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Dave Stachowiak
Leaders aren’t born, they’re made. This Monday show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak brings perspective from a thriving, global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, expert researchers, deep conversation, and regular dialogue with listeners have attracted 40 million downloads and over 250K followers on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Activate your FREE membership to access the entire leadership and management library at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Nov 19, 2016 • 31min
272: Enhance Your Executive Presence, with Muriel Wilkins
Muriel Wilkins: Own the Room
Muriel is the Managing Partner and Co-Founder of Paravis Partners. She hosts the Coaching Real Leaders podcast, presented by Harvard Business Review. She's also the co-author, with Amy Su, of Own the Room: Discover Your Signature Voice to Master Your Leadership Presence.
Key Points
It’s about learning to adapt and learning how you bring your best self forward for the situation at play.
Effective leadership presence does two things: (1) it makes an impression through the value it brings to the table and (2) it connects with its stakeholders.
A leader who has presence is able to both demonstrate their value in an authentic way that is unique to them while at the same time connect with their stakeholders.
Credibility and reliability are two things people look for in every leader.
When you walk into a meeting, think about what assumptions you are making, what communication strategies you are going to use, and what kind of energy you’re bringing.
Related Episodes
The Art of Stage Presence, with James Whittaker (episode 188)
The Way to Make New Behaviors Stick, with Marshall Goldsmith (episode 196)
How to Find the Right Voice, with Laura Sicola (episode 220)
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Nov 14, 2016 • 38min
271: How to Increase Your Conversational Intelligence, with Judith Glaser
Judith Glaser, an influential organizational anthropologist and world-renowned executive coach, dives into the concept of conversational intelligence. She reveals how great conversations foster robust relationships and create thriving cultures. Glaser discusses the impact of cortisol and oxytocin on communication—how they can either spark fear or connection in leadership. Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of nurturing conversational skills in children and shares her personal journey, highlighting the transformative power of meaningful dialogue.

Nov 7, 2016 • 38min
270: Handling Intimidation, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.
Questions
Joshua asked about creating a genuine connection with the team he leads.
Warren is wondering what he can do to create a culture where people bring solutions instead of problems.
Brian asked about handling an employee who is dominant and intimidating.
Mark asked about how to handle degrading comments in the workplace.
Warren asked about the best strategies to encourage senior employees to embrace sharing their knowledge with newer employees.
Resources Mentioned
Analyzing Performance Problems* by Robert F. Mager and Peter Pipe
Related Episodes
The Best Way to Do On-the-Job Training (episode 32)
How to Improve Your Coaching Skills, with Tom Henschel (episode 190)
How to Manage Former Peers, with Tom Henschel (episode 257)
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Oct 31, 2016 • 45min
269: How to Ask for Career Help, with Larry Braman
Larry Braman, Career Consultant and Coach, shares tips on asking for career help: Focus on building relationships with mentors, seize opportunities by following up promptly, and make genuine human connections. Emphasizes the importance of seeking help and building connections for career growth.

Oct 24, 2016 • 37min
268: Ignite Change Through Storytelling, with Nancy Duarte and Patti Sanchez
Nancy Duarte and Patti Sanchez: Ignite
Nancy Duarte has created thousands of presentations for the world's top institutions, including Apple, Cisco, Facebook, GE, Google, TED, and the World Bank. She's also the author of Resonate*, Slide:ology*, the HBR Guide to Persuasive Presentations*, and co-author of Illuminate: Ignite Change Through Speeches, Stories, Ceremonies, and Symbols*.
Patti Sanchez is a communicator with 25 years of experience leading transformative marketing initiatives for brands and causes, co-author of Illuminate, and Chief Strategy Officer for Duarte, Inc.
Key Points
Change is the reality for every leader and organization.
Empathy for others is key at every stage of the change process — and in all communication.
Stories are a powerful tool for teaching.
Ceremonies help create buy-in for major transitions.
Resources Mentioned
Torchbearer Tool Kit
Illuminate: Visual executive summary
Resonate: Multi-Media Version
Slidedocs: Downloadable book and free templates
Diagrammer: free presentation diagrams
Related Episodes
How Storytelling Helps You Lead, with Sandie Morgan (episode 51)
The Four Critical Stories Leaders Need For Influence, with David Hutchens (episode 148)
How to Steal the Show, with Michael Port (episode 219)
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Oct 17, 2016 • 33min
267: The Way to Grow Your Leadership Career, with Ron Wallace
Ron Wallace: Leadership Lessons From a UPS Driver
Ron Wallace is the former president of UPS International. During his tenure, he was responsible for operations in more than 200 countries and territories, with more than 60,000 people under his direction. He’s the author of the book, Leadership Lessons From a UPS Driver: Delivering a Culture of We, Not Me*.
