Woman of Influence

In this episode, I sit down with my friend and founder of Pause Breathwork, Samantha Skelly, for a deeply honest and soulful conversation about evolution, alignment, and faith in both life and business. Samantha shares how her journey as an entrepreneur has transformed into a spiritual assignment—one rooted in artistry, service, and surrender. We talk about what it means to evolve past old versions of success, let go of what no longer feels aligned, and allow business to become a living, breathing expression of who you truly are. We also dive into the importance of slowing down, receiving support, and making peace with change. Samantha opens up about the role faith and prayer have played in her life, her return to her Christian roots, and how she’s learned to invite God into her business decisions. This episode is an inspiring reminder that your evolution is sacred, your alignment is your greatest strategy, and peace comes when you finally trust that you are exactly where you’re meant to be. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  01:11 Meet Samantha Skelly 01:27 The Beauty of Evolution and Presence 02:03 In-Person Podcasting and Rebranding 03:25 The Spiritual Assignment of Business 04:56 Navigating Business Evolution 05:29 The Importance of Service and Authenticity 05:45 Aligning with Your Business's Consciousness 08:19 Challenges of Scaling and Simplifying 13:19 Creating a Vision for the Future 17:21 Allowing Receptivity and Support 21:12 Integrating Faith and Business 23:03 Rediscovering Faith and Christian Roots 24:05 Returning to Church and Spiritual Awakening 25:44 Incorporating Faith into Business 26:33 Personal Faith Journeys and Reflections 29:42 Breathwork and Spirituality 33:31 The Power of Breathwork in Healing and Growth 37:32 Upcoming Events and Future Plans 40:10 The Role of Marriage and Supportive Relationships 42:21 Living Authentically and Influentially QUOTABLES: “  I think that whatever we're willing to tolerate will always be met. And so no matter if it's relationships, business, what have you, if there's something that just keeps being that spiritual sandpaper for you, you've gotta really ask yourself like, what am I tolerating here? And just simply put, raise the standard.” - Julie Solomon  “  I couldn't see a pathway of it being something else. And I think I had an ego layering on that because my ego was like, “well, surely we can't simplify because then the revenue will drop, and if the revenue drops, then we're not gonna continually grow. And what's that gonna do?” So I had to love fiercely, the part of me that was trying to take over by telling me to keep scaling and what I mean by that is like, not destroy it, not cut it off, not badmouth it, but just love the little girl inside of me that's like, “I wanna keep growing. What if I don't? Who am I gonna upset?” - Samantha Skelly  RESOURCES: 💡Just Launched: The Growth Collective: Monthly Coaching With Me—for just $1 Your content deserves to convert, not just be seen. Inside The Growth Collective, you get: Monthly live coaching from me to sharpen your message and content strategy Access to my Content Catalyst custom-built AI tool that help you write content that actually sells A behind-the-scenes look at how I create content that leads to real revenue And you can try it today—for just $1. [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [REFRESH YOUR DRAWER] Replace uncomfortable intimates with Fits Everybody. Start now and ⁠Shop the Fits Everybody Collection today.⁠ [FIND YOUR NEXT MENTOR] From writers to CEOs, they’re all here. Save 15% on MasterClass. [NO MORE EXCUSES] That product you’ve been sitting on? Shopify makes it easy to launch and grow—for just $1/month.

