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EP 97: Using L'TEMPO to Track the Negative Cycle in EFT - Featuring EFT Trainer Dr. James Hawkins, aka Doc Hawk

Jan 29, 2025
Join Dr. James Hawkins, known as "Doc Hawk," an esteemed EFT trainer and co-host of The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast, as he collaborates with Dr. Belle to explore the L'TEMPO method. They discuss how to track negative cycles in EFT, shedding light on emotional triggers that affect couple dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and emotional sharing in therapy, along with practical tips to enhance therapeutic skills. This insightful dialogue is a must for anyone keen on deepening their understanding of EFT!
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Quick takeaways

  • Understanding the L'TEMPO acronym is vital for therapy as it helps therapists map emotional processes and interactions effectively.
  • Recognizing predictable attachment strategies can significantly enhance therapists' abilities to identify and address relational conflicts in clients.

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Understanding the Negative Cycle

The negative cycle of interaction in emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is crucial for understanding client dynamics. When individuals or couples are faced with distress, they often resort to secondary attachment strategies, such as withdrawal or criticism, rather than reaching out for connection. This behavior creates a feedback loop where protective behaviors hinder attachment needs from being met. Recognizing that these strategies reinforce each other allows therapists to shift focus from content-specific issues to the underlying processes that maintain these negative patterns.

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