Key Points
By promoting from within, a company’s legacy and culture is seamlessly passed on.
Don’t hire people for jobs, hire them for careers. Focus on hiring people when they are young and try to keep them for their entire career.
Most CEOs are only good at one or two things, and that’s what they should focus on.
Tell your supervisors what your goals are.
When you’re in a leadership position, always remember where you came from.
Related Episodes
Ten Ways to Pick Yourself Up When You’re Beaten Down (episode 85)
Three Ways To Reinvent Your Career with Donna Schilder (episode 97)
The Secret To Happiness (episode 134)
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Oct 10, 2016 • 37min
266: How to Lead a 100-Year Life, with Lynda Gratton
Lynda Gratton: The 100-Year Life
Lynda Gratton is a Professor of Management Practice at London Business School. She has been ranked in the top 15 on The Thinkers50 list of the world’s top 50 business thinkers. She’s the author with Andrew Scott of The 100-Year Life: Living and working in an age of longevity*.
Key Points
Many more of us, and potentially a majority of our children, will live to be 100 or more
Organizations (and society) still tend to frame our lives in three stages: education, work, retirement
Transitions now happen more often for us and are less likely to be in lock-step with our peers
The problem with transition: the people who know you best don’t want you to change
Navigating more transitions in life means that we need to have networks with people who are not like us
Truth is essential in leadership
Resources Mentioned
The 100-Year Life: Living and working in an age of longevity* by Lynda Gratton and Andrew Scott
The 100-Year Life website
Related Episodes
The Surprising Truth About Influencing Others, with Daniel Pink (episode 84)
The Way to Make New Behaviors Stick, with Marshall Goldsmith (episode 196)
How Superbosses Master the Flow of Talent, with Sydney Finkelstein (episode 236)
How to Be a Non-Conformist, with Adam Grant (episode 238)
How to Succeed with Leadership and Management, with John Kotter (episode 249)
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Oct 3, 2016 • 38min
265: How to Strike the Right Tone, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.
Key Points
Dave asked what advice we would give to our younger selves about leadership.
Bill asked about how to balance stern and serious with light and loose.
Luiza asked about how to lead volunteers.
Jeff asked about influencing change in culture.
Elmer asked what he can do with his StrengthsFinder results.
Resources Mentioned
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom* by Don Miguel Ruiz
Working Wardrobes
8 Ways To Influence Without Authority
Finding the Career That Fits You
What Color is Your Parachute?* by Richard Nelson Bolles
Related Episodes
The Value of the StrengthsFinder Assessment, with Steve Dosier (episode 89)
How to Interpret Your StrengthsFinder Results, with Steve Dosier (episode 90)
How To Create Joy At Work, with Richard Sheridan (episode 122)
Start With Why, with Simon Sinek (episode 223)
How to Figure Out Your Career, with Scott Anthony Barlow (episode 259)
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Sep 25, 2016 • 40min
264: How to Get Into Leadership Flow, with Croft Edwards
Croft Edwards: CROFT + Company
Croft Edwards is a Master Certified Coach who has been serving an array of clients from energy and mining, to forestry and aviation, since 2000. He’s a retired US Army Officer and has over eighteen years in the Army National Guard and Army Reserve.
Key Points
Much of leaders’ effectiveness has to do with their level of self-mastery.
Flow is a combination of physical, mental, and emotional factors.
We learn our behaviors from others, and they learn their behaviors from us.
Resource Mentioned
Flow* by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Related Episodes
Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do, with Amy Morin (episode 204)
Increase Your Personal Capacity, with Beth Buelow (episode 218)
How to Tame Your Inner Critic, with Tara Mohr (episode 232)
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Sep 19, 2016 • 43min
263: How to Benefit From Conflict, with Susan Gerke
Susan Gerke (web) is the president of Gerke Consulting & Development. She has worked with global teams and has certified facilitators around the world to deliver management, leadership, and team offerings. Susan is co-creator of GO Team, a training suite for organizations to power team performance.