This episode marks a huge milestone—the official rebrand of this show from The Influencer Podcast to Woman of Influence. After seven and a half years, thousands of conversations, and an evolution in both my work and myself, I knew it was time to let go of a title that no longer aligned and step fully into the next chapter. In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of this decision, the identity shifts that brought me here, and why true influence isn’t about followers or performance—it’s about legacy, leadership, and faith. I also walk you through my Identity Elevation Framework—the three buyer identities (former self, working self, and highest self)—and why aligning your message to your highest self buyer is the key to building a business that feels light, sustainable, and deeply aligned. You’ll hear how I’m raising my own standards, what you can expect from Woman of Influence moving forward (including powerhouse guest conversations), and why this rebrand is so much more than a name change—it’s an invitation for you to rise with me. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:00 Introduction and Major Announcement 00:51 Reflecting on the Past: The Influencer Podcast 02:56 The Shift: Identity Elevation Framework 04:25 Understanding Buyer Identities 06:50 Embodying the Highest Self Buyer 08:38 Personal Evolution and Leadership 12:54 Podcast Evolution: New Format and Guests 16:55 Final Thoughts and Call to Action QUOTABLES: “  If your clients are a reflection of your former self, of your working self, your business will always feel heavier than it should.  But when you start speaking to and messaging to the highest buyer identity? You don't just grow, you literally expand.” - Julie Solomon  “   We live in a time where we consume without thinking, where we confuse information with wisdom, where we think that the more we know, the more we care. But influence is not about consuming more. It is about embodying truth and faith because that is what cultivates true influence and impact. Influence without truth is just performance. Influence with faith becomes your legacy.” - Julie Solomon  RESOURCES: 💡Just Launched: The Growth Collective: Monthly Coaching With Me—for just $1 Your content deserves to convert, not just be seen. Inside The Growth Collective, you get: Monthly live coaching from me to sharpen your message and content strategy Access to my Content Catalyst custom-built AI tool that help you write content that actually sells A behind-the-scenes look at how I create content that leads to real revenue And you can try it today—for just $1. [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [TREAT YOURSELF TO BETTER BASICS] Soft, supportive, second-skin essentials are here. Shop the Fits Everybody Collection today. [TURN LEARNING INTO ACTION] Apply insights from the world’s best right away. Start your membership today and get 15% off. [YOUR BUSINESS, YOUR WAY] From branding to checkout, Shopify gives you full control. Start building for just $1/month.

If your business feels heavy—even though everything “looks” successful—you’re not broken, you’re just out of sync with your own evolution. In this solo episode, I dive into what I call unspoken burnout—the quiet misalignment that happens when your brand and messaging are still built around a past version of you. I unpack the three identity stages—former self, working self, and highest self—and explain how “identity lag” can leave your content dull, your launches uninspired, and your energy drained. I’ll show you how to recalibrate your business so it reflects who you are now, not who you used to be, and why serving from your highest identity attracts and activates the clients you’re truly meant for. If you’re ready to stop over-explaining, start embodying, and let your presence do the leading, this episode is your invitation to realign and rise. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:39 Podcast Rebrand Announcement 00:49 Understanding Unspoken Burnout 02:02 Identity Lag: When Growth Outpaces Your Business 02:44 The Identity Evolution Framework 03:12 Former Self: Your Survival Identity 03:42 Working Self: The Functional Identity 04:21 Highest Self: The Embodied Identity 04:52 Realigning Your Business with Your Identity 07:25 The Revenue Accelerator Program 08:15 Conclusion and Call to Action QUOTABLES: “ If your business has started to feel heavy, if you're outgrowing your clients, but you don't know how to shift, if your voice feels muffled inside your own brand, you're not broken. You are just out of sync with the evolution that you are currently on.” - Julie Solomon  “  I wanna ask you very gently, but very clearly, who is your current business still built around? Are you speaking from the version of you who once needed to prove, or the version who's already integrated, grounded, and ready to lead?” - Julie Solomon  RESOURCES: 💡Just Launched: The Growth Collective: Monthly Coaching With Me—for just $1 Your content deserves to convert, not just be seen. Inside The Growth Collective, you get: Monthly live coaching from me to sharpen your message and content strategy Access to my Content Catalyst custom-built AI tool that help you write content that actually sells A behind-the-scenes look at how I create content that leads to real revenue And you can try it today—for just $1. [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [FIND YOUR PERFECT FIT] Bras and underwear that actually fit every body. Shop now. [MASTER NEW SKILLS] From cooking to leadership, it’s all here. Join Masterclass today and get 15% off. [SELL ANYTHING, ANYWHERE] With Shopify, you can take your business global in just a few clicks. Launch now for $1/month.

In this solo episode, I’m bringing you behind the scenes for a private debrief of my live training, The Messaging Reset—because I know not everyone could join us live, and the energy was too good not to share! I walk you through why your business doesn’t rise or stall because of reels, funnels, or ads—it all comes down to your messaging and who you’re actually speaking to. I break down the three buyer identities—former self, working self, and highest self—and show you how misaligned messaging keeps you attracting freebie seekers instead of ready-to-buy clients. I share real client examples, my own hard-earned lessons, and why recalibration isn’t about more strategy but about proximity and alignment. If you’re ready for content that converts and messaging that mirrors your ideal client’s highest self, this distilled training is your roadmap to lighter launches, consistent sales, and a business that finally feels as good as it looks. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:30 The Messaging Reset Recap 03:16 Understanding Buyer Types 05:35 Shifting Your Messaging 08:45 Real-Life Success Stories 13:50 The Revenue Accelerator Program 22:24 Conclusion and Next Steps QUOTABLES: “ Let me tell you this, there is nothing more costly than getting exceptional at building the wrong thing.” - Julie Solomon  “  Highest Self buyers don't need more education. They don't need more information. They don't need more inspiration. They don't need another funnel tweak. They don't need to be convinced. They need to feel like your words see them. They need your message to mirror who they already are.” - Julie Solomon  RESOURCES: 💡Just Launched: The Growth Collective: Monthly Coaching With Me—for just $1 Your content deserves to convert, not just be seen. Inside The Growth Collective, you get: Monthly live coaching from me to sharpen your message and content strategy Access to my Content Catalyst custom-built AI tool that help you write content that actually sells A behind-the-scenes look at how I create content that leads to real revenue And you can try it today—for just $1. [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [FEELS LIKE NOTHING AT ALL] Discover intimates designed to move with you. Explore Fits Everybody here. [LEVEL UP YOUR LIFE] Build skills in business, creativity, and more. Save 15% today here.  [FROM IDEA TO INCOME] Whether it’s a side hustle or your big vision, Shopify has the tools to get you selling fast—for just $1/month.

Stacey Lanholm, a decluttering expert and founder of the Reclaim and Reset method, shares her journey of transforming lives through intentional spaces. She discusses how losing her mother inspired her mission to help women reclaim peace by decluttering. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of clutter, her low-ticket, high-volume business model, and the importance of clear messaging for boosting confidence and conversions. Stacey emphasizes letting go of guilt and the transformative power of a clutter-free environment.

I’m so excited to share this intimate Q&A episode with you! These are the kinds of questions I get asked most often inside my coaching containers, from close friends, and honestly—the ones I ask myself too. In this conversation, I open up about how to know when it’s time to evolve your message, the biggest leadership lessons I’ve learned this year, and what it really looks like to align your business with your highest self. I also dive into staying connected with your partner while building a business, why I don’t believe in balance (but do believe in rhythms), how my relationship with my body has shifted over the years, and the role faith plays in everything I do. Plus, I share the ways I’ve learned to protect my energy while staying soft, open, and deeply loving. This episode is full of heart, honesty, and the behind-the-scenes truths I know so many of us need to hear. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:37 Intimate Q&A Session 01:14 Evolving Your Message and Identity 03:17 Biggest Leadership Lesson of the Year 05:48 Balancing Business and Personal Relationships 07:47 The Myth of Work-Life Balance 10:27 Evolving Relationship with Body and Self-Worth 13:52 Faith and Spiritual Connection 16:16 Protecting Energy and Relationships 20:36 Conclusion and Next Steps QUOTABLES: “ I've learned to hold my boundaries without hardening and to lead without leaking and to love deeply. But only when and where that reciprocity can flow both ways.” - Julie Solomon  “ There are moments of the day that are going to require different rhythms based on the needs of my children, the needs of my partner, of my husband, and my needs, and I can no longer outsource that rhythm to someone else's idea of balance that is wrapped up in this, you know, curated and glorified idea around guilt. That's never made sense to me. I don't know how mom guilt is gonna somehow make me a better mother. I haven't figured that out yet, so I just don't relate to that. But I do relate to the necessary rhythm and just letting yourself off the hook when it comes to balance, because I don't think that it exists.” - Julie Solomon  RESOURCES: [JOIN MY VISIBILITY TRAINING] With just 1 hour a week, my proven content framework will help you refine your messaging and turn your offers into consistent, scalable sales. Click here to get access to my new training! [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [NO TECH? NO PROBLEM.] Shopify’s drag-and-drop templates, AI tools, and built-in support make launching a business easier than ever. Start selling for just $1/month. [UPGRADE YOUR ESSENTIALS] Comfort, stretch, and softness like never before. Shop the Fits Everybody collection now at  SKIMS.com/influencer [LEARN FROM THE BEST] Access over 200+ classes taught by icons. Get 15% off at MASTERCLASS.com/INFLUENCER

