Earn Your Happy

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The importance of detaching Finding balance between privacy and self-disclosure Transitioning into who you want to be + finding the value in the journey Becoming okay with letting go What we do when we are STRESSED + how we sort it out   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Ted Talk with Esther Perel   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about finding balance in privacy, finding value in your journey, being okay with letting go, and what we do when we’re stressed out and how we recover from it.   Review of the Week: acadiachampagne “The Earn Your Happy podcast has everything one could need to harness their inner potential. I’ve been moved to laughter and tears listening to this podcast over this past year. Every episode adds value, brings new perspectives, reminds you to be the best you, for your own sake. I’ve shared the podcast in every avenue possible. I can’t believe I’m just now leaving a review! Lori, your insight is incredible. Thanks Earn Your Happy podcast team!   Question 1: @mallory.lynn.0 “How do you find balance between privacy and self-disclosure?”   Question 2: @babystepsforbigresults “We assume our closets circle should be the most supportive but it doesn’t always work that way. What did you find the most valuable through the transition of becoming who you are now?”   Question 3: @katelynhawkinss “How do you become okay with letting go?” Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Who Alyssa is + how she entered the line of work she’s in Being raised as a conscious child Advice for stepping into your truest self What Alyssa does when fears come up Remembering your self-worth Manifesting money + an exercise to help break free of the fear Ways that Alyssa stays on her path Calling in the relationship you want Upleveling + reaching your highest goals The importance of community   Resources: Learn more: alyssanobriga.com Instagram: @alyssanobriga Read: Getting the Love You Want Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes I am so excited for today’s episode because I am joined by Alyssa Nobriga, founder and creator of Mastery for Coaches, an online business course for conscious entrepreneurs globally. Alyssa is DEDICATED to helping women transform themselves and live more fulfilling lives– don’t you just love that? Alyssa works with so many incredible clients, and has been featured in all types of media outlets for the work she’s doing. I loved this conversation because Alyssa provides SO many tools to apply and use in your life and business. Get ready! This episode is about to give you everything you need to rock this year with all of the confidence you want.   Question Highlights: What sparked your awakening? What were some of the best things that came from being raised as a conscious child? How would you recommend navigating the transition into self-discovery? What are you working through right now? How do we root back into confidence and self-worth? How do you stay on your path?   Alyssa Nobriga is an entrepreneur and renown leader in the coaching and consciousness industry. She’s dedicated to women’s empowerment and has supported tens of thousands of people around the world to transform themselves and live more fulfilling lives. She leads soul-centered professional mastermind groups and has been featured by Deepak Chopra YTC, Forbes, Bank of America, YPO, Psychology Today and many others. Alyssa is the founder and creator of Mastery for Coaches, an online business course for conscious entrepreneurs globally.   She is a licensed clinical psychotherapist with a master’s degree from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. Alyssa is a certified success coach, a graduate of the Byron Katie School for The Work, is trained in Imago relationship therapy and is certified in mindfulness-based therapeutic practices from the Hakomi Institute. She served on faculty at the University of Santa Monica where she holds a second master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why a front row mindset is so important My personal turmoil with being in the front row How you can show up for yourself + others   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes I’ve been thinking at this topic for quite a bit; today we are talking about getting to that next level. This episode is all about getting you to be in your front row mentality in order for you to level up in your life! When it comes down to it, it’s not just the belief that you belong in the front row– it’s about creating your own accountability to SHOW THE HECK UP. Sometimes, it’s not only about showing up for yourself, but showing up for others as well. Listen in to today’s quickie as I share my own struggles with front row mindset + what I do to work through them! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

Topics discussed include the law of attraction, speaking your truth to your tribe, and the top three disciplines for a fulfilling life. Listeners ask about explaining the law of attraction to skeptics and dealing with disagreements within your tribe. The episode also features a review praising the podcast's motivation and realness.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: A little backstory on who Todd is and where he came from Stepping into his alter ego and what that did for him How to create your own anchor to bridge who you are and who you see yourself becoming An amazing research test The difference between the extraordinary world and the ordinary world Recognizing the deep root and working through it Todd’s letter writing practice The struggles that Todd worked through Who his book is for   Resources: Learn more: toddherman.me ; alteregoeffect.com Instagram: @todd_herman Read: The Alter Ego Effect Watch: 5 Secrets to Change Your Life Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes Todd Herman joins me on today’s show! Todd is a High Performance Coach and Strategist for ambitious entrepreneurs, athletes and leaders that want to reach wildly outrageous goals. His signature system, The 90 Day Year, has been named the World’s Top Leadership & Skill Development Program—twice! I am so excited for you to listen to this episode because we are talking ALL about activating your heroic self. You may even find yourself creating your very own alter ego to call on!   Question Highlights: What started happening once you finally stepped in to your alter ego? How do you create an anchor for yourself? What are the steps of getting to the deep root and being able to work through it? What came up for you on the days you were struggling with imposter syndrome? Who is your book for?   Todd Herman is a High Performance Coach and Strategist for ambitious entrepreneurs, athletes and leaders that want to reach wildly outrageous goals.   He’s helped clients reach the Olympic podium, build multi-million dollar companies and establish brands that have become internationally known. He’s owned his sports science training company for over 20 years and his signature system, The 90 Day Year has been named the World’s Top Leadership & Skill Development Program—Twice!   He’s also the author of the forthcoming book, The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life. He dodges taxis in NYC where he lives with his wife, 2 little girls, and one little guy. And is currently the world's worst ukulele player. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What are you pretending not to know? Why don’t you do the things you know you should be doing? What don’t you know that you don’t know? If you achieved all of your life’s goals, how would you feel? How can you feel that along the way? What did I learn today, who did I love, and what made me laugh?   Resources: 35 Questions That Will Change Your Life Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes While searching for inspiration for this quickie episode, I came across this incredible article from Forbes that has 35 life-changing questions, and knew we had to talk about it! In today’s episode, I’m going to share a few of the questions that really spoke to me, and I’ll share my answers with you on the spot. Be sure to take some time today for yourself to look through the questions– they may just change your life like they’ve sparked change in mine! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Keeping high vibe while you’re wait to hear back for something Tips on putting on events and workshops Getting your creative juices flowing What we are resisting + fearing   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Read: The War of Art by Steven Pressfield   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Today, Evans and I talk about being high vibe no matter where you are in life, hosting events, and tips for getting your creative juices flowing!   Review of the Week: Jessib1981 I have followed Lori’s podcast for over 2 years and a few months ago moved across the country and lost my self-development groove. In turn, I recently found myself in a rut, feeling alone & unworthy. While I knew deep down I would find a way back, I had to think of what I needed. On my drive back to VA from WI, I listened to over 20 podcasts back-to-back and felt revived & resuscitated!! I hate to say how long it’s been since I’ve tuned in, but my new favorite episodes are Q&A with her assistant/friend Evans!!! They are awesome and hilarious. Just the vibes I need to surround myself with until I find more of my own tribe. Love you juggernauts!   Question 1: @nataliecturner “How to be high vibe while waiting? Ex: hearing about a work opportunity, text results, etc.”   Question 2: @sigsfitbits “Some tips on hosting your first workshop event?”   Question 3: @laurenrichellequigley “What is your favorite tip for getting your creative juices flowing?” Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Rachel’s childhood + her experience growing up The real fears we hold + how to release them Being criticised by family Understanding that you do not need to dilute your message Actions Rachel took in order to shift her mindset Rachel’s journaling tips Giving yourself permission to offend   Resources: Learn more: rachelluna.biz Instagram: @girlconfident Listen: Real Talk Podcast Read: Faith Activated ; Girl Confident Galley Check out: ThinkUp app Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes Today I am joined by the incredible Rachel Luna! Rachel is a best selling author, international speaker, Sales Confidence Strategist + Master Coach, podcast host, mindset master. Rachel is one of those people who truly made an impact on me. What she practices and speaks about has given me so much freedom and clarity! This conversation with Rachel was SO fantastic– I know it’s going to cause you all to take total inspired action in manifesting the life and business of your dreams.   Question Highlights: For people struggling with their fear “roots”, what do you find that is really stopping them? What would you say to those who struggle with what their family will think? What did you apply to your mindset in order to make big things happen within your business? What do you say to people who are facing really difficult criticism?   Rachel Luna is a best selling author, international speaker, Sales Confidence Strategist + Master Coach. A former US Marine, this 4 foot 11 inch firecracker has a rocksteady reputation for inspiring confident action and helping her clients double, triple and quadruple their income. She's the host of the podcast, Real Talk with Rachel Luna where she dishes on how to gain more clarity and confidence in life and business. Rachel has created numerous courses, hosts live events throughout the year and is working on her upcoming book, Girl, Confident. An international speaker, Rachel has been invited to share her powerful talks all across the globe from the US to Europe to Japan and has been featured in Forbes, The Huffington Post, Success Magazine and Latina Magazine among many others. If you're looking for sales confidence, mindset mastery and marketing strategies that will boost your revenue while building your legacy, Rachel Luna is the girl you call. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The first step of finding clarity Asking better questions What clarity is + why it’s important What I’m currently struggling with What do you need more of? What do you need less of?   Resources: Fast Foundations Mastermind Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes   For today’s quickie episode, I want to talk about clarity! There is nothing more important than having clarity in your life around what you do, and around your vision for yourself and your future. I’m currently seeking clarity, and I’m coming to the realization that feeling stuck, confused, and uncertain are all the first steps to finding my own clarity. I today’s episode, I’m sharing what I’m currently struggling with, and how I’m working through it. I know that this episode with help you feel okay sitting with your uncertainty, and ultimately help you to find your clarity. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Shifting your victim mentality   Advice for putting yourself out there What I would be doing if I weren’t doing this What we do for facing fears   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Today, Evans and I talk about what to do to get out of victim mentality, advice for putting yourself out there, what I’m pulling forward in my life, and what to do in the face of fear.   Review of the Week: Victoriaaplummer: “I absolutely love all of the wisdom and laughs that Lori imparts to her listeners! It literally brightens my day listening to her Questionably Awesome Days with her assistant Evans. I laugh the entire time. I stopped my workout and wrote this review because I couldn’t stop laughing at her and her husband’s podcast together. Besides being really funny the show has so much value for growing entrepreneurs like myself!”   Question 1: Nicole Wilson “What helped you/what shift did you have to make to tell your story/feel your story from less of a victim mentality to more of a journey/lesson mentality? (Your past as a child/assault) I feel when I share what happened in my past, I’m still very bitter about it but I know sharing my story helps others.”    “What advice do you have for someone who is putting themselves out there to the public more.... what should we expect? What should we avoid? What should we practice? I work for a corporate company and I’m concern about employees coming across my IG account. It’s nothing bad just ughhhh I’m more personal on my IG than I am at work because I’m a manager.”   Question 2: @taylorqwillmot: “If you could be doing anything else in life, what would it be and why?”   Question 3: @_caroline_fenge_: “What do you do when you are faced with un-kindess and fear?” Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook