
Coaching for Leaders
Leaders aren’t born, they’re made. This Monday show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak brings perspective from a thriving, global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, expert researchers, deep conversation, and regular dialogue with listeners have attracted 40 million downloads and over 250K followers on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Activate your FREE membership to access the entire leadership and management library at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Jul 25, 2016 • 41min
255: How Women Make Stronger, Smarter Choices, with Therese Huston
Therese Huston: How Women Decide
Therese Huston is looking to change the conversation about women as decision-makers. Her book, How Women Decide: What’s True, What’s Not, and What Strategies Spark the Best Choices*, debunks popular negative stereotypes about women as decision-makers. She is also the Founding Director for the Center for Excellence in Teaching and Learning at Seattle University.
Key Points
When a female leader makes a mistake in a job traditionally held by men, people are much more critical.
When women are collaborative, they’re seen as less decisive.
Don’t be fooled by someone’s confidence—it could just be a sign they don’t know all the facts.
Use the Loopback strategy - think about your situation a year from now, and project what you wish you would have done differently.
Strategies to help women in the workplace:
Make sure nobody is interrupted when speaking in a meeting.
Take designated turns for speaking in meetings.
Make it clear that negotiations are expected when discussing salary, office setups, etc.
Resources Mentioned
Research: We Are Way Harder on Female Leaders Who Make Bad Calls by Therese Huston
Thinking, Fast and Slow* by Daniel Kahneman
Therese Huston's website
Related Episodes
Personality Preferences and Decision-Making (episode 46)
How to Tap Into Wisdom, with Barry Schwartz (episode 92)
Start With Why, with Simon Sinek (episode 223)
How to Tame Your Inner Critic, with Tara Mohr (episode 232)
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Jul 18, 2016 • 34min
254: Use Power for Good and Not Evil, with Dacher Keltner
Dacher Keltner: The Power Paradox
Dacher shows us how to use power for good and the most important ways we can gain and lose influence.
Quotes
We need to rethink what power is … it’s not necessarily a dirty word.
—Dacher Keltner
If you can just stay interested in other people and know where their minds are, you will rise in power … and you will keep your power because people will respect you.
—Dacher Keltner
In today’s collaborative workplace, our power rests critically upon the good work of other people.
—Dacher Keltner
One of the things that accompanies leadership and power is the privilege of enhancing the lives of other people.
—Dacher Keltner
I really see power as having an enormous force for good.
—Dacher Keltner
Resources
The Power Paradox: How We Gain and Lose Influence* by Dacher Keltner
The Secret to Being a Better Leader: See and Hear Others by Dacher Keltner
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Jul 11, 2016 • 37min
253: New Practices in Organizational Leadership, with David Burkus
David Burkus: Under New Management
David is the author of Under New Management: How Leading Organizations Are Upending Business as Usual*. In this conversation, David teaches us how leading organizations are now using new management techniques.
Quotes
If you’re not embarrassed by your work from five years ago, then you’re not growing fast enough.
—David Burkus
You need to be a great place to be from, not just a great place to be at.
—David Burkus
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Jul 4, 2016 • 42min
252: Aligning With Your Organization, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.
Question from Chase
I’m wondering about coaching someone who has inherited a job that pushes them beyond their skill set. Specifically, someone who was focused solely on a job specifically training tellers. That function moved from HR to ops. HR retained the former teller trainer for a corporate trainer role. The employee’s wheelhouse is black and white training, ops and compliance focused. Now the employee’s focus is on more ambiguous training around developing staff on a variety of skill sets. It's challenging for her. I struggle coaching her because her natural drive and skill is very ops focused. Any advice on some coaching on this topic would be much appreciated!
Question from Diana
I have an MSC in environment and sustainable development, and although I do some studies and recommendations on sustainable cities, the reality is that most developers don't care about the environment, and sometimes I feel I am missing my ideals.
Other team members agree with me. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable, because of my beliefs and the developers expectations.
I know I can only know how much I can stand of this incongruity, but is it something usual in the workplace? Is it common that you find that you don't agree with the position of the company you work with? Sometimes this position might only be recognized once you are working within the company.
How To Get Buy-In For A New Initiative, with Christina Kull Martens (episode 96)
Audio Question from Charlie
Analyzing Performance Problems by Robert Mager and Peter Pipe
Audio Question from Rasmus
Teaching in Higher Ed
Audio Question from Joe
The Lean Startup* by Eric Ries
Originals* by Adam Grant
How to Be a Non-Conformist, with Adam Grant (episode 238)
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Jun 27, 2016 • 33min
251: What to Do When Somebody Quits, with Molly Moseley
Molly Moseley: LinkUp
In this episode, Molly Moseley of LinkUp teaches us how to respond when somebody quits.