In this episode, I’m joined by Nate Coughran, founder of Cookie Finance, for a powerful conversation about money, entrepreneurship, and financial freedom. Nate shares how his own journey led him to create Cookie Finance, a company dedicated to helping people understand their money, build better financial habits, and take control of their futures. We talk about the importance of financial literacy, why so many entrepreneurs struggle with money management, and how simple, intentional steps can completely transform your financial health. Nate also breaks down practical strategies for managing cash flow, setting up systems, and creating confidence around your finances—so you can stop stressing about money and start focusing on growth. If you’re ready to shift the way you think about money and finally feel empowered in your financial journey, this episode will inspire and equip you to take the next step. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:47 Meet Nate from Cookie Finance 02:18 The Importance of Financial Literacy for Creators 05:11 Nate's Journey from Big Finance to Creator Support 06:55 Key Financial Strategies for Creators 11:51 Addressing Common Financial Myths and Misunderstandings 22:02 Understanding Financial Struggles and Seeking Help 22:34 Zones of Genius and Incompetence 23:45 Creative Tax Deductions for Content Creators 29:00 When to Bring in Professional Help 35:57 Introducing Creator Business Essentials 38:49 The Importance of Treating Content Creation as a Business 42:01 Final Thoughts and Resources QUOTABLES: “  We all come with our zones of genius, and then we also come with the areas, that I call our zones of incompetence. We have to know, like this is my genius, this is what I can help people with. But this is also the thing that I need help from other people's zones of genius because I need to make sure that this is good and clean and clear in my business.” - Julie Solomon  “  One of the biggest ways that people are missing out on money is they're too conservative when it comes to deductions. Now you never wanna push the edge and be like, oh my entire life is a write off like you're definitely gonna get in trouble if you do that. But what we find most of the time is people are too conservative.” - Nate Coughran  GUEST RESOURCES: Cookie Finance Cookie Finance Blog @cookiefinance RESOURCES: [JOIN MY VISIBILITY TRAINING] With just 1 hour a week, my proven content framework will help you refine your messaging and turn your offers into consistent, scalable sales. Click here to get access to my new training! [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [MASTER YOUR MARKETING] Looking for an easy way to manage your email marketing, events, and social in one place? Constant Contact has you covered, with AI tools that make it even easier. Test it out free for 30 days and start growing your list the simple way. Try Constant Contact free for 30 days and start growing your list the simple way. [READY TO SELL SOMETHING?] Shopify takes care of the logistics so you can focus on what you do best. Set up shop today for just $1/month!

In this episode, I’m getting real about a truth that’s been rising to the surface for me as I step into my 41st year: your tolerance will always be met by the standard you set. Over the past year and a half, I’ve been taking a hard look at the relationships, partnerships, and dynamics in my life—both personally and professionally—and realizing where I’ve been holding on out of comfort, history, or compassion, instead of true alignment. I share how I’ve been raising my standards, honoring my non-negotiables, and curating an energy that reflects the woman I am today. From spiritual maturity and emotional stability to lifestyle compatibility and respect for timing, I’m learning that when you honor your standards, you don’t lose people—you gain the right ones. If you’ve been feeling drained by certain relationships or dynamics, this conversation will help you see how raising your standard can shift everything. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:00 Introduction and Personal Growth 00:19 Welcome to the Influencer Podcast 00:48 Reflecting on My 41st Birthday 02:21 Raising Standards in Relationships 03:09 Recognizing Misaligned Relationships 04:52 The Importance of Emotional Boundaries 08:58 The Need for Compatibility and Integrity 16:24 Non-Negotiables for Personal and Professional Growth 19:27 Conclusion and Invitation to Connect QUOTABLES: “ This small still voice that I started hearing a couple of years ago, and I think it had always been there. It just started to kind of get louder and the voice was telling me that I was going to start outgrowing a lot of things that no longer served me. A lot of things that had gotten me here, but they weren't going to get me where I was going.” - Julie Solomon  “ I am a work in progress friends. I am not perfect. I am learning and growing and expanding as I go, but I believe that the more accountability that we have to take stock of what no longer serves us and really have people that see that in us and honor those non-negotiables, the more that we can do it for others.” - Julie Solomon  RESOURCES: [JOIN MY VISIBILITY TRAINING] With just 1 hour a week, my proven content framework will help you refine your messaging and turn your offers into consistent, scalable sales. Click here to get access to my new training! [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [MASTER YOUR MARKETING] Looking for an easy way to manage your email marketing, events, and social in one place? Constant Contact has you covered, with AI tools that make it even easier. Test it out free for 30 days and start growing your list the simple way. Try Constant Contact free for 30 days and start growing your list the simple way. [BUILD YOUR DREAM BUSINESS] What if you didn’t have to figure it all out alone? Shopify gives you everything you need—from storefront design to marketing tools—to launch your business for just $1/month. Get started here.

