
We Heart Therapy EP 105: How to Work with Two Withdrawers in Emotionally Focused Therapy with EFT Trainer Dr. Tal Padeh
Oct 21, 2025
50:47
Welcome back to We Heart Therapy: The EFT Talk Series! š
In this powerful episode, host Dr. Anabelle Bugatti, PhD, LMFT, Certified EFT Supervisor & Therapist, sits down with Dr. Tal Padeh, Certified EFT Trainer and Director of the Israeli Center for EFT, to discuss one of the most challenging and insightful topics in couples therapy ā working with two withdrawers in session.
If youāve ever struggled with helping two withdrawn partners open up and engage emotionally, this conversation is for you. Dr. Padeh and Dr. Bugatti explore how EFT principles can guide therapists to create safety, connection, and movement, even when both partners retreat from vulnerability.
š¬ What Youāll Learn in This Episode:
Why working with two withdrawers can feel especially tricky in EFT sessions
How to identify withdrawal dynamics and attachment fears
Key strategies to help each partner re-engage emotionally
Real clinical insights from Dr. Padehās experience in the Israeli EFT community
How to stay attuned and grounded as a therapist when both partners pull away
š Perfect for: Therapists, counselors, psychologists, and anyone interested in deepening their understanding of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and attachment-based approaches to couples therapy.
š RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED
š¹ Get Dr. Anabelle Bugattiās Book:
š Using Relentless Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship: Connecting with Challenging and Resistant Clients
š https://a.co/d/22xAUpl
š¹ Learn More About EFT Training:
Visit the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT) to explore training opportunities:
š https://iceeft.com
š¹ Connect with Dr. Tal Padeh:
š https://www.eftisrael.com
š§ Email: tal@eftisrael.com
š¹ Visit Dr. Anabelle Bugattiās Website:
https://www.DrBelle.com
https://www.snveft.com
š https://www.wehearttherapy.com
