This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

Discover four sacred rituals to boost intimacy and connection in your relationship. Challenge the myth of perfection with practical ways to foster gratitude and effective communication. Explore the significance of expressing love through rituals and learn innovative practices to enhance your sexual experiences. Dive into eye-gazing and erotic massages to create a supportive emotional space. These insights aim to break down barriers and enrich your partnership, encouraging a deeper, more fulfilling connection.

Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a renowned relationship expert with a PhD in Social Psychology, shares her insights on building enduring love. She discusses the concept that 1+1 can equal 3 in relationships, emphasizing collaboration over searching for a perfect partner. Dr. Nasserzadeh introduces six essential ingredients for lasting love, highlighting empathy, communication, and mutual respect. Her unique 'soak together before you sink together' method promotes intimacy and compassion, while practical tips on emotional well-being enhance relational health.

In this engaging conversation, Emmy Award-winning entrepreneur Natalie MacNeil explores the intersection of technology and intimacy. She recounts her first experiences with cyberdildonics and discusses how technology can enhance pleasure across distances. The duo dives deep into the evolution of relationships, touching on constellation relationships and the importance of self-love in contemporary connections. They also ponder the impacts of VR on sexuality and the need for genuine human emotion amidst technological advances.

In this engaging discussion, Jess Magic, a transformational facilitator and ceremonialist, shares her insights on viewing life as a sacred ceremony filled with meaning and connection. She emphasizes the importance of emotional healing and humor in navigating life's challenges. Jess unpacks the concept of the 'Lineage of Lovers' and how vulnerability enriches our experiences. Tune in for tips on embracing intimacy, overcoming self-judgment, and the transformative power of rituals that foster deeper connections and personal growth.

Discover the magic of creating a Tantric partnership that fosters deep connections. Hear the story of a surprising encounter that leads to personal healing and growth. Explore how past traumas can shape relationships and the importance of vulnerability in intimacy. Gain insights into mastering sacred sexuality and the balance of masculine and feminine energies. The journey emphasizes the healing potential of Tantra and the transformative power of love, encouraging listeners to embrace their own paths to deeper connections.

In this engaging conversation, Miki Agrawal, a dynamic entrepreneur known for disrupting industries with TUSHY and THINX, shares her inspiring journey from challenging societal norms to creating impactful brands. She discusses the importance of self-love and embracing authenticity, while also tackling taboo topics like anal cleanliness and its ties to well-being. Miki emphasizes the need for vibrant connections, highlights sustainability efforts with Hiro Technologies, and infuses humor into discussions on entrepreneurship and personal growth.

Shownotes   What f**king like a goddess truly means How women’s emotions can change the planet Simple steps to take to start healing The difference between conscious and unconscious emotions What alexandra finds humbling about motherhood How to spot a good partner in the first interactions   Bio   Alexandra Roxo is an artist, bestselling author of F*ck Like a Goddess, transformational coach and teacher. She has been featured as a guest speaker on many renowned podcasts and onstage at numerous festivals and events worldwide and has also made multiple TV appearances, including two seasons of Netflix’s hit show, Too Hot to Handle.    Alexandra’s work has been featured in the New York Times, Harper’s Bazaar, Vogue, The Guardian, Nylon and Playboy.    Her latest book, Dare to Feel, is a journey and handbook to feeling and healing the heart, exploring how to work through common blocks to intimacy and passionate living through the power of deep feeling and embodiment. This book is a candid journey through teachings, stories, rituals, practices and poems that radically invite us into our hearts so we can feel empathy, compassion, deep intimacy and love. Timestamps   00:02:15 - Guest introduction 00:04:11 - What does fucking like a goddess mean? 00:05:27 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:08:40 - What a split between your spirituality and sexuality feels like 00:11:00 - Spirit can exist alongside your body 00:15:28 - This is the opposite of shame 00:18:00 - Women’s emotions can change the planet 00:19:53 - Steps to take to start healing 00:21:56 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:24:27 - Emotions are signatures of Goddess consciousness 00:27:39 - The difference between conscious and unconscious emotions 00:32:22 - Layla and Alexandra drink MOOD Sex Magic™ 00:32:34 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:33:44 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:34:54 - Experience the romantic adventure of a lifetime inside The Tantric Mastermind 00:38:41 - What it feels like to truly receive from your teachers 00:40:57 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass 00:46:52 - What alexandra finds humbling about motherhood 00:48:54 - How to stretch your smallest moments as a mom 00:50:45 - Spotting a good partner in the first interactions 00:52:18 - Alexandra describes a truly sacred union 00:54:25 - Conclusion  

Starielle Hope, a relationship and intimacy coach, discusses how successful professionals can enhance their personal connections. She emphasizes the healing power of play in personal growth and highlights the importance of emotional awareness. Starielle provides practical insights on navigating emotions in relationships and the significance of embodied intelligence. She also explores the transformative impact of authentic communication and self-love, sharing methods to deepen connections while addressing the complexities of expressing emotions like anger.

Elayne Kalila Doughty, an ordained priestess and the founder of the Priestess Presence School, shares her insights on the resurgence of the High Priestess archetype. She emphasizes the importance of ritual and spiritual connection for holistic wellness, while addressing the historical suppression of feminine wisdom. The conversation explores reclaiming the divine feminine, navigating pleasure and humility, and the transformative power of community among women. Doughty also touches on the significance of self-awareness and embracing both light and dark in one’s spiritual journey.

Shownotes   How Laurie stayed available to love as she aged Why Laurie and Michael believe couples are an endangered species The core teachings Laurie has learned from Tantra How Tantra gives you hotter sex AND deeper truth Exactly what an RBDSMT conversation is and how it can serve you How to practice consent in a sexy way   Bio   Laurie Handlers is the author of 2 international bestselling books, Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy and Sex & Happiness: It Gets Better with Age. She empowers people to fall deeply in love with themselves and their partners. An expert in the fields of sexuality, intimacy and relationships, Laurie has taught transformational workshops on topics ranging from releasing past emotional trauma, fearless communication and sacred sexuality since 1978.   Michael Gibson is a Certified Sex and Happiness Coach, the co-founder of the Academy for Men and creator of the Extraordinary Lovers Experience; a program that guides couples into long lasting conscious-relating to deepen intimacy, communication and connection. His Academy for Men’s Coaching Program trains men in the skills of presence, communication and exquisite touch, focusing on intimacy, pleasure and healing. Michael is known for the quote, “Consent: don’t have sex without it!”   Partners Michael and Laurie have also created an online community called Laurie Handlers' Inner Circle that serves its members through podcast interviews, online courses and monthly live calls, and offer relationship coaching, workshops and retreats on Extraordinary Love. Timestamps   00:01:36 - Guest introduction 00:03:26 - The story of how Laurie and Michael met 00:06:28 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:07:40 - How Laurie stayed available to love as she aged 00:09:20 - Why older people need boundaries in a different way than younger people 00:12:45 - What allowed Michael to say yes to Laurie changing his life 00:15:21 - The stories women tell themselves that block them from opportunity 00:17:18 - Michael proposes to Laurie in a 5-star Port-a-Potty 00:18:45 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:23:04 - What made Michael cry at his own wedding 00:25:30 - There is no expiration date on your highest dreams 00:27:44 - Why Laurie and Michael believe couples are an endangered species 00:31:18 - When Laurie knew she didn’t want to be in an open relationship any longer 00:35:28 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:36:37 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:37:49 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery 00:40:12 - Laurie shares her experience teaching sexuality in the 70’s 00:44:38 - The core teachings Laurie has learned from Tantra 00:48:49 - The Tantric tools Laurie has seen help other women and herself the most 00:54:06 - Layla talks about the foundational philosophy of Tantra 00:58:54 - Michael explains the saying “Welcome to your life” 01:01:55 - Tantra gives you hotter sex AND deeper truth 01:02:49 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass 01:04:16 - How to practice consent in a sexy way 01:06:53 - Consent is the gift of choice 01:09:50 - Michael explains what an RBDSMT conversation is 01:13:04 - How Laurie and Michael’s RBDSMT conversation began 01:17:33 - The one thing Michael wants men to know 01:20:59 - Laurie’s top advice for women 01:23:54 - Michael and Laurie’s message to couples 01:27:32 - The Return to Love Game 01:29:28 - Conclusion