Cherylanne Skolnicki, host of the Brilliant Balance Podcast, joins to explore the transformative journey of authentic leadership. She discusses moving from chasing external validation to embracing one's true self. Key topics include rewriting limiting narratives, the power of personal messaging, and taking responsibility for who we are becoming. Cherylanne also shares insights on the significance of clarity in personal branding and how a feminine approach to entrepreneurship fosters curiosity and connection over mere ambition.

In this special Summer Series Flip episode, I’m bringing you a powerful conversation from when I was a guest on Podcasting Made Simple with my friend Alex Sanfilippo. We dive into one of the biggest reasons content creators and entrepreneurs struggle to convert—it’s not a content issue, it’s a messaging issue. I break down how to refine your message so it actually resonates and moves people to action, plus how to stop over-delivering and start creating content that leads to real results. I also share why I let go of freebies in my business, how to position yourself as the go-to expert in your space, and the importance of standing in your unique energetic authority. If you’ve been showing up, creating value, and still not seeing the growth or conversions you want—this episode is going to be your turning point. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:35 Summer Show Flip Series 01:11 Interview with Pod Match 03:11 The Importance of Messaging 09:40 Specialization in Messaging 14:09 Energy and Authority in Messaging 17:14 Momentum Messaging Framework 25:23 Visibility and Personal Branding 33:37 Conclusion and Final Thoughts QUOTABLES: “  Specialization to me is, if you think about a field, do you wanna take a bunch of seeds and throw them out and maybe you'll grow some wild flowers and maybe they'll be pretty. Or do you wanna take an acorn and plant it deeply in the ground and watch this beautiful oak tree grow?  And so for me, I knew very early on that I wanted to be the oak tree and not the field of wild flowers that could get wiped away at any storm that was gonna come through. I wanted to, you know, have that mighty foundation and that root system to help me sustain.” - Julie Solomon  “ I don't need to have more lead funnels and pay for more leads and bring more people to it. I just need to convert who's showing up better.  And again, you talk about this whole idea of less being more, and I think that is so freeing for any creator online because we get in this mindset of more is more and more is better, but the reality is less of the right thing gives you a better result. ”- Alex Sanfilippo GUEST RESOURCES: You can listen to more of Alex on Podcasting Made Simple RESOURCES: [JOIN MY VISIBILITY TRAINING] With just 1 hour a week, my proven content framework will help you refine your messaging and turn your offers into consistent, scalable sales. Click here to get access to my new training! [JOIN THE CLARITY SIGNAL ] Your success isn’t the problem—your message not matching it is. Join my free, live experience, The Clarity Signal™, on August 7 and realign your message to reflect who you are now. [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram! MUST HAVES THIS MONTH: [MASTER YOUR MARKETING] Looking for an easy way to manage your email marketing, events, and social in one place? Constant Contact has you covered, with AI tools that make it even easier. Test it out free for 30 days and start growing your list the simple way. Try Constant Contact free for 30 days and start growing your list the simple way. [TURN “WHAT IF” INTO “WHY NOT”] That business idea you’ve been sitting on? Shopify makes it real—get started now for only $1/month.