This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

Baya Voce, a relationship repair expert with an MSW from Columbia University and mentee of Esther Perel, dives into the art of relationship repair. She uncovers surprising truths about the happiest couples and the ongoing practice of repair. Baya discusses how modern virtual interactions can impoverish our relational skills and defines critical boundaries in partnerships. She also teaches four essential skills for effective conflict resolution, emphasizing that repair can be learned, enabling couples to rebuild trust and deepen connection.

Shownotes How purity culture manifests in women’s bodies and sexual experiences Why a woman’s pleasure is a gift to everyone around her How ecstatic states purify and cleanse the soul  Why shame is actually the gateway to pleasure A powerful practice that saved Dr. Kim’s life Why Jesus’ ministry would not exist without the women who supported it   Bio Dr. Kimberly Rose Pendleton is a speaker, writer, teacher and the founder of UNCOVER, a 7-figure global lifestyle brand focused on intimacy, pleasure and women’s empowerment.   With a M.A. from Yale, a PhD, in-depth coaching training and many years of experience, Dr. Kim considers it a deep honor and pleasure to weave the intellectual side of empowerment, healing and intimacy work into embodied, playful pleasure practices.   Learn more about Dr. Kimberly and her work on her website and find her on all social media platforms @drkimberlyrosependleton.   Timestamps 00:00:48 - Guest introduction 00:02:49 - Layla shares her religious history 00:05:57 - Why Jesus’ ministry would not exist without the women who supported it 00:09:32 - Religious conditioning is baked into our society 00:09:56 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:12:55 - How purity culture manifests in women’s bodies and sexual experiences 00:14:58 - The reality of women who follow the rules of purity culture 00:19:06 - An MRI study from Daniel Bergner’s book What Do Women Want? proves that women silence their pleasure  00:26:29 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:30:40 - Pleasure is something all of us can access 00:37:51 - Dr. Kim shares a powerful practice that saved her life 00:40:30 - Why shame is the gateway to pleasure 00:42:30 - Explore the magic of  MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:44:09 - Why a woman’s pleasure is a gift to everyone around her 00:44:51 - How ecstatic states purify the soul from Ritual Texts for the Afterlife: Orpheus and the Bacchic Gold Tablets by Fritz Graf and Sarah Iles Johnston 00:49:11 - A woman connected to her pleasure can do anything 00:52:25 - Dr. Kim shares why her good girl part had to experience a death to liberate her 00:57:29 - Why every woman needs to learn how to activate pleasure 00:57:35 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 01:01:27 - Humans were designed to play multiple notes in life 01:02:24 - Discover Dr. Kim’s free course Harlots and Heretics 01:02:40 - Dr. Kim shares about her experience inside VITA Coaching 01:08:05 - Conclusion  

In this conversation with somatic educator Steven Jaggers, learn about the transformative power of connection over mere healing. He emphasizes how to articulate feelings through body awareness and the importance of attunement in relationships. Jaggers explains why understanding our internal presence fosters deeper emotional bonds. He also discusses the interplay of breathwork and emotional resilience, revealing how this practice enhances authenticity and connection in intimacy.

This episode features Jamie Elizabeth Thompson, a feminine embodiment teacher and founder of Awakened Woman, who guides women in reclaiming their sensual power. Jamie dives into why many women struggle to access cervical orgasms and shares transformative experiences that merge pleasure with healing. Listeners can follow a unique guided practice, discover methods to connect with their cervix daily, and explore the vital link between cervical awareness and a healthy nervous system, all while embracing intimacy and personal empowerment.

Shownotes   How to use pain to carve out space for more joy The key to re-establishing beautiful orgasmic experiences Layla’s experience training terror into safety in her nervous system The tools that allowed Layla to love greater than her relational trauma Why some of our earliest imprints of whether pleasure is safe happen in infancy How to heal trauma from a resource perspective so it becomes a gift   Bio   Emily Fletcher is the founder of Ziva Meditation and has taught over 50,000 people. Her best-selling book, Stress Less, Accomplish More, debuted at #7 out of all books on Amazon and has been translated into 12 languages.   Her work has been featured by The New York Times, Good Morning America, The Today Show, Vogue and ABC. She’s been named one of the top 100 women in wellness to watch and has taught at Apple, Google and Harvard Business School.   A formerly stressed Broadway performer who was going gray at 27, Emily discovered a powerful practice that cured her insomnia and improved her health on the first day. Her transformation was so dramatic that she felt inspired to share it with others.   It’s Emily’s mission to help as many people as possible achieve extraordinary benefits – like dramatically reduced stress, anxiety relief and deep, restful sleep.   Learn more about Emily and her work on her website.   Timestamps   00:01:00 - Guest introduction 00:02:00 - Emily shares her experience inside VITA Coaching 00:02:43 - What surprised Emily about VITA Coaching 00:04:24 - Emily shares about the death portal she’s been experiencing 00:06:26- The pain carves out space for more joy 00:07:05 - What inspired Layla to create VITA Coaching 00:10:39 - How to re-establish beautiful orgasmic experiences 00:13:33 - The answer to women being fractured in their power 00:13:48 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:18:49 - VITA Coaching is an understanding of women’s evolution of power 00:19:55 - The reactivation and reunion of sex, heart and spirit 00:21:45 - What has helped Emily remember her own divinity 00:25:29 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:27:52 - Layla shares her experience training terror into safety in her nervous system 00:30:09 - How the VITA tools allowed Layla to love greater than her relational trauma 00:32:10 - We have organic pleasure chemicals already in our body 00:33:31 - One of the things Layla is most proud of 00:35:59 - Some of our earliest imprints of whether pleasure is safe happen in infancy 00:39:31 - You heal your trauma at the level of consciousness it occurred 00:39:39 - Discover MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:42:08 - If you love who you are, you can love what shaped you into it 00:45:43 - When you heal trauma from a resource perspective, it becomes a gift 00:46:22 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 00:47:26 - Layla shares the most touching thing VITA Coaching grads share with her 00:49:51 - Where to find the most outrageous amount of healing and self-practice 00:53:00 - Save your seat for Your Future is Erotic LIVE Event 00:54:12 - You don’t need to be perfect to be a powerful coach 00:57:02 - Why Layla considers it her responsibility to support your success as a coach 00:57:32 - VITA Coaching niche specializations to scale your impact and income 00:58:54 - Join the VITA Coaching Waitlist and unlock the maximum number of bonuses 00:59:56 - Conclusion  

