Knowing Her Sexually Porn Recovery, the Challenge of Honesty, and "Women Are Different," with Stu Gray
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Jun 23, 2023 
Stu Gray discusses porn recovery, honesty in marriage, and women's differences. He shares his journey, the power of honesty, emotional intimacy in marriage, and the importance of growth and understanding in relationships.
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Secret Addiction Sparked A Marriage Reboot
- Stu Gray carried a secret porn habit into marriage and faced a breaking point when his wife demanded change or divorce.
- He entered Christian recovery, learned tools, and later launched marriage resources with Lisa to help others.
Use Recovery Tools Daily
- Use recovery tools: confess honestly, ask for forgiveness, and pause between trigger and reaction.
- Sit in discomfort and choose presence over immediate acting out to rebuild trust.
Porn Undermines Real Intimacy
- Porn offers fantasy and instant access while real marriage requires presence, surrender, and honest connection.
- Removing porn opened space for humility, joint battle, and deeper marital intimacy.