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May 26, 2025 • 58min

EP 101: Working with View of Self in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy - Featuring EFT Trainer Robin Williams Blake

🎙️ Working with View of Self in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti-Duarte, PhD, LMFT) & Robin Williams Blake, EFT Trainer & Director of the Toronto Centre for EFT Welcome to another transformative episode of the We Heart Therapy podcast & YouTube series for EFT therapists! In this episode, Dr. Belle sits down with renowned EFT Trainer Robin Williams Blake to explore the important and powerful topic of working with View of Self and View of Other in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy. Learn how the way clients see themselves—shaped by attachment wounds, past emotional experiences, and current relational patterns—impacts their emotional responses, connection struggles, and healing process. 🔍 We cover: What “View of Self” (VOS) really means in the EFT model How to identify and work with negative self-perceptions in session Key interventions and markers for effective restructuring Using the EFT tango to access and shift self-view How attachment and self-concept intertwine in therapy This conversation is packed with clinical gems, theory-to-practice insights, and gentle reminders of the deep humanity behind our clients’ struggles. 👥 Whether you're an EFT therapist-in-training or a seasoned practitioner, this episode will enrich your understanding and sharpen your skills for deep, lasting change in your sessions. 💬 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more expert content on EFT, attachment science, and therapeutic change. For official information on EFT: https://www.iceeft.com https://www.DrSuejohnson.com 🔗 Connect with our guests: Dr. Belle's Website: https://www.drbelle.com, https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... And for Exciting new CE events hosted by We Heart Therapy, https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com Robin Williams Blake's Website: www.robinwilliamsblake.com Email Robin: Robin@robinwilliamsblake.com ‪@robinwilliamsblake9911‬     #EFT #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #ViewOfSelf #Attachment #EFTTherapists #CouplesTherapy #WeHeartTherapy #DrBelle #RobinWilliamsBlake #TherapistPodcast #EFTTraining
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May 7, 2025 • 46min

EP 100: Attachment Based Suicide Assessment in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy - Featuring EFT Trainer Rachel Thomas

In this powerful episode of the We Heart Therapy Youtube Channel and podcast, on our series EFT Talk, host Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti aka Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT) is joined by certified AZ EFT Trainer Rachel Thomas, LMFT, to explore Attachment-Based Suicide Assessment within the framework of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).   🎙️ Together we delve into: How attachment theory informs suicide risk assessment Differentiating emotional distress from suicide ideation The power of secure bonding in preventing suicidal crises Tools for EFT therapists to navigate high-risk moments with sensitivity and clarity If you're a mental health clinician or therapist practicing EFT, this episode provides essential clinical insight into working with clients struggling with suicidal thoughts through an attachment-focused lens. 🧠 Learn how to stay connected, attuned, and effective—even in the most challenging moments. 🔔 Subscribe to We Heart Therapy for more cutting-edge EFT conversations:    / @wehearttherapy     📍 Connect with Rachel Thomas, LMFT: https://www.TherapyWithHeart.com Email Rachel Thomas at: Rachel@therapywithheart.com   📍 Connect with Dr. Belle: https://www.wehearttherapy.com Instagram: @drbelleeftguru LinkedIn: Anabelle Bugatti   📚 Interested in EFT trainings and CEs? Visit our site for upcoming events and resources! https://www.iceeft.com https://www.snveft.com   #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFT #SuicideAssessment #AttachmentTheory #WeHeartTherapy #MentalHealthPodcast #DrBelle #RachelThomas #TherapistTools #LMFT #SuicidePrevention #AttachmentInTherapy
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Mar 18, 2025 • 47min

EP 99: How to Think Systemically in EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy - Featuring EFT Trainer Dr. Simona Herb

In this episode of *We Heart Therapy*, join host Dr. Belle, aka Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT (Certified EFT Supervisor/Therapist), as she welcomes special guest Dr. Simona Herb, EFT Trainer from Romania. Together, they explore how to think systemically in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) —a crucial perspective for therapists working with couples, families and relationships.   👉 Learn how systemic thinking enhances your EFT practice and deepens emotional connection in therapy.   ✨ *Special Guest: Dr. Simona Herb, EFT Trainer in Romania* 🔗 [Visit Dr. Simona Herb’s Website] https://eftromania.ro/en/trainers/sim... Email Dr. Simona Herb: Simona.Herb@gmail.com   ✨ *Host: Dr. Anabelle Bugatti ("Dr. Belle")* 🔗 [Visit Dr. Belle’s Website] https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... or https://www.DrBelle.com or https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com   ✨ 🔹 To Sign up for We Heart Therapy CE Events, visit: https://www.wehearttherapy.com/therap...   🔔 Don't forget to *LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE* for more expert insights on EFT and couples therapy!   #WeHeartTherapy #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFT #CouplesTherapy #TherapistTips
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Feb 26, 2025 • 1h 29min

EP 98: The Importance of Playfulness with Emily Nagoski

In this enlightening episode of We Heart Therapy, host Dr. Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT, Certified EFT Supervisor & Therapist, and author of *Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship*, engages in a compelling discussion with Sex Educator and best-selling author Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., on "The Importance of Playfulness." Together, they delve into how incorporating playfulness can enhance emotional connections and is essential to overall health and well-being. Emily Nagoski is an award-winning author and renowned sex educator with a Ph.D. in Health Behavior and a minor in Human Sexuality from Indiana University. She began her career as a peer health educator at the University of Delaware and has served as the Director of Wellness Education at Smith College. Emily is dedicated to teaching women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies, combining sex education and stress education in her work. Her notable publications include the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are and *Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle*, co-authored with her sister, Amelia Nagoski. Her latest book, *Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections*, was published in January 2024. Learn more about Emily Nagoski and her work: Official Website: [https://www.emilynagoski.com](https://www.emilynagoski.com) Explore Emily's acclaimed books: Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Come-As-You-Ar...](https://www.amazon.com/Come-As-You-Ar...) Audiobook: [https://www.audible.com/pd/Come-As-Yo...](https://www.audible.com/pd/Come-As-Yo...) Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Burnout-Secret...](https://www.amazon.com/Burnout-Secret...) Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections Purchase: [https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/bo...](https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/bo...) *Discover Dr. Anabelle Bugatti's work:* Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship: Connecting with Challenging and Resistant Clients Purchase: [https://www.amazon.com/Using-Relentle...](https://www.amazon.com/Using-Relentle...) *Visit Dr. Belle's (Anabelle Bugatti) websites:* We Heart Therapy: [https://www.wehearttherapy.com](https://www.wehearttherapy.com) Dr. Belle's Professional Site: [https://www.drbelle.com](https://www.drbelle.com) -Work with Dr. Belle: https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... For EFT Training and Information please visit: https://www.iceeft.com https://www.drsuejohnson.com https://www.snveft.com Don't miss this opportunity to gain valuable insights into the role of playfulness in fostering deeper relationships and personal growth.
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Jan 29, 2025 • 59min

EP 97: Using L'TEMPO to Track the Negative Cycle in EFT - Featuring EFT Trainer Dr. James Hawkins, aka Doc Hawk

Join Dr. James Hawkins, known as "Doc Hawk," an esteemed EFT trainer and co-host of The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast, as he collaborates with Dr. Belle to explore the L'TEMPO method. They discuss how to track negative cycles in EFT, shedding light on emotional triggers that affect couple dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and emotional sharing in therapy, along with practical tips to enhance therapeutic skills. This insightful dialogue is a must for anyone keen on deepening their understanding of EFT!
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Dec 31, 2024 • 57min

EP 96: Attuning to High Reactivity using EFT - Featuring EFT Trainers George Faller & Giulia Altera

Managing heightened emotions and reactivity in couples therapy can be challenging, but this conversation provides essential strategies for maintaining attunement, de-escalating intense interactions, and fostering connection in the therapy room. Whether you're an experienced EFT practitioner or new to the model, this episode will enrich your skills in navigating these complex dynamics. ✨ What You'll Learn in This Video: Effective techniques for attuning to heightened reactivity Tools for managing escalated couples using EFT principles Insights on creating safety and connection in high-conflict sessions Dr. Giulia Altera shares her expertise in working with couples across cultures, while George Faller offers wisdom from his extensive experience as a therapist, trainer, and educator. Dr. Belle moderates this dynamic discussion, bringing her passion and expertise to support EFT therapists in building confidence and competence. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more content designed to inspire and empower EFT professionals! 💡 Additional Resources: 📚 Learn more from Dr. Giulia Altera: https://www.eftitaliacommunity.com/en... https://eft-norditalia.com/la-eft/tra... Follow Giulia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giulia_alte... 📚 Learn more from George Faller: Success in Vulnerability: https://successinvulnerability.com/ 🎙️ Listen to Foreplay Radio Podcast: Foreplay Radio https://www.foreplayrst.com/ 🔗 Follow your host Dr. Belle @ We Heart Therapy: 🌐 Dr. Belle's Website: https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... and https://www.DrBelle.com For EFT CE Retreats hosted by Dr. Belle @ We Heart Therapy, visit: https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com 📖 Learn more about EFT: https://www.ICEEFT.com   #EmotionallyFocusedTherapy #EFT #TherapistResources #DrBelle #GeorgeFaller #GiuliaAltera #WeHeartTherapy #HighlyEscalatedCouples #CouplesTherapy @WeHeartTherapy
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Nov 28, 2024 • 47min

EP 95: Parts Work Using EFT-Emotionally Focused Therapy - Featuring EFT Trainer "Doc Hawk" James Hawkins