Nisha Moodley, a Devotional Leadership guide and founder of Global Sisterhood Day, shares her insights on female leadership and erotic power. She discusses the importance of embracing one's sensuality as a form of empowerment and how societal perceptions often repress women's leadership. The conversation highlights the need for supportive environments that nurture connection and tranquility, as well as for women to reclaim their identities while balancing nurturing roles. Nisha also touches on the transformative potential of embracing emotional ranges and authentic self-expression.

Tom Slater, a dedicated teacher and the mind behind The Sapience Retreat, discusses the transformative power of relational work in healing. He emphasizes the need for genuine connections to address trauma and enhance personal growth. Tom shares insights on embracing vulnerability, the importance of self-discovery, and the journey of rediscovering one's inner child. The conversation highlights how authentic emotional expression fosters deeper relationships and supports profound healing, showcasing the beauty of integrating all aspects of one's being.

Shownotes   The best and worst sex ideas of 2025 The one piece of advice Layla would give to everyone Why safety is the #1 ingredient for being orgasmic The biggest sexual problems people face Dr. Emily’s take on why people cheat How sex is a multi-layered experience   Bio   Emily Morse is a doctor of human sexuality and host of the award-winning #1 sexuality podcast, “Sex With Emily,” which has been on air for two decades. She’s a MasterClass instructor on sex and communication and the bestselling author of Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ & Own Your Pleasure. Emily has been profiled in The New York Times, Forbes and Men’s Health and has been featured by The Today Show, Conan, Entertainment Tonight, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Bustle and others.   Dr. Emily’s mission is to liberate the conversation about sex and pleasure. Her candid conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives.   Learn more about Dr. Emily and find her work on her website.   Timestamps   00:00:41 - Guest introduction 00:02:20 - What made you so good at talking about sex 00:04:43 - If you can’t talk about something, then you can’t have an empowering relationship to it 00:10:31 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:11:28 - Layla sexts with ChatGPT 00:14:31 - The worst sex ideas of 2025 00:17:42 - Every human is a magical universe 00:20:50 - Layla talks about her dating journey as a single woman 00:26:14 - The one piece of advice Layla would give to everyone 00:26:56 - The key to how Layla healed her unworthiness 00:31:57 - Even the experts are still human 00:33:41 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:36:53 - Layla and Dr. Emily drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™ 00:41:36 - Why Layla created MOOD Sexy Supplements 00:43:30 - Dr. Emily shares about her journey with somatic therapy 00:47:28 - Safety is the #1 ingredient for being orgasmic 00:48:20 - Discover MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:49:09 - What are the biggest sexual problems people face 00:54:56 - Do people who don’t practice sacred sexuality experience spirituality during sex? 00:57:30 - The divine is there in every moment, winking at you 00:58:27 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside ⁠Crystal Pleasure⁠ 00:59:30 - Dr. Emily talks about why people cheat 01:08:31 - Sex is a multi-layered experience 01:13:40 - How ecstasy amplifies your manifesting powers 01:20:07 - Conclusion

Join Dr. Stan Tatkin, a clinician and relationship expert, as he dives into the dynamics of secure love. He explains the difference between secure attachment and secure functioning, revealing how early experiences shape our relationships. Discover why shared purpose is vital for intimacy and learn to become a 'whisperer' for your partner. Dr. Tatkin also shares insights on the biggest mistakes in modern dating and emphasizes the importance of self-love and genuine apologies in nurturing lasting bonds. Tune in for transformative tips on cultivating deep connections!

Free Guide Shownotes   Layla’s most powerful manifestation ritual Why you have to grieve to step onto a new timeline The key to digesting a negative or heavy experience How to do Sex Magic in 10-15 minutes   Bio   Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe.    Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology.    Layla’s programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.   Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.6 million downloads.    Timestamps   00:00:36 - Introduction 00:01:39 - Why Layla created this manifestation ritual 00:02:44 - What you can use this manifestation ritual for 00:04:39 - Why you have to grieve to step onto a new timeline 00:06:00 - What supercharges this manifestation 00:06:07 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:07:25 - To create a new timeline, you have to shift your nervous system 00:10:02 - The grieving ritual 00:12:34 - The key to digesting a negative or heavy experience 00:12:56 - Layla drinks MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir 00:13:24 - The grieving ritual recap 00:13:38 - Layla’s grief ritual music playlist 00:14:40 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:15:39 - The Sex Magic ritual 00:17:19 - Make your Sex Magic as sensorial as possible 00:19:21 - How to do Sex Magic in 10-15 minutes 00:22:45 - Sex Magic is not just magic, it’s working with your erotic power 00:24:22 - Conclusion