge. Instead, surround yourself with a supportive network so you can achieve long-term success. Share your health goals with family and friends, or even join a community of like-minded individuals if they are going to support you. Having people who believe in you and cheer you on during your journey can provide the motivation and accountability you need to stay on track. Yet consider seeking professional guidance from a nutritionist, personal trainer, coach, or therapist who can offer expert advice tailored to your specific needs. Remember, you don't have to do it alone! Embracing a healthy lifestyle and writing your comeback story is not an overnight process. It's a moment-by-moment, decision-by-decision every day. It requires perseverance, resilience, and a commitment to make sustainable changes. When faced with challenges and setbacks, remind yourself that failure is not the end but a stepping stone to the next best decision. Set clear goals, make small sustainable changes, and surround yourself with a supportive network. With these steps in place, you'll be well on your way to reclaiming your health and creating a lasting change that truly matters. My friend, you get to choose to be six feet under quicker or choose to be a living legacy in six minutes. Start writing your comeback story today! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.