Quotes
When someone is approaching you putting in a resignation, you need to throw out that reactive brain and think logically.
—Molly Moseley
As a manager, you need to know the [career] goals of every one of your direct reports.
—Molly Moseley
If you are constantly worried that this person is going to leave, maybe you did make the wrong decision to have them stay.
—Molly Moseley
Resources
LinkedIn Article: Employee resignations: counter offer or say good bye?
LinkUp
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Jun 20, 2016 • 47min
250: How to Master the Influencer Economy, with Ryan Williams
Ryan Williams: The Influencer Economy
On this episode, Ryan Williams, author of The Influencer Economy*, teaches us how to master the influencer economy — and the importance of getting started.
Quotes
When it comes to a platform, it’s all about the relationships.
—Ryan Williams
In the internet, everyone is reachable.
—Ryan Williams
Never ask for a favor … always make it a win-win.
—Ryan Williams
You need to make it as easy as possible for influencers to say yes.
—Ryan Williams
You’ve got to give people value and make sure it’s the right fit. And if it is, then it’s a win-win.
—Ryan Williams
If you'd like to receive the free book chapter that Ryan promised, visit this link:
https://www.influencereconomy.com/coachingforleaders/
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Jun 13, 2016 • 46min
249: How to Succeed with Leadership and Management, with John Kotter
John Kotter: That’s Not How We Do It Here!
On this episode, John Kotter, author of That's Now How We Do It Here!*, and many other bestselling books on organizational change, shares how to succeed with leadership and management.
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Jun 6, 2016 • 43min
248: How to Integrate Teams, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.
Question from Marcelo
I am from Brazil and I would like to let you know that since January I’ve been listening your podcast and I think it’s fantastic. Even though I’ve had great experiences in leadership, your podcasts have been changing my perspective. Don’t you think that instead of considering someone as a leader we should recognize people who have good human relations? Because of this skill, people start to follow you, but on the other hand, you are still learning and you also follow someone.
Leading Change* by John Kotter
Question from Lea
We have two departments which have been merged in November last year but the new team are still not working together - they seem to be stuck in their old teams. We have tried team building, changes their seats etc. and yet they are not integrated. I know it has not been that long since November, but how would you handle this case?
The Four Unique Types of Teams, with Susan Gerke (episode 138)
How To Maximize Team Performance, with Susan Gerke (episode 139)
How to Create Team Guidelines, with Susan Gerke (episode 192)
Question from Toni
I have recently had the wonderful experience of listening to your podcast and now I am hooked. I'm writing to find out what you would recommend as a wonderful organization to join for leadership development. Thank you and I look forward to hearing from you.
Toastmasters
Association for Talent Development
OD Network
Coaching for Leaders Academy
Audio question from Ranjan
The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, with Susan Cain (episode 44)
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking* by Susan Cain
Question from Guto
Until last year I used to be at the top of the organization and was always directly linked to directors or owners. Today I find myself in an intermediate position as the second manager.
I'm a hard time dealing with this, because sometimes I feel that my manager does not want to solve the problems and likes to go to others, but people who are neither managers nor knowledgeable are dealing with the situations.
Talking to a trusted person, she told me to put aside and learn to manage. How can I discover the technique to be managed and at the same time influence within the organization?
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May 30, 2016 • 32min
247: Reduce Stress Through Meditation, with Chase Carey
Chase Carey: Chasin' Meditation
Chase Carey, author of Chasin' Meditation*, teaches us how to reduce stress using the practice of meditation.
Quotes
Meditation isn’t about what happens in meditation; it’s all about what happens in your external life.
—Chase Carey
Just because you have a thought doesn’t mean you have to pay attention to it, and it doesn’t mean you have to come up with a conclusion or emotional response to it.
—Chase Carey
If you’re a business leader, a coach, or a professional, you need some space just to be quiet.
—Chase Carey
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May 23, 2016 • 38min
246: The Way to Conduct One-on-Ones, with Zvi Band
Zvi Band, CEO of Contactually, discusses innovative approaches to one-on-one meetings and their transformative effects on team dynamics. He emphasizes the importance of structured communication to build relationships and boost employee morale. Band shares how technology can enhance networking, offering practical tips for managing relationships intentionally. He explores the balance between logical metrics and emotional company culture, advocating for transparency and proactive engagement to foster a positive workplace environment.