
The Imperfects
We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.
Latest episodes

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Dec 1, 2024 • 1h 26min
Johann Hari - Beware The Thrill of The Magic Pill
Johann Hari, a prolific author and expert on the Western food system, dives into the complexities of our relationship with food. He sheds light on how processed foods disrupt our nutritional wisdom and emotional well-being. The conversation touches on the rising popularity of weight-loss drugs like Ozempic, examining both their potential benefits and emotional costs. Johann and Josh reflect vulnerably on eating habits influenced by societal pressures and delve into the intricate dynamics of diet, body image, and self-acceptance.

Nov 24, 2024 • 1h 37min
Jim Rogers - A Life Bigger Than Dementia
Jim Rogers, a vibrant storyteller diagnosed with early-onset dementia, passionately shares his life’s journey filled with love, loss, and the complexities of navigating health challenges. He reflects on the grief of losing a first love, the surprises of new relationships, and the shocking diagnosis at age 55. Jim blends humor with profound insights, emphasizing the preciousness of family and the importance of living in the moment. His candid thoughts on coping with dementia inspire compassion and gratitude for life's fleeting moments.

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Nov 17, 2024 • 1h 5min
Dr Emily - Resent Less, Live More
Dr. Emily, the resident psychologist, shares her expertise on the profound effects of holding onto resentment. She explains forgiveness as a crucial step for personal well-being, emphasizing that it’s for you, not an excuse for others. The conversation also highlights how unresolved resentment can impede relationships and emotional vulnerability. Dr. Emily offers insights into navigating these tricky emotions, underscoring the importance of open communication and actionable steps towards healing.

Nov 10, 2024 • 1h 28min
Peter Bol - 800m & 3 Free Haircuts
In this engaging conversation, Peter Bol, a three-time Olympian 800m runner, shares his inspiring journey from Sudan to Australia, highlighting the importance of family and resilience. He discusses overcoming a false-positive drug test that derailed his 2023 Olympic aspirations, emphasizing the role of gratitude and positive mindset in facing adversity. The chat touches on the profound impact of sports in building connections and the value of support from loved ones during life's challenges, all wrapped in humor and warmth.

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Nov 3, 2024 • 1h 28min
Janelle Booker - Living With ADHD
Janelle Booker, a psychologist from Western Australia, specializes in ADHD and the Highly Sensitive Person trait. In this engaging discussion, she delves into the unique strengths of those with ADHD, such as creativity, while also shedding light on challenges like executive function struggles and emotional regulation. Janelle emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding for neurodiverse individuals, especially in relationships. She also shares insights on recognizing ADHD in children and the significant connection between untreated ADHD and binge eating.

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Oct 27, 2024 • 55min
Ben Shewry - Making It Right (And Delicious)
In this engaging discussion, Ben Shewry, the acclaimed chef and owner of Attica, reflects on his creative journey and the heavy weight of personal regrets, particularly regarding racism. He shares a profound story about a missed opportunity to address discrimination, emphasizing the importance of accountability and compassion. The conversation also dives into the enriching nature of relationships built on sensitivity and love, highlighting the value of teamwork in the kitchen as parallel to life's challenges. A blend of humor and introspection makes this chat unforgettable.

Oct 24, 2024 • 48min
What's Your ATAR?
Dr. Emily, a regular guest psychologist, dives into the relatable chaos of year 12 exams. The team shares their humorous yet stressful anecdotes, from hiding a possum before an English test to losing a voice on stage. They discuss the pressures teens face and the vulnerability that connects friendships. Reflecting on identity crises and societal expectations, they emphasize the importance of self-acceptance and personal growth, proving that setbacks can inspire unique paths.

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Oct 20, 2024 • 1h 14min
Dr Julia Baird - An Awe-full Conversation
Dr. Julia Baird shares fascinating insights on the power of awe and its role in our lives, emphasizing how everyday experiences can foster resilience and community. The conversation touches on the transformative aspects of grace and forgiveness, particularly in the face of trauma. Personal anecdotes highlight the joy of ocean swimming and the bonds formed within communities. They also discuss the significance of vulnerability in conversations, illustrating how shared stories deepen connections among individuals.

Oct 13, 2024 • 1h 4min
Jack Post-Natal Depression
Jack Post, an Australian radio personality known for his roles on Hamish and Andy and the Christian O’Connell Show, candidly shares his journey with postnatal depression. He tackles the disconnect new fathers can feel and the societal pressures that accompany parenthood. Jack highlights the importance of seeking help and the transformative power of therapy, emphasizing the need for open conversations around mental health. His personal anecdotes reveal the complexities of bonding with children and the evolving nature of love in family dynamics.

Oct 10, 2024 • 23min
Getting Vulny - Josh’s Big Announcement
Get ready for some heartfelt revelations! One host bravely shares his journey of embracing vulnerability, opening up about his fears and excitement for a live performance. Expect laughter as they discuss intimacy with clever metaphors. The conversation flows into creative aspirations, exploring the blend of original music and covers. They reflect on the emotional rollercoaster of artistic expression, supporting one another through personal challenges. It’s a celebration of growth, friendship, and courage to show up authentically!