
Knowing Her Sexually
The Knowing Her Sexually podcast helps Christian husbands who want to better understand their wife sexually so they can know and love her more deeply.
Latest episodes

Sep 1, 2023 • 2min
Season 2 Trailer
Are you ready for Season 2? It's a sex tip season!

Aug 5, 2023 • 9min
What Men Taught Us About Women's Sexuality
On this wrap-up of our first season of Knowing Her Sexually, Chris and J discuss what the men in marriage ministry had to say about women's sexuality, including what surprised us and what we took away. Resources Kevin A. Thompson's personal website Change the Odds - Kevin A. Thompson's new website Intimate Covenant - Matt (and Jenn) Schmidt Gary Thomas's website Gary Thomas's Substack newsletter Stupendous Marriage - Stu Gray Awesome Marriage — Dr. Kim Kimberling Heaven Made Marriage - Scott (and Jenni) Means Still Becoming One - Brad (and Kate) Aldrich podcast Aldrich Ministries - Brad Aldrich marriage coaching Dave Barringer's Website Our Webinars (all about women's sexuality and value-priced!) Only a few spots left on the fall Hot, Holy & Humorous cruise with J. Parker!

Jul 6, 2023 • 22min
Foreplay, Love Languages, and Affirmation, with Dave Barringer
Dave Barringer, pastor and author of Mosaic Marriage, discusses foreplay, love languages, and affirmation in marriage. They explore building intimacy, nurturing emotional connections, and creating a safe space for vulnerability. The importance of compliments, encouragement, and setting relationship goals is emphasized for deeper connection and passion in relationships.

Jun 23, 2023 • 32min
Porn Recovery, the Challenge of Honesty, and "Women Are Different," with Stu Gray
Stu Gray discusses porn recovery, honesty in marriage, and women's differences. He shares his journey, the power of honesty, emotional intimacy in marriage, and the importance of growth and understanding in relationships.

Jun 9, 2023 • 23min
Sexual Trauma, the Goal of Sex, and the Value of Afterglow, with Matt Schmidt
We welcome Matt Schmidt from Intimate Covenant, a sex-focused marriage ministry and podcast. He talks with us about how he and his wife addressed her past sexual trauma, what the goal of sex really is, and why hubbies should attend to afterglow. Resources Intimate Covenant The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, Bessel van der Kolk For Husbands of Sexual Abuse Survivors: Insights from Patrick DeMuth | The Forgiven Wife What Are the Real Purposes of Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous 10 Things to Do After Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous After the Lovin': What Happens after Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Intimate Covenant's 6th Annual Retreat And hosted by J this fall... Hot, Holy & Humorous Marriage Cruise

May 25, 2023 • 28min
Pursuing & Wooing Your Wife, with Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson, marriage pastor, discusses pursuing and wooing your wife, emphasizing trust, respect, and communication. He highlights the importance of cultivating intimacy, exploring humility, and meeting your wife's specific needs in a marriage.

May 12, 2023 • 24min
Intimacy and the Bridal Paradigm, with Scott Means
Scott Means of Heaven Made Marriage began marriage ministry in his church and has now expanded to a website, books, and videos to reach more and more couples. Listen to his conversation with J and Chris about the bridal paradigm, intimacy, and vulnerability. Resources Heaven Made Marriage Scott's books The Bridal Paradigm - Heaven Made Marriage Pursue the Path of Intimacy - The Forgiven Wife Guy Talk: The Importance of Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Guy Talk: Mismatched Sex Drives - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Guy Talk: A Wife's Beauty - Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Apr 28, 2023 • 27min
Sex Expertise, Empathy, and Accountability, with Dr. Kim Kimberling
Dr. Kim Kimberling, with over 40 years of marriage counseling experience, discusses sexual expertise, empathy, and accountability. The podcast covers topics like communication in intimate relationships, navigating accountability, and nurturing connection in marriage. Insights are shared on maintaining a healthy sexual relationship, adapting to different life stages, and using prayer to enhance intimacy.

Apr 13, 2023 • 28min
Making Sex Pleasurable for Your Wife, with Gary Thomas
Gary Thomas, theologian and marriage author, discusses differences between men and women for better sexual pleasure. Learn how to engage the senses and understand 'simmering' for enhanced desire. Discover tips on addressing pain, catering to desires, and navigating boundaries in sexual relationships.

Apr 1, 2023 • 28min
How to Really Connect with Your Wife (and How Trauma Has Impacted You Both), with Brad Aldrich, LMFT
Marriage therapist Brad Aldrich delves into women's sexuality and the impact of past trauma on intimacy. He discusses emotional connection differences between spouses and the importance of curiosity in relationships. The podcast also teases an upcoming Caribbean cruise with special guest coaches for a fun, educational experience.
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