Exploring Parts Work in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) 🧠 Welcome to ‪@Wehearttherapy‬ ! In this episode, join Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT), a Certified EFT Supervisor/Therapist, and her special guest Dr. James Hawkins (Doc Hawk, PhD), an esteemed EFT Trainer from Arkansas, and host of Success in Vulnerability and The Leading Edge in EFT Podcast. Together, these EFT experts provide a concise and practical overview of how Emotionally Focused Therapy integrates Parts Work in therapy sessions. Discover how addressing and engaging with internal “parts” can deepen the healing process and enhance emotional connection using Sue Johnson's gold standard of counseling, EFT. Whether you're a therapist, a student of EFT, or simply curious about the therapeutic approaches of EFT , this video is packed with valuable insights to elevate your understanding of the transformative power of EFT. 💡 Key Takeaways: What is Parts Work in therapy? How does EFT incorporate Parts Work? Practical insights for therapists in session. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to We Heart Therapy for more expert discussions on Emotionally Focused Therapy. 🩷 Resources & Links: For more information on EFT, visit: https://www.iceeft.com or https://www.drsuejohnson.com For more information on your host Dr. Belle (Anabelle Bugatti), PhD, LMFT, visit: https://www.DrBelle.com https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com https://www.snveft.com To purchase a copy of her EFT book on Relentless Empathy for therapists, click here: https://a.co/d/6A7vFZ3 For more information on Doc Hawk aka EFT Trainer James Hawkins, PhD, visit: https://www.arkansaseft.com Find James on his podcast The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy https://theleadingedgeineft.podbean.com/ Find Dr. James Hawkins & Dr. Belle on Success in Vulnerability: https://www.successinvulnerability.com
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Sep 14, 2024 • 48min

EP 94: Relapse & Addiction-Using EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy with The Real Imhoffs Chad & Angela Imhoff

In this episode of We Heart Therapy, host Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT, Certified EFT Supervisor and Therapist, sits down with EFT Supervisor Chad Imhoff "The EFT Guy" and his wife, Angela Imhoff (The Real Imhoffs), to discuss the role of relapse in addiction recovery. Specializing in addiction and using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Together, we discuss expert insights for therapists working with clients dealing with addictions, offering practical strategies for supporting couples and individuals. Tune in to learn more about how understanding relapse can enhance therapeutic outcomes for those struggling with addiction. Chad and Angela also share their experiences from working with couples in Arkansas and hosting their own podcast on addiction recovery.   For more information about Chad and Angela "The Real Imhoffs" visit: https://www.therealimhoffs.com https://www.successinvulnerability.com Listen to their podcast at: https://therealimhoffs.podbean.com For more information on your host, Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT, please visit: https://DrBelle.com https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com https://www.snveft.com For more information on EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy pioneered by Sue Johnson, or to find an EFT Therapist in your area, please visit: https://www.iceeft.com https://www.drsuejohnson.com  
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Aug 22, 2024 • 45min

EP 93: Understanding Stage 3 of EFT - Featuring EFT Trainer Sarah McConnell

Join Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT, Certified EFT Supervisor/Therapist, and British EFT Trainer Sarah McConnell in an in-depth discussion on the crucial Stage 3 of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) as outlined by Dr. Sue Johnson. In this video, therapists will gain valuable insights into the importance of Stage 3, where couples solidify new patterns of interaction and integrate lasting change. Learn expert strategies and tips for guiding clients through this transformative stage to help them build stronger, more secure relationships. #EFT #TherapistTraining #Stage3EFT #CouplesTherapy #DrBelle #SarahMcConnell #SueJohnson #MentalHealth #attachmenttheory For more information on ICEEFT Certified EFT Trainer Sarah McConnell, please visit: The British Center for EFT: www.BEFT.org or https://conserarelationshipwellness.com For more information on your host, Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT, please visit: https://www.DrBelle.com https://www.LasVegasMarriageCounselin... https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com Southern Nevada EFT: https://www.svneft.com
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Jul 22, 2024 • 1h 7min

EP 92: Betrayal Trauma in EFT Featuring - EFT Trainer Dr. Lisa Palmer-Olsen

Join us on We Heart Therapy as host Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT, a Certified EFT Supervisor & Therapist, dives deep into the intricacies of working with betrayal trauma in couples therapy. In this insightful discussion, Dr. Belle is joined by the esteemed Dr. Lisa Palmer-Olsen, an ICEEFT Certified EFT Trainer from the San Diego Center for EFT. Together, they explore the transformative power of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in helping couples navigate and heal from the wounds of betrayal. Discover expert techniques and compassionate approaches that can pave the way for renewed trust and deeper connection. Don't miss this essential conversation for therapists and couples alike!   ‪@Wehearttherapy‬   For more information on EFT, to get trained in EFT or to find an EFT therapist in your area, please visit: https://www.iceeft.com or https://www.drsuejohnson.com   For more information on special guest Dr. Lisa Palmer-Olsen please visit: https://renovasandiego.com or https://drlisapalmerolsen.com or email her at: lisapalmerolsen@gmail.com   For more information on your host, or if you're interested in working with Dr. Belle in a private couples therapy intensive, please visit: https://www.lasvegasmarriagecounselin... https://www.DrBelle.com https://www.WeHeartTherapy.com   For EFT Training in Las Vegas hosted by Dr. Belle, visit: https://www.snveft.com

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