This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

Shownotes   What Eva learned through menopause that she wishes she had known The science behind body changes in perimenopause and menopause Some of the key practices Eva recommends for midlife How meditation supports perimenopause and menopause How Eva’s needs with men and relationships changed through menopause Why Eva calls Kali the Patron Goddess of Menopause   Bio   Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and professional troublemaker whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science.  She's helped thousands of people unlock their innate potential for pleasure, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy.  As a practitioner of sexual tantra for 13 years, her work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful - and she has a particular passion for elevating women in their midlife portal to enjoy the most wildly succulent phase of their lives.   See www.EvaClay.com  Timestamps   00:01:00 - Guest introduction 00:04:02 - Eva shares the story of her first hot flash 00:06:20 - The medical model around perimenopause and menopause 00:07:59 - What Eva learned through menopause that she wishes she had known 00:09:19 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:11:00 - What we offer the world when we’re in menopause fundamentally shifts 00:14:49 - The science behind body changes in perimenopause and menopause 00:17:38 - Why women who prioritize pleasure have a more easeful menopausal process 00:19:44 - The mindset that allowed Eva to have lovers in perimenopause 00:21:47 - Some of the key practices Eva recommends for midlife 00:24:46 - How meditation supports perimenopause and menopause 00:25:56 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:26:39 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:29:03 - Eva shares her love story 00:32:21 - Eva and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:33:52 - How ketamine helped Eva move into a deeper state of body acceptance 00:35:38 - How Eva’s needs with men and relationships changed through menopause 00:38:23 - Eva’s experience with hormones 00:39:34 - Why Eva calls Kali the Patron Goddess of Menopause 00:40:31 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with Obliss 00:42:15 - Why it’s never too late to start these practices 00:46:00 - Menopause isn’t about how you look, it’s about how you feel 00:47:28 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure 00:50:16 - Menopause: you are in full bloom 00:51:03 - Conclusion  

Dr. Nick Brüss, a leading psychedelic therapist and researcher, shares his expertise in healing through psychedelics. He discusses Internal Family Systems therapy and how it complements psychedelic experiences for deeper self-discovery. The stigma surrounding psychedelics is dissected, emphasizing their potential as catalysts for love and healing. Dr. Brüss also highlights the importance of preparation for psychedelic journeys, revealing insights into the transformative power of these substances in confronting trauma and fostering emotional awareness.

Nina Lombardo, a mentor in conscious intimacy and sacred feminine practices, shares insights on the true essence of femininity and the power of surrender. She discusses how surrender in relationships fosters intimacy and growth, contrasting it with submission. Nina emphasizes the importance of navigating energy dynamics compassionately and explains how understanding these concepts can enhance sexual connection. With practical tips on embracing femininity and maintaining vitality, this conversation is a treasure trove for anyone seeking deeper intimacy.

Shownotes   The science behind nervous system imprinting in childhood The importance of going through both concealing and revealing cycles in life How Layla knew there was something inside her worth fighting for The power of turning your pain into medicine Exactly what led Layla to the Tantric path How to break free from the story that we have to be special to be worthy Why the theory of Tantra is nothing compared to the actual practices Bio   Layla Martin:   Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe.    Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology.    Layla’s programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.   Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.3 million downloads.    Jess Magic:   Jess Magic is a “heARTist”, a soul-stirring songstress, a ceremonialist and a muse for today’s generation of visionary leaders and change-makers.   As a transformational facilitator and musical storyteller, Jess creates compelling invitations for people to interact with life from an open heart. In a world where so many are longing for deeper levels of connection, authentic expression and intimacy, Jess uses her humor, music, movement practices and storytelling to effectively weave a "spell" of love and connection that reveals relatable aspects of the human experience that penetrate and crack open the hearts of those who are touched by her presence.   Jess weaves together like-minded communities from San Francisco to Bali and beyond, offering her virtual Free Your Voice programs, Permission retreats, Gospel of Love Brunches and Soul Salons.   Her work has been seen in The New York Times and The London Sunday Times and has supported thousands of men and women from all walks of life in overcoming the shame, fear, and self-judgment that have inhibited their ability to discover, experience and express their feelings, their creative expression and their capacity to create intimacy with themselves and others. Her signature saying is “We don’t sing to be good. We sing to be free."    Learn more about Jess’ work on her website. Timestamps   00:01:08 - Introduction 00:02:55 - Layla shares about her relationship with her father 00:06:39 - Your early years are when your nervous system is imprinted the most 00:09:24 - Layla explores her early relationship with her body 00:11:21 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:12:38 - How Layla knew there was something inside her worth fighting for 00:15:22 - Turning your pain into medicine 00:19:13 - The decision Layla made as a result of her early sexual experiences 00:21:34 - What Tantra means to Layla 00:22:43 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:26:44 - What led Layla to the Tantric path 00:29:00 - Layla shares the story of her Om tattoo 00:38:25 - The world we’re creating is a reflection of our consciousness 00:39:40 - It’s a human right to heal your pain 00:39:53 - Light up your body and sex life with MOOD SEX MAGIC™ 00:42:39 - Layla explores the role of the Priestess Temple in modern day 00:48:22 - The importance of rebuilding sacred spaces 00:53:08 - Can you heal so deeply you can eventually feel grateful for your pain? 00:54:21 - Discover your sexual and relational potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality 00:56:37 - What Layla sees as the path forward toward healing 01:02:19 - We’re all in a process of remembering 01:05:10 - The story we’ve internalized that that we have to be special to be worthy 01:09:03 - Your heartistry is not a vocation, it’s about a vibration 01:12:31 - The theory of Tantra is nothing compared to the actual practices 01:16:18 - Conclusion  

Discover four sacred rituals to boost intimacy and connection in your relationship. Challenge the myth of perfection with practical ways to foster gratitude and effective communication. Explore the significance of expressing love through rituals and learn innovative practices to enhance your sexual experiences. Dive into eye-gazing and erotic massages to create a supportive emotional space. These insights aim to break down barriers and enrich your partnership, encouraging a deeper, more fulfilling connection.

Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a renowned relationship expert with a PhD in Social Psychology, shares her insights on building enduring love. She discusses the concept that 1+1 can equal 3 in relationships, emphasizing collaboration over searching for a perfect partner. Dr. Nasserzadeh introduces six essential ingredients for lasting love, highlighting empathy, communication, and mutual respect. Her unique 'soak together before you sink together' method promotes intimacy and compassion, while practical tips on emotional well-being enhance relational health.

In this engaging conversation, Emmy Award-winning entrepreneur Natalie MacNeil explores the intersection of technology and intimacy. She recounts her first experiences with cyberdildonics and discusses how technology can enhance pleasure across distances. The duo dives deep into the evolution of relationships, touching on constellation relationships and the importance of self-love in contemporary connections. They also ponder the impacts of VR on sexuality and the need for genuine human emotion amidst technological advances.

In this engaging discussion, Jess Magic, a transformational facilitator and ceremonialist, shares her insights on viewing life as a sacred ceremony filled with meaning and connection. She emphasizes the importance of emotional healing and humor in navigating life's challenges. Jess unpacks the concept of the 'Lineage of Lovers' and how vulnerability enriches our experiences. Tune in for tips on embracing intimacy, overcoming self-judgment, and the transformative power of rituals that foster deeper connections and personal growth.

Discover the magic of creating a Tantric partnership that fosters deep connections. Hear the story of a surprising encounter that leads to personal healing and growth. Explore how past traumas can shape relationships and the importance of vulnerability in intimacy. Gain insights into mastering sacred sexuality and the balance of masculine and feminine energies. The journey emphasizes the healing potential of Tantra and the transformative power of love, encouraging listeners to embrace their own paths to deeper connections.

In this engaging conversation, Miki Agrawal, a dynamic entrepreneur known for disrupting industries with TUSHY and THINX, shares her inspiring journey from challenging societal norms to creating impactful brands. She discusses the importance of self-love and embracing authenticity, while also tackling taboo topics like anal cleanliness and its ties to well-being. Miki emphasizes the need for vibrant connections, highlights sustainability efforts with Hiro Technologies, and infuses humor into discussions on entrepreneurship and personal growth.